Enemas - Emotional vs: Physical

The preparation for the enema is all emotional while taking the enema is 50/50.

I think a lot of it is the desire to return to childhood and be dependent on someone.

It really depends on who is giving it to me whether it will be physical or emotional

WOW ... tough question. I would say for us it is 50/50. In the emotional area, the surrender we both enjoy to each other is major. Being able to totally trust one another and be able to just let the other person take over is wonderful. On the physical side of things, the feeling of anal play, then the nozzle slipping in and finally feeling the nozzle being blown up inside and the warm rush of liquid ... there have been times when she has climaxed just from feeling the nozzle slid in.

On a different forum, somebody wrote in about having oral sex done as they were getting an enema. We tried it a few times and when I lick and suck on violet, she has great climaxes. But sometimes, just before she goes into the bathroom, (we do our play and enemas on the bed) I will hold her in my arms and she has told me that she feels a closeness to me that is totally different then any other time.

Stacatto

For me it depends on whether I am solo or with an enemate/provider. When I am solo I would place the ratio at 80% physical and 20% emotional, when with another the ratio seems to be reversed, 80% emotional and 20% physical.

I agree with Anne B--How can you separate it out of your sexuality. I think of enemas all the time...giving especially. When I do give them it is almost all emotional. I am trying to please the other person. My pleasure comes later--it is the memory. Seeing and touching her in the most intimate of places and looking and hearing her during the experience...my sexual realease is wonderful but the memory is better

The two are intimately tied together, which is why I have only been able to engage in any anal play with someone I know and trust deeply (meaning that the one time I hooked up with a work friend, with whom I shared a mutual attraction but nothing deeper, it just wasn't great and I really had no desire to repeat the experience). But with certain women, the sensation of turning myself over to her, trusting her, means that every little physical act has tremendous emotional effect. Something as simple as her telling me to turn over so she can pull down my underwear causes my blood to race through my viens as if it is boiling... let alone what comes next. A different example would be a visit to the hospital last year after finding a strange lump next to my anus: a was seen by an older (and yes I noticed that she was attractive) who examined me with a young female nurse present: knees to my chest, a bright examination light, and a deep digital exam. It was basically a curious experience but not sexual. Physically it felt funny and emotionally it didn't even register. Had those two women been any number of friends/girlfriends and been in my home or theirs and had I not actually had a medical condition, of course it's a totally different story. Anyway, I could write forever, so I'll leave it at that. Emotional/physical are inseparable with the right person.

So many of these posts have the word "trust" in them. This is why I believe that receiving from the opposite sex is far more intimate than having conventional sex with that person. I've known several women who are readily willing to drop their pants and "get it on", but when you talk about putting a hose up their bottom and injecting water, well that's a whole new topic and most of them are not interested in giving or receiving.

Jim

From a male's point of view:

I certrainly enjoy the physical aspect of the enema process, but the sense of "well-being" afterwards is truly somthing that I always look forward too.

Regards, alphamgrone

Physical sensations, feelings neural ... In fact the biggest sex organ is the brain, so making a measurement of how much greater extent involved in the pleasure experienced at the thought of giving or receiving an enema (or a suppository in my case) is somewhat out of place.

To taste a piece of chocolate will produce a strong sensation of pleasure, causes salivation in quantity and electrify the taste buds tongue.

To think about how you will prepare for the meeting, how can you buy supplies, how do you steer the conversation toward the right time, how are you going to ask her to bend over and put down her panties ... you can also secrete "saliva" in large quantities, and make your whole body shudder ...

So I do not know why you say that we men have a higher percentage of physical sensations, I can't disagree more.

It depends on the enema situation how much of it is emotional and how much of it is physical. If I'm going for a nice orgasm for me then it is mostly emotional for me. Sub is getting the physical side of it and making all the wonderful noises that say "Thank you Miss for doing me this way".

But upon thinking about it, there is always an emotional connection but it registers differently with a different feeling for me.

I only discovered the joy of enemas in the past couple of years, but for me if I'm doing one alone it is 80% emotional and 20% physical. If I'm doing one with my husband it's closer to 50/50. Also, for my husband I think it is more like 80% physical when we're doing one together. To my knowledge he only very seldomly takes one alone and I have no idea how he feels about that.

With me it has to be much more emotional than physical to start. The stripping down, getting the equipment ready, lubing everything, insertion!!! The come the enema itself - that's the physical part. So really to me there are two separate events. Both wonderful

Mine are all solo and the anticpation and the physical are both great.If had an enemate watching her prepare my enema would really get me going 😃

For me, if i do it alone it's for the physical aspect of it. With a partner, it becomes more emotional.

The "psychological" aspect (emotional, if you want to call it that), makes the "physical" pleasurable, and vice-versa.

Yes, it is definately for the physical. However were it not for the emotional, I dont think either would be as enjoyable. They (in my mind) go together so much its difficult to seperate. Then there are the pleasures of giving vs receiving. Again very different but difficult to seperate.

I feel an enema is more emotional that physical.

It is very difficult to "quantify". And I am not sure it is right to do it. There are stages in getting / doing an enema. When you have a steady partner - that means one to trust, it is easier. You can fantasise and experience physically all along the process, from deciding to do it to the actual act. Once it is being done it is mostly physical (if done by someone you trust - you submit yourself).

Planning and preparing is always more emotional. Going into the actual act it will be mostly physical. Doing is alone - it is a mixture fluctuating between emotional and physical. The big problem remains when you don't have a trustworthy partner, you don't have a cooperating wife or girlfriend and yet you wish to be given rather than give it to yourself (which is a very very different experience). Here planning and preparations and endless patience, creativity, some cheating and staging,all complicated raise your emotional level (not much pleasure). Actually most of the pleasure is left for the aftermath, for the memories.

Complicated. Generalizing is not truely describing what actually happens. And of course - It is always, always better and more pleasurable when you have a cooperating partner.

For me, the psychological/emotional and physical are inextricably intertwined. One begets the other in complimentary proportions for both genders. More physical only for men ?...pah... More emotional for women?...pah... If my emotions are disturbed, then the physical is diminished significantly, if I am physically disturbed, then the emotional is diminished significantly. Both are always present in ever changing proportions and essential for both genders.

G.N.

Both!

I woke up tired and sluggish. I just finished giving myself 4 good enemas. I took my time and proceeded gently. The last one was quite cool,actually boarding on cold, now I feel bright and energetic!!

In thinking about this question .. I would have to say that enemas tend to be or end up being emotional for me. I may start out actually needing an enema but the emotional feelings begin to assert themselves during the preparation phase. By the time I have at least taken off my bottoms the emotional side of an enema is taking control. Then the flood of emotions really kick in the moment the nozzle presses against my anus and then .. need - health - pleasure .. are overshadowed by the emotional feelings I have taking that particular enema. A physical need may be there at first .. but the emotional side of the enema if full on when I have the nozzle in my ass. I love enemas.

Emotional & Physical

I experience both

alone mostly physical

but if i am lucky enough to recieve one it takes one a new beast

physically i get really aroused by my female friend

she heightens me emotionally because we share this experience

especially if she extents to more then just an enema as she fills me!!!

It is really difficult to make a comparison between the emotional and physical aspects of an enema - Whether it's solo or being adminsitrated - The act of the enema is physical what results from it is emotional

It varies a lot during the course of an enema. It's probably 90% emotional for me before we begin. Once she inserts the nozzle and starts the flow it's more like 50/50. However, once the cramping begins, it's nearly 100% physical. But, I really like the 100% emotional part the next few days.

That is a difficult question. Sometimes the thought alone will get the libido to rise. Sometimes only an actual enema will work. I am solo now but when I was married and we did oral, finger and cock sex and dildos, enemas played a receding interest in my psyche. Of course , I can't understand the reasoning so I went with the flow. [no pun intended] When we got together she said she would give me an enema every day without whining. Eventually , because ofmild bdsm and etc, I only was interested in an enema every couple of weeks! Is all this strange? Absolutely, but we as humans are strange.

It has to be both. I feel so much better physically and emotionally after having a good enema. Think about it, you set aside enough time so that you can take it and relax, but for me I'll also make it a point to set the mood by maybe lighting a candle or two and putting on some comforting music. Afterwards, a soak in the hot tub is just the thing to complete the experience.

I always feel if I am giving myself the enema it is just a physical thing. If I am giving or receiving an enema it is all about the emotionally the taking control or surrendering control of the situation.

The anticipation emotion leading up to the enema from the announcement of a forthcoming enema is naturally 100% emotional. The sense of welll being after the enema and the filling pressure is naturally 100% physical.

Klyster3