In 40 years of being together, my husband and I have had moments of incredible intimacy that I never dreamed of during our wedding night when both of us, we sometimes joke, were babes in the woods sexually. Actually, we discovered that wasn’t so terrible. As newlyweds, we had wonderfully memorable moments learning!!
At the same time, when two people vow to love and care for each other in sickness and in health, there are also levels of intimacy that neither of us on our wedding night could ever think of happening in our lives.
Hence, when I was critically injured two months into our marriage and needed home nursing and TLC, including my husband learning to give me enemas because the pain meds were making my insides miserable, we discovered a level of intimacy that, looking back, strengthened our love for each other. I know this would sound weird to a lot of women, especially, but an enema bag and the right person giving can result in intimate experiences beyond measure.
Now, whether that’s as good as or better than great sex, I’ll leave that up to you! Every body is different.