Self Spankers.....

Anyone out there who don't have a Mommy or Daddy. How do you punish yourself? Are there any self spanker's our there? If so what is your favorite scenario, position, implement, etc....

For me:

My favorite is laying over the bed or in the Diaper Position with a strap or hairbrush. I have never been able to make myself cry. It's different when you spank yourself and when someone spanks you. Such as the element of surprise. When you get smacked and how quick etc.

I try to punish myself but it doesnt work

Having tried several implements over the years, my favourite and the most effective is a piece of earthing cable which is about 20" x 1/4". Because it has quite a thick copper core it has some weight to it which compensates for the inevitably restricted arm-swing when self-spanking. The thickness of the cable is sufficient to stop it cutting my bum.

Because of the awkward angle my arm gets tired fairly quickly so I usually administer them in sets of 6 or 12 on each side. I've found the best position is over a stool with my legs horizontal and my shoulder on the floor. This helps with the arm-action to get a better swing.

Boy that thing hurts - I managed to cane myself to tears on more than one occasion. I do get a nice set of red stripes, its just that they are vertical rather than horizontal. If I have a long session and 'receive' several dozen strokes I end up with some impressive bruises the next day. That reminds me, I must start an album and you'll see what I mean!

See my album for pics :'(

How about using nettles for self spanking?

Simple, easy and terrificly effective. Also if you want to extend the effect, you may put some leaves inside your pants for a while...

A second advantage is that nettles, even they are scary stinging, they do not leave any bruises.

I had an online Domme who made me spank myself of cam with a wooden spoon, clothes brush and belt. The next evening she asked how I was doing and I told her my butt was sore.

"I wanna see." She said excitedly. "STRIP!, everything off." She ordered.

I complied and she inspected my naked backside. She commented on how red was, but not red enough. She directed me to spank myself again. Afterward, I had to kneel in the corner.

I agree that it's difficult to create the right scenario by yourself. I've tried it a few times but it's not nearly as satisfying as submitting to being spanked by someone else.

I've had some experience with this and have to say that it's harder than you think to create things that work. Sure, it may be great for the first smack or two, but then the wire deforms and it doesn't work the same way.

I built a device using a drum with 3 leather slappers. A windshield wiper motor was used to turn the 4" wide drum at 3 speeds. The on off switch was dead man style in that you had to hold the button down to keep it from slapping (the button was very stiff and hard to hold). As your hand got tired it was a pain to hold it down.

Rather simple, easy to build using available materials. the drum was plywood glued together and cut to a round shape bolted to the WS motor.

That was years ago, I'll see if I have any photos. I do remember it started as feeling so so but the heat would build as time went on to pain. Sort of like the water torture, the first drops were nothing but later it was unbearable.

Haven't thought about that thing in years.

Skybear in Florida

Since I was 14 I've spanked myself. usually for wetting my pants, on purpose.

Last November I spent an entire Saturday administering some serious self-discipline. I laid out the rules for the day. I laid out the following rules for the day: 1) I had to stay home except for essential errands. 2) I had to remain naked at all times while indoors. 3) If I did have to go out the only clothing I was allowed was a t shirt, running shorts and flip-flops. The temperature was in the 40's so I would look foolish dressed that way.

I stripped naked and gave myself a hard hand spanking and followed that with 25 swats with the paddle. My rear end was starting to turn red. Next, I shaved my pubes and backside. Then it was time for another dose of the paddle. I streched out on the bed and gave myself 15 hard swats I had originally planned to take 15 swats an hour for the rest of the day and not allow myself to watch college football. I came up with another plan. After every score, I would receive 1 swat for each point scored. At the end of the day, I took 150 swats with the paddle. In addition to taking a severe spanking,I had to spend the day cleaning house.

Hi,

I never could self spank properly. It was never hard or long enough. I also have had trouble find a Disciplinarian. Thus, I was estatic when I learned there are actual spanking machines that you not only can program to administer severe correction, have a roultte system where you have several discipline routines programed in and you don't know which you'll receive but there's also automatic restraints so you can't get away or have a pre-mature end by chickening out. You have to take it until it ends. Moreover, you can program in "corner-time." The site is orgasmic ally. Hope that helps anyone with similiar problems.

Dave

Hey,

yes i have spanked myself before but it is hard to properly recreate the scenario because i am the one who determines how hard i get hit and how often. knowing that i can stop whenever i want to lessens the excitement

The most effective way I have found is a belt. When the belt is in my right hand I swing it around my left side causing the belt to wrap around striking the right side. Naturally the belt picks up speed as it wraps around intensifying the strike...

I do it whenever I can. I use the rod from the horizontal blinds in the house. It's the same diameter as a cane and leaves a nice red stripe. It doesn't take much to make it sting so I can swing it from either side. The plus side is it's hanging in plain site and nobody knows.

After a good self spanking session I'll put on a diaper and get online looking to chat.

Bent over on my feet with a leather paddle or just my hand is what works for me. Tried a thin flexible rod but it was too intense. In very quick succession lightly or a firm smack every three to five seconds, when I get nice and warm I'll take a break and start again a bit harder, trying to take more punishment. Pretty much pausing when it gets to be too much and starting again until I'm done is how I like it. I'm not big into bruising but have left myself some good day after marks. Haven't cried but several times landed one hard enough that I had to catch myself from falling and stop for the night. Sometimes I video or take pictures so I can see just how red I can get.

I am waiting to meet someone (m or f) to give my bottom the spanking it needs. I would like to try to paddle myself with a hairbrush or paddle but I never seem to be able to do it hard enough to make it a real punishment (bringing myself to tears). Does anyone have any suggestions?

Bottom, I wonder if it is impossible to make yourself cry with self-spanking? Just a thought.

It is possible to make a sub cry with self spanking. I have ordered my cyber-sub to do so while talking to her/him and it works.

I've tried it, but like many on here, I have never been satisfied with my own spanking ability. I wimp out and give up too easily. I know I should have more, but I lighten up or just stop when it gets uncomfy instead of going ahead like I would want a real spanker to do.

Which is too bad since it's just me right now.

Hello, I am new here and have to say, I have triede self-spanking many times and find it just isnt the same. Although it is not for lack of trying.

My favorite scene is take a couple of enemas, then lay on the bed in diaper position and apply the hairbrush to me behind. And like mostly everybody else, I always stop way short of what really needs to be done!!!

I completely agree that self-spanking isn't anything like having someone else do it. However, it can still be pretty effective.

My Dom has sent me for my hairbrush a few times. The first couple of times He just gave me the instructions and then had me report. Now, we're on the phone when i do it, and i have to send Him a picture afterward. He hasn't said this, but i'm pretty sure that if i'm not spanking hard enough or He doesn't like the results i'll be doing it all over again. We'll be going to cam soon.

Last week i had one spanking coming "just because" and then earned a second one. i got them one after the other. 46 for disobeying followed by 30 for just because. By the time i was finishing the 30, i was having trouble counting aloud. And for the first time, it really did hurt when i sat down.

So there are some "motivations" that can produce good results.

My favorite self spanking position when i was younger was diaper or on my side. I would usually lay with my feet in the air proped on my head board while I whip myself with a piece of an old rubber jump rope that was about a 1/4 in. thick. Its kind of like a mix between a switch and a cane, it leaves the best welts without any permanent marks. The only real problem I have with self spanking is you fell naughty while your doing it. what a vicious cycle.

I, too, self-spank because I don't have someone to perform the rite.

I have combined spanking with enemas, but prefer spanking with a plug in place. I bruise easily, so only do this when I am fairly certain that no one will see marks.

Lying on my back, spanking my inner thighs and labia, as I stop masturbating has a very strange effect. Stopping shuts my arousal down a bit but the spanking builds the intensity. It takes a lot longer to have an orgasm, but the orgasm is ... special.

I self-spank frequently mainly because I have been interested in spanking ever since I accidentally walked in on my cousin while she was being spanked by my uncle when I was 5. I didn't quite understand my feelings at the time; I just had a fascination with butts from that point on. When I was 13 (and both my parents were at work), I used to lay on the bed and used my hand to spank myself. I kept alternating arms when one got tired, but I have to admit that my arms were more sore from the awkward angle than my bottom was, but I was aroused and my butt was a nice pinkish red. As I grew up I started experimenting with brushes, hangers, and belts, and I could get my butt pretty red. I'm pretty shy; it took a lot of courage to even ask my girlfriend out to a movie, so I can't even imagine bringing up my spanking fetish. Thus, I continue to work on my self-spanking; it keeps me satiated, but I've never experienced the real thing.

I self spank on a fairly regular basis not having a daddy at the moment it is not the same as going over my daddies knee but it kind of satisfies the need in me gives me that comforting warm glowing bottom and i do not go easy on myself i am quite hard it just so wonderful to feel the heat building in my bottom as i spank away i always treat myself to a bath and get dressed in my favorite jammies on a friday night and give myself a good hard spanking kinda sets me up for the weekend and relives any stresses the working week has caused and i always sleep so well after it granted a lot of the time on my stomach but it helps when i do not have a daddy in my life

I don't often self-spank. It does like some of the emotions that come out of a proper spanking by another person. I last did a couple of years ago when I was told to by an on-line friend who sets me various "challenges" from time to time. And the instruction was to make sure I did it properly.

I undressed completely - I find it easier than trying to keep a shirt out of the way - and used a small wooden paddle whilst standing up. At first it wasn't easy as - obviously - it hurt! But I kept going and eventually broke through the pain barrier and then I found I was able to give myself a really hard spanking. My bottom was crimson red by the time I finished and quite bruised in the evening. The bruising did last several weeks so I guess I did do a half-decent job.

Fortunately, my friend was satisfied with the pictures I sent!

I usually use a hairbrush, and it feels really nice, but it isn't exactly being spanked. It's not what I want or what I dream of...

I usually use a flogger when self spanking. I like the way the strands whip around.

I self spank whenever I get the chance. I don't hold back. I have five impliments, Hairbrush, Oak Paddle, Pine Paddle, Ping Pong Paddle and four fingered Tawse. I take off all my clothes, and either standing or bending over a chair I give my naughty bare bottom 100 swats with each impliment. By the end my hiney is bright red and Im sobbing and crying. I love the cooling down period where my tush gets warm and tingelingly.