Do guys want to have sex with virgins?

I have to say no. I would much rather have sex with a woman who knows what she was doing, that somebody that does not. It is much more fun 😃

Wow! It is hard to believe a lot of guys are saying no. That they prefer a girl with experience. I only dated steadily one boy for years. In high school, he was always trying to get me to have sex. I did not let it happen until I was almost eighteen and in college. It was with him and it sucked. As soon as I broke and he got all the way in he had an orgasm and it was over. Just like that. All in like two minutes. I didn't even have an orgasm. I wondered for two weeks if that was all there was for sex and what was the big deal. Then I had my first full experience with another girl. When I say full experience I mean where I was not a virgin and didn't mind being entered by fingers or toys. She showed me what it was all about. I just found this interesting.

It was with him and it sucked. As soon as I broke and he got all the way in he had an orgasm and it was over. Just like that. All in like two minutes. I didn't even have an orgasm. I wondered for two weeks if that was all there was for sex and what was the big deal.

There is no substitute for experience. I know I sucked the first few times I had sex. I'm sure the girl who was more experienced had to grin and bear it. I was more concerned about getting off than making her satisfied. I'm sure young guys are too fast and their foreplay sucks. Old guys rock!!

No, absolutely not! Sex in my opinion is more enjoyable with a woman who knows her own body sexually and, her way around a man's body. Now if it's in regard to an anal virgin, well, I'm about 70/30 on that one, 70% being no.

IT WOULD BE nice to have sex with a virgin if you could mold her into the types of experiences you like to have, and she could learn such virtues as patience with a man, etc. Things that could go a long way in a fruitful sex life

Since I'm not a guy, I can only make a hypothetical statement:

I think many to most if not all young boys would like to be able to say they had sex with a virgin and popped her cherry.

Once the boys really know what they are doing with women, they don't want a virgin. Isn't it more fun for a good tennis player to play with a worthy opponent than a novice? This is the same thing.

Well, I am a guy, and if I had Susie to my left and a beautiful young virgin on my right, I'm afraid Susie would be in for the ride of her life. No brainer for me... Susie for the win!

When I was in my teens I wanted to have sex with anything - virgin or not, two legged or four legged. But in my 20's and 30's - I wanted someone with a little experience and who wouldn't cry during or after having sex.

The idea of “popping her cherry” seems to me both dated and disgusting. Like a foul-mouthed, poorly written episode of Happy Days. Like some trophy a guy shows off to his friends. I’ve always abhorred men who view sex, women, “cherry-popping” as merely accomplishments to be touted to The Guys.

I’ve had intercourse with virgins, anal (3) and vaginal (once). The fact that they were virgins was irrelevant other than I had to go really slowly. It certainly wasn’t The Best Sex Ever.

If someone can explain to me why “popping her cherry” is so incredible, I’m all ears. Aside from 1,000s years of religious cultural dogma and societal expectations that is. White Wedding!!!

I think virgins deserve one another. Both bumbling their way through, not really sure what they are doing.

I'm a big fan of supernatural. When the angels wanted something from Dean they offered him 42 sluts and a virgin.

I can understand how a lot say that they prefer a woman with more experience. The sex is definitely better with my gf now that she has the experience. That said, I loved taking her virginity. Knowing that she had never opened herself up and given herself to anyone else before. It's very special and for that reason I loved it. As for the actual sex, she just laid there and it hurt her, so that part isn't the best. It's more the emotional side that is great.

In my younger years, I too had the opportunity to take a ladies virginity...actually it was at her request, not by my approach. I found it rather disheartening, due to the pain, discomfort, and bleeding she experienced. Plus, I felt slightly used.....yep, I was just a slut that time.

Frankly, I'd go to bed with an experienced woman any day over a virgin.

Sometimes the hymen is broken anyway so it makes it easier but still tight

I'd far prefer my partner to be experienced. The only virgin I'd not mind having sex with, would be an anal virgin!

This is like asking is a ducks butt watertight

Never had a virgin and I am not about to start now! 😉 I agree with many posts below it would be difficult given the pain and bleeding that so many women experience. I am into pleasure not pain. With all of the women that I have had the pleasure to have sex with, I thankk someone else for"doing the dirty work" ahead of me!

@SickBoy69 said

I think virgins deserve one another. Both bumbling their way through, not really sure what they are doing.

WHY?

Should one or both people suffer or have a bad first adventure with sex simply because they lack personal experience?

The truth is, a virgin really deserves a caring, experienced partner who can act as a teacher if necessary to give the virgin a great introduction to sex. The virgin might not recognize that as being a better introduction to sex than being with another virgin, and might be self-conscious about being naked with another person or having another person touch them in new ways, but when a person is ignorant on a topic they are not in the best position to say what is the best way to introduce a person to an activity.

I had a handful of virgin guys in high school and college and I'll say that most were able to do a reasonable job fucking me (although lasting more than 15 seconds inside me was difficult for some of them) but what they mostly lacked was a practical knowledge of a woman's internal and external anatomy, what our body parts actually felt like and how to please us with their fingers, hands and tongue and how to just plain caress and fondle a woman so we don't feel like we are being groped. I feel certain most girls/young women have a similar lack of knowledge about the boy's/man's anatomy and how to please them.

All in all, I think most young women will have an easier time getting their boyfriends off than young boys will have getting their girlfriends off. Most guys will cum too soon, and many girls will have a difficult time having an orgasm, especially if they are not experienced at masturbating and if the guy isn't knowledgable about the kind of stimulation a woman requires to have an orgasm.

I have to agree with @SwitchableSusie above, the responsibility is to both but more so on the non-virgin. It is not about conquering or bragging rights, one should be doing it other than just getting there own needs met. One can make it a good positive experience for them so they don't develop negative thoughts. This is going to sound odd to alot of people but I was one of those that waited a long time before doing it for the first time in my early 30's and the woman who was older than me was patient with me.

I only had sex with one virgin and that was with my wife, 56 years ago. I have no desire to have another virgin at my age. She gives me enemas anytime that I want one so there is no reason for me to look anywhere else.

WHY?

Should one or both people suffer or have a bad first adventure with sex simply because they lack personal experience?

The truth is, a virgin really deserves a caring, experienced partner who can act as a teacher if necessary to give the virgin a great introduction to sex. The virgin might not recognize that as being a better introduction to sex than being with another virgin, and might be self-conscious about being naked with another person or having another person touch them in new ways, but when a person is ignorant on a topic they are not in the best position to say what is the best way to introduce a person to an activity.

I had a handful of virgin guys in high school and college and I'll say that most were able to do a reasonable job fucking me

(although lasting more than 15 seconds inside me was difficult for some of them)

I think the first time my little head found it's happy place I lasted all of 5 seconds

but what they mostly lacked was a practical knowledge of a woman's internal and external anatomy, what our body parts actually felt like and how to please us with their fingers, hands and tongue and how to just plain caress and fondle a woman so we don't feel like we are being groped. I feel certain most girls/young women have a similar lack of knowledge about the boy's/man's anatomy and how to please them.

All in all, I think most young women will have an easier time getting their boyfriends off than young boys will have getting their girlfriends off. Most guys will cum too soon, and many girls will have a difficult time having an orgasm, especially if they are not experienced at masturbating and if the guy isn't knowledgable about the kind of stimulation a woman requires to have an orgasm.

I can't imagine why a guy would want a virgin. In high school most guys wanted one of those and did want bragging rights. Did you ever believe any claims one of those idiots made about last Saturday night?

They seemed to think it was their duty to deflower as many flowers as they could find. Then they called all of those flowerless girls the nastiest names they could think of.

Theres a particular deflow site I love to watch videos of. The girls are almost all Russian or east European and all beautiful to knock out gorgeous. Theres only 2 guys who work with them and are very gentle to make it the least painful/ most enjoyable for the girl. It's all very nice and highly errotic, lots of close up. Some girls have to stop due to discomfort but some take to it like a duck to water.

Now, not that I want or would look for a virgin, but if I was in that position, that's just how i'ld want to do it. All my girl friends had experience, cuz the odds were better at getting some that way.

Theres a particular deflow site I love to watch videos of. The girls are almost all Russian or east European and all beautiful to knock out gorgeous. Theres only 2 guys who work with them and are very gentle to make it the least painful/ most enjoyable for the girl. It's all very nice and highly errotic, lots of close up. Some girls have to stop due to discomfort but some take to it like a duck to water.

Now, not that I want or would look for a virgin, but if I was in that position, that's just how i'ld want to do it. All my girl friends had experience, cuz the odds were better at getting some that way.

99% of that is FAKE FAKE FAKE.

These girls are NOT being deflowered and bleeding.

They are on their PERIODS and bleeding.

Virgin? In today's society you'd be hard pressed to find a virgin that was of legal age. Had I known about older women when I was younger I wouldn't have wasted my time on the girls my age. "Give me and older woman every time! Give me an older woman every time! They don't yell and they don't tell, and their grateful as hell! Give me an older woman every time!

WELL SAID Switchable! Well said! Kudos to you. I believe you hit the nail on the head. Two klutz's fumbling around. Is it any wonder God created the orgasm? How else would they know when to stop!

These girls are NOT being deflowered and bleeding.

They are on their PERIODS and bleeding.

An instance of Occam's Razor. The simplest (and most likely) explanation ...

For men having sex with virgin is more of a bragging right than anything else. I never had sex with virgin even though once at early teen I had a chance but I was too nervous as I was virgin aswell.

Two friends of mine that had sex with virgin told me "never again" so I guess they didn't had the best experience.

I would say that it is more about going slow and following partners reaction. Maybe you won't have the best sex of your life but don't be selfish, that is not your special night.

I would like to hear from woman how does the hymen feel like and how hard or easy is it to break and how painfull is it?

I’ve never had that particular desire. And I have never had intercourse with a virgin. The two virgins I was with who wanted intercourse weren’t able to follow through with the act. I actually couldn’t get inside so we stopped. I’d rather be with an experienced lover.

Good lord no, last thing I need is to be blamed for bad teaching!!!

I never had the desire to do so. For one thing, I am not a fan of blood and physical pain. Popping a cherry can bring both. The one time I had sex with a virgin was in college. I was with a girl I had known for a short time, and my roommate was gone for the weekend, and he had the bigger and better bed.

She had told me this would be her first time, and I was not sure she was telling the truth. My skepticism was probably tied into the fact I had not been totally honest with her in our relationship. I did want to have sex with her, but was already in a relationship. I hadn't lied, but I hadn't been forthcoming, especially after we were naked in bed and it was obvious we were going to have sex.

I don't remember her complaining of pain, but she did get to the point of actually telling me to "please cum" at one point which I did a few minutes later. I was shocked and shamed, quite frankly, to see a significant amount of red blood pooled on the bed when we got up.

Maybe she was just anxious to have her cherry popped and glad to get it out of the way, but I doubt it, and regret my conduct to this day.

It was kind of nice in a way that my wife and I were each other's first, but wow...pressure...

I did read a bunch of books so I thought I had a bit of a clue, but it was still a bit nerve-wracking, especially as she really wanted to have sex on the wedding night and not wait for the next morning. I knew to go slow with plenty of foreplay and somehow we managed to get things slick enough that there wasn't any bleeding and she didn't let on that she was in pain anyway (which was good because she has never been amenable to lube for some reason).

After our experiences together I would be much more confident to introduce her to anal play, but I imagine there having the experience with myself helps a lot. There's no way I could have experience of what having a vulva is like.