Fantasizing about being examined by an older male doctor

Definitely. In my fantasy it's always an older doctor but it could either male or female.

As an "older male" I'm delighted by the fem responses here. I have examined women of all ages & sizes, & I've had a great time with each. In some cases, it was overtly sexual (no intercourse), and in other cases the scenario was much more of a subtle matter, with me being very "official," while meeting the needs we both brought to the table.

I would enjoy an older doc. With long fat fingers.

I would enjoy an older doc. With long fat fingers.

You are definitely not a male, having your prostate examined.

Definitely, I think that enhances the power exchange that is a natural part of any exam.

Older male doctor. Better older than 60 yrs old

Definitely. I would love to be examined by an old doctor. The big age difference and knowing how many patients he has examined over the years will make me feel incredibly vulnerable and submissive. Even the thought that he has probably been practicing medicine before I was even born will automatically render me submissive.

Some of my most memorable exams in RL have been by older male docs and when I role play as a Doc that's normally the role (which is great because I am.)

I do. I find older men more experienced and comforting

The older doc is definitely experienced. He knows exactly what he is doing.

Yes the family doctor we had in our family was old man with beard. I remember I was thinking he was so big. My mother take me to as a small child, to I was 14 years. Then I changed to a female Doctor.

As a doctor that has passed the half century mark, I am glad to hear the widespread preference and acceptance of an older Doc. I take my role in these adventures seriously and do my best to make sure my patients are well taken care of. I think this is where proper “bedside manner” plays a huge role in the experience.

Yes definitely. Older the better.

The older doc is definitely experienced. He knows exactly what he is doing.

also, ptfordoc: "I find older men more experienced and comforting"

Beautifully said!

I would love to be examined by an old doctor. The big age difference and knowing how many patients he has examined over the years will make me feel incredibly vulnerable and submissive.

What good points, tara99 (post #67 )! You are so right to mention that an erotic factor in receiving a physical is the feeling of being, well, 'processed' (as on a production line)! Likewise, that can be part of the sadistic pleasure of watching or performing the processing! I'm reminded of the recent Zity thread on 'sex machines'.

- Ken

The older docs in real life always gave shots in the butt.

I love the submissive feeling I get when I’m a patient, well, as long as there’s nothing seriously wrong with my health of course.

As far as fantasy though, I don’t fantasize about male doctors. But age does make a difference. For example my first DRE was in college and the doctor was a very young man and very inexperienced. The procedure was awkward for us both. The next DRE I had a few years later was by a middle age male doctor who was firm and professional and experienced. If I’m fantasizing about a doctor I’ll definitely think of one who knows what he’s doing so probably an older doctor.

The older docs in real life always gave shots in the butt.

@sundaybrunch ..... Yes, they do...... and we do in play as well.........

As an older medic who who has a particular slant towards being in complete control it is always more exciting when paired with a younger submissive patient. Surrendering to experience and allowing that complete loss of control frees a patient to allow any investigation and freedom to express all emotion. This applies in live situations and also online.

In my opinion a doctor should be in control, an authoritarian figure that tells you rather than asks, that is how i was taught to respect doctors, and other elders as a boy, so that is how i expect a doctor to be, it follows that is exactly what i fantasize too, though a young male doc is also great, he too should be in control

Reliving my teenage exams at the pediatrician is what I'm all about, and my doctor was a man in his 50s (which seems old to a teenager, even compared to my mom who was in her early 40s when she attended those exams). Back then, gray hair to me meant old (even though now I have a few of my own).

Yes, being examined by an older Dr, immediately puts me in a sub frame of mind. They know they are superior and their word goes or else!

On my side (as the Doc), I have had a great deal of success as an older doc, when I could still advertise on Craig's list, that was very fruitful. I always stated that I was "older, very firm, no nonsense." The women appeared to like that a lot. They knew the exam was going to be "invasive," that there would be a complete exam, including vaginal and rectal exam, plus whatever else I decided. I did not have sex with my "patients."

I was actually surprised at how many women wanted this, and also surprised at how compliant they were during the exams. I reserved the enemas as a "surprise," always gave them, but none of the women refused them.

Older male playdocs are my preference. I like the detached, dominant manner you get with gentle but firm directions coming from an older man. Sexually I fancy men of a wide age range, but in the medfet context the power dynamics of older doctor/ younger patient get me every time. Must be because as a teenager my doctor was always a middle aged or older man. These days our age difference may not be so great, but I fall into submissive "boy" mode quickly and enjoy it thoroughly. That said I like examining men as playdoc of any age.

Yes still love it.

Oh yes that is something I would prefer! If the doctor is older than me then it seems more realistic to me! And not to forget how you feel as a younger patient, being examined by an older doctor! For me I get more in the role of the submissive patient, because doctor knows best!

I would like him to be nice and to be sorry that he needs to do uncomfortable exams. But he will do them!

Actually happened to me many years ago. I was 16 and I think the doctor was over 70. Said he was going to retire soon. My mom was too busy to come with me. Because he was older and a doctor I did what he said. It was embarrassing. Let's just say that I think he took his time and was more detailed then I thought he would be. I was young and didn't figure it out until a few years later.

Anna

When i was younger i used to think about male or female doctor examining me and the examination was going further than it should,ie playing

with my erection and nipples asking me how did it feel and did i like it.wouldnt mind it happening now though by a younger doctor male or female

Annab Hi do you think he was exploiting your body being you were alone with him? Did you feel he was being appropriate with the exam. If you can send me a message ! thank you

Ohhh yes! I prefer at LEAST 15 years older than me. I just turned 40. My partner is 55. But that age range has been consistent with me since my late teens really. I dated men in their 50’s then as well. I’ve never really been attracted to anyone my age.

But particularly with being examined. I want him older, very stern/strict, matter of fact, and thorough. Large hands and broad shoulders are a plus!

I also enjoy some age play so I suppose it makes sense that I’m drawn to older doctors. Older men are just so sexy!