My pediatrician (who also delivered every single person in my family, cousins included), gave me my very first vaginal exam. It was not hot, he did NOT really want to do it, but I was spotting for a month or more. I had not told my mother or anyone else. I just went to his office. I don't really remember the entire exam, only that he found a cyst. To disolve the cyst, He then prescribed heavy doses of birth control pills for the next month (or so).
I was 15? I did NOT follow through for the entire prescription.
However, he was a no nonsense, strict, stern (not mean) do what I say doctor. I do not have ANY fantasies about him.
Age isn't as important to me as attitude, but definitely prefer over 40 for play doc.
Really like the play doc to be no nonsense, doing this for your own good, stern, etc.
Edit: and do inappropriate things,…for my own good.