Does getting spanked cause you to be sexually aroused?
I want more than spanking for punishment definitely
@toshe63 Spanking is the beginning of the end not the end of the beginning. Spanking, canning, whipping, breast pumping, nipple stretching, clit biting, all send blood flow to an erogenous zones making them more sensitive. Love making, sex, is not a guitar solo but a symphony of sensations. A bolero. The more areas of the body that are stimulated, aroused, the greater the orgasm, the greater the pleasure. Spanking is part of sex play not the end of it.
And lest not forget the most important part, the afters. Holding, cuddling, kissing. What a good girl you are…🌹❤️
The thought of getting spanked certainly is exciting, the anticipation. But, unless the spanking will be only a playful acting tap, then the excitement stops the minute the pain starts. I have had both.
Spanking definitely arouses me
As a kid who was never spanked, but truly enjoyed hearing friends' personal spanking stories, or actually hearing them getting spanked….I think that was as close I came to being excited about getting spanked. All of that carried into my late teen and adult years when I realized that the an actual spanking experience or the possibility of it, really was a sexually exciting thing. With the little experience I've had as an adult in the spanking world, it's clear that for me the discussion of it, the anticipation of a spanking, and the looking back on a spanking, all were terrifically sexually exciting, perhaps more so than the actual spanking. I can also never come across an old razor strop for sale in a flea market without being aroused on the spot. It's what it is.
For sure it excites me right away ,the minute I am told .It started for me when hit puberty and was still getting spanked. (mother always did it )That was totally embarrassing to say the least.However that is for another day to discuss.I find of course during I get aroused ,but also the build up to the spanking .I find the longer before it happens the more aroused ,being told to strip,then told to assume position etc. I have not had a partner since 2017/18 Male or Female.However even thinking back from Puberty to 2018 I still get aroused if I think about certain spanking situations .
@ccm93 I was young and naive enough that if I hadn’t been spanked for a while, I’d talk back just so that I could get spanked. I guess that’s where all the magic started for me.
And was this when a brat was born?
Never spanked as a kid , or that I remember. A cold spanking does nothing for me. Now if you spank, then play with either my pussy or ass, then spank again now that will make me very horny. Spanking while having sex doggy is also very good. The warmth from the spanking permeates my entire southern region. Orgasms are very intense.
I was spanked into my teens bare bottom over the knee. After many of these spankings I would jerk off. My wife said she masturbated after her spankings as well
I love an occasional spanking for being a ‘bad’ boy.
Early in our marriage, my wife and I attended a party and I spent a good part of the evening ogling other women. My wife was furious.
We had already had discussions on my love for enemas, so she know I had submissive tendencies. She often called me her "'little boy'.
When we arrived home she started yelling at me for my ogling. That led to her storming upstairs to bed, leaving me in the living room.
A short while later I also went upstairs to find her in her nightgown sitting on our bed. It was obvious she was still mad
“You made a fool of both of us this evening,” she shouted. “What do you have to say about it?”
I stood there unable to really respond.
“Well then if you have no answer, get undressed. Then we will discuss it further.” Now, I knew I was in for trouble.
My wife had always been athletic. She ran, played sports and was very physically fit. Now I was about to find out how fit she truly was. I undressed quickly and started to put on a pair of pajama bottoms when she spoke again
“You won't need those darling. Just get over here, NOW.” I did as she asked and stood in front of her.
“Tonight your whole attitude was despicable and embarrassing. It was uncalled for. What you need is an attitude adjustment.” I thought she was going to give me a big, soapy enema, but I was wrong, at least for now.
“Get over my lap, RIGHT NOW,” she shouted. Then she grabbed my army and pulled me over her. As soon as I was in place, the slaps on my ass started, and quickly became harder. I raised my hands up but she pushed them out of the way. I just a few seconds, my ass was on fire. I cried out but the spanking continued until I was completely in tears, wailing I would never do it again.
Eventually, she stopped and told me this was the punishment In the future, told me to get up and sit on the bed. She rose and went to the bathroom
I heard water running and knew a big, hot and soapy enema was next.
Later, after other sessions I gradually began to do things I knew she did not like just to get her spankings.
No. I get extremely nervous and scared. Going over someones knee like that. But, understand how it is important to be taught right from wrong. So, nothing we little ones can do about it. Once that decision is made, it’s made. Just have to hope it doesn’t hurt as bad as it could.
Not until I became a teen, Certain things were different for me during my teen spankings.
I don't ever remember not being aroused by the very though or mention of the word. “SPANKING", ohh I'm getting excited just thinking about my next spanking. For me that means imagining a woman who knows how and enjoys giving a good old fashioned bare bottom spanking.
She would be great at it and I would think up scenarios for which i deserve a good trip across her lap. She starts with her hand, a good ten minutes, my ass is beginning to glow, it's hot, I'm horney and have a mirror set up so can whatch her spanking me. Just when I think I can't take another slap on my rosy red ass, she switches to a leather strap or paddle, doubles her grip on me and lets loose. If I cry out to much I'll get a towel stuff in my mouth and extra smacks. Yes before she finishes I'm s small lttle boy with a sore heine, and the promise that my behavior has earned me a good olf fashione warm, soapy, enema.
Never been spanked, not sure how I'd take it with a woman?🙄 I'd probably do it if they fingered my butt too. 😉
I had been a troublesome teen for my Mom and it was decided that a vacation at Aunt Emma's would be just the thing I needed.
Mind you I wasn't considered in the decision making.
When I arrived I was greeted with a big smile from Aunt Emma and a knowing glance. At that very moment I knew this was going to be a long and painful "Vacation".
Aunt Emma gushed with enthusiasm, and joy and somehow I knew My guess was right on.
Come into my study young man, Auntie has a surprise for you.
Set up in the middle of the room, under a ceiling light, was a single straight back, sturdy looking chair; next to it sat a small table complete with towels, medical instruments, and various other instruments I didn't recognize; Though one stuck out!
A large red "enema bag"
It seems you've been having trouble with your bowel movements. Your Mom tells me you spend an inordinate amount of time in the bathroom.
Auntie thinks she has just the cure.
Get over here young man, and drop those pants, Auntie is going to give that naughty backside of yours a good old fashioned SPANKING. I'm going to turn that naughty bottom of yours bright red, so when I give you a good ENEMA, that nozzle is going right up your hinne like a heat seeking missile .
No please, PLEASE, PLEEZE!
No matter, auntie grabbed me by the ear, walked me over to that chair, sat down and laid me over her broad lap. In no time her hand was painting my backside with painful, smacks.
I couldn't believe a hand spanking could hurt so much. "I had allot to learn"!
Smack, smack, smack, SMACK!! It just got worse and worse, and it wasn't long before I was crying like a "Naughty Little Boy"" Mission accomplished; I thought.
Boy did I have allot to learn!
When she finally stopped I could barely breathe, I was just gasping for air, and begging. Auntie just scoffed that off, and didn't loose a stroke, and when it finally stopped I was just a"well spanked naughty little boy!"
She stood me up and put me in the corner, and warned me if I touched myself I would get a "REAL SPANKING!"
I could hear her moving and shuffling things around, water running, shaking, sloshing and the with a smack on my ass those fateful words "Okay young man it's time for a good old fashion enema for my naughty boy!"
Once again I was bent over, my cheeks being spread, a glob of lubricant inserted up my heine hole, followed by a nozzle that felt like a hose entering my ass, and a swelling of my stomach. Please, please I can't take anymore, I cried! I'll let you know when you had enough, she responded.
When it stopped and a few more spanks I was allowed to get up, sit on the bowl and empty out.
AND empty I did.
A few more and I'll have you good and cleaned out; then I will give that bottom of yours a going away gift.
Auntie Emma's house> HMMM
I wouldn’t have thought a spanking would do anything for me. So why am I so fucking hard right now after reading through these posts?!☺️
Yes, at times when I am receiving the spankings, yes I do get turned on. I also seem to get turned on when I give them to the other person too!
Yes i do. It started as a kid getting spanked and has lasted to this day
It's a start. And I hope the spanking is a good firm one that will lead to more firm impact and then move on to devices to continue the desired effects.
I love impact pain. Hi guys, it's been awhile. I'm back for the moment.
Glad to have you back, or you front!
I enjoy getting spanked. The anticipation, the actual spanking, and afterword's are all very arousing to me. I'm a little so I enjoy the dominance over me and getting punished for being bad.
Yes, big time, ever since kidhood. Getting or giving still gets me aroused. Wish there was some action to accompany that.
When my Wife spanks me I get very hard and very aroused.
It does get me aroused when my girlfriend gives me an OTK spanking while I'm in a wet diaper.
I too become aroused when my wife spanks me. It doesn't really hurt as long as I have my cloth diapers and rubber pants on, but if she takes them off because I did something bad, it really hurts when she spanks my bottom and I do become erect, which only gets her madder and make her spank me even harder, which of course makes her pussy wet.
Yes! I discovered it by accident when I was having a spirited discussion with my then boyfriend. No yelling involved, I just wasn't going along with him on something (can't remember what it was). In a fit of pique, he grabbed me around my waist. sat down, pulling me with him so I ended up over his lap, flipped up the hem of my sundress, and started administering a very hard and fast spanking on my bare bottom.
I was outraged and struggled to get away and cover my bottom, he easily grabbed the one wrist coving my bottom while barely stopping the spanking. My other arm was trapped between his body and my side. As I struggled, I realized I was getting very wet and swollen, and turned on as well. Strangely, he wasn't that into it.
I still love it, but it takes a while before I can trust someone enough to bring it up and integrate it into our play.
Spanking does not sexually arouse me at all!!
I think a spanker would know if a woman was getting sexually aroused as a certain odor of sexual arousal will permeate the air and maybe some glistening coming from a certain area. Pay attention guys, there are clues.
I enjoy a mild spanking when we do age play. It sets the mood and does excite me because I know whats coming. He enjoys teaching me how to have sex and still be a virgin by doing anal. We do that roll play every few months. I like that scene alot.
I used to as a teen when my step mother spanked me hard but haven’t met a woman interesTed in that.
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