Men: When did you see your first Vagina / Vulva in person?

Moppy: Right, it's not the same thing to see the slit and seeing inside of it. 😉

When my older sister graduated college, she was going to move to Nebraska to teach a year, before moving back. She stayed with me & our folks that summer, and one day when she had her bedroom door open, changing clothes, I passed by (going to my bedroom) and in her bedroom mirror I caught a glimpse of her bush.

Does that count?

I passed by (going to my bedroom) and in her bedroom mirror I caught a glimpse of her bush.

Does that count?

No?

Awwwwwwwww……...

Doctors/nurses 7/8. Real as sexual 16

I was 19. Same time I lost my virginity.

I caught a glimpse of her bush.

Does that count?

Not really. All you saw was a bunch of hair. Sure it was between her legs, but it's still nothing but hair, the same stuff you can see on anyone's head. There is nothing special about hair.

It actually hides a vagina and the genital area and keeps it from view. Which is really a shame, because why hide such a beautiful part of the body?

I bet for some boys, the reaction was like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qP5kBy0pUcI

I bet for some boys, the reaction was like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qP5kBy0pUcI

Artist John Ruskin is rumored to have been so shocked and appalled at the sight of his wife's pubic hair, that he was never able to consummate their marriage.

This may be an apocryphal story, but it has been recounted many times. The reason supposedly being that as an artist he only ever saw 'cleaned up' Victorian artwork of ladies with no pubic hair in painting or statuary. It may be a tall story, but does have a ring of truth in it is you were not aware of how a woman's genitals really look like, pubic hair and all.

I had several almosts but not a real vagina until I was 26. At 4 or 5 the neighbor girls used to come over to play in the lawn sprinkler and we always ended up naked because cotton undies don't stay up well when wet. They used to like to watch me pee but they had nothing to look at so I didn't. Beginning at about seven one of them wanted me to check out her vulva and touch all the sticky parts inside as often as we had the opportunity but I knew nothing about a vagina. At 11/12 working in a radio/TV repair shop they always sent me out to work on car radios curbside. Because it was easier for a young guy to lay upside down with his head under the dash and feet over the seat back. I had this one girl who refused to get out of the car so I had a great view up her skirt and she was always commando. All I could see was a lot of black fur. My girl at 19 made me lick her a lot but she always kept her fingers on my eyes so I couldn't see what I was licking. Finally, married at 26 I got to look at my wife's vagina while licking her.

23. I'm a late bloomer. 26 now and haven't had as much sex as I want but I'm hoping the best is yet to come

As a sort of subset question to this, I wonder when did men of my generation (born in the 1940's) learned there was a clitoris inside the vagina?

I guess I was a late bloomer , but also very shy , was embarrased to change in high school locker room. Embarrased to use public rest rooms. So that gives you a little of my back ground.

So all though I kissed a girl at 17 and kissed and touched at 18 . I didn't have sex or see a women in real life till I was 22 and and on my honeymoon.

I guess I was a late bloomer , but also very shy , was embarrased to change in high school locker room. Embarrased to use public rest rooms. So that gives you a little of my back ground.

So all though I kissed a girl at 17 and kissed and touched at 18 . I didn't have sex or see a women in real life till zI was 22 and and on my honeymoon.

My gosh - amazing this is me to a tee. The older I go the more difficult I became to use a pubic restroom.... impossible if there was any sort of line, like at a concerts or sporting event.

My gosh - amazing this is me to a tee. The older I go the more difficult I became to use a pubic restroom.... impossible if there was any sort of line, like at a concerts or sporting event.

The older I get the faster I have to get to a bathroom - public or private!!! Often losing a little on the way there! I quit wearing khaki pants about 10-15 years ago.

It was on my eighteenth birthday. I saw it about .5 seconds before my tongue went inside of it. Its been my favorite place to keep my tongue ever since!

As a sort of subset question to this, I wonder when did men of my generation (born in the 1940's) learned there was a clitoris inside the vagina?

Probably after the Kinsey studies (mid 1950's). I suppose many also learned and read (but didn't see) in various magazines and publications that slowly increased their sexual content in the 1960's. And perhaps a sizeable number found out by perusing medical books in the library while ostensibly doing research for homework or what not ... 😃

@reddevil said

As a sort of subset question to this, I wonder when did men of my generation (born in the 1940's) learned there was a clitoris inside the vagina?

Probably 1975-1976 when the topic came up in a Saturday Night Live sketch!

As a sort of subset question to this, I wonder when did men of my generation (born in the 1940's) learned there was a clitoris inside the vagina?

I knew about poking the little man out of the boat by the time I was 16. Just never got the chance to try doing it. Sure wish I knew where it was when I was forced to lick my girl blindly at 19. Now I'm zeroing in on 80 and have never seen one in person. My wife has no semblance of one externally nor can I even feel a grain of sand under the skin. Given that I know the shape and extent of it internally I can give her multiple orgasms but there's nothing to see or play with.

I knew about poking the little man out of the boat by the time I was 16. Just never got the chance to try doing it. Sure wish I knew where it was when I was forced to lick my girl blindly at 19. Now I'm zeroing in on 80 and have never seen one in person. My wife has no semblance of one externally nor can I even feel a grain of sand under the skin. Given that I know the shape and extent of it internally I can give her multiple orgasms but there's nothing to see or play with.

I bet your wife doesn't think so.

I suspect at some point she gave you "lessons."

Keep doing what you're doing.

I bet your wife doesn't think so.

I suspect at some point she gave you "lessons."

Keep doing what you're doing.

Ya know our sex manuals back then had some good articles not just pictures of big tits (which I don't care for) and air brushed black triangles. Then came Penthouse. If you had a really good imagination you could make out a slit in the underbrush. Thankfully Hustler came along with a contributors section in the back. I always got a kick out of the pictures of Rita DaMeta taken by her husband Beda DaMeta.

My first time seeing a girls vagina was back in grade school. My friend and I were playing in the woods behind the houses in our neighborhood where a lot of the rest of the kids played. We were randomly behind a house that a girl in high school lived at. She was a little overweight and good looking and she happened to be walking around behind her house near where we were. I never questioned why she was there by herself at the time and she saw us and said hi and asked what we were doing. We all said we were just walking around and she said same. Then after hardly any small talk, which I though was strange anyway that a girl in HS would be talking to us in the first place, she said she had to pee. This was pretty normal we all just would usually say wait up, we have to pee and then walk behind a tree and go. Then she asked if we wanted to watch. My friend said no and walked away to give her some privacy but I said OK. She was wearing a red dress and backed up to a wide tree and squatted down, bending her knees apart as she hiked up her dress exposing her vagina. It was hairy and beautiful and then she took a second and then peed out in front of her as I watched. I was already hard as a rock and it made it throb like it couldn’t get any bigger. She then finished up, I could see her hair was really wet from her pee. She grabbed a few leaves near her wiped and then stood up and said she had to go. I went back over to my friend and was embarrassed and tried to hide how hard I was in my jeans as we went back towards our houses. I was never the same after that :-)

My 1st time seeing a Vagina IN PERSON was My 1st time having SEX..... i was 14yrs old about to turn 15yrs old.... prior to me seeing her vagina i had felt on it and rub it and fingered her Vagina almost 300+ times prior to us having sex. Everyday after school i used to finger her until her panties started to foam and soak and until she got her rocks off during which she used to stroke my penis and all this had happen simultaneously.

I wonder when did men of my generation (born in the 1940's) learned there was a clitoris inside the vagina?

Actually, there is no clitoris "in" the vagina. The vagina is an internal organ, the external is the vulva which includes the clitoris.

Why do people generally call the whole area a vagina? I would expect girls would know better but that seems to be common with them too.

@roscoe said

Why do people generally call the whole area a vagina? I would expect girls would know better but that seems to be common with them too.

Are you ready for the unembellished truth?

PEOPLE ARE STUPID.

Are you ready for the unembellished truth?

PEOPLE ARE STUPID.

Stupid is as stupid does.

FORREST GUMP

It is the vulva @Plumber70, that is what the topic should be called too really.

It is the vulva @Plumber70, that is what the topic should be called too really.

I drove one of those once.

@SwitchableSusie, or someone. Please tell me correct term for the whole vagina, as I'm in the process of editing the big mess of solid text without paragraphs I'd wrote on here a few days ago, so it'll be much more easily readable. Or do I have to look it up on line real quick because I'm stupid.

The vulva is the complete collection of external female genitals. It includes the labia majora, labia minora, clitoris, and vaginal vestibule. The vagina is NOT part of the vulva.