Enemas and Sexuality | Women & Enemas

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I've been thinking, why are most women put off by enemas?

I know so many men, who are afraid to broach their wives, lovers, girlfriends with the subject. And rightly so. A woman could be totally freaked out by the thought and never look at you quite the same again.

I have always thought Spanker's have it easier than enema enthusiasts. Spanking can easily worked into a relationship, a swat here, a giggle there. If a woman doesn't care to continue or is annoyed, she'll say 'Stop'.

Maybe she'll think you're overly frisky, but not weird, freaky or perverted. I know many professional ladies, Dominas, etc. They will F*** you, S*** you, bleed you, beat you, but enemas "EW"

My thoughts on why women do not like to give and receive enemas.

Women are Romantics. Enemas = S***, poo, poop, yuk.

Years ago enemas were regularly given to children when they were sick & sometimes as punishment. A mature woman may tie the two together, enemas & children and thus be put off. I'm sure if a woman even thinks of an enema, it conjures up a messy, nasty, I have to cleanup after, thought. Many women are not into or are curious but embarrassed by the thought of anal play, let alone enemas.

Women in general, at least in this country, are brought up thinking romantic. "Some day my Prince will come"

How romantic can an enema be? You (I hope) and I know enemas can be given in a sensual, romantic way but the average woman? I don't think so.

Naked or dressed in sexy lingerie she is giving her husband, lover, boyfriend an enema. She caresses him, checks the water flow, murmurs sweet nothings, clicks the clamp on, a kiss on his rear, monitors the amount given, a lick there, clicks the clamp off, and so on. When the receiver has his full and wanders off to the bathroom. She sits, twiddling her thumbs or cleans up and waits.

Enemas are not romantic.

These are just a few thoughts, I thought I'd share. Have a wonderful day.

4711koeln

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4711koeln

So. I don’t think the expulsion part is at all sexy. That’s just me.
However. I love the nozzle insertion, and the warm water flowing in….i get super insanely wet.

I would think, no pun was intended !! - am i right ??

rick1616

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rick1616

Look at my post above I made 2. Days ago

In summary, everyone that encountered our anal sphincter, was usually in a hurry, never relaxed our anus, over did the amount of fluid, did not tolerate any sort of arousal and for the most part, did not warm the lube. Also, they usually left as soon as possible.

Tabitha32

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Tabitha32

Some people love enemas. If you connect with someone on here don't think on the first visit the two of you will be playing with enemas. I mean yes it could happen but most of the time you need or I need to get to know the other girl. That is just me. I only have had one guy beg me to let him give me enemas and I refused. This brings up safety as well. I had a girl message me and told me that she was at a certain hotel near the airport. She was only interested in enemas. She gave me her room number. How crazy is that? I just happened to have a friend he and I worked together at a major ISP and he was working at the hotel. So I sent him a message and asked who was in that room. Again it was two guys. So no I did not go or fall for it. Then there was the girl I spoke of in another post who we connected and had sex. It was only after a few days that we did enemas even knowing that each of us liked them. It's not like you have a girl over and right away tell her you want to shoot water up her ass. I say that because of a memory. I had a pool where I used to live and I had a friend over. I knew she was into enemas also. She backed up against the hole where the filtered water shot out. It was funny because my pool was heated and it started with letting that water rush against our clits and getting off. That ended up with her deciding she was going to try it as an enema. One thing she forgot about was where will she let it out. She didn't think of that while she was filling. Then she had to hold it and run across the deck to the house, run down the hall to the bathroom. It only took her that one time to figure out that she needed to take enemas in the bathroom and get cleaned out before using the pool for enemas. When she did that I could not stop laughing. It was exciting to do it because we were outside and had a high fence around the pool. I had another friend who was bi and used my pool while I was gone on a trip for a few days. She told me that her boyfriend tried to do her in the pool. He gave up and said that was too much work. Lol