Self Spankers.....

I self spank occasionally. I usually just do it out of boredom or when I am feeling horny though. I bend over and spank myself with my hair brush, wooden spoon, or whatever is around me that will get the job done! Snapping a rubber band against sensitive parts is also a fun punishment you can do to yourself!

I think for me, I don't always have a daddy around to discipline me when needed. So I've had to settle with an online mentor daddy. It's not the same, but if you find someone who understand your needs, like I have, self spanking can be effective. In the past when I've done something that I would have been spanked for, I get lectured and have to say why I am going to be spanked. Ask to get the implement(paddle,belt,ext). Asked to get in position, usually over a couple pillows, an told how many I am going to receive and why. Then told to administer them myself and stand in the corner with a timer, no rubbing. Then report back and again explain why I earned this spanking and why I won't do whatever it was that earned it again. It takes practice to really be able to spank yourself, but I have earned some spankings I had to give myself, and they did hurt. It will never be the same as when I have to bare my butt and receive a spanking from my daddy or disciplinarian, but it serves it purpose when you don't have someone.

I have let my sub spank herself.

It was on Skype. She took her pants down and I told her to spank herself with a hairbrush.

Of course she can always stop, and it will never be as hard as if I would do the spanking.

But we both like it.

She knows that if she stops, then it will have consequences for her later.

Then I will spank her with that brush much harder, and if she don't continue and finishes the spanking, then I will also cane her later.

Of course she likes what we are doing. I would never spank her or do her anything, if she didn't like it.

She doesn't feel it's good to be spanked hard, but if I'm gentle, I can very easy spank her to til she comes. I cane also do that with the cane, but then I don't hit her hard.

Has anyone tried self caning?

I enjoy self spanking. Having someone do it is much better,but if no one is available I can do it myself and enjoy it. I like to start out slow and easy,then gradually build the intensity. I've found economical whips at feed and tack shops for horses. Large paint sticks for stirring paint are free and have a nice bite.

As I don't have anyone who spanks me, I have tried self-spanking several times. Once I even got real bruises that lasted for two or three days.

A good position for me is lying over a coffee table or something similar. I also like lying on the side. I concentrate on one buttock at a time and usually administer 50 licks with a hair brush and then change sides. But as a hair brush is a rather loud implement I have lately switched to an electric cord.

Unfortunately, self-spanking doesn't really give me what I expect from a spanking. I think I need the feeling of being in a humiliating position/situation and of not having any control about what is going to happen to my backside. So far I haven't had the guts of meeting with a spanker/mentor in real life, I always chickened out. Maybe next year...

@ Mona78 - Maybe worth considering a genuine crop...gives that extra bite ...er sting....Pussy & anus spanking another easily achieved self discipline....Even better shared butt.

I prefer spanking myself over the bed, or on my hands and knees.

I often use a slipper, my hand or a wooded spoon.

Self spanking was my birthday present to my SEXYASS this year when i was all alone in house. red hot bottom pain was given using wooden hair brush, and dried shrubsstems

One can always stop whenever u want,and it will never be as hard as if I would get a spankin from someone... anyways till I have no one to make me enjoy my sessions , I have to rely on my hard wooden brush

I've spanked myself a few times but it's rare since it hurts a ton when I do it. I use a ping pong paddle, one side with the ridged grip and the other side without. I used to have this really nice thin stick that I also used as a cane and an arrow for my bow(at one point). The end was padded in duct tape making not only for grip but mostly so it wouldn't stick in the ground damaging the end. Anyways I enjoy laying down, standing up and bending over or diaper position with my ass raised a bit into the air. Just to make sure I could hit my bum accurately and to the fullest I could. When i first started I used to make sure not to stop till my bum was a nice red and then enjoy the feeling for awhile. Now i find it a bit harder to handle the spanking and I'll have to stop every now and then to adjust to the pain. The constant problem with self spanking, I think.

I did try this a couple of times when I was alone in the house but in a little while I found myself so wet that I had to stop playing with my ass and give some attention to 'other parts' 😉

Bloom.

I recently discovered a fabulous tool for spanking myself. I was at the dollar store looking at fake flowers and there it was ~ a stem with about 30 plastic leaves of different lengths and widths and some of the longest ones had these hard little plastic knots on the ends of them. My favorite is to bend over the bed bare bottomed and warm up but then alternate between legs pulled up while on my back, rolled to the side and on my knees with chest laying on the bed... personally I like the feeling of spanking my inner thighs HARD and the stinging of the leaves on my vagina. Far better than the paddle brush and wooden spoon I had been using ~ and much quieter! I can cover the sound with my radio on a very low volume and the orgasm is amazing.

Self spanking is really my only option - my wife used to give me a spanking once in a while, but it has been a long time - I usually wear a diaper (not too thick) and lie over some pillows as if it were someone's knee.

I use a slipper or shoe, and let loose on my own behind as best as I can.

It does work, but would be better if someone else could give the spanking...

Sometimes a self spanking is my only option, but I have to wait until I am alone which can be quite aggravating if I am feeling the urge to get a spanking right then but there is always a chance of being heard or walked in on. I have a small really thin board that is shaped like a paddle to spank myself with. It leaves more of a sting from a lighter swat but I can never bring myself to hit myself hard enough to bring tears to my eyes or cause me to cry. I know before I actually get the board out of its hiding place I have the same feelings that I do when I was younger and about to get spanked. I usually bend over my bed and spank myself either over clothes or sometimes will start over clothes, then my underwear until I finally work up the courage to bare my bottom. It usually satisfies my need for a spanking for a while.

Self spanking is akin to masturbation, while it gets the job done, it's never as good as the real thing. I have self-spanked on more than a few occasions, so I am speaking from experience..

Elaine

I love spanking alot but cannot find a spanker here in Johannesburg. I spank myself i like the sting and the warmtness on my butt. I like to look at the marks. Me and my butt are good friends as it comes to spanking. I sometimes ride my bicycle into the nature and then pull over take a branch and smack my bottom as hard as i can. The advantage is the sound does not attract any body as there is nobody in the facinity. Nothing as a nature sting on the buttocks.

Sadly I do not currently have someone to spank me and attempting it myself just does not have the same affect. I have tried with my hand, a hairbrush, and a variety of other stingy implements none of which have the same appeal as having someone actually put you over their lap and spank you themselves.

I do know that some people very much enjoy self spanking but unfortunately I am not one of them.

Hi all. I am a self spanker and have been for years now. I still get spankings and more from other guys(I am bi by the way) but still always like to spank myself as soon as I get the opportunity. I just don't see how others find it difficult to spank themselves as I have no problem. My flat hand starts the session and in order.....flip flop, big wooden spoon, bath brush a piece of flat wood like a picture or dado rail, a small oar I found that looks as though it once was part of a toy boat and finally a thin swishy twig that I broke off a tree last week.

I end up with a lovely warm, red, sore and marked bottom and I find it really easy with all the implements mentioned. I do not use a belt or strap as those are difficult to use I find. So something rigid is the best solution for easy administration to the buttocks and with the twig it is a matter of developing the wrist action needed to be able to sort of rotate it and flick it quickly to give the maximum strength to bring it down hard onto the bare bottom.

This,I admit is not so easy but after much practise I am really quite adept at using it. The amount with each is normally in groups of 50, so either 50,100,150,200 etc before I move on to the next implement. Yesterday I ended up giving myself a final 200 strokes with the twig and really swished it down hard. I love it and may have another session this afternoon. Any comments on this are most welcome?

For me, self spanking achieves the desired effect of receiving a well deserved punishment.

I usually cross dress in sexy lingerie and lay out the spanking instruments I will use to spank with. Like tonight, I put them out in the order in which I will spank with. An oval 1/2" thick wooden bath brush. Next a split 1/2" thick rubber paddle. This followed by several looped plastic coated 1/4" thick wire, some single loop, others double and triple looped. Two delrin canes and an acrylic cane will leave raised red welts as will the wire loops. The bath brush and rubber paddle will redden and bruise my bottom and upper thighs. Each implement delivers 100 spanks. I spank as hard as I can standing while bent over with my elbows on a chair. This stretches the skin of my butt cheeks which will produce intense stinging pain and makes the red raised welts really stand out. After each 100 strokes I stand in the corner for five minutes to humiliate myself and contemplate how the next 100 stokes is going to feel. It took two hours but I reached my goal of 1,200 hard, stinging punishment spanks tonight. My bottom and thighs are red, bruised and covered with welts. I will now give myself several hot soapy enemas and then insert a large butt plug in my butt and diaper myself for the night. I would love to have a Woman to share this with but alas, I don't, so self spanking is the next best thing. I usually perform this two or three times a week as I feel I deserve it.

After giving myself a two hour 1,000 swat severe spanking last night which left my bottom and upper thighs red, bruised and welted and extremely sore today, tonight's repeat spanking with a goal of 500 swats is only going to be achieved by sheer determination to deliver the same hard spanks of last night to achieve the level of discipline I deserve and crave. Tonight's spanking instruments are in order of 100 swats apiece, the oval wooden bath brush, the plastic covered looped steal 1/4" wire, the rubber split paddle, the long acrylic paddle with beveled holes and the split leather tawse.

It took an hour and a half and I did the spanking dance several times because of the intense sting. I spanked slowly and then fast hard swats. I deserved every hard swat and am dreading tomorrow's follow up spanking. My rear is covered in bruises and looped welts. Spanking is the most thrilling activity I can think of. I'm going to stand in the corner.

After giving myself a two hour 1,000 swat severe spanking last night which left my bottom and upper thighs red, bruised and welted and extremely sore . . . .

1000 swats and the skin didn't peel off?

What were you doing, love taps?

@Spkmibtm07 why would you think you need 1000 spankings?!

1,000 swats my Dear. Because that is what i deserve.

No, very hard swats over a two hour period in sets of 100 with applications of baby oil.

But why? I cannot imagine someone feeling they deserve that many at once! Is someone telling you that you deserve them? Ouch..your poor butt! 😢

Its all me. A sore butt is the end result. Much effort and skill to get there.

So is it for pleasure?

Pleasure and punishment. Its so intense during a spanking and so thrilling between the next set of swats when I am standing in the corner with my hands on my head thinking about how much the next set of swats is going to sting. Watching my rear become covered with red raised welts and from pink to red to dark red with bruises that appear. Tonight the 500 swats really stung from the first swat as my rear was very sore from the night before. I am dreading tomorrow's 500 hard as I can deliver swats have my attention. The only way this could be better is to be spanked by a Woman.

@Spkmibtm07 that many just isn't necessary...

@caresabouthealth I sooooooooooooooo agree with you!!!! OMG!!! OUCH!!!