What a crock, and I have to say that again, what a crock. 🙄 No exclamation point is needed because it is said as being something so anti-climactic. @Dahiana and I put in a lot of time trying to justify involving our husbands @TedStarr and @Meat_Monster in our getting the band back together with each other. 😐 But the fact is that we went through a lot of brain damage trying to anticipate different scenarios we might have to contend with if we opened ourselves up to have sex with each other’s husbands.
The bottom line is that my cousin married a decent guy who is a gentle giant, a good and tolerant, and patient, very patient, husband and a great dad and all around decent human being. I’m not going to have to worry about him running his hand up my leg, or unbuttoning my blouse in the check out line at the local WalMart. He’s not going to be “dry humping” me at our favorite restaurant or copping a feel in front of the kids or my Mom or while I’m doing a presentation at some meeting I may get summoned to for business.
All that “what if” that DD and I went through, setting up protocols and proper venue for initiating sexual contact with each others husbands or “allowing” them to initiate or act on their own urges. What a crock.
DD and I have been talking about our planning and we agree that we overreacted and definitely over thought what we are starting with all of us. When did this all become crystal clear to me? This morning at the Mother Ship after I put a condom onto the erect penis of MM. 😊 I was standing there with my skirt hiked up and not having to worry about my underwear because I didn’t wear any when I trekked (notice the science fiction reference) down to the Mother Ship to touch base with that gentle giant. I was thinking about it as I turned around and leaned over the counter for him to make his grand entrance and smiling as he gave it all to me.
Of course, there is a blank space between that time when MM and I got busy to when I was finally able to think straight, and I think that is called an orgasm, or orgasms. For a man with such big hands, MM really has the right touch when it comes to slipping his hands and fingers to just the right spots at just the right time in just the right way and letting me just go along for the ride. And that was this morning and now I’m back at my home office after the Mother Ship and after attending two meetings that were completely technical and would have been very boring except I was “commando” under my skirt and very satisfied and the only one in the whole room who had sex right before being there for the meetings. 😈
No, our guys are very respectful and aware of their surroundings and very discreet and not handsy or overt and don’t assume anything of either myself or DD. Of course, Ted can and does have that option to “assume” where it concerns me and I’m sure that MM has that same option with DD. Wearing these skirts are a visual cue for our husbands but I am liking the commando option and I’m starting to flirt with the idea of a “butt plug” when I’m having to work outside of my home office. While the residual effects of having sex with MM are lessened with our using a condom, my own contribution is very manageable with a little time and some good old fashioned tissue paper. The practical aspects can’t be ignored, but carrying around a spare pair of underwear and some panty liners in case my contribution is a little more than I expected is doable.
Maybe DD and I made too much out of developing the rules or code of conduct or maybe it was just fun thinking about involving our husbands. As for me, at no time has MM ever touched me when I didn’t want him to, maybe when I wasn’t expecting it, but never have I not liked it. I say NEVER like we’ve been doing this for a long time, but I like MM, a lot, and DD has good taste in men. After all, she is doing my husband Ted, and he’s a great guy.
Now my collecting or saving condom wrappers, that might be out there and maybe I need to see a mental health expert, 😉 but It may pass. But just in case it doesn’t, I’ve got this one V 4-26-22 that will go into my scrap book, when I get it. And it may be the frequency declines as the new wears off and we get used to it, but I think that will be a long time in the future.
Right now I think we are all just too into this scene to think that there will be a time when it all slows down, but who knows?