The G Spot or Female Prostate?

[From How Sex Works by Dr. Sharon Moalem - Harper Collins, 2009 ]

"It was generally accepted prior to the 1880's that women had a prostate too."

"In 2001, after examining more than 250 peer-reviewe scientific studies, the Federative International committee on Anatomical Terminology [the official namer of names when it comes to human body parts] officially renamed the Skene's glands and the mass of tissue behind them that surrounds the urethra as the "female prostate.""

"The female prostate, which surrounds the urethra, seems to come in a variety of shapes and sizes."

[I'm paraphrasing from the book now, but it essentially explains that this "female prostate" is the mass of tissue behind the "G-Spot" and is more than likely the source of the fluid that appears during female ejaculation or "squirting" as it is commonly called.]

How about that, ladies?

The "squirting" fluids produced by ANYTHING like a prostate, will be a few milliliters, NOT the garden hose spray we see in the squirting porno movies. The garden hose spray is urine.

Calling the Skene's glands the "female prostate" is about as dumb as calling the testicles the "male ovaries".

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Please forgive an ignorant old Southern boy, but what part of a woman's anatomy squirts (other than a milk-producing breast, the urethra now and then in a moment of weakness, or the anus when a proper enema challenges the sphincter muscle)?

I must have led a very sheltered life...

It is right behind the pubic bone, above the clitoris. Rubbing with two fingers up and down with a little pressure will result in an orgasm for her, guys you will be a big hit.

My new GF is a top squirter, and she likes me a lot because I know what I do when I have my fingers in her pussy.

She is interested in trying enemas, as least giving them to me, but her butthole is a no pass zone... at least for now 😉 I am actually certain I will eventually go there, but it's going to be taking some time.

Anyway, as usual it is a question of patience and confidence, the lady has to relax. Also not be intoxicated. It does remove inhibitions, but it numbs you out.

She also needs to be excited and craving a good sexual fun for it to happen.

I have made squirt girls who thought it would never happen, or never heard of it before, and were even freaked out.

Some, it never happened and may never will (it does not HAVE to happen, G spot masturbation is still good fun).

But really giving a lady orgasm after orgasm and tell her to just squirt away is a nice way to spend an afternoon.

This GF in particular even has a special plastic bed sheet under her regular bed sheet, that is so bad she is at squirting.

The porn industry just needed something badly to show that the woman were reaching a climax soooooooo they invented the squirt...Jimbeaux

As I'm certain most people know, those 'fake squirts' are various liquids inserted into vaginas and ejected by muscle spasms. The porn industry does love them so...

Not to call it a female prostate. However, I have experienced and observed with many female partners that have reached orgasm through anal sex. That occurred with No clitoral stimulation of any kind.

Each squirter I have been with (I'd say about 50% of women are active squirters, the others just don't know they can do it) sprayed a lot of fluid.

Some can squirt on and on and on 😃

Some it's more like one big gush, and that's it, but I mean a BIG gush.

I always thought that what makes women ejaculate is a female version of the prostate, like the clitoris is a female version of the penis.

It is not because it would come from the same cells than it would necessary function like a male prostate and only generate a few milliliters, while female squirters can produce 10 to 100 times that.

One thing is that men squirt only a certain amount because the male ejaculate needs to carry a certain amount of sperm, not too much, not too few.

With that purpose absent from women, I can see how their ejaculate is not limited at all and can sometimes reach these incredible volumes.

I am so jealous of you, women who squirt, because if the orgasm is identical to ours when it happens, all it means is that yours lasts a lot longer.

Each squirter I have been with (I'd say about 50% of women are active squirters, the others just don't know they can do it) sprayed a lot of fluid.

Some can squirt on and on and on. Some it's more like one big gush, and that's it, but I mean a BIG gush.

That's because the big gush is urine.

Just how and where are such tiny (Skene's) gland's going to produce and store such a volume of fluid that anatomists, pathologists, gynecologists and surgeons have never found a reservoir for? Consider the size of the breasts needed to produce secretions to feed a baby. Also, consider that even the salivary glands, which are very large volume secretion producers can't even come close to the volumes the porno squirters would love you to believe.

While it is true that new structure are (VERY, VERY RARELY) found in gross anatomy in the present day, they are VERY, VERY SMALL. The last structure to be recognized was the sphenomandibularis muscle (an EXTREMELY tiny one in the head) was in 1996. It was never known before despite centuries of dissection of the head, because it is so small, it is destroyed by searching for it even once you know it is there. --- (It's kind of like the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle, the more accurately you describe something, the more you change it by measuring it. In this case, as you look for it, it is destroyed.) I remember this well, because this was in the New York Times Science section when it was discovered. Anyway, anything big enough to produce or store the amount of fluid you describe, would have been discovered LONG ago due to all the surgery, dissections, sonography and MRI scans done in that part of our anatomy.

I always thought that what makes women ejaculate is a female version of the prostate, like the clitoris is a female version of the penis.

It is not because it would come from the same cells than it would necessary function like a male prostate and only generate a few milliliters, while female squirters can produce 10 to 100 times that.

The "ejaculation" part is from the Skene's Glands" and that is similar to the prostate.

One thing is that men squirt only a certain amount because the male ejaculate needs to carry a certain amount of sperm, not too much, not too few.

With that purpose absent from women, I can see how their ejaculate is not limited at all and can sometimes reach these incredible volumes.

If it was all "ejaculate" there would be a place to store that 10 to 100 times the volume that men ejaculate, and no one has ever found a structure that will hold a few hundred milliliters of fluid other than the urinary bladder.

The squirting you see in the porno movies is a "performance" and is urine. A few milliliters of milky secretions is their "ejaculate."

Dream on, guys! 😁 😁 😁 😁

BTW, the clitoris is not the female version of the penis. It's the other way around. The female sex organs are the default design. In the absence of male sex hormones in the womb, the external female sex organs will develop, regardless of chromosomes. Guys, did you know you began your life as a female? 😉

^^^^ Which is why there are "intersex" people as they are known who are genetically male, but have female external genitalia due to developmental and genetic disorders.

The big gush is NOT urine. I know what urine tastes like (yes, I am a pervert) and I know what female ejaculate tastes like (yes, I am a pervert).

I'm confused. If your ladyfriend's "big gush" is not urine, where is the liquid in the non-urine "big gush" stored in her body ? Is there a secret "bladder" hiding somewhere in my body that I don't know about ? Has medical science's anatomy and physiology specialty missed something all these years ? 😮

I have to agree with Susie and Paula on this. While we're all built differently, a female squirting a large amount of liquid from her vagina during orgasm would probably be the exception rather than the rule. Here's why I think that: the biological purpose of sex is reproduction. I said BIOLOGICAL, so please don't flame me for that! My main purpose of sex is fun, pleasure, and romance, etc. But our bodies evolved to reproduce our genes. So anyway, males ejaculate with force in order to deposit their sperm farther up into the female to increase the likelihood of fertilizing her egg. While the female orgasm isn't necessary for conception, it does help, by producing rhythmic contractions of the uterus that draw sperm up into the fallopian tubes. The whole design of the way our genitalia functions is to get the sperm and the egg together. It seems to me that the female gushing out a large amount of liquid at this time would push the sperm out of her vagina, conception would not take place, and none of us would be here. So being that this wouldn't be a beneficial trait in a woman from an evolutionary standpoint, I think that the woman who squirts large amounts of liquid at the moment of orgasm would be a rarity.

According to the book, it is a rarity. [I'd look it up if I could, but the book has long since been returned to the library.]

There are actually other developmental changes that occur over time that are only distantly related to reproducion. Many are related to overall health.

If I remember correctly, the production of the glandular secretions that make up the 'female ejaculate' may be designed to protect against bladder infections.

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If I remember correctly, the production of the glandular secretions that make up the 'female ejaculate' may be designed to protect against bladder infections.

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Yes indeed, female secretions have antibacterial properties. This also makes them hostile to sperm, which is why semen is so alkaline - it shields the sperm to some degree. Which is another reason I think that a large amount of "female ejaculate" would not be a commonly seen trait.

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thank you susie...i have many questions about pleasing a woman, and your info confirms its a two way street...maybe some of the women i have known have been too repressed...maybe thats part of it...because when i hear what you have to say...it sheds much needed light on the fact that women are no different than men when it comes to sexual pleasure...

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I'll tell you, women are just as horny as you guys, except, for the most part, we are more selective in who we will fuck. In most cases (far from all) you actually have to turn us on and interest us in some way, unlike many men who just need a tube to stick their dick into. Some women are repressed, TERRIBLY repressed, and I feel sorry for them because they could be having so much pleasure. We are all here today because of all our "repressed, conservative, uncool" ancestors who we think of as NOT being the horny bastards that we are today. W R O N G !!!!

I'll tell you another thing about pleasing a woman. YOU CAN"T DO IT THE SAME WAY EVERY TIME! You may think you have it down because you made us cum in 60 seconds one night, but the truth is, the next time you do the same thing, we might say, "what the fuck are you doing?" We aren't machines, and sometimes what makes us feel wonderful changes from one minute to the next, and what sends us into ecstasy one time might be painful or just annoying another night. You have to listen to us if you want us to have a good time. Yeah, I know sometimes we might sound bossy or just seem like a pain in the ass when you are doing us, but for the most part, we are just trying to help you achieve your macho goal (and we like that you have that goal because it's our's too) of making us cum.

Anyway, TALK TO US. We want you to make us cum even more than your macho egos want us to cum. We like to cum, but you won't always be successful in accomplishing that by doing it the same way that worked like a charm last time.

I should get about 50 Karma points for giving you men this important jewel of knowledge and wisdom. 😁 😁

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LOL.. I need someone with long fingers to reach mine.. but I know its there.. a few guys have managed... oooooooohhhhh how nice it feels...

The key here is patience and the ability to relax and let your body feel it. My GF took a while to learn to experience the sensation and was telling me "no it just won't happen". Well I did not give up and soon I could not keep her still on the bed she was twisting and turning and cumming all over the place. Next time I just might have to restrain her and see how crazy I can make her.....

Im surprised G-spots arent found that easily. Im glad im not alone 😃 no guy nor me has ever found mine. 😢 Heck no guy has ever made me orgasm either. 😢

I am also glad that im not alone. No guy has found my g-spot either

I have always like to play with my wife. However, after a short time, she wants me to get on her clit and bring her to an orgasm. One day, a friend of our was sitting a the living room floor with my wife. He started to rub her neck and shoulders. She just had on two pieces of clothes - a T-shirt and shorts. He worked his hands down towards her waist and moved his hands under her T-shirt. Moving his hands back upto her shoulders, her T-shirt came up to her boobs and stopped. He pulled the T-shirt off to the sides and the shirt raised upto her shoulders. He rubbed her neck and shoulders for about 5 minutes when he pulled her onto her back. Her boobs were full exposed - all of her all natural 34DDDs. He pulled off her shirt and started to rub her chest. She was enjoying every second of it and our friend was rolling his eyes in sheer pleasure. I was as excited more than I could remember. He worked his hands down to her shorts and she lifted her hips. The shorts were off and he was rubbing her mound. In seconds, a finger found it's way into her. He was rubbing upwards on her clit. He fingered her for more than 20 minutes when she began to cry out like I never had heard before. She said that was the biggest orgasm of her life. We all will remember that night.

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how many of you girls have foiund your G--spot.

i cant feel any difference and i swear the G--spot is illusive and dont exsist in my body

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I agree gynoslave. I do not believe that the G-spot exists as a body of tissue having nerves which when stimulated give pleasure, any more than the rest of the vaginal canal.

However, the described location where this fabled spot is said to exist is useful in pinpointing the place where the female urethra is closest to the front wall of the vagina and therefore the most appropriate place to stimulate the urethra without doing so with such instruments as urethral sounds or catheters.

The urethra is lined with glands such as the Skene's and the paraurethral glands which, when stimulated by a flow of urine release an alkaline fluid to counter the acidic content of urine, thereby protecting the urethral tissue.

Stimulating the area concerned, usually by rapid 'tapping' of the area with the pads of two fingers, or a vibrator, mimics the release of urine and can produce the fluid flow which is often described as female ejaculate.

In urination the paraurethral fluid is of course mixed with the urine and is usually indistinguishable, save when it is profuse and the urine may have some cloudiness. In stimulation of the area, without urination, the fluid is entirely different from urine in consistency, colour, taste etc.

The presence of the fluid in urine can fool the 'dipstick' method of urinalysis which is why a mid-stream (or 'clean') specimen of urine is needed for analysis and a patient is asked to urinate into the toilet - stop - urinate into the specimen container -stop - and finish into the toilet. The initial flow will have minimised the amount of paraurethral fluid in the sample.

The area of the vaginal canal where the G-spot is supposedly located is often described as being 'ribbed' or of a different consistency but the absence or presence of such a difference is no guide as to the existence or otherwise of the G-spot.

It's my submission, (and there will be opposing views) that the supposed G-spot is merely an area which, when contacted, transmits the stimulation to the urethra with resultant pleasure, rather than a pleasure producing zone in it's own right.

I've no real objection to the opposing views since the object and outcome of stimulating the area concerned is the most important, rather than the physiology involved. But please readers, don't 'flame' me - just contribute your own account.

Ladydocsin

Whilst the symptoms you describe are similar to having got a UTI they are in fact due to minor bruising of the urethral tissues through over vigourous or protracted stimulation.

The symptoms were (and probably still are) often diagnosed as cystitis, especially years ago when fewer people 'practised' sex before marriage and there was some vigourous activity on honeymoon when the problem was euphemistically called Honeymoon Cystitis.

No doubt also in that era men were even less caring than they reputedly are today, employing little or no foreplay and certainly no KY!

I have never had any luck with my G-spot until a friend of ours gave me a FULL body massage. I was totally naked. He rubbed down every inch of me before he he gave me an extensive breast examine. He rubbed and examined my all natural 34DDDs for about 20 minutes. This was getting me excited. He told me that he better check to see if anything was wrong with my vaginal area. He examined my labia for 10 minutes. By this time, he didn't need any lubrication to check my cavity. One of his large fingers found its was deep inside of me. I looked up and saw my husband watching us. He blew me a kiss and smiled. I smiled at him and closed my eyes. Our friend worked his finger slowly and deeply. It seemed liked 30 minutes went by when I started to feel something I never felt before. The intensity grew and grew. The next thing I knew, I was having one of the biggest orgasms of my life. It had to have lasted a full minute or more. Our friend then kissed my labia and nipples. This was one of the hottest evening I (we) have ever had.

Ladyj-

A very encouraging post, thank you so much for sharing.

I've taken careful notes of what you've said and will share with my partner. I suspect he'll be more than happy to try the method suggested next time we play. The next five (!) weeks can't go by fast enough for either of us!

Play On!

LadyDoc

If this elusive G-spot exists...I sure can't find it!...They say its spongy???? I've never felt anything like that in there! Haha! The only orgasms I've ever had came from clitoral stimulation.

Lady J

Of course I believe in Santa Claus. Don't you? Haven't seen him for a few weeks, so I assume he's 'prepping' the Easter Bunny - why else would he hop like that? Perhaps someone should produce a toy version - it could even wiggle 😄

The reason for mentioning the Times article was that I thought it might be interesting to some people that not only was a conservative, Establishment newspaper mentioning the g spot, but also saying it was a myth!

As a chap, I've never had a g-spot orgasm, but either I was pretty good at giving them to an ex or she always pissed herself laughing at my attempts :😃

I usually just let my husband try to find my elusive g spot when it comes to solo play i usually stick to clitoral stimulation.