Why does gyn excite men so much ?

Maybe 'cose it implicate that the woman is in the position wich expose her most.

I have to agree with dr gyno, its about how vulnerable the woman is. The fact that she is allowing a stranger to touch her in places she doesn't want to be touched like that, but doing it anyway. Great fantasy, in real life however the clinical nature and good reason for having such an exam makes it all quite reasonable.

Cuz you're exposing yourself to a stranger, subjecting yourself to invasive probing without question, that most women won't even let hier husbands do

Because my wife refuses to have me accompany her to her examination. She is squeamish about anything sexual and desires to keep the thing private. I am curious about anything from which I am excluded. I didn't like her male doc for years. She finally found out that he exam didn't have to be painful or dine roughly - she thn changes docs to a woman and has had less painful exams ever since.

To me the excitement (turn on) is the fact that once the woman enters the exam room she basically loses control and becomes submissive to the doctor. She enters the doctor's office and is most likely nervous. She pays money for the exam and then has to sit and wait for the impending intrusion. I have watched a girlfriend and my wife be examined and the most erotic part is not the actual exam, but the conversation and the give and take before the exam between the patient and the doctor. My wife prefers male doctors, which gives me a little concern, but I have watched her mannerisms and watched her smile and tilt her head as the doctor comes in and she shakes his hand and makes small talk. Everyone in the room knows what is going to happen and it is fascinating to watch my wife kind of squirm on the table. She keeps her hands in her lap and her feet crossed in sort of defensive manner all the while knowing that she will ultimately have to submit. She does not want to, but she knows she will ultimately have to remove her clothes and allow a strange man to touch, poke and prod her in places that she would never dare to let others do. From a doctor's perspective, to talk to a patient and watch her as she anticipates the directive to disrobe. There is something very erotic about the human interaction as two people converse about a procedure when one has to submit to the other and allow herself to be exposed. Once sufficient small talk has taken place the inevitable directive to remove all your clothes is soon to come. During the last appointment I went to the doctor finally stated, "you are here for your annual correct?" My wife stumbled with her words and awkwardly sort of slapped her own knee as she finally worked out a yes. He told her to remove everything, put the gown on with the opening up front and that he would be back. It is not as much of a turn on for me to think of my wife being examined by another female, but I think the interaction between male and female makes it quite erotic, because of the unspoken submissiveness of it.

My medfet began when I was a kid. In seventh grade in our sex education classes the instructor went into detail about a gyn exam, I think to scare the girls since she said once they were sexually active they would have to submit to these exams.

having never had seen porn or a naked girl and getting to the point where I was interested in girls, imagining them undressing, having their breasts felt up and then a metal tool inside their most private of areas stretching them open turned me on so much. I've been fascinated and turned on by gyno ever since.

I want to be the doctor! I learn something new every visit. My gf likes me being there holding her hand. We have fun at home afterwards.

As a straight man I find womens bodies very attractive. And the US is very prude. What better way to to see explore and experience a womans body then when she is really being examined. to be the examiner is the pinnacle of this experience for a male with this interest I would think.

So agree with lots of comments on this subject its the thought of the lady on her own legs up in stirrups being examined by the doctor and if youre lucky a nice nurse to assist being told to remove her panties and pad if shes using one gown on then being probed internally.very erotic so love it.

The thoughts of nudity and the intamate nature of things .i like going with my partner .it turns me on for about a week and the sex is good and i cant get enough.so those are my thoughts.

For me it starts on the drive there, seeing what she is wearing to the visit, then walking in, smelling that hospital smell, and then in the waiting room, listening to the sounds, the nurses walking about, wondering what's going on behind those closed doors.....then her name being called, and your heart rate hits an all time high....walking into the room, seeing the table, the stirrups, your partner getting undressed, getting in position....its a potent cocktail.

I am lucky enough to be able to go with my partner to most of her exams, and the staff are enlightened enough to allow me in there without any problems.

The vulnerability of a woman at any age, the position and the exposure to the doctors and nurses.

Just the realization of total vulnerability and submission to a "stranger" is the turn on for me. I love to think about what goes on in the doctor's office. I don't need to be there, but just using my imagination is a big turn on. My wife knows about my fetish and plays it up after every exam. I just wish my wife went to a male doctor like she used to (in this case a dirty old man doctor). I know he enjoyed his job based on what I have heard about him and his bedside manner. That made my turn on that much better.

For me it's knowing that my wife is being seen and touched by another man. She knows that I love it when she goes to the doctor and she plays it up and she always tell me about the exam afterwards.

For me the most exciting is seeing the female body.

I've been less into it because my SO is less into it. I was initially into it just given how intimate areas are touched and examined.

For me it's the thought of a woman having to expose herself to a stranger to be examined ... the control you give up to the doctor.

I love this topic, and the candid replies. I think though, that to assume that this fetish excites men more than women isn't true. I can attest to the fact, both as a woman, and as a highly skilled lesbian, that most women get turned on just by being spread open. It's a very intense feeling to have the cool air touch all of those hot, wet, sensitive places that are usually closed away.... Which of course makes you hotter and wetter.... Then to have someone slide a cold metal speculum inside of you, spread you wide open, and lock it in place for several minutes.... When you feel that exposed, your instinct is to cover-up, to close-up, to close your legs.... But instead you have to "scoot down," open your legs wider. Once the speculum is in you, you can't sit-up, you can't close your legs.... The only thing that you can do is submit, while a stranger looks inside of you, and touches your most intimate parts. Now imagine being a woman, and examining another woman, and knowing what she's experiencing, and how to make it more intense, plus getting turned on on a whole other level by looking at her, and touching her..... I know a lot of lesbians who are healthcare workers, and it's not for the attractive scrubs.

I get excited because my wife is submitting to things that she wouldn't normally allow me to do.

@NotJuliet, Thanks for sharing your perspective on this as the female and how different it is to be spread open in the stirrups.

I always think of it as men get excited about what they can never have 😄

For me it is all about another man (yes it needs to be a male Dr) examining my GF and her submitting to this.

The whole control and submission to the Dr by both the woman and the man is very erotic to me.

It can be equally arousing to either be in the exam room and watching or to be made to sit outside and only able to imagine what may be happening.

There are many references to sex in the gynae exam, the undressing, the spreading of legs, the 'foreplay' of breast and bimanual exam and then the insertion of the 'penis' the phallic speculum to open up the vagina.

The use of stirrups to ensure the legs remain open is very appealing to anyone who has sub tendencies.

I once asked a GF how a speculum felt, and she replied to say it was like being fucked by a huge dildo and she felt stretched for some time afterwards.

A different GF once told me about an exam and she admitted that the submission to a man in authority was a huge turn on. She said she got very turned on during her exam and "the Dr could have fucked her right there and then if he had wanted to".

I wonder if the reason that men are often banned from the exam room is that the Dr and/or the woman is concerned about the man becoming very jealous at witnessing the woman submitting to another man in what could be seen as a very sexual context. Neither the Dr or the woman wan to have to deal with a jealous man.

It is definitely the exposure and submission to a Dominant figure though that really is the underlying issue that makes it so erotic.

Yes for me as well, it has to be a male Dr. because it’s all about another man examining my wife and her submitting to this.

I also agree the whole control and submission to the Dr by both the woman and the man is very erotic to me.

I find it to be a mix of emotions between excitement and jealousy going on in my head for weeks leading up to the exam and then the day of the exam is almost over the top emotionally!

A second to Hoss's comments for starters. The examiner walks a tight rope between providing an essential health service and a sexual abuser. If he retracts the hood fine but if he touches the clitoris he crosses the line. Performing a digital exam how long can his fingers stay inside or more back and forth before that line is crossed? Can he offer any type of complement without it being flirting? I can imagine their are times when the doctor finds his patient attractive and crosses the line in his own mind and times when his patient wonders did he linger longer than needed for his own enjoyment. Women are granting more access to their bodies when they visit their gyne than they often do for their husbands or lovers.

For me it's the wide open submissive position. But I can indulge in that at home, for the actual "real" exam, it is more of a concern for her health. Just my two cents.

How to convince wife to get a gyno exam by male doctor ? I m so horny to watch those fantasy.. any idea ?

I think it's part and parcel of medfet. If you have a foot fetish you'll undoubtedly enjoy anything about the feet. If you have a medfet you are aroused by the examination. I don't think it's necessary watching a female with her feet in the air.

I've never seen anything like this. I don't usually post links to videos, but this uncensored Japanese "exam" is *everything* I'd like to see performed on my wife. Measurements, vaginal temperature, smoothing her pussy lips, and the truly amazing part: in close-up, gently touching and caressing her perfect bright pink clit with a delicate swab until it's fully engorged, then using a somewhat larger swab to stir and sample her juices from deep within her equally exquisitely sculpted vagina.

https://xhamster.com/videos/dr-hruka-fd1965-1202171

I know this is far from realistic, as a gyn exam. (And even so, if I'd been filming it, I'd have asked the lovely actress playing the doctor to keep her own panties on, and given her a little more practice with the instruments.) Moreover, nothing like this is likely to happen with my Japanese wife (unless we find the perfect MedFet playmate.)

But seeing these procedures performed on this completely naked young Japanese beauty, who has what I think the most perfectly formed vagina I've ever seen, is incredibly exciting.

Why is it so exciting (to me, anyway)? I love her total vulnerability and trust in the gentle doctor, who is quite open to giving her patient sexual pleasure as she performs the exam. It's this same feeling of exposure and vulnerability under the eyes and hands of a good erotic massage provider, with whom I have true and well-established rapport, who genuinely enjoys slipping down the towel, seeing and touching me, and giving me pleasure, that is one of the most pleasant things in life. (That's been my good fortune many times.)

I love mutually pleasuring encounters, too... but just receiving, from a skilled and affectionate professional, has its own kind of magic.

For me, it’s the intimacy and vulnerability aspect. I love the idea of someone being vulnerable and the doctor seeing/examining the most intimate areas

Yes for me as well, it has to be a male Dr. because it’s all about another man examining my wife and her submitting to this.

I also agree the whole control and submission to the Dr by both the woman and the man is very erotic to me.

I find it to be a mix of emotions between excitement and jealousy going on in my head for weeks leading up to the exam and then the day of the exam is almost over the top emotionally!

I can relate to your feelings... for me it's a control thing, though a bit abstract.