How many people out there actively pursue their enema fetish

I have told my wife, who is willing to give me enemas. I've also told several girl friends and gotten them to play, too

There are less than 6 people who know about my enema fetish. My cousin who gave me an enema when she was in college and I was about 12 knows because on my last visit to see her I confessed my interest (she is lesbian) and she gave me another enema for old time sake. Also, my roomate who I had a hard time approaching until I found out she was into enemas long before me. Also 3 female friends of me and my GF who we had over for a weekend enema party. Last an ex-boyfriend who I gave an enema to about a year ago. I would not share this fetish with anyone who was not a close friend and someone I know and respect. I discovered my GF's interest by leaving out an article on enema technique so she would see it. She approached me first by asking "Isn't it time I gave you your enema?" If anyone else knows about my fetish I am unaware of that.

My wife knows of my enjoyment of enemas, and has joined me a couple times but it isn't her thing.

She does encourage ne to take an enema and on occasion has told me to go take one as I'm sort of grouchy.

Over the years, I have told friends about taking an enema when the subject came up as a health issue. But have never indicated my enema fetish.

That's what it really comes down to. If you DO NOT, and CAN NOT talk about your enema desires, then the chances of ever getting to actually DO AN ENEMA with someone else is almost NIL! It's as simple as that!

I want to do enemas with girls. And, I don't expect any of them to come out and ask me for them. So, it will be up to me to instigate it! What can I say? I can ask a woman for anything. I'm not the least bit ashamed. Here, let me show you.

"Honey, you know what I wanna do? I'd like to dress up in women's clothes. Really skanky stuff, you know? Garter belts and seamed stockings. Then, you can tell me what a naughty little slut I am, and how you are gonna take me over your knee for a good spanking that will make my ass all red. After that, you can do a huge punishment enema with an inflatable nozzle. Make me beg, just like the skanky little whore that I am. It's your show. Your control."

There! It doesn't get more embarrassing than THAT, does it?

A man asking to dress up like a woman, and be spanked and enemaed. I could go on and on. I could easily fill up the whole page with some of the most intimate sexual desires that a human being could ever think of. Stuff that would make you shudder to even READ it, much less even begin to contemplate saying it to SOMEONE else. But, you get the idea!

And, look at just how easy it was for me to write it in a PUBLIC forum, where anyone can come along and read it. Man or woman. Now, in real life, I only GIVE enemas to girls. And, I don't dress up like a woman. But, I got news for you. If I ever DID want to do that, you can damn well be sure that I'm going to come right out and ask for it! Consider the ALTERNATIVE! What are you gonna do? Sit around dreaming for the rest of your life? Look, I'll even help you! You share my little "hobby". Tell me what you want to do, and I'll show you how to ask for it.

If my way is too direct, let me know, and I'll sit down and come up with some other way for your partner to "accidentally" discover your little secret.

There HAS to be SOME WAY that you can live out your dreams and enjoy your sexuality to the fullest extent possible. Why do you think that I write these tips? I don't know any of you people personally, but I can imagine what it must be like to have to deny yourself over and over, year in and year out, for an eternity.

You know what? If even ONE of you, man or woman, reads my advice, and musters up enough nerve to go out and ask for enema sex, then the time that I spent writing this was well worth it!

You make a very good point, Dr E. When I placed my personal ad on alt.com, I used the handle "redbaglover", so there was no mistaking what my fetish was, and that is how I managed to get the attention of the man who has been giving me my enemas for almost 2 years now. He has been an enema lover all his life too. Sometimes you have to take a chance, put yourself out there and see what happens!

Both my ex-'s were OK with it, and participated the odd time. I don't think that they really enjoyed it.

I have met quite a few people online (and before through magazine ads.) that enjoyed giving, receiving or watching enemas. Now, most of my 'kinky' friends know about my fetish.

it is however closed to 'vanilla' friends and co-workers.

I haven't told anyone of my enjoyment of enemas, just an alone thing for now...wife would probably understand though......i think.

Lucky you, JP. About finding someone to give them to you. I'd love to have an upturned bottom to play with. I've never had anyone (local) ask me to do that, but I'd be delighted to oblige. I've had men say they would be willing to give me an enema, but I don't want someone who is just willing. I want it to be someone who really wants and needs to give me one. Being with someone who is just going through the motions isn't much fun. I'd want it to be someone who was as turned on as I was.

It's pretty tough for me to even think of telling anyone else about my enemass when my wife, who does know, treats the whole subject like a f__t in church.

My first wife, passed away, would give me enemas, but commented one time that,"I wouldn't even tell my mother about this!"

My wife was not into enemas at all but tolerated my taking them occasionally in private with the bathroom door closed. Although I fantasize about being the recipient of a provided enema, I am content with doing my thing solo when the mood hits.

For many years only my wife knew about my enema pleasure. She regularly asked, "Are you ready for an enema?" This probably happened two to three times a month. She knew I enjoyed them, and she was happy to give me one whenever. Lung cancer got her earlier this year. Both kids are freshmen at college this Fall, so I have easy opportunity but no longer have a partner. Yesterday I was at a clinic getting a shot and told the nurse about my interest. That went easily, and was the first time I have opened up to anyone other than my wife. It went well enough that I plan to continue to find opportunities. Any females in the greater Akron area that are interested?

I have considered getting enemas for a LONG time but I didn't think my partners would ever be interested. I'm finally with someone that I have opened up slowly all sorts of things and most recently an interest in enemas. It started off with me asking and now he says to me when he wants to give me one! 😘

I don't share with everyone, but I feel relatively well connected to a kink scene which has produced several people to talk about it (and think about it). Most people that I have opened up to are surprisingly accepting of my *interests*

I'm into everything except brown, and extreme pain. 😁

Being an old guy and new to puter thing learning my way around is slow process

hope i can meet others as i creep ahead slowly

Active pursuit? Well, it depends on what you do in society and who you tell. For instance, if you were a Catholic priest, I don't think it would be a good idea to tell anyone except perhaps your confessor. Maybe not even him - enemas are not sinful as far as I know. But the inferences likely to be drawn by the litigious public are none of them inviting. And I wouldn't think you could get Mr. Obama or Mr. McCain to let on either. There would always be a newshound on the trail!

For the guy or the gal in the Dilbert cubicle there's far less of a problem; but one size doesn't fit all.

So, no, my name is neither McCain nor Obama (it's not Mbeki or Zuma, either); but I am a rather public figure and have only told my wife, who is not able to share my passion.

Johnny

Although the enema fetish has been with me since childhood, the active pursuit of it has been sporadic. The most active period came after my divorce, when I had time to set up the scene and all the equipment. I took great pain in the preparation of the event, even thinking about it days in advance. I treated it as if it were an important ceremony, something akin to a church mass. The bedroom was spotless and all the equipment laid out neatly on a white vintage medical cabinet. I'd sometimes play Gregorian Chants as an audio stimulation and had my two female mannequins dressed as nurses or just in vintage lingerie to add visual ambiance. This took lots of unencumbered time, a luxury I no longer have.

After some years of living in 'singledom', I met a wonderful lady, who has agreed to be my companion for life. Although she's liberal, she has absolutely no interest in enemas. As a result, I've curbed my enthusiasm for enema play and have found as much joy in collecting vintage and antique enema and related paraphernalia. My companion has tolerated my hobby and has even accompanied me to antique malls in my search for such things. I do still think about the past and the fun I had with enemas, but they are not as important as the relationship I have with my lady friend and lover.

I have enjoyed enemas since I was a kid, I have had guys that enjoy enemas get and give to me. I ask in all chat rooms anyone into enemas, and you would be suprised at the number of responses I get. I have found and enjoyed men that are open about enemas and enjoy all aspects of men like I do. If you don't ask you will never find an enemmate.

I had a boyfriend in my late teens that I was open with and it turned out to be a good experience sexually. Unfortunately, I married him and that was not so good. My current husband is kind of prudish about sex, so I haven't let him in on my 'secret'. He is pretty much a "missionary man". Not a whole lot of experimentation going on. So, I am left to pursue my fetish online with you folks.

Thought of my wife as you do of your present hubby. I confided that secret(same as your keeping all locked up inside you)now all the equipment is out in the open. Yah,she jumped right in to participate,as giver, after awile seeing me in no kind of pain and enjoying her so much,she is a receiver sometimes and it seems to be growing in her and is becoming almost an equal receiver. Most he can say is no,maybe,yes or he'll might say you can do as you wish and stay away, but not forever perhaps,and he may come unto you.

Good point, Swooney. I guess you don't know until you ask. For some reason though, he just doesn't seem to be very approachable. I've always felt comfortable in other relationships asking for what I want in the bedroom, but not so much with him. I'm not complaining (too much). He has plenty of great qualities. Maybe someday I will bring it up with him and see what happens.

I guess I would have to say I do actively pursue this, as I have joined alt.com and adultfriendfinder.com with enemas in my profile and I have attended a munch that I had to travel out of state for. To clarify--to a true Mainer, out of state travel is above and beyond.

I do it when i have the privcy of the house so no one know that i do it. i do agree that most people think this is sick and look down upon us

I try too, mostly (always) by myself. Always on a quest to find an enema nurse, or colonic provider who understands the erotic part.

I have not told anyone, it's my little secret, LOL

I just found this site and joined. I do actively pursue my enema fetish. I recently got an inflatable nozzle, but it really doesn't prevent leakage. But I can take almost a gallon!!!!!!!!!!!! 😉

As a long-time dreamer, I finally did it, spent a few days tracking down someone to play with and quite by accident I came across someone, although she was some distance (700) miles and was a member of this group. And being an old ugly fat guy that I am, I emailed her, to which she sent me her web site. Damn that site was hot. At least to me it was.

I choose the 3 hour option and made the appointment. Well, group, I did it. She was heaven sent. God, what a lady. Within seconds of meeting her I was so comfortable and relaxed and those 3 hrs all my fantasies were realized

so group make the leap water was warm and relaxing.

And to redbaglover:

It kinda worked that way for me. Well, almost. Hey, I'm no prize, and old and chunky too, so I figured why not seek out a pro E giver. The blessed lady that she was asked me what and why as she was undressing me. Sure, I had to pay. What man like me doesn't?

Well, I opened up like a can of tuna for lunch. 3 hrs later I didn't feel so geeky. Every penny was worth it. Now I am not so shy.

Oh, BTW, she is a member of this website, fellas and she's a goddess.

I did try to share once. I let somebody I thought might become very important in my life read a story I'd written. To say he was disgusted and revolted is putting it mildly! To this day I regret ever trying to tell him. I live in a small town where everybody pretty much knows everybody else plus I'm a very active part of the community. I still wonder if he ever told anybody and if people I know are thinking what a pervert I am.

Needless to say, I'm not going to try discussing it with anybody else. I'd still love to meet somebody but at this stage in my life, it's not too likely.

I think there are areas of the country where people might be much more open minded than in other parts. Unfortunately I'm in probably one of the most conservative parts there are. But...never give up hope, right? :-)

Jill

Before I decided to go into my current realionship it was very important for me to reveal my enema fetish if it was going to be more compatable.....It would be very difficult for me to live with anyone hiding my enema fetish!

To my pleasant surprise he was both interested and curious and after he experienced his first enema with my help enjoyed it and now has his own personal enema bag with accessories so leaving the enema equipment hanging in the bathroom is no problem!

He knew nothing about enemas before he met me so it goes to show there are plenty of people out there who can be converted and are so unaware of the pleasures and advantages of taking enemas!

You must have been a good teacher. 😃