Self Spankers.....

I just started recently. I use the shower brush (I loaned out my hairbrush). I learned how to flip it just right for me, the long handle is just right for this. I get over 2 pillows on the bed that simulates OTK, my favorite position. Then, holding the handle with my right hand, I strike alternately both buttocks rhythmically. The only hard part is role play. It takes somebody with multiple personalities to do it right LOL. Of course, nothing can replace the real McCoy but it is fun when nothing else is going on, like around this time frame in my life.

Here is a website:

http://selfspanking.org/category/self-spanking-tips/

It seems to view self-spanking as a way to get more productive in your life - also suggests sexual release befire a spank, to lower the pain threshold.

My favorite "self-spank" scenario is during my self imposed "punishment enemas". I use a wooden paddle that is long enough, and heavy enough to pack a wallop. I start with twenty, ten on each cheek prior to my 2 qt lightly soapy clean-out. I then prepare the "punishment", 3 quarts with 2/3 cup of lemon juice (powerful cramps). I make sure the nozzle insertion is swift and slightly painful. Prior to kneeling to the knee chest position I attach clothes pins to my nipples and scrotum. After twenty more swats, harder than the first, I get into a modified knee-chest. More like a knee-left shoulder. This allows me the freedom of movement to administer swats while the "punishment" empties. The combination of the clothes pins, the paddle, and the cramps have brought me to orgasm without touching myself on multiple occasions. Someday I would love to find someone to participate in my "punishment". There have been many times I had to be cautious about wearing clothing to conceal the marks left behind...

I bend over and use a shower brush, one cheek at a time, usually ten or twenty hits, then change cheeks. My arm usually gets tired before my ass has had enough.

Some times I use a leather belt, standing up and swinging around my body. That hurts differently.

I would prefer to have some one else do it, though. Doing it your self, you can't get enough leverage.

I use a metal ruler - very arousing. Even though I know where I'm going to hit, it still works. Sometimes on the legs, sometimes on the buttocks. I just pretend that it's someone else administering the pain. Have a wonderful masturbation afterwards.

I'm a loner, meaning I don't have a partner to play with, so I self-spank. I use a paint stirring sticks. The one for 5-gallon paints is great for the butt. I cut up a belt into 15 inch lengths, notched & split the ends and stapled them to the large paint stick. The leverage lets me deliver decent hits to the butt back and legs. I bought a 24" riding crop at a tack store, made of fiberglass. This hurts. A 5 foot long 3/8-1/4" bamboo stake used for tying flowers straight has leverage and leaves ugly welts.

I do CBT self spank. The small paint stick and riding crop are effective. I made a spanker with a 2½ 4" x 2mm thick leather tied to an 18" bamboo stick; a home made riding crop. This is not as powerful, but is good for "CBT." A device called a humbler is excellent for positioning oneself (or your sub) for a nasty spanking.

I'm like PeterK with the small difference that I use a cane, and masturbate as I'm doing it. Can get very carried away and really hurt myself, but/and have a stupendous orgasm!

Whenever I'm in need of discipline, I whack my butt with either a switch, belt, or paddle. I go to my garage and bend over my workbench to give myself the licking I earned. The switch is the most effective in punishing me for my wrongdoing, for it produces a sharp sting and red stripes across my butt. The paddle I use is the one my dad swatted me with when I was growing up, but I can't duplicate the same feeling I got when he wielded it.

Hi all,

I too am a self spanker, i use a padding and a flogger, whilst bent over or face down on the bed. i have two meeting with a guy and we having taken tunes to spank each other with a collection of implements. But until i can arrange another meeting it will have to be self self self again.

I'm a top but need an occasional spanking. And, when I need to be spanked, I need it to be real -- long, hard, and leaving me very, very sore.

Have tried the self spanking thing from time to time. Simply cannot spank myself long enough or hard enough. Nowhere near what a partner can do.

I do, however, admire those of you who can pull this off. Certainly makes life simpler.

Pmoi,

Self spanking is no substitute for a spanking by somebody else. The two times i have been spanked by somebody have left me sore and marked. there is no stopping when it gets painful or stings if somebody is administering the punishment but you can when you bent over flogging your own cheeks. but i would settle for my own work instead of going without.

Tried this a few times, but it's not very convenient. I also had a problem with continuing as it becomes painful. That's rather frustrating. Anyway, I'm looking forward to try again, maybe changing the device to a hairbrush will help. Belts that I have are rather unhandy.

I do self spank normally starts with an enema, while holding the enema i use a wooden paddle on my bare butt, i don't hold back or stop as the pain increases and stop after 20 to 30 very fast and hard swats, my butt end up very red and leathery feeling. I once made a paddle with 1/2 inch holes in it, it left blister like circles where the holes hit and had bruises after a day or so. Did definitely enjoy it. Hope to one day receive a paddling from a older women, would like to see if i could take 20 to 30 swats on my bare butt that i am not controlling.

I have been self-spanking since I was sixteen or so. Over the years, I guess I have developed a higher tolerance for pain so the spankings I 'get' are quite intense at times.

So, in order to give a proper spanking, you must first find a position which allows you the most mobility of your chosen spanking arm. In my case, laying on my left side, slightly bent at the waste as if preparing to spoon with your lady/man.

Next, you must predetermine your implements and have them close at hand. Paddles work best in this position. Caning, switching, belts, etc have to be done whilst standing.

Now that you know what you will use, determine how many swats you will get. A total of 50 - 100 with each implement is a good place to start. Some implements won't be felt through clothing so you have to adjust your sequence of implements accordingly.

I most often use a wooden hairbrush, a plastic 'cane' (actually the thing you use to open and close blinds - it is highly flexible and delivers a good sting if swung hard) and a brush with a long handle. A bathbrush works well, if you can find one. I use this one (http://www.walmart.com/ip/Rubbermaid-Professional-Plus-Long-Handle-Scrub-Brush/1662219😎.

Now, get into position and start over your pants/jeans. If you are wearing jeans or other thick material, do no less than 100 swats, medium strength, 10 at a time, altering cheeks, 10 in a row to the left, then 10 to the right and so on. They should be closely spaced so the sting builds quickly but medium in strength. Do not stop until all 100 swats have been given. If you wish, add on another 100 at this time, again no breaks and the swats should be harder.

Now that your bottom is a bright pink, stinking and warm to the touch, remove all clothing except your underwear/panties. Get back into position and grab the hairbrush. Again, a minimum of 50 swats, 100 swats is better, medium strength, sets of 5 to each cheek in quick succession. It should take not more than a couple seconds for each set of 5. If you are going for 100, you may pause to admire your handiwork at 50 and to identify any areas which need addition attention.

Now, remove your remaining clothing and stand, nude, in the corner, your nose pressed firmly into the wall, your bottom thrust out and on display. Whilst in this position, contemplate your coming paddling with the heavy brush. Think about how hard it will be and how much you deserve this. After five minutes is up, if you wish to add strokes of the cane, do so before the main event, twenty hard, whistling strokes. With the cane, you need to practice strokes with both hands so as to get an even marking and so you don't strike your back.

Caning done? Good, now, back into position on your side and grab the heavy brush. test swing it a few times to get the feel for the balance and how much wrist you need to bring it around so as to make firm and complete contact with the tender 'sit spot' but make no test strokes of any significance. You should have no 'warning' of how much it will sting until the first stroke lands and then it is too late.

Begin the spanking now, medium strokes on your bare bottom in sets of 10 - 20 to each cheek. Each set should be targeted at a different location (e.g. sit spot, left side, right side, crown of the cheek, etc). After four sets of 10 - 20, start over on the target areas and deliver hard, evenly spaced swats. Your goal for each of these sets should be not less than 50 or 60 swats.

Now you are ready for your final punishment. Wet both cheeks with a mixture of water and glycerin, then get back into position. Steel your nerve as this will have you howling. Deliver forty swats, alternating every two strokes, about a second apart. Use a full swing and a good snap of the wrist just before impact to maximize the affect.

When you are done, I guarantee a bruised, red and hurting bottom.

I've not been with very many female partners, that I've engaged in spanking with. So, I have mostly been a self-spanker for most of my masturbating life. I like to spank myself for the feeling, and really has nothing to do with "punishment". I suppose some "shrinks" would find that it has to do with some hidden need for punishment. However, I just like the feeling of a good, welt-raising whipping on my butt. Of course it all involves a very satisfying session of masturbating. Many times it also involves an enema. Again, I like an enema, just because it feels good to my butt. I like anything that has to do with playing with my butt, resulting in a good, solid masturbation. I like to be bare-butt, bent-over, and use a self-made whip out of coated wires. When I'm done, I like to be able to feel my sore butt when I sit down, and during masturbation. Many times I will whip myself for a while, then stroke my penis, then some more whipping. I usually lay down, get comfortable, for the climax. . .Very satisfying, indeed!

I've been fascinated with my butt, since I was a very small kid. When I was around five, I would go into the woods behind our place, and play with my butt. I didn't know what this was leading up to until much later, when I realized the the great satisfaction of masturbation.

Until I realized that there were lots of people that also liked playing with their butts like I do, I was taught that I was "dirty". It's so nice to do all the self-satisfying things I like, and feel that as long as it's private, and hurting no-one, then I feel real comfortable with myself, now.

I would really like to have a female partner to share all this fun with, but at this time I don't. So, I will continue to enjoy my self, butt-play.

Well, I don't have much else to do this afternoon, so I'm off to an enema, a good whipping, and finally a very satisfying session of masturbating. . .Then, nap-time :-)

Hi, I tried the self spanking a couple days ago. I take off all my clothes and lay down back on the couch. Then I spanked my tummy and thighs using the leather belt from my pants. And I can say - it was great!

I don't make any noise, myself. . .The whip makes those. I just enjoy giving myself a nice, warm butt with red welts. Love that felling when I sit down at my desk, or on the toilet from an enema.

Don't give myself a good whipping for thinking I was bad. . .I do it, as I really like it. Anything to do with my butt, is very erotic to me.

Just found out a couple of days ago a satisfying trick. When I use some vaseline on my penis for nice action between my foreskin and head, that a small amount of rubbing alcohol really gives a fantasic feeling for a nice enhancement to a great masturbation.

Had a great "all-of-the-above" this afternoon. . .MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM :-)

I tried it a few times with my hands. I even used as much force I could but the sound it made discouraged me from continuing. It was just so loud that everyone in the house and probably on the street too must have heard it.

Not that I regret not being able to do it. It's just nowhere near as fun as it would be with a partner doing the spanking.

Very nice exchange of thoughts.Has any of us spanked his/her wet bottom?I use soap and water,brush much, then soap and water again,and then the spanking itself.

I do not need much time or many spanks this way to achieve the result i want.

Corner time and writing lines,what you think?

I have even a few times was told to spank myself. If I did not do a good job I got a really good spanking and then had to try and do a better job on my butt.

Like Pvt Spanker, I started at about the same time and developed an increasing tolerance to the point where I came very close to having to seek medical help. I have powerful endorphins and when one is self spanking one doesn't always have a visual reference to suggest that enough is enough. When I woke up the next morning, my bottom was completely black. Blood clots were a definite possibility at that point and I knew it was time to back off. It took over three weeks to recover. I am still a passionate lover of the spanking scenario, however. One of the most important aspects of being here in Zity City is the fact that we can all share and learn from others experiences.

Play safe everyone!

I don't spank myself but like administering discipline to my ass. During long masturbation sessions I like strapping my ass with a tawse or a leather belt. My favorite position is to squat next to the bed, and lay my stomach and upper body across it, keeping my feet on the floor. I like doing this at the corner of the bed, so that my legs are spread wide as they hug each corner.

There are times where I REALLY need to feel pain, and as much as I might like to try to have someone else administer it at the moment I am a solo player. For me it is usually a case of a leather belt and building up. I find that as I go my limits increase and I can go much harder. I actually think it is much easier to do to myself than to allow someone else the control.

I usually spank myself laying in the sims position on my left side. A small wooden paddle gets the job done. I haven't managed to cry, but I've left glowing red cheeks for days. Just a matter of warming up, I probably take at least 200-300 swats with a ruler spread over my ass before moving to the paddle for another 100-200. After that I'm just numb and kinda do whatever I want.

I have a friend who makes & sells a spanking machine that is powered by an electric air compressor. He brings it to parties to advertise it. It works really well. Most people are surprised at just how well.

I have been a self spanker on and off for years. It's good to go into the woods in a remote place then find a branch, lay down on the ground and whack each cheek 5 to 10 times each and let e pain build. Whilst masturbating at the same time.

I'm a self spanker but wish I had someone to do it to me. I like to start w/the fantasy of daddy saying have u been a bad boy? Yes, daddy. Do u need to be punished? Yes, daddy. What kind if punishment to u need my little bad boy? I need a hard spanking. I'm usually over the bed on a stack of pillows w/my feet on the floor. I have 3 wooden & 1 leather paddle that produce a nice red & warm bottom. Adding sone water & soap to ur cheeks increases the pain. Never brought myself to tears. I know I've given myself a good spanking when I go sit down & can feel my sore bottom. I'm going to be spanked tomorrow morning when no one is around & can't wait!

When Im naughty or need stress relief I will bend over a chair or just bend over and use my oak paddle, cherry paddle and four fingered tawse and my hand. I will give my naughty bare bottom three hundred with each implement bringing myself to tears.

First I couldn't imagine doing this myself, but at some point I just couldn't resist trying it out. It really requires the right motivation, but just like someone else here said you really can give yourself a red bottom by using a hairbrush or a wooden spoon ... ;-)

My wife brought this up when she was thinking of spanking me,

I admitted that yes I have spanked myself,

She then made me spank myself in front of her.