Fantasizing about being examined by an older male doctor

Absolutely I want him to be stern and examine the old fashion way and be in charge the whole time

Older mature men are the hottest thing ever.

I always fantasise about a stern older doc examining me, he has very firm large hands making internals un-comfortable.

For me 50+ would be ideal but not ‘old man’ as in little old frail man. He needs to be healthy, dominant, completely in control and have all his senses about him! 😃

@MoominMumma Hey, I resent.. uh.. resemble that remark! ? Well I like to think I do. ?

And not that I’m necessarily looking for a woman younger than me, but it’s nice to know that women like you are out there!

Oh heck - absolutely!! I would always want it to be an older man auscultating me, listening to my little heart....palpating me, touching me, taking care of me. All that experience and knowledge....such a turn on ???

Well… I like being examined by a stern male and, likewise, like to be stern when I give my female patients an exam in our play sessions.

I feel like I learn from doctors in real exam situations when I am sitting on the exam table, on the crinkly paper with nothing on but a gown and getting my annual check up.

Then I like to share what I learned with my submissive female patients.??

In play exams, I've been examined by male doctors ranging from a few years younger than me, to maybe 40 years older than me, and have had some really good (and a few underwhelming) experiences on both ends of the spectrum. My best experiences have been with one particular doc that is basically the same age as me. If I'm fantasizing, usually the doctor is significantly older than me, but it's more about a strict, controlling approach to the exam than it is about age.

When I think of the other side of the equation though, when fantasizing about being a play doc, or actually giving a play exam, I think I could only get into the right dominant/controlling headspace if the patient was a bit younger than me.

Definitely! I'm in my early 20s and I've had an older male doctor before in real life. So that makes the fantasy a bit more erotic experience. Being undressed and exposed while being examined by someone half or 3 times my age, plus they have lots of experience and know what they are doing so being instructed while in such a state makes it feel very submissive.

For me the exam is about being submissive. Having an older physician, and for me it is a male, is reassuring and more in keeping with my preferences. I always expect to be undressed. The question is just what the process will include: a gown with briefs on; a gown but naked underneath, just my briefs on and lowered at some point, or briefs on and told to remove at some important point. Not sure there is much point to having an exam if the doctor doesn't see all of me!

Yes, I do. Submission is a major element of my fascination with med-fet. Earlier in my life it definitely entailed an older male doctor but now that I'm almost 70, it's hard to find that many doctors who are still practicing at that age.

I don't discriminate. It's not their sex appeal that counts but their manner, the way they can make me feel embarrassed and excited at the same time and experience counts. A young doctor would probably be inept at the psychodynamics of it all... maybe...

Well I'm not so young any more myself, but yes I have always had this fantasy and I used to have an older male doctor and it was a great feeling getting physicals done by him, however, he retired and now I have a younger woman.

Indeed, and if I'm lucky, I'll get to live that out in the next month or so.......

When I was 15 and 16 in the mid 1980s, I was examined for late puberty and size issues by an endocrinologist in his late 50s.

The doctor looked older and had grey hair and glasses. During the exam he was professional and very meticulous and detailed about measuring my genitals...penis and testicles. In addition to an orchidometer which he pressed against my testicles, he used a tapemeasure to get the circumference and length of my erect penis and commented that it's "a little smaller than most boys your age"

I don't think he crossed any illegal lines, as my mom had signed several documents, and there was no level of sexual abuse involved. But I'm sure there was some level of sexuality tied into it for him to be asking those questions and measuring my boyish genitals and talking about my puberty while I'm laying naked on the table with a hardon.

The whole thing was terribly embarrassing at that age, but very much a turnon now...especially knowing that he was an older male doctor touching me and examining my body. I prefer younger guys to play with, but the age difference seems to make this fetish more arousing to me.

My favorite doctor when I was younger was an older man. In my fantasies, that is how I see my doctor.

An older one ( it is almost imposibible now except in dreams but several years ago it could happen!) with a stern voice and face and rude manners and old fashion way of examination with guys naked completely -no socks, no jewelleries, no watch, and of course no brief) from the beginning to the end even when it is not required for medical reasons as the test of eyes and very authoritarian , wanting a complete and quick obedience to all his instructions and to see me bare arse front and back for a long time.

I only fantasize about being examined by an older male doctor. For me, I tend to equate age with experience authority. A difference in age also adds to the power imbalance in the exam room. Where I tend to be deferential to people older than me, I find it easier to brush off people who are my age or younger. But maybe there are effective ways younger play docs can establish power and authority?

I'm a doctor who is older, but I am not stern or bad mannered. I just try to keep a good professional demeanor. Although 63, I'm anything but frail, having been blessed with a very strong and robust body. Most people guess I am 50 years old tops. Am I the object of anyone's fantasy? that I can't tell you, for I do not know. I can't say I've ever fantasized about being examined by older male doctor. I can however admit to fantasies about being bound and examined by female health professional who enjoys old docs that fancy themselves as having really hot bods!

Yes, definitely, I love being examined by older male doctors in play scenarios. My imagination about the perfect play doc is exactly an older male, strict but gentle in the same time, with some sadistic mind if possible.

I completely agree with most of the others.

In my mind an examination feels more professional done by an older male doctor. In a perfect world, he exudes experience and calm and his voice is firm but gentle, as is his touch. If he was dominant in his treatment of me, that wouldn't go amiss either.

I definitely don't go in for the 'grumpy old man' type.

Yup. In my fantasies the doc is always a silver fox type.

Hey girls, I am a silver fox ?

As a mature, gentle play doctor, myself, I confirm many girls do...I pattern the doctor play after my wife’s obgyn...he is funny, makes her feel comfortable, and in non serious situations...always makes her laugh.

THAT drives me crazy...that a man can have her disrobe, touch her, and she smiles during part of the exam (like she was on a date with him).

That’s why I laugh and joke with my play patients...that’s what THEY fantasize about, I am told, and we ALL love it?

May have answered this before long ago - but can confirm yes...I do still fantasize about being examined about an older male doc sometimes... :p Probably stems from my favorite GP I’ve ever had being much older, as well as my cardiologist!

I also fantasize about this. His age means he has a lot of experience which means he knows what’s best for me. He would do whatever he deemed necessary to make sure I was healthy.

Yes. I love playing the role of sweet, naive little boy that's being dropped by her mom for his annual doctor check up with an older lady doctor. Being young and naive, I would let her do whatever she wants as long as she declares me healthy 😃

I have to admit, i do fantasize about having the doc who used to examine me when I was in my 20's examine me now. The same way he did then. Only I'd wear a jockstrap now. Looking back, i wish i would have worn one to my physicals then. When he would lower my briefs to check for hernia and check my balls.

Of course. I love being examined by an older male doctor in med play scenario. I much prefer older man, over the age of 40.

My 20 yr old self would have answered differently, but now that I'm more mature, my fantasy doctor has matured with me.

I prefer an older woman, I want her to be strict

Least likely to be concerned with modesty, so yes, there's good to be derived from being examined by an older male doctor.

Older - fine. Male - no thanks.