Men: When did you see your first Vagina / Vulva in person?

I'm just curious because I'm a girl, and I saw my first penis when I was at middle school. We were playing insane truth or dare, then a guy was told to reveal his genitals in front of the class and that's how I saw mine.

How about you guys; when did you see your first vagina?

I was a tyke and saw my cousin when we took a bath together. Now technically that was her vulva. I didn't see a vagina until several years later when I talked the girl next door into spreading her labia and letting me have a look.

In a strip club where I visited with a mate.

In primary school playing doctor.

Same here, playing doctor with a female friend, and she had to undress. 😃

The first one I saw and explored was my first cousin when we were both 12.

Late bloomer here as usual. Saw my first vagina at age 19-20 in college.

Eric

Around the house when young saw mom naked. Later as early teen, my girl friend and I examined each other front and back. Then gave each other enemas. What fun.

I was just 16. Her name was Melanie. We were out on a dirt road near Ocean City, Md. pretty much in the middle of no where. The area is now a big housing development called ocean pines. It was the middle of the afternoon in the middle of July and very hot out.

I had my mother's chev Monte Carlo and we found a secluded spot and jumped in the back seat together, made out and played show and tell. And that's where it ended. I took her back to her house and dropped her off in time for her dad to get home from work.

This is what happens when you get old. You remember this stuff in detail even though it was 38 yrs ago. Trying to remember what I did yesterday is a different story.

Up close and personal? Wedding night. I had caught glimpses of vulvas earlier.

I must have been 16 or 17, (because I was driving), and I went to a county fair in upstate NY. There was a "strip show" tent, and I paid and went in. I didn't expect her to show it all, but she was older, and knew what the crowd wanted. When she took off the G-string, I was mesmerized. There it was. A nice little hairy triangle, and a neat little slit. Almost 60 years ago, and I recall it vividly.

From an early age I saw my mother nude on a daily basis, so the regular sight of her genitals was nothing startling. The first female genitals I saw that weren't my mother's belonged to my girlfriend when I was 10 years of age. She was 9 years old and the absence of pubic hair was something different.

Late bloomer / high school incel nerd here. Age 20 in college, early 1980s. Cute Canadian vixen with jet black hair (everywhere including there) and the most luscious pair of creamy white thighs framing Holiest of Holies in the grassy baseball diamond. I got to third base with my fingers, mouth and tongue, and she called the game for...unknown reasons. No worries, I was in there planting the Yankee flag within the week.

Girlfriend in high school. Grew up with all brothers so there was no female sibling nudity growing up. Don't think I got a real look the first several times with the girlfriend. Dark or circumstances where we were shy about seeing each other but still wanted to play. Maybe one of the differences between boys and girls when I was a teen. The boys weren't expected to be shy about showing off their penises but the girls were shy about being fully exposed. Even though it was different than being in a locker room with a bunch of nude guys, those experiences growing up made male nudity much more expected and less embarrassing I guess. Don't know how much girls were exposed to each other in the girls locker room but as a boy I know that I was definitely conditioned not to be too embarrassed about being nude.

"Vulva" & "labia" & clitoris are the female external genitalia. Many persons refer to these easily visible parts as "vagina" Not correct.

"Vagina" is the hole & surrounding tissues. Unless one is using a speculum it's really hard to see into the hole. If woman spreads the labia what one sees is the outer opening of the vagina, anatomically called the "introitus"

When my sister & I were very young, my parents put us in the tub together for baths. Lasted until I was about 4 when older sister about 7 started taking showers.

One night stand in college.... the night I lost my virginity. We did it in numerous positions with lights on so I got an eye full.

At age four when my first baby sister was born (assuming vulva is the intended term).

At age four when my first baby sister was born.

I'm sure that looked a lot different from what you're used to seeing now!

Oh, yeah. Eight years later, for a "summer job" working for an aunt, I was tasked with my first work each day getting my young cousins bathed and dressed. Eight years after that, I was a Westpac sailor. 😃

I saw my mothers vulva from around four or so when she had me across her knee giving me my enema. Twice a week until I was around 13 or 14. My only playmates were two girls who lived next door, one my age and her sister a year older. We played show me yours quite often and they would let me spread them open and look. We were around six or seven and we did this until age 10 or so. we would all allow stuff like crayons, fingers, and such inserted into our ass, but I wasn't allowed to insert anything in their vaginas. Apparently their mother had told them that would make them sick and really fat. Their mother gave the two of them enemas often. Oh ya, After my mother gave me an enema, we would bath in our small bathroom The last time she gave me my enema at 14, after the bath she stood facing away fro me. Legs spread, bent over at the waist while she dried her long hair like women do, her vagina opened up and I saw a sexually mature vagina up close for the first time. It was way different from my two playmates. I remember like it was yesterday the beautiful hole slightly open and me bending over for a closer look. She sensed this, stood up, covered herself with her towel and that was my last enema from her and the last time I saw her naked.

I've no idea the age; but, it would have been my mother's as we weren't adverse to nudity when going from bedroom to bathroom in our home. The first one that counted was at age 18 and was my GF at the time.

In movies/porn at age 12 or 13 in real life age 23 when It was put up to my mouth in the 69 position.

I was 6 and watched my aunt change my cousins' diaper. I was shocked that the cousin had a hairless labia. My aunt spread the labia to get them wiped clean and I saw an opening that I had no idea what it was for, except maybe peeing?

As an adult at age 18 with the girl who took my virginity in a drive-in movie.

First one I ever saw would have been my sisters at home or when shared a Drs appointment.

A vagina that didn't belong to a relative or wasn't a low quality porn mag was around 16 which was naturally much more appealing. Helped I knew what it was for / what to do with it as well by that point lol.

I was 6 years old and the girl I saw was 4 years old, a family friend. She had gotten all wet because she fell into a pool of shallow water. Her mother undressed her in front of me, and what I heard was true: girls have no penis! I actually saw nothing, no labia, no slit, just a very blank area of white skin.

My first true good look was when I was 21. I went to a strip club and got a very good look!

I had two adopted cousins (both from different mothers) and one day when playing my male cousin said he'd get his sister to show me what she had. I think they had played that way before. He and I where both about 9 or 10 she was about a year younger. She seemed only too willing, dropped her knickers and lifted her dress up.

After that experience, when I'm happy to admit I didn't know what I was looking at, it was when I was 20. My girlfriend announced she was going to take a bath and told me to wait outside and she'd call me when she was ready. That was when I saw my first adult woman naked. There was an explanation, she'd been burnt as a child and still carried the scars which I'd never seen but I did know about. This was her way of showing me, to test my reaction. Scars or not I thought she was beautiful; we're still married nearly 40 years later.

I'm not sure how old I was when I stopped seeing my mom. I remember being in the room with her as she dressed and she was fully naked. I guess I stopped seeing her nude when I was probably five years old. I had four girl cousins and one sister growing up, so I grew up seeing several vaginas!

Although far from being raised in a nudist family, I showered with both my mom and dad from a very young age and I saw them nude and they saw me nude.

I also recall being given baths with a neighbor girl by my mom and girl’s mom when we were both very young.

So although it was a rare occurance which stopped until I got older, i saw several nude females growing up.

First time I was 6 or 7 with the neighbor girl of the same age, playing doctor, we took turns. Seems all our maladies were we're below the waist? She led, I followed, seems she already knew what she wanted me to look at and prove! So, I've been playing doctor ever since.

I saw my first vagina at age five. Our neighbor asked my Mom for some help in giving her teenaged daughter an enema. My mom told me to leave buy Sandy (the girl getting the enema) said it was ok for me to stay. I have theorized once I got older if her requesting that I stay was a sexual thing for her. I remember it to this day, I had never seen my mother naked. I got excited seeing beer breasts and massive black bush. Sandy was like a big sister to me, she cared for me, we sometimes played in the backyard. We played a game where I showed her my pens. She said it was cute and rubbed it for me.

Her mother was very strict and changed the nozzle from the regular enema size to the long, curved shiny douche nozzle. Sandy started to object, so her mother started spanking her, it was a long hard spanking. She didn't stop until Sandy was crying. Her mom inserted the nozzle and my mom held the bag. Sandy took most of the bag, the clip was closed and she was allowed to go to the toilet. When she got up I cache a glimpse of her coral colored vaginal lips theta were first covered by her massive bush.

Her mom refilled the bag in the kitchen. When Sandy got back she realized she was going to get a second enema. The fussing and objections started again. Her mom went to the dresser drawer and got out a leather strap and used it on her. She was brutal, welts and belt marks appeared, Sandy relented as she was crying. Her mom put her on her back, and made her spread her legs. This time my mom inserted the big black nozzle. I was mesmerized by what was happening before my eyes. Being in such a vulnerable position, I could see her clitoris and her vagina was partially open. I liked seeing my mom taking control of the douche nozzle. She was sliding it and out as if she was fucking her ass. I wished she would do that to me. Sandy took the whole bag this time, she looked me in the eyes as she ran past me. Her mom had the enema bagman her hands, and when she walked past me she held the douche nozzle out and said "for you!"

I wanted to say yes, I wanted what Sandy just got, the spanking, the belt, two women giving me an enema. Looking back and understanding sexuality better, this was my first voyeuristic experience. I saw Sandy the next day in the garden. She kissed me and said she was sorry she was a bad girl, that she deserved being spanked. Does your mom give you enemas, she asked? I responded with a shy yes. She said well be a good boy and take your enema or she will have to spank you too. The whole episode gave me ideas. I really liked the frequent enemas I got. So once I started imitating Sandy by fussing and objecting I got a spanking too. The spanking hurt, but followed by an enema it made my little pens hard. I wanted that big douche nozzle used on me. It took a lot of pleading over time but mom finally used the bog nozzle on me.

First actual vagina? Not in a movie or magazine?

I was a 21-year old college student when I lost my virginity. We did it with the lights on in numerous positions so I saw quite a bit of the magical, elusive vagina that evening.