Lack of interest after orgasm

Wearing adult diaper nappy should be for 1 thing incontinence thats why i wear 24/7

The sensation we experience is probably due to you taking in the societal and cultural feelings towards diapers and adult babies. It's an easy joke to make and unfortunately it gets made too often for people who really do enjoy or *need* this kind of roleplaying. What you are engaging in is not wrong morally, and I imagine that you know that much.

It is disrespected and laughed at by society, though, and you are taking it to heart when you absorb those feelings into yourself. Shame is an emotion that always involves other people, and what they might think of you. Try viewing this fetish as logically as you can, always reminding yourself that it's society's opinion and it doesn't have to be *your* opinion.

Remember that society is not always correct in their big group opinions on things. Society used to believe that slavery was just fine. Is that something you would agree with? Remind yourself of terrible group-think like that, and I hope you can form a disconnect between the masses and your own personal emotions and values.

True we all I believe go through this experience, Diapers are a sexual thing for me. I fantasize and climax. Then straight after I want to go through a Bing and Purge cycle. Its normal, reading others post have made me realize the time frames and such are normal.

Im the same after orgasm i need to get out of diapers.lately ive been.forcing myself to keep them on for at least 30min. i even fell back asleep and slept for a few more hours

I'm glad to read I am not the only one who goes through this. When I first got my new cloth diaper and plastic pants I felt so bad after my first experience with them that I threw the plastic pants in the garbage. I kept the diaper though, and now, a few weeks later, I am so wishing I still had those plastic pants! Will I buy some more? I'm not sure yet. I do know it feels good to be back in the diaper.

Waaaaay back when I was in my tweens, I had been using and stealing my brother's cloth diapers and plastic pants to feel like him and to be treated like a baby for years already, but then I started to feel ashamed and that I wasn't a baby anymore and I shouldn't be doing this and several times I threw the plastic pants away and then I would want them back the next day. The result being that deep down I will always be a fifteen month old toddler.

I think it's normal to feel some shame at doing something seems very strange and even some guilt at wearing something that is so innocent yet something that you should have stopped with toilet training at the toddler years but still gives that person pleasure sexual or otherwise, but as you look at topics from those of us here at Zity.biz, know you are not alone and maybe this will give you some peace and solace.

Well at least the biological explanation is: After a man has finished ejeculating, her goes through a refraction period where he is unable to get a orgasm again, many exprience this same thing with regular porn or just what ever turns them on, this refraction period differs from man to man, some have to wait hours before they can climax again, other, meere minutes is enough.

this is like a evolution in our brain to prevent overpopulation as fast, females however, go through no such phases meaning they can go for hours and climax every time, since they can't populate the earth on their own

Well at least the biological explanation is: After a man has finished ejeculating, her goes through a refraction period where he is unable to get a orgasm again, many exprience this same thing with regular porn or just what ever turns them on, this refraction period differs from man to man, some have to wait hours before they can climax again, other, meere minutes is enough.

this is like a evolution in our brain to prevent overpopulation as fast, females however, go through no such phases meaning they can go for hours and climax every time, since they can't populate the earth on their own

That makes more sense than any other reason I've heard ever.

I know my daddy/master doesn't allow orgasms in diapers often. and this is probably why, he doesn't want to correlate an orgasm with the diaper. I wear fulltime and don't need that type of connection I guess is how he feels

I think we are all that way we get horny, do what we have to do. if it's in diapers, panty hose, or anything else. when we are done we are done. until we get horny again.

Posting an update. I used to have a very big issue staying interesting after climax. I negotiated with an online baby sitter. that I needed help and they obliged. I was worked up to the point I couldn't stop myself. The first time was so difficult. just staying in a clean diaper... changing was still hard, I was made to put a new one on, while on cam. I was by all accounts baby sat. It worked up from there using hypnosis tapes I was able to overcome a LOT of self stigma now it bothers me very little. >.<

I'm still praised for my progress 😄

Usually by the time I get my rocks off in my diapers, I've had them on for hours and they're wet (and sometimes poopy) and it's just time to get cleaned up and out of them for a while.

The only time this is a problem for me is when I wear my diapers to bed. Before going to sleep I like to get off in them, then I have to overcome the desire to take them off when I'm done. Usually after about half an hour I'm back to enjoying being in them again.

Well at least the biological explanation is: After a man has finished ejeculating, her goes through a refraction period where he is unable to get a orgasm again, many exprience this same thing with regular porn or just what ever turns them on, this refraction period differs from man to man, some have to wait hours before they can climax again, other, meere minutes is enough.

this is like a evolution in our brain to prevent overpopulation as fast, females however, go through no such phases meaning they can go for hours and climax every time, since they can't populate the earth on their own

Overpopulation would have to have been a major and long-term cause of disease or death among humans for evolution to have picked up on it. Evolution doesn't foresee anything. That's for intelligent design and creationism. 😃

Anyway.

A much more obvious biological reason would be: Your prostate gland empties itself of semen when you ejaculate. Once this happens, it takes a while for it to refill, making it both unproductive and exhausting to continue to pursue sex. Further, if males could remain in a continuously aroused state, they'd effectively be the stupidest animals alive. While our male ancestors lusted after their cavewomen, they'd have been too busy doing nothing but staring at furry boobs to notice the approaching lions. A "time out" in between ejaculations is also probably evolution's way of making sure we aren't completely distracted from the task of staying alive. 😃

As for the original question: Yes, once I've gotten off in my diaper, I do tend to lose interest. I don't feel bad about wearing, but I just sort of stop caring. It's ok, though. I've gotten used to it over ~30 years of diaper-wearing.

I wish I knew how to fix that. I suffer exactly the same because I feel so humiliated.

I wish I could sleep all night and wake up in a nappy

When I was younger and before I was incontinent and used to deliberately wet my bed or a nappy for pleasure and self gratification. I was always careful not to masturbate until the morning as once I had orgasmed I would feel disgust at my wetness and not be able to sleep in it. If I resisted the temptation I would happily sleep all night soaked.

You probably can't. I have the same reaction after messing, then cumming. I become disgusted with the entire process, especially the obligatory cleanup, and swear I'll never do it again. (Until the next time.) It's a strange cycle.

I am the same as most , once and I am done . My wife on the other hand will cum many times . After the first orgasm she can and will cum 4 to 5 more times with very little stimulation . There is nothing more exciting than helping her orgasm and then watching her ride that wave . Then helping her again and again , until she has several . You ladies are very exciting to help and watch orgasm many times .

Unfortunately it does seem at tjme s this happens to me😢 & I hate that 😢

I think that's how we're wired. Doesn't seem to matter if it's diapers, some other kink or vanilla sex. When I'm done, in done.

Flatwater has it right, I think (#86):

"I think that's how we're wired. Doesn't seem to matter if it's diapers, some other kink or vanilla sex. When I'm done, in done."

Exactly. Me too, and I'm not a diaper fan. I am however, a rubber and enema lover. If my Domme/switch partner has me dressed in a lot of rubber, including total enclosure (catsuit, socks, gloves, hood) and continues to do sexually stimulating things (e.g., butt play, butt plug, enemas, more rubber, etc.) I can enjoy this for hours (I've done this) or potentially even more than a day. The sexual tension just builds and builds and it's extremely enjoyable. Almost as soon as I finally have a climax, other than wanting a nap (frequently normal male response), I want, at least for minutes to hours, to get away from the rubber, expel the enema and have no more sexual activity. I've been this way since discovering masturbation and kinks as a teenager. I've never seen much of a satisfactory explanation of why or how this works. I've also, like others here, wanted to throw out all my sexually-stimulating items, like rubber and enema magazines (these days, computer files), enema equipment, sneakers, rubber clothes, etc. One time a couple of years ago, I forced myself after orgasm (alone at the time) to stay enclosed in rubber and sneakers and just see what happened. For the first 10-20 minutes, I was really uncomfortable and desired only to get undressed and clean up. After perhaps 20-30 minutes, I started to again feel sexual and at that point started to enjoy the rubber, sneakers and butt plug I was wearing. Once the sexual interest returns, my interest in being sexually stimulated (in this case, with kink clothing and toys) also returns.

I think it's kind of an exaggeration of a non-kinkster response. After ("normal," non-kink) orgasm, at least temporarily we (men especially) lose interest in sex for awhile, and if we're kinksters, temporarily lose interest in our sex stimulation/kinks also. The loss of interest in our kinks may, as some have said here, be partly from embarrassment of being discovered, so intensifies our desire to get away from (or literally trash) our kink paraphernalia. This is at least until we want sex again, when we figuratively or literally go retrieve our kink items from the trash. For most in this thread, it's diapers, and for me would be my catsuit, sneakers, butt plugs and enema gear. I'm not sure I've actually added anything new in this post, so if something else occurs to me, I'll keep posting here.

Eric

It happens to me all the time once I bust I'm dun with it i haven't been able to overcome it but Mabey one day I will hope it works out for u

Perhaps the solution to this is to stay diapered long after the orgasm if possible, use the diaper as a diaper. Even better, if you still have diaper time front of you (for those of us who need privacy for this) change into a fresh diaper after the current one is wet/dirty.

I think it is important to train the brain that thw diaper is not just a sex object, so to speak, but something that you actually enjoy wearing.

Since becoming incontinent and dependant on nappies this is no longer a problem. Nappies are just part of my life now. If I rub my self to orgasm through my nappy which is the way I usually masturbate then I just continue wearing the nappy afterwards. I no longer feel any shame or disgust about wearing and wetting my nappy anymore.