Why does gyn excite men so much ?

I'll go along with what Jeffe has said below.. the fantasy is much better than the reality of it all.

Curious 101

The vulnerability of a woman at any age, the position and the exposure to the doctors and nurses.

Like many have posted the vulnerability is something i find erotic. I also just enjoy the strictly medical side, the female body is amazing. You have to appreciate it. Most men don't understand how intricate it is.

Don't know why - it just does. Gynecology, especially male doctor-female patient excites me now and has for most of my life. The thought of a woman allowing someone, often a total stranger, to totally and intimately explore every part of her body is a highly erotic scenario.

Like Nutcase said..I just don't know why..but it does. I found this out many years ago after picking my wife up after her annual examination. I was young and didn't have any idea what went on during the exam. We were riding home when she made a comment about the doctor being a bit rough on her. I ask her what she meant and she said when he had his fingers up her. I made her tell me exactly what went on and I was turned on and get that way every time she is examined.

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Don't know why - it just does. Gynecology, especially male doctor-female patient excites me now and has for most of my life. The thought of a woman allowing someone, often a total stranger, to totally and intimately explore every part of her body is a highly erotic scenario.

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I really loved Nutcase simple answer i think it really touches and condenses the most important things about the gynecological exam fascination! a karma for that!

The idea of cold, steel probing into and opening up a woman's most private parts, those things she is taught from girlhood to hide, cover and keep secret...well damn, how anyone who's even REMOTELY Dom can't get turned on by that is beyond me.

Like it because my GF loves the fantasy and exposing to the doctor.

Probably a combination of things. I like my wife to wear a skirt when she goes for an exam. The sight of her fully clothed from the waist up - and naked down - with the skirt gathered around her hips makes me incapable of thinking of anything else for days!

My wife had her yearly exam a few months ago and boy has it changed our sexlife. She came home with an ear 2 ear smile.This is her 4th year going to the same gyno and every year she would come home and nothing would be said and I would never questioned her.

This year she told me a little of the conversation and questions (G rated version I asume)that her gyno asked.It looks like she was turned on by the questions and the over all exam.She played it off pretty good till we were in bed then I noticed a BIG change once I mentioned that big ear 2 ear smile when she got home.I started to talk about how her gyno seeing her sexy body and thats all it took cause she had a multiple orgasm and it has not stopped. I also get very excited talking dirty and seeing her have a huge orgasm.

Loving every moment !!

Does any one have any ideas on what went on in that office?

I dont know if I should go with her on her next appointment or just wait till she gets home.....

As a woman, it is very interesting to hear the male perspective. For many women, a gynecological exam is dreaded. For one, there is always some little fear that the doctor will find something wrong. Secondly, it is a little embarrassing to sit, naked under flimsy paper, waiting for the doctor to come in the room. The exam itself is usually no big deal, although the pap test is uncomfortable. I guess what I'm saying is that usually the gyn exam has nothing to do with sex or a turn-on for most women and yet men find it exciting. Interesting to learn why it turns men on!

For me its the idea that they are so exposed and vulnerable as the doctor carries out the exam on their most intimate womanly bits especially if the medic is male.

I agree with Trebor..

Sadly, my partner has never allowed me to watch an exam, but the thought of her spreading her legs for a stranger, and letting him or her touch her and insert fingers and and a speculum is very erotic. As soon as she returns home I fuck her, enjoying the extra sloppiness of the lube left behind by the doc.

The bond formed between the doctor and patient, the trust,

For me the most exciting is seeing the female body. I think of how it would be to be right up there and playing and licking her all over the vagina and anus. I guess the other thing for me is the medical setting. (I love butts)

A true story. Why I got into gyn.

My very pretty 18 year old girlfriend, who was a student nurse at the time, had to attend the family planning clinic to get a new batch of the pill back in 1989. She was waring a long skirt and a shirt. In the exam room the nurse asked her to remove her bra and knickers, but leave her shirt and skirt on. I was with her right up until the very nervous and a bit creepy looking male doctor, about 45 years old, walked in and immediately looked my gilfriend up and down and obviously liked what he saw judging by the look on his face. He asked me to leave the room. When my girlfriend asked if I could stay, he looked me in the eye and told me it was bad practice to allow anyone in the room durirng an intimate exam. With my heart pumping, knowing that he would soon be asking my girl to hitch up her skirt, open her shirt and get a good look at her slightly hairy, but neat pussy and feel her 34B breasts, I left the exam room. Shaking I went straight into the toilet and masturbated like crazy. From that moment I was hooked on all things gyn.

My girlfriend later told me that the whole examination was very embarrassing and she felt very uncomfortable, as the doctor had no chaperone. When he examined her breasts, she said that he was stroking her nipples and breasts rather than palpating them and even though, in order to get the pill, she was booked in for a Pap smear, he only performed a full vaginal and anal inspection and pelvic with her skirt lifted up around her waist and using no lube. This of course turned me on even more and I regularly think about the occasion and imagine I was the lucky doctor who saw his unethical oportunity and took it.

I think my feeling about my wife going to her GYN is not excited really, but aggravated at the power that the GYN has over a women. They take their clothes off for them in fact my wife told me that her doctor helped her off with her bra then helped her put it on again. Then he had her remove her panties for her vaginal exam.

My wife had a hard time of getting pregnant the first time so it was every month she was going to her GYN and that was just before the time that the doctors were letting the guys go with their wife’s to the exams. I was always agitated when I found out my wife was going to the doctors, because I had this urge to see her exposed and she was too shy to do this for me, but at the Doctor’s visits she would tell me how she was nude and walked to different places in the office with nothing on.

I wanted to see her doing that and I could not go. Then when the husbands could go with their wife’s it took my Wife’s GYN to tell her he wanted me to come with her to her GYN exams because of insurance purposes. He got a discount when the spouse was there.

It go so that when my wife went to her GYN exam she was so comfortable with her doctor that with me there she just stripped nude to be examined because she did not like the gowns.

I find the premise of gyno exams exciting because of the accepted compliance to the Doctor and the acquiescence to explicit indecency. Women are culturally expected to be modest and restrain from exposing their privates to others. In the scenario of a gynecological exam though, the female obliges someone else’s desires for her to take off all her clothes to purposefully have a stranger see and examine her breasts, vagina and anus. It is the control that the Doctor is afforded to look at and touch the intimate sexual parts of a woman’s body. More so than anything though, the woman complies with the directions to place her genitalia at the edge of the exam table with her legs knowingly opened to divulge her vagina to a stranger in this embarrassing provocative position. Then it is that she permits and accepts for her vagina and rectum being relinquished to the Doctor to be penetrated by instruments and fingers. It is all about the essence of having a woman undressing and surrendering the intimate sexual parts of her body to let someone else do what they want to have control. It is very exciting to see my wife in the stirrups exposing her sex to a Doctor and her 'submission' to them to inspect and probe her female privates.

Agree with most other posts. The excitement for me comes from the submission of it and that for medical reasons the female can not reject from the doctor putting fingers in her vagina and especially turning me on--in the rectum-- which is usually the most forbidden and some partners don't even get to do it to their women.

In a way, it's a bit like showing off a flashy car or similar, in that you can look and admire, but you can't have. Having said that, I'd find it extremely erotic if she came home with the doctor's semen dripping from her vagina.

The thought of my wife or any other woman under going such an exam in excites me. It is knowledge that they allow the most private area of their body to be totally exposed to a complete stranger who pokes, prods and inserts medical instruments whilst they are lying there in such an undignified and vulnerable position.

I think its the power and control that the doctor has especially if they are male to have the woman undress for him under the guise that he is going to perform an extremely intimate medical procedure.

The thought of a naked woman spread legged is obviously very erotic and my b/f & husband would always ask to go, but then my doctors would never allow it, which was a shame because I would have loved it, but my Sister who is also a nudist and has no problem sitting on the beach with her legs wide open, was terrified having it done. Now my niece has qualified we all go to her, she does not have a problem with partners watching. In fact she checks the men at the same appointment.

It is the position that is lovely. Legs spread and feet in the stirrups totally helpless. The area is normally private, but the doctor is allowed to see everything.

There have been all sorts of answers to this thread. The basic reason is that guys are visual in their stimulation. They like looking at naughty bits.

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In the real life setting I enjoy watchng the exam unfold. I go with my gf from time to time and it starts as we enter the exam room. How is the room set up....stirrups pulled out or still in the table...the placing of the instruments...gown location, and so forth. I like to watch her reactions knowing what is about to happen.

During the actual exam I like to observe...not just the procedures themselves..but the doctors actions as he performs the exam...and her reaction to what he is doing. Even with the same doctor the exam is a bit different each time. Different nurse perhaps..or maybe his fingers are a bit deeper for the internal....the stirrups a bit wider...or her butt a bit lower on the table than usual. Sometimes a rectal...sometimes not.

It makes for better play as well...we usually discuss the exam afterwards....what was different....if a different time in her cycle how did things feel to her...etc. And then we incorporate some of the new things she experienced into how i examine her. Then mental is just as important as the physical I think in a good play exam

For me, it's just the pure love of exploring my Wife's body. No matter how often I get to examine her, it's special and sexy.

Another aspect of it is that, she gives me so much trust. She lets me open her up and take my time with her body. While she has no interest in doing this and is just humoring me. The bond that's created is very intense.

"For me, it's just the pure love of exploring my Wife's body. No matter how often I get to examine her, it's special and sexy."

Indeed it is so. Spec-fan, I couldn't have said it better.

Quite simply, men are fascinated by by gynecological exams on their wives and girlfriends because they are jealous, horny pigs who usually never get as good a view of their partner's internal private parts as the physician who is basically a stranger who gets to do it all day long. 😁 😁 😁 😁

For me it's the .. permission of it all. One of the rewards of sexual intimacy is the permission to explore your lover's body, and a play exam is a sexual act that refines this to an extreme.

The reluctance or embarrassment on the part of the patient is like the nervousness of a new lover; it's exciting in itself to cross boundaries. So it's like a gift from patient to playdoc: I'm going to give you unfettered access to my body, to indulge any way you like.

Partly, the presumption of it all is intoxicating. Someone posted something around here about returning for a foll-wup checkup (on a cyst or something), and the doctor decided not even to have the patient climb up into the stirrups, but just had her set her feet apart and reached under her skirt.