Lack of interest after orgasm

Who here will be masterbating to anything about DL/AB like wearing a diaper, bing in a crib, your gf turns to be a AB/DL ect and right you ejuaculate you want nothing to do with diapers you think there gross.? If so how do i fix it?

I know that exact feeling. It happens to me after masturbation, I just want to have nothing to do with it.

Well, I don't know how to solve that problem. I just wanted to tell you you're not alone on that one. Yeah, can anyone help?

Thanks

- YoungDL44

Common problem...you gotta deal...if you WANT to get over it, force the issue and stay in diapers after your little session. Gradually, I think, your feelings will diminish.

Hello. I have a twist though. I am the same as you guys after masturbating, but also if my wife has had a part in it as well. If she 'does me ' whilst I am wearing plastic pants I feel exactly the same after as well. She sometimes might tell me to keep the pants on after when she is being playfully dominant, but I just don't want too. It was great,it's over , forget it ever happened ! ? Strange that isn't it ?

From time to time I do get the same feeling but I am more often restrained when diapered. When my other half on occasions brings me off during a change although I sometimes feel "That's it for me" I am re-diapered against my will with little I can do about it and I refuse myself the option of using our "Safe word".

An hour or so later I feel ok again and am happy to still be diapered. I find that although just after climax the feeling of wanting to be diapered can at times disappear it doesn't take long to return, even more so when you can't do anything about it!

I have this very same problem.. i love wearing the diapers... but as soon as i am done i want it off and nothing else to do with it..

Any one have this problem ?

It's like when I fore-fill any one of my fantasies, almost immediately after, I feel some disrespect for myself and sawer I'll never do it again. A few days go by and I'm sort of over it. Then maybe a month or 6 months later I think about it and sooner or later I do the same thing all over, with almost the same results.

The types of things I am talking about are sexual in nature and this feeling comes over me after climax. I feel great during and until I come down from the sexual high then I get this feeling even thou the experience was great.

Can any help explain this or offer any advice other then " Don't Do It " ,that much I can figure out myself.

I think this happens to allot of us, and it just doesn't have to be this in particular. I believe this is a very normal process for the brain. The good and bad, the yin and yang, devil and angel. Whatever you want to apply to the situation. I'm not trying to tell you to blow it off so much, but I think it's a normal process. And I would say, don't worry so much about the feelings you have on this. Go with how you feel, do what you do, when you have the urge, and when you feel you don't want to (or feel bad about it) don't do it. Just try not to get to hung up on the bad feelings 😉

I went through that for years and to some extent still do, its just that the turn around time is shorter. After wearing a diaper, I would feel so guilty I would throw everything away and swear that was the last time. Then the thoughts would build and I would go back to it. I have eventually come to accept that it is not that bad and everyone has sexual quirks. Mine just happens to be diapers.

The problem is that while a lot of kinky behavior is accepted, with wearing diapers there is no outlet to have a discussion about it. For me part of the turn on is the humiliation and I fantasize about my wife telling people about me wearing diapers. If it really happened, I would have to flee the state, but I still get so turned on thinking

Peeing in diapers does not hurt anyone and is nothing to beat yourself up over. As soon as you can convince yourself that it is O.K., the less guilty you will feel.

I used to feel this way, but it was probably because when i was younger i used to masturbate in them. As i no longer need to use them for that paticular need i no longer feel ashamed afterwards 😄

I get that feeling every now and then, it generally doesnt last long, usually a week or two tops...

IMO its all about whether you let it control you, if I feel bad, I stop and when the mood strikes i do it again...

Same with all the other stuff i do, I smoke every now and then, but i dont do it habitually, only when the mood strikes...that way it doesnt control me...

What are you doing it for? If it is a sexual fantasy then you should not worry about it as long as you are not hurting yourself and those around you. There are many people that work ordinary jobs and have unusual sexual kinks and that can be quite healthy as long as you are doing this with a partner that also shares your fantasy.

Once it effects you personally (similar to drug, sex or alcohol addiction) then there is a problem and that needs to be addressed. Remember any addiction starts to effect those around you and your relationship.

Looking at your case, I presume that you are aroused by nappies and like one of those pressure cookers you wear them like some king of release valve. That is normal and okay just as long as you are not looking at the kids wearing them 😉

I have the same feeling. I think this is normal because we know wearing diaper is "wrong", wearing diaper is not acceptable.

In my opinion, you do not need to force yourself to continue or give up wearing diaper. Wear it or not, just follow your mind. If you want to put it on, put it on; other times, you are "normal".

Remember, wearing diaper is not accepted by others. BUT, it is not illegal and not harmful. Wearing diaper is much better than most social accepted activities, e.g. smoking, drinking, having more than one sex partner, ...

I have the same feeling. I think this is normal because we know wearing diaper is "wrong", wearing diaper is not acceptable.

There is a very big difference between what is "wrong" and what is "not acceptable" however there some that will confuse the two.

There is nothing wrong in wearing nappies however society sees this as abnormal behaviour because adults should act like adults unless there is a medical reason ergo it is not acceptable.

Getting sexually aroused and acting by the arousal by children in nappies is considered wrong by many parts of society.

Has anyone ever done bondage play after orgasm?

Perhaps restrained in straitjacket and diapers, then masturbated and left in the same situation?

Every time I do bondage, I want out after orgasm, and am let out, but thought it would be interesting to be left for a while.

I often masturbate when I am in my disposable diapers. A lot of times, after I orgasm, I feel like getting out of my diapers. 😢

I am the same way after i orgasm I do not want to play any more. But do like to use orgasm as punishment then cause after i get off I do not want to play but now I am stuck

Yeah I have the same issue. I would wear diapers for the comfort, a little while later I'll be aroused, and when I have an orgasm I lose interest completely, and I kind of feel ashamed. a little while later though I'll put on a diaper again. It's a really strange cycle.

I'm not a doctor and I don't know everyone's stories here but my opinion, having the same situation myself in the past, is this.

In almost all ways a fetish is part of a person's sexual identity. It defines what turns them on and off. If you get intense sexual arousal by your fetish then yes, you will lose interest after orgasm because you built so much energy up around the event.

Nothing is written is stone however and this of course has exceptions.

The other side of this is if the fetish in question is also a lifestyle.

Lifestyle, being an intricate part of who you are and that it is also part of your everyday life in some way. If you're someone who needs or desires wearing diapers at certain times, overnight, or all the time then you'd most likely stay in or get changed into new ones because the sexual aspect can be or is secondary to the lifestyle.

I'm not saying that for anyone in this thread it isn't a lifestyle or that you're feelings are just driven by sexual desires. I'm merely offering an opinion to a paradox that I thought over for a long time myself.

I remember my professional nanny would always remark on this behaviour in myself and others. Once her clients had come, they would "grow up" in front of her and revert to a manly way of being and often get out as quick as they could. The sexual arousal supresses the guilt and inhibition which then reasserts itself after orgasm. However, she liked to tease them at this point, denying the manly role and insist they leave still wearing a nappy

Ya that is exactly what happens to me i totally lose interest. Even when i try to make myself interested. But i usually get back in game about 30 min later.

Somebody mentioned at work,about getting a thrill and excitement from stroking or tickling oneself around the area with a longish feather instead of the usual methods and applicators.It is certainly a new sensation take my word for it. That way you don't need to pull at the diapers so much because you don't need to get your hands in there 😄

I heard the red Indians or whoever used to tickle people on the soles of the victim's feet. with feathers as a form of madness torture.

Yup, same here. I always thought It was curious, always thinking: this time I'll put a new diaper under my butt, but every time,the desire just wasn't there. Even though me-jr was sleeping, so it would've been the perfect time to do it. if you know what I mean :p WinK

I feel exactly the same way. And I love your characterization of "The Walk of Shame."

I think this happens to everyone with any particular kink. Once you've cum, it's over. That said, I love a good nanny who looks beyond that. It's easy to be diapered and dressed when you're horny, it's not so easy after you've released.

A nanny who can force you into diapers after you've cum has control over you.

When I was young this was exactly what I encountered,maybe A day or two until my interest came back now that I am older after an hour or two I am ready to indulge again .

This happens to me all the time. I think I might get over it when playing diapers games with a partner since that keeps things a lot more spicy.

I'm really glad I found this site and reading what others have to say. I too have felt ashamed or lost total interest after reaching orgasm and I used to put everything back away in its proper place. Now I dont necessarily do that. A lot of times I will keep my diaper on for several more hours after I have had an orgasm and go about my business.

It really helps to know that I have done the exact same thing as other people. It finally makes me feel like I'm not alone...

I actually find it frustrating that this happens. For me, I am playing in secret from my partner so I go through great pains to hide everything. When the time comes that I can actually get into diapers, I am so excited with anticipation that I can hardly stand it. Once I reach orgasm, its over and I'm done. I do think sometimes that it is the shame factor sneaking into my head. Or fear of getting caught.

Wow its amazing when you find out that you think something is "unique" to you then you find out it happens to just about everyone else lol.

btw, I hate it 😢