Unexpected question about anal sex

Imagine having passionate sex with your fem partner and fucking her pussy with passion. And suddenly she says for the very first time: "I would like you to stick it in my back. Please fuck me in my hot anus". Has this happened to you before? How did you react or how would you react?

I would gladly accommodate her …..

She wouldn't have to ask me twice!

I do wonder, what is the appeal ,???

I do wonder, what is the appeal ,???

The appeal of writing that post?

The appeal of passionate sex?

The appeal of telling your guy to put it in the other hole?

The appeal of asking for other people's reactions?

So many unanswered questions! 😮

I would gladly pleasure her however she wants.

I am sure that if she wanted it up the ass she would not have said “up my anus”. If I wanted up the butt I would simply take his dick and put it in the spot. Somethings are better if left unsaid.

Stupid question. just do it. .

Two of you have asked, “What is the appeal?” That can't be a serious question.

The obvious appeal is the relief from the anxiety men feel about wanting anal sex. Overwhelmingly, women find it repellent at first and will tell you so in humiliating terms. A Woman who offers it spontaneously is inherently arousing, but very rare. I was fortunate to receive such an offer in my first anal experience., as soon as I touched my landlady's anus. My reactions were a sigh of relief, a surge of arousal, asking if I could give her an enema first, and when she said "OK," thinking I was in love for the first time –- with a woman 24 years my senior!

It has never happened to me. But if she did ask me that I would tell let's finish in your vagina now and then we will discuss anal intercourse later. Because when we have anal intercourse, I want to be sure you enjoy it and that will take some preparation. We will want to talk about enemas for cleansing, possible stretching exercises, what kind of lube and getting plenty of it, making sure you are relaxed when we start, and we must be willing to stop if it is hurting you. It it is hurting you, we will want to do stretching exercises several times before we try anal intercourse again. It is as important to me to get you physically ready so it will be an enjoyable experience for you as it is to actually have anal intercourse. So if you desire we will start working on the process and I know in a couple of weeks to a month we will succeed in having anal intercourse that is pleasant and a good experience for both of us. Do you want to work on that?

@Buttshotlover - This fictional lady hasn't asked you for a course of therapy! She wants it up the ass there and then, and most men would not look that particular gift horse in the mouth.

@TexasJack - We need to know more about your landlady experience. Sounds like any young man's dream come true!

The first time, I didn't get asked. https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1090466;mark=learning%2Cabout%2Canal%2Csex

Imagine having passionate sex with your fem partner and fucking her pussy with passion. And suddenly she says for the very first time: "I would like you to stick it in my back. Please fuck me in my hot anus". Has this happened to you before? How did you react or how would you react?

Just be careful about cross contamination if you decide to go back to her pussy. Would hate for “stuff” to get in the wrong place and cause her issues.

I like this thread and I will give a detailled answer, but I would first note that I consider the question put as: ''Unexpected request for anal sex''.

Please fuck me in my hot anus". Has this happened to you before?

Only in my dreams!

Don't make it unnecessarily complicated. This threat is not about hygiene and not one or the other formulation. I just wanted to know how you would respond to this unexpected request and whether you have ever experienced such a situation.

Don't make it unnecessarily complicated.

I totally agree, very simple scenario and as I had indicated in my first response, if that was requested of me I would be “all in” 😉

I think I have on several occasions been in this situation during my life.

One of these occasions took place in Moscow in the seventies.

I was in a students group and, on the last day of our tour, we had decided to visit the Lenin memorial on Red Square' and we went into the queue to the monument.

It started raining. I did not have an umbrella. The girl next to me in the Line had one and offered me shelter. She was small and slim with small breasts and dark short hair. She wore a denim outfit. Not at all my kind of girl, but she had a pretty face with large hazel eyes

She started the conversation.She was not Russian, but German, from East Germany. And then some kind of magic opened and during this hour long queue and we had a most interesting conversation. She was an English teacher in a small town of her country and she was the only sincere supporter of' the Communist system I ever met, and I have traveled a lot in Eastern Europe. So, during this hour, switching from German to English and back, she tried to convince me,and I tried to convince her she was wrong.

After paying respect to Lenin, she suggested we continue this conversation at her place, as a Russian friend of hers was leasing her flat to her.

We did not share the same political views, but I was finding her very cool and was ready to go with her, even if she had ''something else'' in mind.

And she did. As soon as we were in her place, we started kissing and flirting. We were soon naked. She complained about her boyish ass, but I must say that feature of her turned me on. She had more experience than me, so she guided my penis into her vagina. We had sex and it was good. When I ejaculated, she asked me to keep my cock inside her.

Then we paused for a while and back to our political debate and she offered me some vodka.

After some time, she took control of my penis and started a hand job to restore my manhood and quickly succeeded. Then, she lay down on her stomach, suggesting we ''do it again''…

I put myself on her and I parted her buttocks. l positioned my penis at the entrance of her vagina, thinking she was just wanting me to penetrate her from the rear. But suddenly, her hand grabbed my penis and firmly put it a little higher. To make things clear, she just said :"Now I want you in my ass'' .

Fucking her tight ass was quite a challenge. She cried a lot, but in the end, said she enjoyed it ‘’so much'''. For me, it was a wonderful experience.

I don't have to imagine- been there and when the lady tells you what she wants, a smart guy will give her what she is wanting.

@Svensson

One of these occasions took place in Moscow in the seventies.

You have made me very envious. I never went behind the Curtain when young and now regret it.

Reminds me of a French adult comic I loved:

https://www.iberlibro.com/servlet/BookDetailsPL?bi=30908476509&searchurl=an%3Dhugdebert%26sortby%3D17&cm_sp=snippet-_-srp1-_-title21

The English title is wrong though. Should be ‘Behind the Iron Curtain’ not 'East European.

I did it! What is there much to discuss?

Well being gay that's the only area that we would have to stick it so I guess that would be fine with me

I had a girlfriend who preferred anal to vaginal sex, which she said was boring. She told me that other boyfriends were turned off to it. She was from a small Evangelical community, in Texas, back in the 70's. I have fond memories of going up her tight ass.

My wife seldom asked - she just guided me into her ass when she wanted it. I don't think I ever asked her if I could enter her ass either, if she wasn't ready or in the mood she would subtlely guide me elsewhere. We communicated mostly with body language.

@gwhap Did your wife prepare for it? Like emptying rectum, preparing lubricant…

@gwhap Did your wife prepare for it? Like emptying rectum, preparing lubricant…

Nope, nothing special - no enemas. We did use lube, sometimes we were able to go from vaginal to anal without lube - just natural juices.

When I answered this post a couple of months ago, I told about my first anal sex partner in 1963, my landlady, old enough to be my mother. She didn't use the modern, explicit language language in the initial post. She got me a little tipsy and uninhibited as we shared a drink on her couch. She began giving me a series of come hither smiles, and started punctuating our conversation with touching my arm. We started kissing and within a minute I reached under her full length house dress and felt she wasn't wearing any underwear. My fingers went straight to her anus, and she immediately whispered in my ear, ”______, I want you to cornhole me." Quaint language, but typical at the time for a woman born in 1920. Sorry to disappoint you younger folks.

.. My fingers went straight to her anus, and she immediately whispered in my ear, ”______, I want you to cornhole me." Quaint language, but typical at the time for a woman born in 1920.

Did she shuck your ear?

Did you give her the cob?

A number of years ago I was seeing a woman who was very passionate in bed but would turn on her side whenever I tried to initiate penetration. I told her I would stick it somewhere else if she wasn't careful (not very gentleman like. I know.) Anyway, I would be prodding her backside with a very stiff erection and eventually found myself knocking at her back door. Rather than pulling away, as she would do when I was pressing against her wet pussy, she pushed back against my erection. I figured she knew what she was doing, so I let her back on to me slowly until I was buried deep in her very tight starfish. Going slowly at first, it wasn't long before she would speed up the pace and urge me on until she came. Her orgasm and the contractions from her sphincter gripping my cock, was enough to put me over the edge very quickly.

We repeated this scenario every time we slept together and I was quite happy with the arrangement. I often wonder if her reticence for vaginal sex was because she was married and had two kids already and didn't want to risk pregnancy. I have no idea. She wouldn't discuss it and I was young and horny enough not to push it and ruin a good thing.

“fem partner” here… well, total bottom who loves it when a Man thinks of me as a ‘pussy' for His cock. my first time i straddled Him and just tried to put His cock in me without a word. He laughed and said: “wait a sec” and ran downstairs and brought back a bottle of Vaseline Intensive Care hand lotion. i'd have taken Him there any way i could get Him. i only have to see cock to go into heat and present.