Today I wisely chose masturbation over sex. I was on the road today and I was a bit horny. I was close to a adult video/toy shop that has video booths so I decided to go a little out of my way and stop in. The booth I went into did have glory holes on both sides of the booth. If I wanted to I could have easily gotten sucked or sucked cocks through the holes but even as horny as I was and stroking myself I was able to resist. I do love stroking in a sleezy place like that, there were guys watching me through the holes as I was masturbating which was hot plus knowing that in most of the other booths anonymous gay sex was going on. I stroked myself to a intense orgasm , put my clothes back on then continued on my way. In my younger more foolish days I probably would have been in there for quite a while!
I thoroughly enjoy sex, but if I had to pick one, I would pick masturbation. All I need is my imagination and my fingers. It’s something I can do whenever I want and without any additional help. The help is always enjoyed, but I’m more than happy to help myself.
If I have a need to masturbate, I always ask @sirensong to be with me. Having her there makes it so much more pleasurable for me. (But lest you think I'm a total narcissist, those times only happen rarely when I'm feeling really horny and she's not.)
Everyone is different, but for me, sex doesn't really compete with masturbation. Sex is about communication, togetherness, and the eroticism of revealing what you really want and seeing what your lover really wants, physically and sexually. And that is irreplaceable.Masturbation is entirely about my getting the most pleasure possible measured both in intensity and duration. It's about working out the mechanics and exact reactions i feel in my penis and then focusing entirely on the sex sensation because its the only priority. It's more selfish, completely focused, and only about my gratification. Of course, that part of sex is important to me. It's great that masturbation is an endless well of penis stimulation and satisfaction. I'm glad that sex doesn't have that responsibility!
Masturbation is always good and more satisfying, but on the other hand if I were straight up lesbian it might be different.
Masturbation is good, very good but doesn't compare to sex. With sex, I am next to my naked partner, I feel her body next to mine, I get to kiss her, suck on her nipples, make her cum several times before I enter her for sex. Then I get to cum inside her. Sex is just so much better but it is not always available.
IMO, there's no substitute for sex with a partner who is tuned into your desires, knows your body as well as/better than you, is willing to explore with you, etc. Not knowing exactly where they will touch, what they will say, how you will respond is incomparable. In lieu of that however, I find masturbation preferable to being frustrated and unsatisfied with someone else. I'm not talking about a new partner, there's definitely a learning curve in relationships. I'm talking about someone oblivious to or uninterested in making sure you leave as satisfied as they are. If I have to get myself off after being with you, you're not really needed in the process, you know?
I agree with buttshotlover, nothing beat pre-sex and all the tastes and feelings then entering her warm moist vagina, perfect.
For me, sexual activity is masturbation.I believe that masturbation is a basic need such asfood, drink and breathe.And also makesmasturbation even fun and healthy. Inow operate masturbationalmost daily for 67 years and still have myfun.Moreover, the Masturbation has the advantage that you can masturbate with less than erect penis. Because with the erection I have a problemsince my age of 62 years. I am now 75 years old. I am proud to find myself in such a large company of masturbators
Praise for masturbation. Masturbation is a very useful and enjoyable habit. Which helps to reduce sexual tension. It is also healthy if the sperm is drained regularly. That keeps the prostate healthy. Masturbation can be performed alone (solo masturbation) or with like-minded partners. In order to obtain sexual satisfaction, masturbants do not have to harm anyone. That means other people (children, women and men) are not endangered by masturbants. Personally, I am a proud solo masturbant who has been masturbating regularly for 67 years. I started masturbating when I was 9 years old and now I'm 75 years old. I have been studying the phenomenon of masturbation for many years. That means I have collected all the information available to me.
Sexual intercourse for sure. However, being in diapers 24/7, my wife is not into it. We use a variety of different toys and oral on her. My “sex” is always masturbation and 99% of the time inside my diaper. The last time I asked for real sex with her she was rubbing my plastic pants against my diaper and she said “this is your sex…..
We both enjoy watching each other masturbating ,,,my wife loves watching the things I will do to myself calling me a true slut 😊
We both enjoy watching each other masturbating ,,,my wife loves watching the things I will do to myself calling me a true slut 😊Being called a “slut”, “whore”, “harlot”, “Sex freak” here on Zity is a badge of honor - or a term of endearment. Congratulations!! We should all be so honored with the title. 😄
Ohhh, that is a tricky question, though. I think I will go for sex. I know that masturbation is something handy and beneficial for our bodies. However, I don't see any difference between the effects of sex and masturbation. I even think that sex is twice as enjoyable as masturbation. I don't think there is any kind of debate in here, at least for me. I mean, if we wouldn't be addicted to sex, then why do we still have female escorts services?! Because sex is one of the most enjoyable things in the world, it's that simple! We have got so many sites like https://www.escorts2.com/female-escorts where you can find escorts, I think it says it all.
Easy question to answer - masturbation. As I mention in my profile, Habitual masturbation - Beginning at a very very early age. I discovered pictures of women in bathing suits….
Given only one option: Sex with a partner would be it. However, that implies that mutual masturbation as part of sex with a partner would be permitted, which gives the best of both worlds!
Taking in consideration of available partners as you ask, there is no choice for me. However I had to choose between mastrubating or having an active selfie I would choose the latter
Masturbation is great, I've been doing it since I was 11, and for much of my life I only masturbated in my diapers and rubber pants and usually after I had gone potty in them or made a mess. However, nothing is a great as having sex with my SO beginning at least while I'm diapered and wet, or as she is in the process of changing my diapers and we both become so aroused that she insists on putting my pee-pee in her.
Both have their pros. Sex is good if I want to linger and not orgasm immediately.I have an issue where if I do get horny and can't take care of it, my clit becomes very hard and painful. The longer I wait, the more painful it gets. When it starts hurting, sex won't fix it. I have to masturbate. I grab a clean diaper and diaper rash cream and head to the bathroom where I go ahead and change my diaper and pleasure my throbbing love button.Sometimes, intercourse is needed and others handling it myself is best.
Both have their pros. Sex is good if I want to linger and not orgasm immediately.I have an issue where if I do get horny and cant take care of it, my clit becomes very hard and painful. The longer I wait, the more painful it gets.There are a couple of other threads that talk about “clitoral hard-ons” or over-stimulation. Makes me think what @MissPuffyButt is describing is sort of the female equivalent of men's “blue balls” or the an erection lasting for more than 4 hours! 😄https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=783761https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1123021
If it weren't for masturbation I wouldn't have had much of a sex life. My wife refuses to touch me there and seems to be quite happy being the girl my mother was talking about when she told me to never touch a girl here – or there. We did have a little sex early in our marriage.I believe masturbation is a great way to figure out what you like especially for girls so they can teach their guys how to do it and what to do to them.
Which do you prefer? I mean if you had to choose only one, which would it be (taking into account possible available sex partners)?I'd pick sex. The orgasms are much better or atleast we got to that place where they were way better.The connection, both emotional and physical, to another person can be much more satisfying than any masturbation experience…for me atleast.
I believed that once I married, I would no longer need to masturbate to pictures of women - wow, was I wrong! Despite lots of martial sex, I still needed to look at pictures of others and masturbate to them.
Two totally different experiences. For me, sex in a loving relationship has always been special. Combining enemas with masturbation will usually produce a strong, prolonged ejaculation. It's like ice cream - you can have more than one favorite.
To quote Bob Gaudio in “Jersey Boys” after he lost his virginity. “You were right. It is more fun with a friend.” Oh what a night.
Vaginal or Anal intercourse with a male partner is my first choice by far! I do enjoy mutual cunnilingus with a women as a distant second choice.Dita