Punished for masturbating?

My parents caught me a few times. They really didn’t like this and a couple of times I was slapped. On other occasions I was told off. My mum used to say good night to me and then she would add: hands above the blanket.

My mother was a very devote Presbyterian with very strong morals and she had a definite opinion that masturbation was morally wrong outside of reproduction in a marriage. Basically, wasting G-d's seed. She caught me once and tanned my backside with her slipper that she slipped off and used then and there.

The rest of my masturbation activities were carried out in private in the woods at the edge of the property. I never masturbated at home after being caught for that first time.

My sister Amy, who was two years older than me and had an extremely strong sex drive, showed me how to use a muscle massager to masturbate. We were careful and never caught. Amy really played on the edge when a couple of years later when she bought a vibrator. She actually hid it in a forced air vent and taped it to the top of the vent. Fortunately, neither she nor I were ever caught with it. I don't know what mother's reaction would have been. While she was pretty cool about such matters that was really crossing the line.

Don't remember ever getting caught, but with open shower stalls on-board ship I am sure a lot of guys did. The excuse at the time was "My soap, my dick, I'll wash it as fast as I like." 😃

Mom walked in on me using a vibrator a couple times. She was very quick to explain that it was completely natural, and the excuse herself. Don't think she ever knew I was using her enema bag and tampons in my butt, though.

My parents never caught me.

But no punishment could have been worse than that immediate shame from being caught by them. OMG.

I agree with Grace T. I never was caught but I suspect my mother was careful not to catch me....lol

Yes in south USA in catholic boarding school the masturbation was forbidden.

The boy was punish if they was caught

Yes in south USA in catholic boarding school the masturbation was forbidden.

The boy was punish if they was caught

@Mikael22 How were they punished?

My dad caught me playing with my tackle in bed when I was about 12, that was back in the days before I was actually masturbating properly but none the less enjoyed the sensations involved with touching myself. He pulled me up off the bed and slapped my bottom hard telling me not to touch myself there as I'd make it sore if I didn't leave it alone. He spanked me shortly after that as well I remember when he saw me with a hard on tenting out my pajama shorts one Saturday morning while watching cartoons on TV. I remember he grabbed it through my PJ's wiggled it briefly and asked me what was that sticking up while telling me not to let my mum see me like that. He smacked my bum hard several times but didn't pull my PJ's down.

I never got caught or punished for masturbating, but lots of close shaves in my teens when wanking upstairs after school and having to stop abruptly when my dad got home.

Some very near misses, even had to leap naked into bed once and pretend to be asleep!

With hindsight, I wish I had been caught fully naked in the act at 14-15, no hiding.

How would he have reacted? Punished, taken to doctor, humiliated, given "the talk", examined, ignored - who knows!

This might sound strange, but I wish I'd been confident enough to stand naked and hard, and take the consequences.

Punished ? Quite the contrary. When my dad walked in the room and saw me lying nude on the bed pumping my penis up and down he thought it was hysterical and burst out laughing.

Circumcision was initially touted to parents in the US as preventing "bad habits" (masturbation); you can actually see that in early 20th century (let's say, before WWII) family care book. In fact, some physicians were more precise and specifically advocated certain tight styles of circumcision that made masturbation without lubricant unpleasant. As masturbation stopped being considered a medical issue and became less taboo, focused shifted to hygiene, and later to the prevention of sexually transmitted infections.

In most of the world boys are not routinely circumcised. Hygiene can still achieved with soap and water. I agree that if you don't do anything, smegma may build up, but don't think an uncircumcised penis is yummy if the bearer has poor hygiene (my wife's first oral sex experience was with an inconsiderate boyfriend who stuck a circumcised penis smelling and tasting of pee and sweat in her mouth).

@blokeinbeds Isn't it likely that your parents were aware you masturbated, due to semen stains on bedsheets, underwear, pajamas?

@blokeinbeds Isn't it likely that your parents were aware you masturbated, due to semen stains on bedsheets, underwear, pajamas?

I don’t know parents routinely checked for that. Not unless they suspected it and/or were religious or other perverts. I masturbated. I don’t think my folks ever checked for evidence. If they did , who cares., it’s normal.

PS , they never checked the ceiling! 😄😄

@Pecan_nutjob I'm sure they knew, I wasn't paranoid about disposing of used tissues or hiding cum stained sheets.

But there's a huge difference between dad knowing I masturbated, like 99.9% of teen boys do, and being caught naked and wanking - him seeing my boysized dick squirting on my teen body.

Looking back, I should have made it happen, like a cry for help to get medical examination of my undersized genitals. Short term embarrassment for a greater goal!

I guess we’re all going to hell for this ! See you there?

@rigel Without checking for that, you see them when changing sheets for instance.

@blokeinbeds I see what you mean. Mom must have known I masturbated regularly due to stains. Yet, she never acknowledged it and acted disgusted when walking on me.

@Uncutboy018 they got spanking whit cane or paddle and they was called to pray the rosary all night long.

I was, unfortunately, regularly walked in on by mum when I was masturbating - often as I was at the point of being unable to stop the inevitable ejaculation😳. Don't know how she managed to time it, but she had that knack. She would just stand and watch me 😳. Fortunately she never punished me or said anything, apart from one time when I was doing it in the shower & she told me to stop wasting water!

My sexually abusive childminder was completely different. If I dared to try masturbating & she caught me it would result in more severe abuse from her and her boyfriend/partner 😡😈

@blokeinbeds Isn't it likely that your parents were aware you masturbated, due to semen stains on bedsheets, underwear, pajamas?

As a parent who did the laundry and occasionally cleaned the young males room...checking sheets, clothes, anything for "semen stains" was not my interest. I guessed our son did masterbate. He was a young male and hormones did their thing.

@MCurious

She would just stand and watch me 😳.

How do you have to imagine that? She came into the room, you masturbated and she watched you until you were done? How old were you when this happened?

My sexually abusive childminder was completely different. If I dared to try masturbating & she caught me it would result in more severe abuse from her and her boyfriend/partner 😡😈

What exactly happened when they caught you?

How do you have to imagine that? She came into the room, you masturbated and she watched you until you were done? How old were you when this happened?

Yes, that's basically what happened, she came into room (or partly opened door & looked round it). Due to my early puberty, this happened from age 8 - 13

What exactly happened when they caught you?

Either more extensive or prolonged abuse, usually resulting in me being raped - sorry don't give details in "public"

, i find it difficult to believe that boys in the UK arent circumcised ! Must be a lot of stinky penises across the pond!

About 66% of males worldwide are not circumcised. If it weren't for two religions, virtually no one would be cut except for those unfortunates with easily identifiable medical disorders of the foreskin.

Ascribing unpleasant odors to people is often the last resort in finding excuses in maligning them. Think of how ethnic and racial minorities were (and still are) often historically described as being malodorous. This is one of oldest excuses in the book.

Being circumcised does not guarantee smelling of roses and perfume. Both types of penises need washing with soap and water for cleanliness.

@MissStress Even if you don't check, you inevitably see things, don't you?

@MissStress Even if you don't check, you inevitably see things, don't you?

@Pecan_nutjob Nope.

@MissStress This is interesting.

My mother disapproved of masturbation, though not to the point of prohibiting it. She walked on me a couple times (she entered without knocking).

When I was a teenager, I assumed that if the did not make alarmed or sarcastic remarks about this (as the did when walking on me), then she did not notice.

However later, when seeing the stains left by lovemaking in our bedsheets, I thought I must have been naive in those days: I thought she must have known, but did not want to talk about it unless it was obvious that she had seen it.

But maybe indeed as you said she just never noticed and I was lucky for it.

Yes many times

My wife would make me be watch gat men porno or shemale porno and have to play with myself till orgasm then feed the cum then feed the cum . Mostly to make me comfortable with eating cum . Always very humiliating and told that woman do this

@Eforenema1 (post 15)

When your mother caught you using a turkey baster for an enema syringe and offered to give you a real one, you definitely missed a golden opportunity to show her how excited they got you and have her give them to you regularly...to the pleasure of both of you!

The first time my mother caught me masturbating was when I was 13 and had wrapped a paper towel around my erection and stuffed it through the springs of a hand-held massager. She had cut short a shopping trip and I never heard her drive into the garage. I had the bathroom door wide open and she heard the massager as she walked down the hall. There I was sitting on the edge of the tub with my eyes closed, rocking slowly back and forth. She never made a sound and when I actually climaxed and opened my eyes, she was standing 6 feet away, smiling broadly. I couldn't even cover and deny because that bulky massager was still on and my underpants were staring at us from the floor. She made a step forward and informed me that from now on, I would NEVER be allowed to touch myself without first asking her permission, at which time, she might either allow me, watch me or even, later, assist me, at her choice. As I decided that that was never going to happen, she added, "...because I'm sure you don't want me to mention this episode to your father." She was still smiling, but I knew she meant business. She confided that she had never seen Dad masturbate nor actually stroke him off and she really wanted to have me let her. No room for negotiation. She was a loving but controlling mother and that control also extended to weekly enema times that started years earlier when I was 7 or 8. It's extremely difficult to hide an erection when you're wearing a thin robe and taking a warm enema. During some sessions, she'd have me explain in detail the sensations I was experiencing, particularly during the preliminary digital blockage check. I suspect that she knew exactly how it was making me feel and she played it to the hilt until she got the result she sought. I must say that I had an eventful educational childhood and she and I remained close and candid about our interests long after I went off to college.