How many people out there actively pursue their enema fetish

I am just wondering how many people on this forum are actively pursuing their enema fetish? That is, how many people have told their best friends about how they sexually enjoy enemas, or if they have told another loved one their secret? Moreover, I am curious if anyone that is currently dating has made efforts to convert a partner to love the enema? Finally, I am wondering if anyone on this forum has gone out looking for other enema fans in their local community or underground scene?

Seems like a lot of folks on this forum, male and female, are all looking to share their lives and stories with similar minded people, but we can only get so far over the web. So, do tell us if you are one of the brave few that publically embraces your enemas4fun attitude, or if you have made efforts to let others know (in person) of your personal anla preferences. For those that have come out, do tell us how the person you told reacted to your admission of love for the tube and bag.

Hopefully, this discussion will alleve some fears, and encourage others to be more open about what they are into when socializing with their friends and loved ones. Please, keep everyhting non-fiction, and don't fear honesty. I think we could all benefit from hearing what others have to say with regards to this post.

Have a great week, and keep on being kinky.

Naughtydoc

The only person I've told is my wife, who has been quite supportive and has occasionally joined in the festivities. I must admit though, I haven't told any other friends or family about these activities.

How come you haven't told anyone else- your loved one was a good start, but there are others that you can convert.

Naughtydoc, have you been open with your friends and family? If so, were they accepting of your (our) pass time. Any negative reactions? I guess the potential negative out weighs my need to share. I would like to know if others enjoy a dose of the hose.

If you read my posts on this site, you will find that I am quite open with most people about my fetish. The only people I keep it secret from are my co-workers, parents, and siblings- it is none of their biz, and they would think of me differently. Everyone else I am pretty cool with, save some people that I think couldn't handle the reality of it, so I spare them.

Exactly, NaughtyDoc!

This is not something that you usually discuss at the office, with family, and often not friends! Your comments reinforce the discretion, which is often exercised! If any of the above see this as a pervision, it could cause irreparable damage! I am very careful!

My best friend and his wife know about my enema fetish and it has brought about his wife's interest in enemas. While she is not as into enemas for fetish reasons as I am, she has said that she likes doing them to relax.

My wife knows about my addiction to enemas and supports me in it. Often times she will jus tell me it's time for an enema and start filling my bag....I love her to bits! It doesn't seem to do much for her. She tried them when we were dating years ago. She probably had 50, maybe 75 enemas at most. Now she will only have one every couple of months or so. I don't push it.

I am much more comfortable now (35 yo) with just being open about my enemas than when I was younger. I have a bag hanging in the bathroom, not in plain site, but if you looked around a corner you would see it. My wife's friends have assumed it was hers and she has found out about several of her friends that do enemas on a regular basis. When the subject is brought up, though, she usually tells them afterward that it is mine. 😜

The people at my natural food store know that when I come in for 6 oz. of wheatgrass juice that I am using it as an implant. I have been asked, more than once, how I can stomach all six ounces at once. I have told them where it goes!

I've told a couple of friends and have met up a few times with people for sessions, but I do hope for more opportunities.

Unfortunately, only able to dance around the subject. However, my best friend has suggested no problems with "body stuff" so we may talk about that yet.

I pursue my fetish on occasion, but strictly alone.

My ex--she was disgusted

3 massage therapists I have had over the years--2 were supportive, 1 was was "intrigued", 1 of the first two was a user herself and we taught each other a lot

my current neighbor

the lady I am seeing now--she is quiet and supportive but not expressing interest, we are very actively learning about each other and having a great time

my colon therapist

probly others

umm--guess thats it

Badger

In a "perfect world" one could have a skimmed lattee at a favorite coffee shoppe with friends, doing a social munch, and I would say.. "hey folks.. I do enemas for health and recreation..how about you"? What kind of reactions would I get? I'm in the E communities for connecting with women who too share enema erotica for friendship fun. 😉

Oh? How do you measure that? Pursue what you can pursue!

Have a great day!

The only people that know of our fetish are us and a friend we met through a local bdsm group. Each of us have told no other in our lives. The reason being is that family and friends both wouldn't understand the attraction and sexual desire that enema play, bdsm, and medical play have brought to our relationship. They would look at what we do, for enjoyment, as freaky, weird, and perverted.

We do have young children and have to think what someone might say to the wrong person. Would they turn our pleasure against us and have some social worker out there believing we may use this on our kids. Then we would then have to deal with the government on this and fight very, very, hard to get our children back. I don't want to do that. So we keep quiet with those in our lives. We will share it with you on this site. You all understand the reasons why. The pleasure, the comfort, the enjoyment this all gives each of us. It is different for everyone, but the basic reasons are understood.

Exactly. Our fetish isn't that socially accepted as some others. I don't know why, perhaps most people sense enemas or rectal thermometers as unpleasant and refer them to bad memories from childhood. Or perhaps it is too unknown. Just my ex-friend knows about my fetish and a good female friend, but she just know about doing it as prelude to anal-sex, she does not know how much I enjoy it :-)

MissStress makes a very good point and I agree with her! I have a child and I also do a lot of community work where children are involved. If the wrong people were to find out, I would not only embarrass my family, but I could become a community outcast. Is declaring my interest in erotic enemas worth this? Absolutely not. It's all fine to talk about enema enlightenment and that we should be open with others about it, but the reality is that our culture generally views it as a "perverted fetish". I'm not willing to go on an enema crusade and put my family and my reputation at risk. Call me too conservative, call me repressed, call me whatever you like...I have the right to make my own decisions and to keep certain things private. I would, however, share my desires with an adventurous lover that I felt I could trust.

Arianna

I have talked to my wife about the good and positive things about enemas. She has been complaining of always being bloated. I suggested that she try taking an enema or two, and see if it helps. She said she didn't know too much about them and could I help. I thought I would'nt be able to contain myself. I said, sure..I would help her. I have been giving her enemas for about two weeks now and seems to be going very well. I am going to mention different kinds of solutions we could try and see if she would like to try that. I think I'm getting her used to them a little at a time. She would'nt even think of trying enemas a few years ago. What a surprise it was to me when she agreed to try it. There is hope, never give up!

I agree with Arianna, it's one thing to talk openly about enemas here, it's another thing to walk around carring a sign.

The people that know me, know I am kink friendly. If someone asks I don't hide anything. But I don't try to tell people things they don't want to hear ether.

I think just by participating in this forum, expressing your ideas and genuinely searching for others to communicate with is 'actively pursuing the fetish'. If you meant pursuing it out in the open without any anonymity, then 'no'. The red bag and all that comes with it is still a closet kink, rarely understood by the majority and accepted even less. Besides, for me it is more pleasurable the less folks accept this behavior. Familiarity and acceptance breeds loss of interest. I like keeping it a secret and a mystery.

What really bothers me is the way other people put a label on us enema lovers.We can't control that no matter how much you explain to them the health benefits of enemas.For some reason the word ENEMA just turns people off.The word is just so misunderstood by the average member of the population.It seems like everytime I talk about what an enema is to a relative or friend,I must go through a long explaining process untill the get it,and how about the way they look at you when the word ENEMA is mentioned.It's not our fault if others think enemas are weird or kinky,it is their fault because they refuse to understand what enemas are all about.

We, who enjoy our enemas can consider ourselves to be very lucky indeed because we are happy and content,to me that's more important than what people think of us.Thank God for this site,for now we can openly let our feelings known to others who share what we so love,our ENEMAS.Let the good times flow. w/m 72yrs/W.MA

I usually will talk about my love of enemas to my friends and relative when discussing health,but not anything sexual.There is no point to advertiseing your enema fetish unless that person is one you can trust or you plan to involve in enemas with him or her.Let the good times flow.w/m72yrs/W.MA

Hubby as of last Saturday. That's it and we've agreed that it won't go any further. We have a very close circle of friends and family and most would just not understand.

And I am such a talker...so here I am - gotta discuss this with someone who gets it.

And it's true - why is our 'fetish' any different from most of the others? I've sold shoes to foot fetishists. I've sold women's vintage nylon underwear to lingerie fetishists (some wear it, some just, well, you know). I've sold wild and glitzy fabrics to drag queens and I don't care - I think we all just make the world a more interesting place. I always say that if the money's green...except our money isn't just green anymore, huh? Guess I'll have to come up with a new saying.

Once when I was still in the custom clothing (seamstress) business, I got a call from a guy and I was so naive. He got free phone sex out of the deal...I figured this out about a minute after I hung up. Was I mad at him? Heck, no, I was mad that I didn't realize what he was doing until it was too late - if I had, I would have given him the best free phone sex he'd ever had...

I don't see any harm or shame in doing enemas. People who do drugs or steal money or not pay child support for the kids they are fathered should be ashamed of their actions. It is now a days current taboo issue. it is all because people started using enemas other then relief for constipation. Since when having sexual pleasure became a taboo or wrong thing to do? I thought Catholic Church iron hand rulings were in the past. There is nothing wrong with anal sex, anal play or enemas and suppositories as long as you are doing it with a person over 18 and you are not forcing the person. This is my two cents.

I've never really tried to have any in depth conversations with my female friends regarding sex, but then again, I have always had more male friends than female. The topic of sex has come up a few times very recently among my female friends, and much to my surprise, they all seem to be very reluctant to show any kind of interest in sex! There are two female friends that are pretty open about their sex lives, but neither is into any kind of "kink" and the most I have gotten out of them is that they think they might have kind of liked that little spanking they got recently, now that they think about it. All females I have ever known have said they do not like anal sex because it hurts too much. I have tried to tell them that they have to go slow with anal and they just don't want to hear it. I always just assumed that enemas went along with bdsm, so when I placed a personal ad, I used this same name (redbaglover) because enemas are such a big part of my sex life and I wanted to attract someone who felt the same way. So far, I have only found one man who shares my interest in enemas. The rest either had no interest in enemas at all, or were very extreme in what they wanted to do with enemas, and that turned me off. I like to keep it safe, sane and consensual. Nobody else knows about my love of enemas except my Sir.

Perhaps, I should rephrase my statement. I did not mean announcing to everyone. You never know, how people will react and unfortunately, people can be very judgemental.

However, for some reason, females do not like to share their certain sexual activities because they are afraid to be marked as 'BAD girl, or weird or whatever' it seems to me females trying to keep up their image. Most girls grow up with listening, your butt is exit only, it is a bad place. And yet, most girls face the question, have you moved your bowels today? if not it is enema time, but remember it is bad to do anything with your butt other then BM.

Guys a bit different. We do talk, we don't mind. It is not we care less, we don't have too much worries. Again, I think, honesty is the best policy when among friends. Talk about it, you never know, you may exchange ideas.

Ever since turning 40 I decided that since I have to take enemas for medical reasons (Spina Bifida) I might as well make the most of it. I've given enemas to two women, one a girlfriend and another time the neighbor lady (she came over once and asked me to when she was really constipated).

I have had enemas from 4 different women besides medical nurses. My now girlfriend is a nurse and she LOVES giving me my enemas but I have yet to convince her to take one. She has always been an OR nurse so her exposure to enemas at work was very limited.

I am a very lucky man :-)

I believe that there are 10 people that know's how much I like enemas.

One of the 10 being my wife. She is not into at all. She has let me give her one.

We have been married for 17 years now and knowning each other for 22 years.

I'm still into enemas, and I take my time before I tell anyone that I'm into them.

I have two people in my life that know of my enema intrest. One is my girlfrined, the other is an aunt. the aunt gve em a few whenI was a kid and stayed with her over the summer months. A year ago, i had a bad cold and she asked me if I would like a bit of help with it. I had an idea what she meant, so I said if she would liketo help, I'd like any she could provide. She tld me to follow her as she went to the bathroom, and got the enem equipment out and asked me if I thought I could use one. Of course I told her yes. that was a year ago, and she still gives me an enema ifI aske her for one. Just to lset you know , she is in her late 70's and still quite atractive, but ther is no sexualy activity between us. More like the ones she gaave me as a kid. I still like asking herr to give me one when I visit on the weekends.

Even my own wife knows nothing of my enema fetish. Its something I can practice only when she is away. I am left with my wildest fantasies when I have a session,