Why does gyn excite men so much ?

Why does gyn excite men so much ?

I'd like to hear from guys who enjoy watching there partner being examined and poked and prodded .

I have always found the idea of a partner having to take off all her clothes and be touched inimately by another man, or even a woman for that matter, hugely erotic.

I believe its the vulnerability aspect of the whole scene. Knowing that the patient has to have certain procedures performed on them is very exciting to watch.

It excites me because I know that my girlfriend or wife has to get ready to go to the doc. and she know that she has to take off her clothes, an lie on a table allowing the doc to do what ever he wants. and the thought of her sliding her panties off in prepartation for her exam, and having to lay back and open her legs really wide for him really turns me on. and knowing that after she goes into the room in a little while the doc knocks on the door. I like being outside using my imagination and when the doc is done and we are on our way home she will fill in the details and the time lines so that i Know exactly what he was doing to her and when.

For us it's any situation in wich jolene is exposed fully nude or partly nude that we find highly erotic. so ,to get examed by her gyno or our GP ,a full body massage lying completely nude on the table so the masseur can touch and see all bodyparts (wich she gets on a regular base),all those situations are highly erotic for us. we love it and that's the wonderful thing....we BOTH enjoy it ,jolene to expose herself,me to see her exposed and knowing that she likes it

I enjoy the though of my wife or any other female being examined by a male doctor. If she is nervios the excitement is higher When my wife went to her first prenatal exam for ous seconr child I was with hes. The doctors office was rigth nebt to the exam.I could not see anything but could hear theibsstructions given by the dostor. They includer scoud down to the end or the table and spread yorr legs please. My wife was nervios and let out a meod. this is a true story.

I had a girlfriend at university who explained to me for the first time about female exams. She told me she was going to see the doctor and I was astonished when she told me about having a speculum (which I'd never head of) put in her vagina. I got really turned on when she told me about her friend who liked to have a male doctor and looked forward to stripping naked and showing herself to him (with no gown). So it wasn't just the idea of the exam, but the fact that the girls obviously were a little turned on themselves by it, that got my interest going!

To me, the reasons are obvious. The intimate contact, in a exposed position. Drives me wild.

It starts as curiousity as to what happens when grils are examined. Then we find out about the nudity / exposure of things we've never seen but dreamed of. Once we have the chance to see what goes on there is something arousing about seeing your female partner being examined intimately by another person, male or female. It can definately be a real turn-on.

It is exciting to conjure the thought of another male exploring and touching the intimate areas of my lovers body. Because of the special relationship a doctor has with his patient, jealously on my part is not induced. I enjoy my fiancee telling and retelling her doctor experiences. She has invited me to sit in on one of her gynecological exams, but I am afraid it might spoil the magic of it all. So I sit patiently in the waiting area allowing my mind to fantasize about what is happening on the other side of the wall. I know that when we get home great things will occur.

I agree with the vulnerability aspect of the exam. The thought of having her having to expose herself in such an intimate manner when she has spent the majority of her life ensuring the exact opposite is very exciting for me.

Because as the play doc I get to examine, explore a submissive, vulnerable woman's body in the most intimate ways.

I have only been interested in "Gyn" since it became so widely available on the net. I guess the attraction for me was that it was the closest I could get to the idea of "Playing doctor" which I really enjoyed as a child although it was really more of a fantasy than a reality. The first site I ever found I think was "Gyno Girls" which had lots of girls being given the same type of exam. One thing I don't understand about these sites is that the girls always get fully undressed before the exam. I guess in a real exam this makes sense but in a fantasy one gradually undressing more slowly during the exam seems like more fun.

I don't really understand that much either. It has never really excited me and I don't think it will.

I like to see a reaction and if it brings one then it will excite me but otherwise I am not really interested.

The thought of my wife having to get totally nude and lay on a table for the doctor to come in and examine and probe all her most private parts has always been my biggest turn-on.

I enjoy the thought of my wife having her annual check up. I go with her every year & wait for her. She then tells me what took place & I get all exited & we have great sex @ night.

I would love to see her gynecology exam, but not because I think it would be excite me and get me hot. For me, the gynecology exam is one extremely personal medical exam that is performed on almost all women and therefore something they all have in common and sort of bonds them together, like childbirth does, even though it's not discussed between them.

Gynecology exams are always done privately and behind doors that are closed to the husbands. Husbands are forbidden to go in the exam room, to be with their wife and see what happens. All we can do is imagine what is going on during the exam since it's something we males are not allowed see and I imagine the vast majority of us men are not told anything about what happens in the exam room after the exam is over, other than “Yes, everything is okay.” Men have no such common bonding experience that even comes close to a woman having a pelvic exam or to women giving birth. And no, a prostate exam is nothing even close to this.

Knowing that your wife is going to get undressed completely, have her exposed breasts felt of at length, have fingers inserted in multiple private, intimate areas, that the doctor is going to looking very closely at those areas, that her legs are going to be spread far apart for anyone in the room to see and she will be opened up with the speculum and closely examined inside.

I know that I do not “own” my wife or her body, but from that very first exam after we were married many years ago and every time she has had one since then I have been extremely upset that another man would be looking at my wife while she was naked, examining all of those very intimate parts of her that I consider to belong to "me and me alone" to see, feel and play with. I never let her know my feelings since she would not understand them and after a recent few questions I finally did ask earlier this year, she got angry at me for even asking about the exam. “It’s too embarrassing to talk about,” she said in a loud voice. I’m her husband for goodness sakes!!! I would love to actually observe her gynecology exam or at least be able to ask how the doctor does things, ask about her feelings and what it feels like during the exam. That would pretty much end my feelings of anxiety and anger over the whole thing.

Call it jealousy, or call it whatever you want to. While I am not jealous of her in any other way I guess I am when it comes to medical things like this. Her pelvic exam is and always has been something that greatly upsets me because I not only don’t know what’s happening and how things are done, but can’t know and talk about it with her. Of course I want her to be healthy and to have those tests and exams she need to have done. It’s just that I’ve always had a great need to know what’s going on and how things are done, especially when it comes to medical things. That’s why I won’t them let give me any drugs for things like a colonoscopy or an endoscopy to look into my stomach, both of which I have had done several times.

I’m sorry for going on so long, but the question was asked. Maybe my reply is another viewpoint that other men may have as well.

I think in most cases, the fantasy is far better than the reality. The idea of the exam, the submission, the exposure, the control, all erotic elements of a fantasy, appeals to many men. I think that there are other issues too, though.

One is that as men, we ike it when other men notice that we have a hot wife or GF. We know men would love to see what we see.

Perhaps some men even go as far as fantasize about sharing their GF with another man. In this case, a GYN exam is a safe way to do that. Sex is not going to happen, but at the same time, there is a certain trust and often a somewhat sexual tone to the gyn exam. It is , after all, about private sexual organs, sexual function etc

I have many times watched my wife have these exams. She did not mind that I was there. She knew I enjoyed it for whatever reason, and I knew she did not. Most women, I have found, from working in the med field, hate gyn exams to some degree.

My wife was not into med fet but was accomodating to me at least. I have not gone with her in a while though, and the excitement that was once there is not as much now. The exams are always quick, professional, and follow a set standard of practice. Nothing was ever done which would be considerably innapropriate, and according to her, she has never had a bad or innapropriate experince with a Dr. (Unlike some)

She does not seek out gyn exams, and I have found that more times than not, a doctor who is not a GYN (say a GP or family Doc) will NOT offer or recommend one, other than to say "Go see your gyn" The reason, clearly, is that if someone does something and finds something wrong, then he or she must then pursue treatment of it; also medicine is so specialied that it is far easier to send someone with a certain complaint to a specialist. Maybe not as "fun" when a hot patient comes in though ...

Perhaps too, for this reason, I find it more erotic when a family Doc gives her a gyn exam for whatever reason than a gynecologist. At the GYN office, it is expected; but a family doc does not do as many, so maybe this is more of a treat or more of something unusual for him. Especially with a wife who is the model type. One gyn exam that she had from a family doc of some repute seemed to take twice as long as any other. Maybe because the guy was not as skilled, or maybe he was just having fun. Who knows Erotic for me? yes, seeing her exposed while another man looked at the pleasure zone, wishing and dreaming he could have what I do....

For her, not really, in fact she made us stop seeing him after that exam.....

For me, I find all parts of a woman's genitalia exceedingly arousing, both external and internal. Seeing the difference between different women is fantastic, and gyn exams are an excellent avenue to pursue this interest. Not only having permission to examine women closely, but being expected to is a great thrill - enhanced somewhat if this permission is granted reluctantly or by pre-conditioning to just accept whatever a doctor tells you to do.

It could be to do with a form of humiliation that us girls have to go through that excites the guys so much ??

For me it starts on the drive there, seeing what she is wearing to the visit, then walking in, smelling that hospital smell, and then in the waiting room, listening to the sounds, the nurses walking about, wondering what's going on behind those closed doors.....then her name being called, and your heart rate hits an all time high....walking into the room, seeing the table, the stirrups, your partner getting undressed, getting in position....its a potent cocktail.

I am lucky enough to be able to go with my partner to most of her exams, and the staff are enlightened enough to allow me in there without any problems.

I don't really need the real deal of a doctor's office. But I love the thought of fully exploring my wife's body at my will, with the submissive, exhibitionistic thrills on her part in such a situation.

I concur with the fantasy is far better than the reality...the first actual exam that I wnt to with a partner, I was really somewhat let down. It was just quick business as usual...which is the way it hsould be in a real setting.

Perhaps one day I will be able to experience a play exam...doubtful though, dont see the wife ever going along with that idea.

I suppose one part of it is how it's such a controlled environment in which men and women have to be on their best behaviour, although an exam can have such highly-charged overtones based on what's being examined.

For i guess it the idea that they have to be naked, and let a person touch their most private ares.

I feel it is the idea of having a women naked on a table and feeling vunerable or somewhat nervous

The reality can be the harsh reality of an STD, unplanned pregnancy, the strain of TTC and not being able to, infertility, mis-carriage, infections, PID, PMS, heavy flow periods, un-explained pelvic pain, painful ovarian cysts, painful tears and bruising after a rape, fibroids, cervical dysplasia, just to mention a few real life conditions seen in a day in the life of a gynecologist. There are bold lines defining clinical experience and an enormous demand for time and energy to become and remain capable of providing quality health care. GYN reality excites me when it alleviates human misery and suffering.

Gyno play is only one aspect of erotic role-play that provides sexual gratification and enhances an intimate relationship. There are fine lines where it becomes too clinical and crosses ethical boundaries. At times a speculum is simply no substitute for chocolate, stawberries and whipped cream. Foreplay begins at the dining room table and a speculum is only one toy in a diversified variety of pleasurable activities to enrich the enjoyment of sex.

It's the thought of a young woman being in such a vulnerable position, and under the control of a doctor.

Like some others have commented on here, I think the fantasy is much better tha the reality of it all. That being siad, I have had a fascination revolving around it for a long time and find it extremely arousing. The thought of having a girl/woman intimately expose herself and a relative "stranger" beng able to touch and probe her along with the embaressment of the patient is what I find so exciting.

it could be to do with a form of humiliation that us girls have to go through that excites the guys so much ??

I don't believe that humiliation as such is that important overriding a factor. Thankfully not all men get off on watching someone else being humiliated.

It might be interesting to point out that being in a gynecological position on a gyn table is about the same as being in the missionary position. And that can of course be taken as being invited to have sex.

So perhaps in the minds of many men, a gyn exam appears to be an invitation to have sex, even though they of course know it is no such thing at all. Still, the appearance is there and men's imagination does have a tendency to run wild at times ...

And besides, isn't it exciting and gratifying to be able to clearly see such an intimate and enticing part of the female anatomy that is otherwise hidden from view?