How did you get turned on by spanking

I'm not sure. It's kindof complicated for me.

Even before I was at an age before my mom started spanking me I found the topic exciting. When she started spanking me around 8 or 9 I never found the experience pleasant in any way, except that when it was done everything felt complete and right. She always made sure I understood why I was being punished and was always very affectionate afterwards. Maybe I had some sort of naturally occurring submission that came from the excitement that already existed? Probably not helped by the fact that at this time in my life my mother was really the only dependable adult I had in my life.

When I got older I do remember sometimes feeling wet when I was getting spanked. My mom only ever addressed it once and said it was normal for that to sometimes happen. I didn't think anything more of it, I don't even really remember it being a thing I thought about even when she addressed it. I do remember later in high school talking to a girl I knew and she had mentioned that she didn't like the feeling of being wet. For some reason my mind shot back to those first few times I remember being wet when I was in trouble and realizing that it was its own thing, if that makes sense. I hadn't had any sexual experiences at that point so I guess it just didn't occur to me. I also then remember suddenly thinking "how could you NOT like it??" lol

There was one time when I was 13 where I remember feeling particularly excited about the idea though. I had recently discovered the magic of masturbation like several months before and it had been awhile since I had been in trouble. My mom had come home late at night and saw that I hadn't swept and vacuumed the floors like she had asked me to that morning before she left (I was a pretty independent kid. Never had babysitters past the age of 12 and even before it was pretty rare. Mom would usually just find a way to take me where she was going or leave me at a friend's house.) She told me to get to my room and be in the corner with my pants off and panties down. I immediately got soaked and stayed that way during the whole thing. The feeling of excitement and dread that dropped in my tummy was different this time and I was definitely turned on. Not in a gross way. I wasn't turned on about my mom. But I was very excited about getting spanked and I remember wondering which tool she was going to pick for the job. I might have been in the corner for a little too long cause I remember my mind running with excitement fantasizing about what was going to happen to me. It was weird though cause there was nothing in particular about that situation that I think could have triggered it. It was just another time I got in trouble. I was spanked plenty more between then and shortly after I turned 16 and sometimes it excited me and sometimes it didn't, but when I thought about it abstractly and used my imagination it became a pretty regular part of my sexual fantasies. Again, I didn't really think any of it was weird. I guess my brain was just able to separate when I was being punished at home from... everything else, and I guess I knew consciously that this wasn't everyone's experience but I expected that I wasn't the only person who had these feelings. Didn't really seem to be a rhyme or reason as to why though. I guess maybe hormones + being vulnerable with someone I felt safe with? Kindof a perfect storm moment I guess. Also I was starting to discover that I was far more interested in girls than boys. Once I got older there came a certain point where I just started being very upfront about my feelings on the topic with potential girlfriends. Like on the first date, cause I knew nothing else was going to work for me.

@PutMeInTheCorner Your descriptions of arousal and not exactly knowing why it was happening are so accurate for me. You worded everything almost exactly as I would as it relates to the entire experience even when you talk about the different ages. Thank you for putting it into much better words than I would have ever been able to do.

Many factors influenced me. Been fascinated since a child.

In the UK, children's comics featured lots of stories ending in spankings.

At about 6 I saw some teachers who slapped the bare thighs of boys or girls who misbehaved.

In junior school from about 7 I saw pupils given the cane in front of the class by the teacher, usually just 1 stroke. I was quite curious to know what it was like.

A few moderate OTK bare bottom spankings at home, after the initial discomfort, I looked back fondly on them.

I got the cane at school when I was about 10, in front of my class. Although it stung, I was glad of the experience, I took it without any fuss, it was something of an initiation into proper boyhood.

So a mix of influences, to this I find day I find the topic of moderate spanking very fascinating and erotically charged.

I am a spanko and spankee - fascinated by all things spanking and get spanked, hard, from time to time. I don't find it a turn on - it's not sexual for me - but I do get a real buzz out of it. I wasn't really spanked much at home: just the odd smack up to the age of about eight but it was never what I'd consider to have been a proper serious punishment.

My fascination and obsession with spanking, and more precisely, corporal punishment, started when I was about 13. I went to a school which used corporal punishment: usually applied with a rubber soled plimsol for lesser offences with the cane being used - sparingly - for serious misdemeanours. I felt the plimsol twice: it wasn't nice but I think that was the combination of being in real trouble as well as the pain. But afterwards, I did get some sort of kick out of looking at my red - and slightly bruised - bottom. And occasionally, I'd see the damage the cane left on another boy's bottom. I found myself thinking about what it'd be like to find myself on the receiving end and to have my bottom decorated with some vivid deep stripes.... and that was how it started!

@PutMeInTheCorner that is the best explanation I’ve seen but for me being male it was getting election. Great job! Very well written.

I guess for me it was seeing my best friends younger sister getting spanked. She was two years younger than us. Their dad came downstairs where we all were and grabbed her by the arm and lead her into the next room, he took her jeans and underwear down below her knees and put her over his lap and I’d swear it was like twenty minutes of her screaming, crying, kicking and bucking before she stopped. We both watched since the door was wide open.

I guess for me it was seeing my best friends younger sister getting spanked. She was two years younger than us. Their dad came downstairs where we all were and grabbed her by the arm and lead her into the next room, he took her jeans and underwear down below her knees and put her over his lap and I’d swear it was like twenty minutes of her screaming, crying, kicking and bucking before she stopped. We both watched since the door was wide open.

20 minutes of hard and fast hand spanking over the knees is very harsh for a young girl ! How old was she ?

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I found out that I get turned on by being spanked by my wife about 11 years ago when we were in our mid 50s. It came about when my wife gave me a few playful whacks on my right butt cheek when we were fooling around with me on top. She could tell I liked it so she upped the ante as she grabbed a ruler from her nightstand and again smacked my right butt cheek, this time with the ruler. She could tell I liked that because the next day I came home from an office-supply store with two heavy-duty rulers for her ruling pleasure and for for mine.

In short order, we had not one, but two handfuls of spanking implements, including several wood and heavy-plastic paddles in a variety of shapes and sizes, a rattan cane, a Delrin cane, two leather paddles, and a partridge in a pear tree, which we cut down and sawed into wood pieces to make more wooden paddles. Actually, we did NOT get a partridge or a pear tree, which obviously did NOT get cut down and sawed into wood pieces to make more wooden paddles because that would have been unfair to the partridge.

I would love to give my wife spankings, even just a few light, bare-hand whacks on her bare bottom, but alas, she has zero interest in being spanked. She does not like pain in any way, shape, or form. But I can't complain because she accommodates me with all of my crazy kinks even though she has zero interest in them for herself, but she is happy to do them for my pleasure, including all the spankings and anal play that I want her to give me.

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