How do women want to be fucked and are virgin women over-rated?

allanenema said:

Personally, I have no knowledge of virgin women but I do have a LOT of knowledge when it comes to being fucked vs. making love. I don't think that making love is such a terrible thing. In fact, many of you cynics may think that making love is just dramatic crap. Fine!! Have it your own shallow way. I just can't stand people who are without depth of any kind.

There's something truly beautiful about honest to god "love making"! I don't want to just be someone's CUM PROVIDER and I'm not a human dildoe eather!! You cynics can have all you want of being dehumanized but it's not for me at all!!

@allanenema have you taken the time to actually read ALL of the posts?

I would refer @allanenema to POST #1 in this thread

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=914672

This thread is specifically asking about fucking in contrast to making love and we aren't being cynical.

We're saying what we like and want in the sack.

@allanenema we are not being cynics, we did not say we do not like making love. I love making love but we can fuck too.

This is a fantastic thread and not just fucking to be fucking. It is about fucking someone you love and being close for them and them for you. It's not about some random fucking at all.

I love this thread and think it has been long past due to have this topic out here.

When we are talking about fucking here, it is with someone we love and want to be playful with or just to "jump their bones" and make them feel our passion about them and what makes them special to us. My husband is not just a play toy or some "human dildo". He is the man I love and I want him to be able to enjoy me and know I am nuts about him. So when I can, I fuck him for all I'm worth and that is me giving him my body, my lust, my passion, and my LOVE, that he has earned over and over again.

Fucking is NOT shallow in any way.

When I have sex with a man, when they go all out to fuck me hard for all they are worth so THEY get the most pleasure out of fucking me, I have a great time--much better than when they are being sweet and loving, making sure I have a good time and making sure they don't hurt me.

I want a man who is vigorous, ethusiastic and knows what he's doing. I know what I need to do with my body to have a great time and I promise, I WILL have a terrific time. So fuck me for all you're worth. Don't be concerned with pleasing me and don't coddle me.

Calm, polite, gentlemanly fucking is fine for making love and is OK on occasion and maybe for the first time you have sex with someone. Just being next to and hugging each other is wonderful for making love, but it's not what I want for a vigorous session of sex.

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Dahiana said

My husband is not just a play toy or some "human dildo".

Sometimes my husband is! 😁 😁 😁

@SwitchableSusie said, "Calm, polite, gentlemanly fucking is fine for making love and is OK on occasion and maybe for the first time you have sex with someone. Just being next to and hugging each other is wonderful for making love, but it's not what I want for a vigorous session of sex."

--------------Sometimes my husband is! 😁 😁 😁

Well, okayyyyy, maybe sometimes my husband is. 😳 I'll admit it. 😉

The best fucking I’ve ever had is with my current husband. We love each other deeply and there is a huge amount of tenderness even when I’m on all 4s having my ass turned red with a paddle. Who the hell else could I let myself go to that degree with? To fuck, to really fuck, you need to abandon all restraint, to not care if you make noise, or if your body makes noise or hell even to fart when he’s in you and pounding the shit out of you. I can’t do that with a stranger. Hell I can’t even do that with a FWB and I’ve had those. I can with him.

Well, okayyyyy, maybe sometimes my husband is. 😳 I'll admit it. 😉

Mine too but he comes with the rest of his body attached to the human dildo part. lol

He can touch me in all sorts of important places with his hands so he is more than a human dildo really.

@Nurse_Phillips that was a great post, and I couldn't agree with you more. 😃 @Amethyst is he the rechargeable kind of batteries. 😉

And OMG @SwitchableSusie, that was a great post. 😈

@Amethyst is he the rechargeable kind of batteries. 😉

Yes it takes him about 2 hours to charge himself and he will switch on again, and he can do that enough times a day. lol

Yes it takes him about 2 hours to charge himself and he will switch on again, and he can do that enough times a day. lol

Where do you put the charging cord. 😉 😈

Where do you put the charging cord. 😉 😈

I think he generates his power when I give him a meal and then he has got enough juice to give to me. lol 😜 😈

Making love, I've only been blessed to have that with one partner. Fucking that's equally as beautiful and necessary and that's occurred with the same person. There is a link between both making love and fucking. Everything else is just sex and while it can be enjoyable it's never as heightened emotionally, physically, or spiritually. There's a connection a tapping into each other's desires and needs that happens.

I think he generates his power when I give him a meal and then he has got enough juice to give to me. lol 😜 😈

Your explanation is all well and good, 😉 but my visualiztion was more interesting. 😄

I like that, @Searching4_O 🌹

This is a fascinating and fantastic thread ladies! Please, carry on!

Fn

It's an amazing thing - this fucking, letting yourself be 'fuckable', available, accessible, on call, or the what the kids say 'booty call'. It's amazing - because when you make yourself available to the one who wants you, when they want you, even if you aren't totally in the mood, that favor is returned. 🌹

With this thread - and posting here, I felt the need, and He was going to have to leave work in a short time, but I had a need. It would have to be quick - and I wouldn't be able to be fucked bent over His desk, but five minutes later, I'm naked in His office, and His cock is in my mouth. 🌹 He gave me what I wanted - and He was glad He made the time 😁 but I had His cock in my mouth and I got a taste.

Later everyone - 🌹

It's an amazing thing - this fucking, letting yourself be 'fuckable', available, accessible, on call, or the what the kids say 'booty call'. It's amazing - because when you make yourself available to the one who wants you, when they want you, even if you aren't totally in the mood, that favor is returned. 🌹

Yes it is nice to be fuckable and available but a lot of the time I am checking to see if my husband is available to me. He is always fuckable. When I fuck him I do it with lust and passion and if I am in the right mood I do it with a lot of energy too. 😈 I give my body to him and I take his penis inside me where it belongs really. I learned how he likes to be touched and he knows how to touch me and just where. I feel very very lucky that he knows my body this well.

@Amethyst said

Yes it is nice to be fuckable and available but a lot of the time I am checking to see if my husband is available to me. He is always fuckable. When I fuck him I do it with lust and passion and if I am in the right mood I do it with a lot of energy too. 😈

I don't want to interrupt the flow of this excellent thread, but I'm dropping in simply to leave you, my beautiful wife, a 🌹

This is a fantastic thread. All of the women I love to follow are here, @Lora_C, @Ms_Lila, @Amethyst, @Dahiana, and @SwitchableSusie.

I think I will check back here when I can.

You all are some fantastic ladies. 🌹

It would be complete if @gibby was here. @Nurse_Phillips seems to tell it like it is, too.

I don't want to interrupt the flow of this excellent thread, but I'm dropping in simply to leave you, my beautiful wife, a 🌹

😄 😄 😄 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘

OK, no more mushy stuff.

GET A ROOM.

While making love with someone you share feelings for can be almost spiritual I could never be able to find that satisfiying enough for that to be it .

I want, need, desire to be fucked senseless . To feel that raw passion , I have to have you NOW !!! I need to have you inside of me, grab me, take me, make me yours in every sense of the word ! Rip my clothes off, taste me , smack my ass, grab my hips, fuck me hard, nibble me, pinch me, bite me, pull my hair , make me feel like I belong to you to do as you please, make me gasp, make me moan!

And when you think we are close to done I want to attack you and use you and taste you until you dont have a drop remaining and we are utterly spent .

THATS SOME GOOD FUCKING !!!!

😉

Amen @bridgette!

When I am being fucked to the point where I just am totally into being out of my mind, that is when my senses seem to heighten and if there as any shred of decency in me it is just some little noise. When I am so into being fucked and being fucked I don't have an ounce of inhibition left and whatever he wants to do to me he can do. I'm just there for him to fuck me and I can't wait to see or feel whatever is going to happen.

I was into being fucked that way the first time I took him up my ass, I was so hot and all his and I wanted to try anything. And we did. This is partly how I became a "Tool Time" girl and discovered the wonderful world of automotive and mechanics tools. 😉 But it is a fantastic feeling to just "lose it" forget any idea of being prim or proper because that just isn't what I feel or even WANT to feel. It's just following anything my body, or his body, wants to do, on a whim. It's being so hot and wet that anything goes, and I mean anything! 😈

. . . . It's just following anything my body, or his body, wants to do, on a whim. It's being so hot and wet that anything goes, and I mean anything! 😈

Be careful when you say "anything" goes.

Some people (points to self) have a much wider, evil, malicious and depraved appreciation of what "anything goes" means.

@SwitchableSusie said, "Be careful when you say "anything" goes.

Some people (points to self) have a much wider, evil, malicious and depraved appreciation of what "anything goes" means."

I meant EVERY[/i][/b][/u] word.

I meant EVERY word.

I really don't think you're thinking what I'm thinking of.

I can't innumerate because I'm sure many options are non-consensual, very dangerous and illegal.

I really don't think you're thinking what I'm thinking of.

I can't innumerate because I'm sure many options are very dangerous and illegal.

If we fucked it would be because I knew you well enough. You would have to be a friend. You would have to earn my trust. And if I let myself go with you, to be fucked by you, it would be all out.

I don't fuck strangers.

I fuck friends.

I'm not a fool. I am a quality piece of ass.

I don't fuck strangers.

I fuck friends.

I'm not a fool. I am a quality piece of ass.

Yeah I think you just mean that you know you can trust them and you can really let yourself go. I get that.

The first thing that I ever did that could be considered 'kinky' was gag a fucking whiny shit of a 'man' who wouldn't stop whimpering about how much he loved me during sex. I just grabbed the nearest piece of fabric (my panties) and stuffed his mouth so I didn't have to listen to that BULLSHIT anymore.

The sex was still pretty shitty, because he was underwhelming at best, but GO HARD OR GO HOME was the only thing I wanted!

And yes, I have literally kicked people out who couldn't go hard with no happy ending for anyone. I mean it when I say go home and don't waste my fucking time.