The G Spot or Female Prostate?

I love having my g-spot stimulated. It is a very intense feeling, very different from clit stim. I have never squirted from it but feel it would be possible.

A recent study by a team from King's College London involving 1800 women, all indentical or non-identical twins,seems to show fairly conclusively that the G-spot is subjective. That it might just be a figment of imagination encouraged by magazines and sex therapists.

Have any of the women on this board found their own G-spot, and obtained pleasure from this area at the front wall of the vagina?

Or have any of the men or 'doctors' managed to stimulate their partners or 'patients' in this area?

Sometimes female ejaculation is linked to this, or is that perhaps another myth?

Dr Philip.

On new year's eve a few years ago, my husband was going down on me and had two fingers doing the "come to me" motion and i abosolutley came like crazy. i totally flooded the bed. we had to change the sheets and flip the matress. it was not pee. it was super slick and totally clear liquid. it had no taste or smell. i have never done this before or since. he has hit the spot many times before, with great orgasms, but just not with that "flood".

I think its feels no different any place inside my vagina . the roof of it behind the pubic bone feels the same as the back being stroked

mybe i am strange

Ladies! If no one has found it, find it yourself!!! Amazing! Here is the easiest method. Sit upright in a comfy chair, insert a couple of fingers, pump them upwards toward your belly. Grrrrrrrr.

I think we've found mine a few times. But as for consistancy, it just seems to be not available most of the time. Oh well, as many have said the fun is in the searching for it.

Oh, yes! My bff and I found ours (hers, mine and each others') while we were still in high school. I know exactly where mine is and it works perfectly...

Ah, yes... The controversy continues. Long ago, I found a very easy way to locate a lady's G-Spot and I will share it with you. Have your partner lying on her back, with her knees way up and widely parted. Gently insert a well-lubricated finger, palm up, into her vagina, about 2 inches (5 cm). Begin a gentle curling/uncurling motion with your fingertip, on the front wall of her vagina, as you gradually go deeper and deeper. Somewhere, between 2 and 4 inches (5 to 10 cm) in, she will experience a pleasurable feeling and/or an 'I need to urinate' sensation. This is her G-Spot area. Keep exploring it. WATCH AND LISTEN to her responses. Ask WHAT she feels and HOW it feels. Try lighter and firmer pressure as you curl and uncurl your fingertip. Try going faster and slower. Try a gentle side-to-side motion. No two women like exactly the same thing(s) and G-Spot sensitivity does vary. Also, be aware that a small percentage of women do not enjoy G-Spot stimulation, so don't feel too surprised if this happens. Good luck! Any comments, ladies?

I'm so glad I read this topic! Now I know I'm not the only one who is having difficulties finding her g-spot.

I've tried searching with my fingers, using all the techniques I found after doing a google search. Nothing. At first, I thought the problem was that it was far back and due to my unusually small fingers I just couldn't reach it.

So I tried a g-spot vibe. I've tried it 6 times now and no luck. I waited until I was really turned on so that wasn't the problem and vibrator was a very powerful, multi speed one so that wasn't the issue either.

And then I was with a guy who claimed to have found mine. He rubbed and rubbed and even used my vibrator and nothing. He was quite the expert when it came to all things sexual. It didn't feel good, it didn't feel like I had to urinate, I didn't really feel anything unusual. He concluded that there must be something wrong with me.

Is it possible that some women just don't have one? Or is there something else I can try?

Touchme - There is nothing 'wrong' with you. Women's g-sot sensitivity varies really widely. Don't give up. You're young and still developing sexually. Many women do not become orgasmic until their mid-twenties and older. Likewise with g-spot sensitivity. My g-spot is more sensitive, now (at 2😎, than when I first found it in my mid-teens.

I have brought a woman to orgasm in this way before. The place that I stimulated with my fingers was in the location commonly described. Not all the way up in her vagina. She was extremely aroused and dripping wet before penetration occurred, and I had three fingers in her when she came. The intensity of her orgasm was astounding.

Oh yeah, I've found mine! My orgasms are amazing when ihave one. My whole body contracts and my pussy clenches tightly when I ejaculate. The feelings are unlike a clit orgasm. I can usually find mine better when I have a full bladder.

G-spot - does it really exist?

All my gf's say no.

Well, I tend to share your gf's views on this but it is I recognise a subject which has differing opinions about it. Probably 50% for the g-spot and 50% dissenting.

Now, I hold a halfway view I guess and to support my theories I've copy pasted a posting I made some time ago.

It reads as follows:- I do not believe that the G-spot exists as a body of tissue having nerves which when stimulated give pleasure, any more than the rest of the vaginal canal.

However, the described location where this fabled spot is said to exist is useful in pinpointing the place where the female urethra is closest to the front wall of the vagina and therefore the most appropriate place to stimulate the urethra without doing so with such instruments as urethral sounds or catheters.

The urethra is lined with glands such as the Skene's and the paraurethral glands which, when stimulated by a flow of urine release an alkaline fluid to counter the acidic content of urine, thereby protecting the urethral tissue.

Stimulating the area concerned, usually by rapid 'tapping' of the area with the pads of two fingers, or a vibrator, mimics the release of urine and can produce the fluid flow which is often described as female ejaculate.

In urination the paraurethral fluid is of course mixed with the urine and is usually indistinguishable, save when it is profuse and the urine may then have some cloudiness. In stimulation of the area, without urination, the fluid is entirely different from urine in consistency, colour, taste etc.

The presence of the fluid in urine can fool the 'dipstick' method of urinalysis which is why a mid-stream (or 'clean') specimen of urine is needed for analysis and a patient is asked to urinate into the toilet - stop - urinate into the specimen container -stop - and finish into the toilet. The initial flow will have minimised the amount of paraurethral fluid in the sample.

The area of the vaginal canal where the G-spot is supposedly located is often described as being 'ribbed' or of a different consistency but the absence or presence of such a difference is no guide as to the existence or otherwise of the G-spot.

It's my submission, (and there will be opposing views) that the supposed G-spot is merely an area which, when contacted, transmits the stimulation to the urethra with resultant pleasure, rather than a pleasure producing zone in it's own right.

I've no real objection to the opposing views since the object and outcome of stimulating the area concerned is the most important, rather than the physiology involved. But please readers, don't 'flame' me - just contribute your own account. Copy/paste ends.

So nappy, your gf's haven't had their's found. Thats not to say the g-spot doesn't exist, no more than those who have found the elusive place mean that it does exist. It's fabled location just happens to be where stimulation most results in pleasure of a kind that many never experience.

Neither does it mean either you or their other lovers, if any, are inept - just that it hasn't happened.

I've posted about this in response to another thread on the forum but I'll say it again for the sake of clarity. I think the "G-spot" is as elusive, and as real, as the proverbial unicorn.

My suspicion is that G-spots are like ticklish areas on the body, some folks have them, and some folks don't. I know where mine is supposed to be located, and a few men have tried valiantly to stimulate it, all to no avail. I think you could play there all day long, and not much would happen. It's just not an erogenous zone for me. In fact, too much stimulation in that spot and I seem to end up with nothing more than a good case of urethritis, not a very pleasant outcome.

My current partner has been able to stimulate me to the point where I experienced what I would consider to be a "G-spot orgasm", including "squirting". While it was wonderful, it seems that it may have been a onetime thing, because we can't seem to replicate the response. That's okay too, because trying is certainly half the fun!

Play On!

LadyDoc

I have to agree with ladydocisin. It just doesn't happen for me and it doesn't matter how much time and effort goes into it. I wish it wasn't so elusive but it is what it is.

TG

I thinik the Gspot and multiply orgasms are myths....i've never found my G spot and as for multiples....i have to have to rub myclit to get off and by the time that happens it's too sore and sensitive to want more rubbing.... :'(

I find it easier to get there anally,as if my ass were the shortcut to my G-spot,but my Bf can find it either ways 😁

For a part of the body that should be more conclusive in research, I tend to doubt its existence. I have however experienced pleasure through stimulation where my "G Spot" is supposed to be located, only because it's so close to the urethra and because I was already turned on. I've hit the same area in a non-aroused state and felt nothing.

Thank you Melody for subscribing to my theory of urethral pleasure, supported to some extent by ladydocisin.

In post #17 of this thread I postulated that what we gents were actually stimulating here was not the fabled g-spot but in fact that that area of the vaginal wall was transmitting the stimulation to the urethra. I gave a physiological argument (not by me but by researchers) of what happened in that instance to produce an orgasm and even produce that phenomenon that is Female Ejaculation - or 'squirting'

I went on to say that the position where this holy grail is supposed to be located had no more, or less, nerve endings than the rest of the vaginal canal, that being fairly few compared to for instance, the clitoral area.

Hence of course a reason why vaginal intercourse is less likely to result in orgasm for the woman than it does when simultaneous stimulation is given to the clitoris.

All that being said however there are no guarantees that stimulation of the urethra via the g-spot area will result in orgasm. By the same token where women are convinced they have had an orgasm attributable to the g-spot it does not negate the theory that it was actually through transmitted stimulation to the urethra!

I'm sure though that, whatever the truth in this matter, what is delightful is the orgasm itself. As long as the possible reasons are considered and either accepted or rejected then it doesn't really matter.

There are those who, for whatever reasons, have never found this fabled place and may never do so - all I can say is have fun trying!

@ BigK

Interesting. That has always been my assumption of it. It's true, the pleasure is what counts. Maybe other girls can't orgasm from it but it's ultimately a source of pleasure for some.

BigK,

You are exactly and I do mean exactly correct here on all accounts. Thank you for all of it. The squirting issue drives me nuts. If people would only take a minute to read a medical book and learn their own bodies, they would realize with a quickness what the truth really is.

I always believed in the g spot, but never knew where mine was or its potential for being a major hot spot. i thought i knew where it was, and it felt pleasant enough when rubbed/stimulated, but not very intense -- for intensity, i always went straight for my clit. well, this weekend, i was lucky enough to receive instruction from a thoughtful and experienced "teacher" who really knows about these things. when he hit that spot in me, it was stunning, i didn't even understand what was happening, and i now know what it feels like to almost pass out during sex. OMG. i still can't believe it!!! it was lower in me than i thought it would be, just inside my vaginal opening. it was so intense and amazing, i just wanted to pass this along to anyone else who doubts its existence and hasn't had the pleasure of having it stimulated. really, it has changed my (sex) life...

I thought "G-spot" was just a name. It describes a sensative spot, but I've never read about it in medical journals. That does not mean that it doesn't exist; it's just that I've never seen "G-spot" on any vocabulary list. I've heard some expert wanabe's say that in the male body, the prostate is the "male G-spot". Again, I have never seen any medical vocabulary list that list "male G-spot" as a synonym for prostate. I think the word "G-spot" was made up outside of the medical profession, but pleasure sensitive areas do exist in both genders.

Wikipedia has an article about the g-spot. Pretty extensive discussion.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-Spot

Ahh -- the elusive g-spot. While I don't have one, I believe I can testify that the g-spot is real. It is also well worth the search, both for the careful explorer and for the "exploree." Friends thus explored testify to the electric sparks shed when one finds the right places. Medical literature certainly documents both location and the bundles of nerves that can be engages by teasing fingertips (or other touches). I suppose I could volunteer as a capable explorer. In any case, follow the advice of Robert Louis Stevenson and "feel your way carefully." Play nice.

I don't know if it's an actual physical structure in the body, but I DEFINITELY have a special spot inside me. I can even access it from the outside. I have come before by rubbing my abdomen just above my pubic bone. From the inside, it's much more effective when done by my husband, probably because of his big, strong fingers, but it feels incredible when he curls his fingers up against the roof of my vagina just behind the pubic bone. This gets me off every time, especially when he is licking me at the same time! I wonder if there isn't a nerve pathway or something in that area, and some girls are just more sensitive.

The g-spot is about 1 1/2" up the vagina on the anterior (front) vaginal wall. One could rub it by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina to about the level of the second knuckle and rubbing the front (opposite the rectum) vaginal wall.

Having watched medical students dissect the penis and parts of the perineum while I was getting my masters, this is the conclusion to which I have come:

Based on my knowledge of anatomy, the so-called fleshy tissue composing the g-spot is probably a part of the female analog of the corpus spongiosa portion of the penis containing the urethra in the male. The female urethra passes through the so-called G-Spot. The men will tell you that stimulation of the underside of the penis, which is largely the corpus spongiosa and urethra, and massaging the scrotum in the midline where you can feel the urethra and part of the spongiosa, feels good and will enhance an orgasm.

Some women like stimulation of this area, some don't and some are neutral, meaning they don't notice anything special there.

I would have to say from experimentation, there is an area just inside the vaginal opening that when given the correct stimulation, causes my wife to orgasm stronger than normal clitoral stimulation. When I combine that with oral sex, she about tears my fingers off when she reaches orgasm.

Yes, its real. With proper stimulation, I can "squirt.". The feeling is amazingly intense!