Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

My wife and probably 2 friends of my wife.

Pretty much all my "open" female friends, my girlfriend after cleaning up my apartment after my accident before i could go home, and my mom knows because she found my 1 gallon silicone enema bag. lol

No one.....yet

It is not a fetish. I see it as an erotic activity justl like fucking and oral sex. They are not fetishes and neither is an enema.

Many people ... "The A Team", Ava, Angelina and Angie. My wife. Most every professional Dommes I have visited(many). The numerous playmates over the years (taking and/or giving enemas was a condition of meeting)

My brother. He found videos on the laptop 😄

I hadn't really thought about it until now. After my first marriage ended I was single for five years. It was during that time that I began experimenting with enemas for the first time since childhood. I told a couple of girls I dated about my interest. When I married for the second time, I told my wife everything before we wed. Once early in our marriage she asked me to give her an enema but that has been it. It's been solo play since then.

The only one being aware of it is my wife.

First, my sister. We were aware of each other sneaking enemas as teenagers and a few instances when we did it together. And a few years back we both had enemas while sharing a hotel room at an out of town wedding. I think she has occasional enemas, but I doubt she does it as often as I do. Maybe?

Second, my husband. After several years of marriage I finally got the courage to suggest I get a special thrill from enemas and we should try enemas together. He was (and still) not impressed. But he tolerates me pleasuring myself with them.

Last, my neighbor, sort of. One time years ago she walked in on me giving myself an enema in the afternoon. She would let my dog out in the afternoon but I had forgotten to tell her I was home sick that day. I was on my bed, with the dog beside me when she appeared at my bedroom door. I told her enemas helped me get over whatever was ailing me. She did not say much at the time. She is now widowed about 5 years and started dating again, and her latest has been "sleeping over". Hmmmm! We are like sisters so she tells me a lot. Like she is doing things she has not done since she was 19. Then she asked if I still like enemas. I said, "Sure." and then she said she recently had her first enema since she was a little kid, "and it was sort of fun." No other details and she changed the subject, but I will ask her some day when the time is right.

Two ex-wives, current wife, all three of my grown children, even the sister of one of my ex-wives knows. We were having dinner together when she told a story about getting an enema from her mother. As she told the story she kept smiling at me. I knew my wife had let the cat out of the bag. So, I guess there are a lot more people who know, than I am comfortable with, especially my kids.

My ex wife who was a nurse. She would give but not receive, also a few male friends

My husband of course ...

and you 😃

Hi all

Observation from reading through this thread is that enemas are a don't go there subject for a lot of people. It's a shame but yet there are umpteen sources on the net relating to colonic and cleansing and ayerveda and so on that should mean the process is akin to brushing your teeth. From what I can see, sites like optimal health are completely up front about it. Should it really be classed as a fetish?

A few of my former girlfriends, my wife, and a girl, who was my friend without relationship unfortunately. :-)

My wife has an inkling, but she ignores it since she has no interest whatsoever. No one else has even the faintest inkling.

And that's how it's gonna be as far as I am concerned!

I just recently (in the past few weeks) opened up to my friend Jackie. She has been suffering from Crohn's and IBS for years, so she is not squeamish about the process of the intestines and poo-related talk. A very matter of fact woman. I have always told her about my spa-time, but recently became a little more specific. She revealed that she and her family used to use coffee enemas, but not in a while. She is totally cool about what I do, so I am hoping I have an e-friend to speak to. Nothing romantic and I have no ideas about sharing the experience with her, by the way. This makes a total of about three or four who I am upfront with about it.

I agree...with so much in the mainstream press about Ayurvedic cleansing, celebrity colonics, etc...Why are we still so shy about it? I think because it is such a private matter, as opposed to brushing our teeth, that it takes the right kind of sharing. In a way, it is similar to the way that women share their experiences with menstruation. It is just private. Nothing to be ashamed of. That being said, I am careful about who I speak to about this. They must be on some common wavelength for em to open up to them. Also, it helps that they know that it isn;t so much a sexual thing, rather sensual and health-oriented. There is still a culture of shame regarding the anus, elimination and anything to do with it.

Just an update...,my friend Jackie has sent me a large bottle of Dr. Bronner's peppermint soap from the USA. It is difficult to find here in Greece. What a great friend! We just had a chat on the phone. She's a peach!

My wife

My wife and ex wife and possibly some relatives, not sure. Sometimes I think what the heck, it's my life to live the way I want to. Years ago a best friend that has passed away knew my fetish. We were teenagers and one day at his house I noticed the syringe in the shower that usually had a douche nozzle attached had the enema nozzle attached. I joked and said somebody got a enema.

Nobody, period. A few friends know I take "occasional" enemas for medical reasons, but that is IT. My wife, who considers enemas a really, really rare necessary evil may suspect something (she isn't stupid, just prejudiced). I enjoy feeling clean and enjoy the erotic aspect. Enemas are a part of an anal eroticism I enjoy, but almost entirely in private. My loss, maybe a loss for others who would enjoy a

"partner in water" but are afraid to be discovered.

My partner knows and every close partner I've had I have told. Some are curious, some arent.

My wife is the only one that is aware of my love of enemas. We've been married 32 years and she has known for most of the time. She understands that people have different likes and dislikes; and she has a couple of fetishes of her own that are really quite mild-like sex in the kitchen and light spankings. I'm quite willing to enjoy those with her. She believes in enemas for constipation and other health reasons, so I occasionally get to give her one. She teases me about enjoying it. She gives me enemas once in a while-not as much as I would like but probably better than most men get from their wives. She really is quite a lady.

No one still living. My mother is no longer alive.

I told very very few close friends...pretty much it

I told very very few close friends...pretty much it

Hi truckdadenema,

Some of these close friends are also your emates?

If so, what kind of enemas you give each other? The same as that between me and my close friends? (see my answer # 122 at http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=60398.msg446858#msg44685)

No one, tried to get my wife to but she didn't seem to want to

My ex and whoever he has told (If I ever find out he has told anyone God help him). And people I have met on sites like this and they all have stated they like them also. Only two of them know my real name. One has met me and he and I have never "played".

My husband, and my Dad who raised me without a Mom. Who else NEEDS to know??

My mother knew of course, but she is no longer on the earth with me. My wife knows that I love taking enemas and that it is something that makes me happy. She, I don't know for sure, may have confided it to her Mom or maybe her sister. I don't know for sure.

Two ex-girlfriends, neither of whom would receive but were unenthusiastic givers, and my current wife, who is an enthusiastic receiver and who, upon learning of my fetish, quickly became a very enthusiastic and painfully skilled 'enema dom'.

Only my lover, she shares my interest in enemas and everything anal.