Who really is a VIRGIN ?

Who can claim to be a VIRGIN ;

We know the girls lost thair hyman when they were so little ;

Some of them experienced as a rape or other unwanted accidence ;

Now tell you about your private experience ...

I lost my hymen on purpose when I was less than 10 because I was always playing with myself when I went to bed at night.

I didn't actually masturbate to orgasm until I was 11 or 12, but since I was 7 or 8, I loved the feeling of sticking my fingers and things like candles into my vagina that always amazed me to get nice and wet as I made nice big circles over my clitoris with the other hand. The first orgasm came about not because I planned to have an orgasm, but rather accidentally because I was curious to see what would happen if I just kept rubbing myself without stopping. After that miraculous event, I was hooked, and it became a daily activity.

I had intercourse the first time when I was 17, so that would be when I lost my virginity. The hymen is just a piece of anatomy.

I lost mine by my first boyfriend at fifteen.. he fingered me really hard and it broke. And to my embarrassment, bled. He wasnt the greatest boyfriend, but he took it very well. It was also nice not to have it when I finally did have sex (a couple of years later, not with him)

I lost my virginity to a boy when I was 16. It was after I started becoming sexually active I decided to get on the pill, which entailed me getting my first gyne examination.

I've never had sex before, but I have used tampons a few times. I don't want to have sex until marriage.

Loosing your hymen ie tampon use etc does not mean you loose yur virginity,

Me myself would rather keep my first time personal! :-)

I think a female is considered to have lost her virginity only after her vagina has been penetrated by a penis.

I do agree with shygirly. You do not lose you virginity until you do have sex. Any more you do not here of people staying a virgin until marriage. They are far and few between. At least I can say I lost my virginity when I married my ex husband. It is better to what and have sex when you are married,the you don't have to worry that much about getting a std then passing it on to someone else. I have a friend who had to learn the hard way. know she has a std that she will never beable to get rid of because she did not wait for the right time.

Ilost my virginity at 14 to a 25 yr old lol

It depends on how you define the term "virgin", but biologically, the answer is "yes"

I lost mine at 14 during the first sex.

Beate

Ridiculous to say someone who has had anal & oral sex is a "virgin".

According to the catholic church a female is virgin if she doesen't know sex at all. it means no masturbation, no hand job, no oral or worse anal sex.

normally in italy we consider a female virgin if her hymen is untouched (nowadays surgery can make miracles and a new himen too!!) in my opinion a female is virgin when she doesn't know what sex means. so ladies who of you is virgin?

I was 23 and lost it on my wedding night

Mine was on my wedding night at age 20 😃 Really and truly.

I lost mine at 22 while I was at college. I am now 24, and have started seeing him again. It's funny how things come full circle sometimes.

Well, technically, one can only lose one's virginity through penile penetration. That being said, since no penis has ever entered my vajayjay, then, yes, I'm a virgin.

Next, I masturbate, but it's all clit action. I know, as an RN that an intact hymen is not a real indicator of virginity since women can tear or lose their hymen through sports or digital insertion, as in through masturbation, etc. Also, some women are born without hymens while some are born with imperforate hymens. But for me, personally, it's symbolic, that's why i never put anything in there.

Now to make my point clearer, I'm a devout Catholic, which as many of you know is big on CHASTITY. Although, I'm not being the perfect Catholic girl, I'm not supposed to masturbate according to the rules, hahaha, I still follow the "preserve your chastity" rule, meaning no sex till you're married, well, at least, no penile penetration. 😁

There is only one way to have sex and one way to lose your virginity. There are many positions you can do it in, but to have sex, the penis must be inside the vagina. Virginity is lost only by having a penis in your vagina. Sex is a reproductive activity. Blow jobs, hand jobs, masturbation and anal intercourse (it isn't "anal sex," because "anal" isn't sex) are not reproductive activities. Intercourse with a condom on, or while on birth control pills are also not reproductive activities, but you have to draw the line somewhere. As long as the penis has entered the vagina, you have lost your virginity.

Anything other than "penis in vagina" is just fooling around.

That doesn't mean I think it's OK for my 12 and 15 year old daughters to "fool around."

I'm a rectal virgin: never had anal sex.

I too, am a virgin, believe it or not......

Good on all you virgins out there. I guess most of you are from the US, where religion is still more prevalent than here in the UK? I think it would be surprising to meet a 16 year old (the legal age of consent in the UK) who is still a virgin.

UGH..............I feel old! I lost mine at just over 21 to my husband on our wedding night.....YES, I was one of those! I never used a tampon OR masturbated until after I was with him....

OH THE HORROR!

Thanks for setting us straight on this issue!

DrLaennec ClinicalUSMLE (Yahoo chat)

I'm a virgin...and I'm not going to have it anymore, because the last time I did'nt like it!

My definition for a guy:

If the penis has been inserted into a vagina or anus = no longer virgin.

For a Female = if vagina has been penetrated but not anally then an anal virgin.

If anally penetrated only = vaginal virgin.

No Virgin = if both cavities have experienced penile penetration.

I think that is personal but i am going to tell to you all that i am still a virgin at the age of 27 i had an uncle that died with no kids or no wife so maybe that is what i want also and i also define being a virgin as not having at all inserted into a womans vaginal orfice that causes her to break her hymen but that is only my opinion on the female side of it i am male and not ashamed to say that i am still a virign

And neither should you be 95sonom, this does not make you or anyone a freak. There is no right or wrong time to loose any type of virginity, either anally or virginally. It is up to the individual to decide when and who with, once its gone… its gone.

I lost my virginity shortly before I married the first time. On this site, I feel very much a virgin with respect to having experienced any of things that we all find interesting.

Bubbly, I am sure there is someone on this site willing to help you loose your virginity.Just keep looking.

I'm a virgin, still waiting for the right guy. For me, I think it's important to be certain that he is "the one" or at least someone I would not regret having my first time with even if the relationship didn't last.