Who has not told their wife or girl / boy friend they are on this site ?

I have told my wife and showed her things but it upset her so now I'm very discreet in view online and play as I still want to keep my marriage intact.

Ditto..My Medfet desires have only been expressed with other like-minded people, mostly from here.

Wife has no clue...kinda wish I could get her to share in the interest and play at home, but I doubt that would ever occur.

I can barely stand to admit it to myself! (Ok, so I have a lot to learn.)

My wife firmly objected last time I tried to take her temperature rectally so I know that if I told her about this site she would think I was some kind of freak and me accompanying her to her appointments would cease, so I will continue to enjoy my fellow medical aficionados privately.

I really have no clue what my wife knows or thinks about. In any case she knows nothing about this site or others that contain anything to do with med fet.

I have quite often tried to bring up the subject in some way or another. My wife used to work in a hospital and as assistant to a gastro-enterologist as well. But maybe working in a medical environment has made her impervious to anything to do with medical play. I've often brought up the subject in a roundabout way, asking about how things are done where she works, about embarrassing occurrences, how examinations are conducted, when exams require nudity, things like that.

And even though I tell about my experiences with things ike that, she never seems to catch on, or maybe just doesn't wish to get involved or started. She will perhaps make a joke when I am off for for a consultation or such, but never really gets into it.

So I have no real idea what she knows and think it perhaps better to just leave things as they are. Don't upset the applecart and all that.

The man I am married to has no idea that I am a member of this site or that I have an interest in medical fetish/ play. I think that he would not be angry but I am sure he would not understand and would want nothing to do with it. This is one secret best kept to myself.

My wife has no idea about my interest. Although would love to engage in play with her there is no way I could feel comfortable about approaching her with the subject. While our "normal" sex life is good it would certainly be a bonus for me to engage in the medical play activity. I have to be content fantasizing during foreplay that I am engaging in a medical exam scenario with out really letting on about my real desires. It is unfortunate for me but I just need to be contented with it as I know my wife would have absolutely no interest in this. I have to find my satisfaction in sites like this

I told my gf shes not into but accepting

I have not yet figured out how to tell my GF. We'll see!

I told my wife and she has no interest in it at all. She has come to accept it on my part though, she doesn't think it's weird just not her taste. She usually just sleeps through the exams I give her or surfs on her iPad.

I told her I go to Medfet sites to learn to do things to her. If she ever wants to see which ones all she has to do is look at my computer. This place is one of my top ten bookmarks. I doubt she'll ever look though.

I want to take a second and give her props for being such an understanding Lady. She's very special.

I have never told anyone about my med-fet. I just look at society and there so judgmental. I would never be able to put myself out there. Just to see if i get a positive response.

Told my wife and she thinks its wrong so do not want to push it any more

I haven't told my boyfriend, I think it would freak him out a bit, maybe I will one day tho, not sure how!

I havent told my current girlfriend yet but I've told 2 of my past girlfriends about this site or my fetish.... One didnt want anything to do with it but the other one was a bit apprehensive at first but when she watched me cath myself she became more interested... too bad we broke up before we could do anything together :/

I have hinted to my boyfriend that I like to play doctor, but I would never feel comfortable telling him the full extent of my interests. He's asked me to show him what sites I like to go on to give him an idea of what I'm talking about, but I'm too embarrassed to show him this one (or any of them). However when he eats me out I close my eyes and fantasize about being at a medical fetish clinic.

Maybe I'm way off, but while I think it is not easier in any way for a girl to tell a guy she has a med fet interest, I am willing to bet that the percentage of guys that would be into it, even if they had never thought of it before, is higher. You always see "naughty nurse" stuff in guys magazines, and I think its sort of a common fantasy for guys. If the girl wanted the guy to examine her, I bet if she started with the nurse outfit and did it to him, and then asked him to "return the favor," I'm pretty sure that would work.

Anybody else agree/disagree..?

I still haven't,I can't get her to even get on top during sex,I really want to let her in on this part of my life, but it's probably too soon

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Maybe I'm way off, but while I think it is not easier in any way for a girl to tell a guy she has a med fet interest, I am willing to bet that the percentage of guys that would be into it, even if they had never thought of it before, is higher. You always see "naughty nurse" stuff in guys magazines, and I think its sort of a common fantasy for guys. If the girl wanted the guy to examine her, I bet if she started with the nurse outfit and did it to him, and then asked him to "return the favor," I'm pretty sure that would work. Anybody else agree/disagree..?

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That sounds like something that ought to work quite well and yet at the same time allow for both to remain uncommitted should there be any reason why it didn't work out ...

Start with the gloves, put them on when touching her vagina, say that it's safer that way... ask her to do the same, and after few times go for more, in a small steps. Tell her that she would really look sexy as a nurse/in a nurse outfit and that you would be sick all the time if someone like her would work in the hospital. That's the way with most women: SLOW.

Me too

Not about this site. But she knows about my desire to watch her being examined

40+ male here. I have not told any past/present girlfriends or boyfriends or platonic friends about this strong urge/fetish. Although I was caught by my roommate while conducting a physical exam using Yahoo instant messenger. My webcam was on, i was in scrubs with a stethoscope around my neck.

I almost have my wife interested

My interests with medfed reside almost exclusively in the auscultation area (heartbeats mostly- both by ear and auscultation with steth). My ex-husband was aware of, and actually accepting and interested in medfet (though more a different area of medfet) and I have an online medfet friend I used to share a lot with but lately haven't had the chance so much. My current boyfriend (soon to be husband) is my soulmate and the love of my life. I tell almost everything- more than I ever told my first husband, we share so much more with each other. Yet the one thing I'm scared to tell him about is my medfet interests. We played "doctor" once at my request but it was kind of awkward and I don't think he really got it. He knows I like to lay on his chest after sex and listen to his heart, but only because I told him it was comforting and relaxing, not because it turned me on. I would love more than anything to tell him about my interest, I've thought about it, almost tried to bring it up more than once, but I get scared. I know he is accepting and won't judge, but its almost as if I care so much that I worry about his opinion/reaction and wonder if its better to keep the secret enjoyment of my heartbeat interest to myself.

Such a difficult decision to try to make, once said it can never be retracted. I had the same dilemma years ago, I decided to tell my then wife of my desire to play doctor with her, she seemed to enjoy it but never instigated it herself. I guess I'll never really know for sure if she did it just for me or because she really enjoyed it.

Think long and hard, you may have to live with the choice for some time.

About 5 or 6 years ago, I thought I would take "baby steps" and invite my husband to take me to my gyn. appointment. He said sure, and I thought he would really dig watching me being examined. Then afterwards, when we got home it would be easier to get him to try some exam type foreplay. So, the day of the exam he drove me, then when my name was called I got up and he just stayed in the waiting room. I asked him if he wanted to come back with me, and he looked at me kind of strange, like ...."why do I need to go with you?" I think he was trying to respect my privacy, but at the same time I thought.....what guy wouldn't want to watch that? I never tried again because I really don't think he would want to do it, and I'm pretty sure I'd just get frustrated trying to explain what I wanted him to do to me. I think it would be more fun to be examined by a play doc that really understands and gets what it's like to have a medical fetish.

I don't think I could tell my girlfriend. She can be very prudish at times, and she wont tell me any of her own fantasies. The only thing she ever told me was that she finds porn videos with women squirting exciting.

I told her I liked feet and she seemed sort of okay with that. But enemas and speculums would be a bit too far.

I have never told anyone about my med fet. I don't think it's strange at all, but i'm sure others would! It would be great to think that we could play out an exam, but i'm certain it wouldn't happen. Not a chance!

I've always told everyone. Just about every friend, relatives know about my enema involvement and this with other sites I signed on to. This zity site is the best, it has everything for everybody. I've told alot of people about zity. Look, my thoughts are this. THERE ISN'T ONE PERSON M/F Who doesn't have a kinky side. So I can say I have never been ashamed about talking about enemas to anyone. I've never yet someone not getting an enema one time in their lives.