How do I get him to participate?

Even though I have been into enemas for years before marrying my wife,the enemas were not a priority at that time.In fact it was ten years later when I spilled the beans to her about my enema interest.Luckily for me she was interested and was willing to get involved.

I was dating a nurse for a few months. We were out to dinner when I mentioned to her that I was feeling tired and a bit sluggish. She then stated, " I might have to give you a soapsuds enema" later when we went to her apartment and got into bed, she then hoped up and went into the bathroom and came back with a half full enema bag, had me lie on my stomach and gave me the water. Short and quick. A few weeks later i asked her why she only gave me one qt and before I know it I was getting two full bags. It continued for the next year we were together. She was the most open and unihibited women I ever met.

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I'm married for 20+ years and my wife is not aware of my enema enjoyment. I've considered leaving a wet bag in the shower to dry. When she asks, tell her that I take them occasionally for health and find them pleasurable. Also that I received them periodically growing up and they were private as to why I have not shared with her over this many years. Any comments on this approach?

I would still leave it out, but just say that "I was constipated and this works best".

Then kind of tell her you like it and go from there

I got enemas when growing up and was not happy about getting them. I hadn't had one in years, but after my wife and I were married for a year or so I became sick and needed some real help with constipation. She had been an enema user since college and insisted that I allow her to give me one. I relented and had to admit that I forgot how well one really worked. She later allowed me to give her one and our mutual interest developed and we have enjoyed giving to one another for a lot of years.

I was quite pregnant and very constipated. My doctor suggested an enema. I was too clumsy to give myself an enema but shy about asking my husband for help. Since it was either my husband or going to my parents' house for the enema, I realized I would be more comfortable in my own home with my husband so I approached him with my problem.

He was a little stunned but said "Sure. Why not if it will make you feel better". To him it was purely to relieve my constipation but it was a start. We eventually had a conversation about our childhood and I managed to put enemas into the conversation. We found that we both were given enemas as children and it was then that I told him I had always liked them. It has been all fun and games for both of us ever since. I'm on the receiving end most of the time, which he loves, but he has taken a few from me, too.

You won't ever know until you find a way to open the subject whether it's a claim of constipation or any excuse you can think of. It's not the easiest thing I have ever talked to him about and I was more than a little embarrassed but went for it. I knew he loved me so I was able to trust him.

Thank you Agnes, Westy and stick for your advice, experiences and encouragement.

Eneluv, my situation is somewhat similar to yours. Not long after we got married, although I was not pregnant, I got seriously constipated. I tried adding a lot of fiber to my diet and then taking laxatives. Nothing worked and I confessed my problem to my husband. While I had never gotten an enema growing up, he had and said that I had two choices: either let him give me one or he'd have to take me to the doctor where they would probably give me one. I decided that it would be far less embarrassing to get one from my husband. We didn't even own an enema bag, so he ran out to CVS and not long after my relief was soon coming. An enema was no where near as bad as I expected and since then we have given to each other, but like you, most often I'm receiving.

I tried an enema once with my husband. I was on the receiving end, but my husband has a clumsy streak and while I was receiving the enema, he accidentally put his knee on the hose, the nozzle slipped out, and suddenly we were engulfed in stinky water. That ruined it for me, and I am back to giving them to myself. I'm not really interested at this point in revisiting him giving me one because of this. I have done it so long to myself, and I know how to do it and really do it well.

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In my opinion someone is missing out the opportunity of a life time a girl who is anal erotic and would like his participation. Tell him you read this article and you would like to explore a new sex practice during or after sex and tell him what you want and you want him to massage your clit and slide the nozzle in and out of your rectum slowly and stroke you and be vocal, so it is obvious you are getting off making it sexual could be your way to the goal