Punished for masturbating?

I have always said this that the most sensitive organ while teenage masturbating was the ears...

Listening for footsteps...

My mother caught me and I was south pole naked in my room. She was shocked and left quickly... We had our talk as if I did not know this.

My twin brother got erections during his enema's (which I was allowed to witness - though he also saw mine). Our mom was a nurse and pretty strict so she usually commented on his erections. There was no punishment but he was very embarrassed. When it was time for him to expel he'd rush to the toliet and always come out minus the erection.....

@JodiFranks Did you brother also get an erection when he watched you receiving your enema?

Yes he did if i went first.....he always wanted to watch with inevitable and embarrassing results.

Yes he did if i went first.....he always wanted to watch with inevitable and embarrassing results.

@JodiFranks I would've LOVED to watch too! And I DEFINITELY would've had a erection!!! 😜😉

I was never caught. We were always told and yelled at a little. Okay raising their voice (mom and Dad) not to touch there except to bathe and wipe. I was very careful.

My sister on the other hand was blatant pretty much. Like when I was 12 and caught her on top of the covers with her jeans and panties off masturbating. When she would come back to the room we shared after she had been her bath and enema she would turn out the light and get in her bed and masturbate. I felt sorry for her because I would hear the moaning and I thought she was having nightmares until I caught her masturbating.

Then she showed me it was okay and felt good. I had to show my best friend. But my sister after she showed me how to do it and it was okay she used to come back from her bath and enema and want to leave the light on and masturbate with me.

I think she just wanted to watch me. The closest she came to that was a street light that shines through our window. But she did get caught and was grounded from the phone and I don't remember what else.

Man I’m glad I didn’t get punished for masturbating. I remember getting caught by my mom a couple times. I stopped really fast like I wasn’t doing anything. I remember her kind of laughing just a little and said it was normal just do it in privacy when the need was there. I do remember the first release I thought I done rip it open and was expecting blood 😂scared the piss out of me

I was caught playing with my parents enema kit. They had a 3/4 inch thick colon tube with it. I was watering myself with about 7 inches of it up me and slowly stroking myself. I was screamed at and told, that was for family time only! I think maybe i had left the bag or something wet or out of place and was already a suspect needing to get caught. So, when the proper time came, i was so rewarded for following orders, i will never forget.

I was the last to leave home and was helped, out by US Army draft board. The week before i left we had another family time. Then i was told mom became very depressed. After the Vietnam shame of the Democrats, i did not return home. It took me another three years till i was collected enough to visit and socialize. Dad offered to have a family time for old times. I wanted to, but was afraid of not being able to control myself. I had settled over a thousand miles away from them. I visited for a couple weeks at least every 5 years. But our original intimacy was untouchable, as far as i was concerned.

Then in their last years, each at different times, politely asked me to help them with a comforting enema, expressing gratitude with sighs and awes, comforting my heart as well, having been of comforting service to each. I had become a "Teetotaller" but would also drink beer with them too, easing the social tension i had about me all the time. So, i strongly expect the drink eventually allowed us to regain the common tie we had before L. B. Johnson cooperated in terminating the Democrats hero President, so they could escalate their war games under LBJ's criminal rule.

Then i was told mom became very depressed. After the Vietnam shame of the Democrats, i did not return home

So, i strongly expect the drink eventually allowed us to regain the common tie we had before L. B. Johnson cooperated in terminating the Democrats hero President, so they could escalate their war games under LBJ's criminal rule.

Please, no overt politics here.

Other moderators could just as easily take the whole post down, but I am certain we all understand the reasonableness of keeping political names and affiliations out of discussions.

So perhaps an edit might be in order?

I was caught playing with my parents enema kit. They had a 3/4 inch thick colon tube with it. I was watering myself with about 7 inches of it up me and slowly stroking myself. I was screamed at and told, that was for family time only! I think maybe i had left the bag or something wet or out of place and was already a suspect needing to get caught. So, when the proper time came, i was so rewarded for following orders, i will never forget.

.......Then in their last years, each at different times, (my parents) politely asked me to help them with a comforting enema, expressing gratitude with sighs and awes, comforting my heart as well, having been of comforting service to each.

@lzrd Tell us more about what went on during "family time" - did you, your parents and siblings and sisters share getting enemas? Was it sort of a family bonding time?? Sounds like you lost and regained some intimacy with your parents later in life!!

For what it's worth, I've read that John Maynard Keynes, the famous economist, was circumcised at age 8 along with his younger brother, aged 3, because his parents wanted to wean him off masturbation ; both brothers were bitter about it.

For what it's worth, I've read that John Maynard Keynes, the famous economist, was circumcised at age 8 along with his younger brother, aged 3, because his parents wanted to wean him off masturbation ; both brothers were bitter about it.

And telling a child that was the reason for getting circumcised is just adding insult to injury. Must have been quite cruel. Especially at age 8 when kids don't really understand the world of grown-up silliness and repressive morality. That even before being sent to a British Public School to learn all about buggery and humiliating physical punishments from older classmates.

Poor kids.

@agracier I would like to see an authoritative source about what happened to Keynes. What I read is that he had been reprimanded as a kid for masturbating, and that he and his brother ended up getting circumcised. Recall this was an age when physicians wrote books of home care in which they said that boys that masturbated should be circumcised, and that circumcision was also good prevention.

Never got caught myself, however I did catch my Mom once. It was a little awkward.

@viking73 Tell us more.

For what it's worth, I've read that John Maynard Keynes, the famous economist, was circumcised at age 8 along with his younger brother, aged 3, because his parents wanted to wean him off masturbation ; both brothers were bitter about it.

Circumsized here so I wold have no knowledge if masturbatioon was more common or pleasureable for an uncicumsized person or not. Being circumsized never stopped me from doing it!! And it was always pleasurable.

Suspect that parents circumsizing their kids to stop or avoid masturbation was old beliefs passed on from generation to generation.

We had some rules about it, but was never punished for it. Don't leave whatever you used as a cum rag laying around and don't do it on the good furniture.

Don't leave whatever you used as a cum rag laying around

I learned that lesson the hard way! My dad didn't seem to mind masturbation, but leaving a mess was very frowned upon.

@Rigel That kind of ideas (circumcising boys to reduce masturbation) became prevalent, I think, in the 19th century and I think I've seen mentions of that in "family medicine" books until WWII.

Some physicians had more specific ideas: tight circumcision (no leeway left for the skin) was believed to make masturbation uncomfortable, less enjoyable. This is not an unreasonable idea, I've read several times circumcised men (I believe, circumcised "high and tight") mentioning they need lubrication for masturbation, otherwise it chafes. My cousin, who was circumcised when he was 7, later mentioned the same problem.

The famous Dr Kelloggs had a cruel idea: circumcision without anesthesia would deter a masturbator from masturbating further after surgery was done.

@Rigel That kind of ideas (circumcising boys to reduce masturbation) became prevalent, I think, in the 19th century and I think I've seen mentions of that in "family medicine" books until WWII.

The person more or less responsible for the notions about masturbation being unhealthy and leading to mental degenerative conditions was a Dr. Tissot. He wrote a book about his notions in 1760 which became well know. And indeed, though it stems from the 18th century, the ideas spread widely in the 19th.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel-Auguste_Tissot

I would like to see an authoritative source about what happened to Keynes.

Perhaps what happened to him was the guilt trip laid on him by his parents. If a boy is circumcised without knowing why except for vague medical reasons, that is bad enough, but if you tell him that it is to prevent masturbation, that is heaping guilt on top of the situation. May weigh heavily on the child.

If a boy was circumcised to discourage/prevent masturbation it wouldn't take much imagination to think what might happen next if they dare continue.

@agracier But what's amazing is that these ideas were still found in early 20th century books of advice to parents. It is even said (though I'd like confirmation on this) that in the United States, clitoridectomies were occasionally performed on little girls guilty of masturbation up until the 1950s. Even if these occurrences were rare, it's amazing it was still considered acceptable.

@John_Sitter At least that's what they wanted the boy to believe.

The thing is, all these textbooks and authors believed the only valid purpose of the sexual organs was procreation. Not only that, but procreation was a God-ordered duty. Circumcision does not prevent procreation; however anything more radical on the male body would prevent it.

I was never punished for “ getting caught “. When my mom caught me at about in my room and rubbing myself on my bed bunny she didn’t criticize but explained it to me in the best way possible so I could understand why it felt good. She did remind me that it was something that I should do privately and not be ashamed about it, but neither should I “ run around talking about it” to my friends, who may not have reached “ enlightenment “ yet….( my word) and not understand.

I was never punished, but “politely reminded” that it’s something to be done in private with the door shut, and to “stop humping” the corner of the coffee table. Totally makes me cringe as an adult, especially when I visit home and see that same special coffee table.

Not punished by parents but by the elder sister of my best friend when we were, during a sleepover, caught playing … she was 2yrs older than we were and ‘punished’ us to ‘humiliation’ with the younger sister watching us being naked in front of them and ‘teaching’ her sis what it all was and how it worked …

Now, we do laugh about it, but at that moment, it was quite different …

I'm surprised at the number of guys who got spanked at 14 year old? i got spanked as a little kid, but never as a teen?

i never got caught masturbating. Most of my masturbation was anal. One of my favorites was a bicycle pump that fit onto my Peugeot 10 speed bike, it was shaped just like a dildo, though i had no idea what a dildo was at that point in my life. Sometimes i'd pump air into myself though.

We never talked about sex in my family, though my bedroom was right next to my parents and i could hear them going at it sometimes. Neither ever caught me or said a word about sex to me, and i was their fourth kid, pretty sure they never talked to any of us about sex.

I never got caught masturbating,but i often wonder what my mum would have said if she had caught me, interesting scenario

Been caught a couple of times by my parents, brother, and roommate in college. When you are living in close quarters, it's almost inevitable to hear or catch someone releasing some tension. It's a pretty normal part of life as far as I am concerned. The first time I ejaculated was during a wet dream. I was a bit freaked out and my mom noticed me up in the middle of the night - trying to clean up. I thought I had wet the bed or something and had an infection, since my pee was slimy and white. The next day, Dad had a talk to me about it and told me frequent masturbation would prevent a reoccurrence. I had no idea what he was talking about so I asked an older cousin who explained in more detail. My mother never said a word about sex or masturbation to me. Dad and I only had a brief discussion. I never got punished for it. We setup privacy rules and a closed-door policy and that was it. But they knew what I was doing with the door closed so often... Once or twice they would walk in on me, but quickly excused themselves. It wasn't a big deal.