Enemas - Emotional vs: Physical

It certainly is some of both. From a purely physical standpoint, I doubt we would enjoy it that much. Think about it. It is uncomfortable, messy, and often embarrassing. Most people avoid the enema like the plague. Yet we do it to ourselves repeatedly. There certainly is more to it than the physical experience that draws us to it.

Interesting read after a 4 year hiatus

Can you separate the two???

Don't think you can!

They affect each other too much

Emotional? Absolutely! Isn't that how we are constructed? LOL I'm probably 70% emotional sometimes when feeling the cleansing effects of an enema. My husband is the opposite. He admits it's mostly physical, although I see the emotions in him, too. With respect to Susie and others, I feel that most women do have an emotional connection, whether they realize it or not.

Are enemas an emotional experience?

No. Not for me. It's purely physical.

I certainly enjoy them, but to use the same analogy Ben Braddock used in speaking to Mr. Robinson about fucking Mrs. Robinson in The Graduate, enemas have no more emotional impact on me than shaking hands.

My mind tells me I enjoy a good enema, and my body says: "Damn right...this feels good", so I guess for me, enemas are both a physical and a mental stimulant.

Very briefly, both. As a nice clean out, I can enjoy it a great deal physically. However, much better is when in either fantasy or reality with a partner we play D/s games, usually with me submissive and receiving as much enema as she thinks I deserve or require to enable me to adequately service her while trying to hold it without exploding. And sometimes we would switch, as my ex finally confided that her most deeply held sexual secret was to have her husband fill her with large enemas and require her to service me before release. I must say I prefer the intense emotional components of the enema D/s play by far, so I am mostly enamoured of the emotional enema to the plain physical. Now I just need to re-find a compatible lovely lady you love and play with. ????? (Not likely to find or at least display a good enema Emoji anytime soon in the general public.)

Eric

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I'm going to have to say enemas are both emotional and physical for me. They are emotional because they evoke all sorts of emotions that are rooted in my childhood. Enemas are also physical to me because I have always liked the way that they feel. I feel like both the physical and emotional aspects run very close together because the emotional response does create a physical reaction. Additionally, the physical reactions create an emotional response. I can't seem to have one without the other.

I like to think of enemas as Emysical... A blend of physical (for obvious reason) and emotional (for me at least rooted simply in the good physical feelings of the moment. I'm one who doesn't have childhood memories / associations of enemas).

So if you call me an emysical klysmaphiliac, I won't be offended...

As a youngster, sneaking enemas when ever I could, the satisfaction was a very smug physical occurrence. Now that I am older and understand the ramifications, and benefits, the end feelings are very psychologically satisfying. The psychical attraction will always be there as well. So...I guess you have to say it is both, all the time.

Yes i agree , think enemas are more physical for guys ,I loved the feeling of the enema nozzle rubbing my prostate gland from my enemas from step mom as a teen ,that feeling stayed with me for life

My childhood enemas were always emotional. Whenever I felt lonely I would complain of some sickness just to get an enema from my aunt. It always seemed like a loving thing, a way to get some love that I needed. They were always "friendly"...tender loving care. She was kind and there was a preparation ritual that always was about, "I'm sad you are feeling so bad. An enema will really make you feel better, honey".

The slight fear and embarrassment were also an emotional factor. And I also came to enjoy the physical feeling of being cleaned out. Another aunt gave large, painful enemas. I had one from her. That was not a very loving experience. Today, I go back and forth. I'm single, so when I find somebody who will give me enemas, I either go for tender loving care, as with a fantasy nurse nearby, or large and painful as with some men and mistresses I have gone to. All in all, it turns out both emotional and physical.

"I feel so much better physically and emotionally after having a good enema."

I love Emom's post, and it's from five years ago! The emotional release I've felt after a "good enema" is genuine.

Getting an Enema is a sexual Experience And Because I received enemas from my mom before I knew anything about sex they are both physical and emotional. Memories of crying and getting spanked for complaining are vivid in my mind. To me emotion can increase how much I get turned on While getting an enema. Being a Male With a prostate is Totally physical. I Enjoy The Ladies Describing How it Makes Them Feel only and Especially When It turns them on and the more detail the better . To me any sexual act has emotion involved.

For me if on one end of the scale is purely emotional and on the other end is purely physical, I would place myself nearly all the way down by the physical side of the spectrum.

Enemas are soothing relaxing and erotic for me and that is pretty much it. I really can't attach any emotions to my enemas. I am very anal erotic and started doing enemas on my own when I was 13- that really was my first adventure into anal eroticism. I guess if I had to stop doing them for some reason I would definitely miss them so maybe there is an emotional link from the physical pleasure they bring me but that is about it.

I don't think it's the right approach to say emotional Vs physical like its a contest that one or the other wins

Better to think of it as the interplay between emotional and physical

XM+ . . .Denotes pending merge mark . .With another thread. . .as yet to be located

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Seems odd that there's been no replies to this topic in over 5 years . . consequently the resurrection remark

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XM+ . . .Denotes pending merge mark . .With another thread. . .as yet to be located

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Seems odd that there's been no replies to this topic in over 5 years . . consequently the resurrection remark

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@That_Australian,

It sounds familiar, but I can’t place it. Where do you see XM+? Or is it only visible to Moderators? The thread being idle for that long does seem unusual to me too, since my guess would be that most enema aficionados experience both physical and emotional/psychological components to their enemas. I certainly do, and enjoy both.

Eric

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X&M . .only relates to myself as it's a means of advancing a topic to the front page where I can pick it up again later . .Usually it comes about when or while I'm involved with a comprehensive search of another Topic

For me personally, it is a combination of emotional and physical. How can you have one without some degree of the other?

It has been said that the anus with its gut knows the difference between air and liquid. It is a smart arsey. And therefore, needs to be tamed. Enter the emotions and it will play. Study its intelligence and you will be amazed. It is a delicate thing, so play safely, we all advise. If it has to complain, you will regret it. It has a way of getting your attention and deftly holding it. Do not underestimate it. You need it and it needs you. Be its friend and it will be yours, no matter who it really belongs to.

@Moms_Egirl For me personally, it is a combination of emotional and physical. How can you have one without some degree of the other?

So simply stated but so accurate! Answering her question, I can’t.

…can the emotional be separated from the physical at all?

I am of the opinion that psychologists and psychoanalysts will not come to a clear and conclusive judgment and evaluation here either.

I wrote an article elsewhere that dealt with the question of how the enemas are divided between physically necessary and erotically desired for each individual.

My answer to that question is:

95% sexually motivated,

5% physically necessary;

while 95% of the 5% ended up having great sex.🌺🌹😎

In the case of Zity, a fetish portal, there will be predominantly emotional reasons; Exceptions excepted.

An interesting one nonetheless

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