Masturbation vs. Sex

Which do you prefer? I mean if you had to choose only one, which would it be (taking into account possible available sex partners)?

I appreciate all responses but I really appreciate responses from women! Just saying!

I should add, I would select masturbation. I've gotten really very good at it! I've gotten better at sex too but nothing like masturbating… 😀

Sex with my wife. Hands down (no pun intended).

Sex. Definitely sex, with my darling submissive girlfriend. Oh yeah- kinky also.

Sex with my husband. I like to keep rocking him back on his heels by changing things up on him a lot.!! lol. Denise

Sex with my wife, no contest. We've been married 40 years and it just keeps getting better--and that's hard to believe, 'cause it has ALWAYS been great!

Sex with a partner is almost always my first choice but I do also really love to masturbate so I can always keep myself satisfied and happy anytime there is a period of time between sex with a partner.

I've been on both sides of this, sometimes I can't get enough of my partner and other times I just want to rub one out myself. The fear of COVID-19 has definitely led to more solo sessions. But there is no substitute to sex with a skilled, willing, and enthusiastic partner!

I've been on the front lines since Covid-19 first hit working in hospitals.

Get tested and get A FUCKING SHOT ! Period ! Full stop !

As for me, I first masturbated at a very young age. I could not cum right away back then. However, I did like the feel of my hands rubbing my balls and shaft. The first time I came, I really did very hard and it felt not just good, but GGGOOOOOODDD! Fortunately, no one was home. This is because I really screamed out loud in real pleasure for about 2 to 3 minutes.

Today at 73 years of age, I still masturbate when I am alone and enjoy it just as much. That does not mean that I do not like sex done with my wife. She no longer really likes sex that much and I only get to do it with her about every 8 weeks or so. At other times she will push me away or turn the other way. I do not want to rape my own wife. As for what I think of her, I do love her as much as when we were dating and that is over 52 years now. I would not give her up for anyone.

Yes, I do have sex with other women when I can. Also, sometimes with other men. I do like it with both women and men.

Even though my friend is not nearly as kinky as I am, I would definitely prefer sex with him versus masturbation. I still masturbate as we only see each other once a week or so, but it is his touch that I want as much as I want to get off

Masturbation is very nice of course and has its place, but in no way does it compare to sex with a partner…

Sex of course! I love the Feeling when my tight pussy get penetrated and I fell it spreading and get filled in

Sex, definitely, usually masterbation for a quick cum. Sex because nothing is better than enjoying someone else, taste, smell brings so much more to the act other than just a quick one off.

Absolutely sex with my girl! Masturbation is strictly for my pleasure, but when having sex with MrsFn, my favorite thing is focusing on pleasuring her. If I bring her to the height of ecstasy, it is so intoxicating to me.

Masturbation>>>>>>>>>>Sex

Sex is a vastly overrated, mediocre, and boring experience that doesn't always guarantee physical pleasure, unlike masturbation; it's an objective fact that the anus, the vagina, and the mouth don't provide the same grip/force that your hand can provide (plus, there's always the chance that the woman you're having sex with screws up, and ends up biting your dick during a blowjob); you can make your masturbation quick or slow, without having to worry about someone else b**ching at you for choosing either alternative (in other words, it's pressure-free); on top of the aforementioned elements, sex is monotonous (you could say “the same” about masturbation, however, the seemingly endless and varied porn videos you can watch, and the superior grip your hand provides completely negate that assertion).

Most people only choose sex, due to peer pressure and political correctness, even though masturbation is objectively better and more satisfactory.

Sex of course.

I would say masturbation is like watching a film on your lap top computer and sex seeing it in a big screen movie theater

There is something missing without a partner. The connection during sex is far better than doing it alone. Too bad if you’re not experiencing that.

There is something missing without a partner. The connection during sex is far better than doing it alone. Too bad if you’re not experiencing that.

Absolutely true!! Two lovers become one together.

There's no comparison, to me. What I love about sex is being with someone that I like, feeling the person inside me, tasting them, making out with them, smelling their scent, the mutual arousal, the energy, and of course, giving myself to someone to take for their pleasure and the reciprocity of it.

If it's just me, alone, there's none of that.

I guess due some issues in my life, i dont have much sex as I wanted to, so I learn to separate sex from love.

I guess sex is better cause is not something that I have everytime, but I learned to enjoy a lot masturbation.

There are types of masturbation for me (its my opinion ok).

1- Quickie……when you want to have fast cum, or in my case sometimes, when I am nervous and need to relax

2- Normal…….bathroom/bed/quiet place, you have time……choose a porn video and have a good O.

3- Duo…….when your partner is there or by video/voice call ….. the O is bigger with spasms and more cum

4- 'Boots Choice……. when I have time, have my gear on, a dildo inside me, and a friend with me…..thats almost like sex O for me….

Guess in my life masturbation is almost like sex…..but is my life. 😉

If I could have sex + 'Boots Choice at same time I think would be dangerous for me, cause the O would be so big than could give me a heart attack …… LOL

Za

Absolutely sex with my girl! Masturbation is strictly for my pleasure, but when having sex with MrsFn, my favorite thing is focusing on pleasuring her. If I bring her to the height of ecstasy, it is so intoxicating to me.

@DrFn I can totally relate to that. Focusing on the woman's pleasure and experiencing her pleasure is such a big turn-on for me too.

I would always have sex with my husband instead of masturbation, I only masturbate some times if he is not here at home with me. Sex is not just fucking, it is doing other things too. I love all the body contact I get when I am with my husband, I can not get that when I am on my own. And he has got magic fingers and tongue too, not just a magic penis. His magic penis is SO much better than a dildo or something like that.

You can't replace sex but I really enjoy masturbation too. That being said, masturbation is more about the physical need, sex also fulfills me emotionally (if it is with the right person).

@female_patient well said. That's the perfect discription. Unfortunately i don't have a sex partner at this time, mostly due to my working hours. I have had 3x sex in the last 4 years, so masturbation is my (almost) only option.

But the feeling of giving myself to a man… 💕

Nicely said both female patient and zaboots. There is nothing like being with a partner and making out and getting the feeling, the smell and the taste and the pleasure of a nice big O with them But, when you are in a situation such as I am, and do not have a partner at the present time (wife not interested at all with any sex) masturbation methods as you describe zaboots is a very enjoyable and pleasurable time. Would love to find a partner with the same problem for discreet adventures.

I used to be bi when I was younger. Now I am 100% lesbian due to things that happened. Anyway, when people meet me and find out that I am a lesbian they are shocked. I am a lipstick lesbian and so is my sister and her girlfriend and her girlfriends' niece. One night I was sitting around with some straight friends drinking and one asked me what it was like. I have no clue where my answer came from in my brain but I said. Do you ever taste yourself? All of them said yes. If not with their own fingers but off their husband or boyfriend's penis. I asked if they liked the taste. They either replied with not bad or yes. I asked if they liked their scent and they all answered the same way. Then I asked if they masturbated. All of them said yes and some expanded and said who doesn't? I asked if they liked it and they all were like duh..yes. I said the simple answer is being with another woman in a relationship is just like that without all the work of doing it yourself. We automatically just know how to touch each other.

So when you are with a partner it is awesome and masturbating is a close second.

Tabitha,

I agree with what you said about how it is to be a lesbian. I have known many lesbians and gays for that matter. They all have said just about the same thing as you said. Maybe, not exactly the same way, but very close to that.

As for my sexuality, as I have said before, I am not 100% straight myself. I consider myself to have about a 20% gay side to me. I have also been with some females who are close to being strictly lesbian or who just wanted to see what it like to be with a man.

Albert

Without question it has to be sex.

As good as it feels to masturbate, there is something so special and even more of a turn on to feel your partner's body grinding against you. Getting all hot and sweaty. Yum

How many here would rather masturbate than have sex. For this question, sex with another person means just that, physical contact. For a long time I turned down offers of sex, because i would rather masturbate. there are many reasons, a small penis and cross dressing are two of them. Yes sex is fun, but i love jacking off.