How did you get turned on by spanking

I was spanked for a few years as a boy by my mother who seemed to enjoy spanking me. Not angry, harsh or sadistic beatings, but very lengthy slappy OTK bare bottom spankings by hand that actually were stimulating. That was how I started.....

As mentioned elsewhere, I was spanked by my mom as a boy, and there was nothing pleasurable about those spankings. However, I recall at age 11 spending part of my summer vacation with my Aunt Lucy and cousins Amy 8, and Luke 12 at that time. Luke and i got into trouble for teasing Amy in the pool and next thing we knew, our swimtrunks were pulled down to be spanked.

it's hard to express the trigger, but somehow, while waiting for my turn to be spanked and watching Luke get it over his mom's lap I felt a bit of excitement, even though Amy was watching with a grin on her face and my ordeal was next. Seconds later I was over my Aunt's lap for the belt and despite the pain of the bare bottom spanking, I kept think back to watching my cousin get it moments ago.

I can't remember when I wasn't turned on by witnessing a spanking. It wasn't until my late teenage years that I got turned on at the thought of being spanked. Before that, I hated getting spanked and did all I could to avoid them.

I first got excited by seeing other kids getting spanked - which was the norm rather than the exception when I grew up. My own spankings did not arouse me at all until I was entering my teens - and then the spankings more or less stopped.

I got turned on in high school getting swats for bad behavior, once got swats with some else and found it pretty arousing seeing and hearing the swats and knowing i was next. we both got 2 swats with a wooden paddle bent over with ours hands on a chair

Junior high for me.... was always intrigued when other boys got paddled in school... but got it with a few other boys from study hall. 3 whacks each -- bent over grabbing ankles in the hallway.

Wasn't spanked as a child but developed an erotic taste for otk early on. During truth or dare at sleepovers I'd dare other girls to receive spankings from me, several agreed and enjoyed it as much as I did.

I usually don't get turned on by being spanked. I usually get turned on doing the spanking. But I do understand the idea of pain and pleasure and like to have both being desired while I administer the spanking. So after every few firm swats I like to massage the lips and clit or the testicals and or penis. You know give them a good sting then making them want to orgasm but stop short and being the pain again. Yes I know I am evil.

For me the pleasure from being spanked was a result of my desire to submit. At first I got pleasure only because I knew it pleased him. But it didn't take long before I became addicted to the energy and the rush.

I started masturbating around age 10. I didnt really understand what was happening only that i enjoyed it. I got spanked and sent to bed early a lot, so i would always masturbate. I made the connection about a year later when we were visiting my aunt pams. she was a serious spanker and never held back when there were guests there. it was around 3pm and my cousin andrew was playing up whilst we watched home movies. He had been warned and did not pay any attention. Aunt pam went out of the room and came back with his pjs. Andrew had to strip in front of us all and then he went over hid mums knee and got his bare bottom thoroughly thrashed with a hairbrush. Then he had to put his pjs on on go to bed in floods of tears. I remembered being so excited by all of this and a masturbated non stop for a very long time after. I ever contrived to get myself tanned and sent to bed early just so i could masturbate all night.

What was interesting is that my girlfriend in college liked to be spanked. Not heavy but she would really get off on it if I was fingering her at the same time. I didn't get into it until I started seeing Doms about 6 years ago.

I was never spanked in my childhood but recently start to enjoy when a nica lady spank me. I feel aroused. I start to spank too. And this is fun.

My mom and step dad and Aunt and Uncle were all spanko's and found any excuse to take me over their laps for a five or ten minute hand spanking till my tush was bright red and I was crying. I could tell they enjoyed it by my step=dads and Uncles hard penis pressing against my belly and the wet spot on my moms and Aunts pants after I got up.

I don't think that my mum was a spanko but i pretty certain that some of her friends were. One friend of hers really got off on seeing me bared and thoroughly tanned until red raw.

I have been attempting to figure that out for years w/o much success.

I was only spanked a few times growing up as a kid and mostly by mom. They were well deserved I can tell you that, but can't really tell you now what they were for except once and that was for playing in the traffic.

The truth is that I love to be spanked these days and I am finding out as time goes by I am finding that I want them more and more and harder and harder for some reason or another. Doc and I basically do 2 forms of spanking. There is the informal spanking which covers your playful spankings such as during sex and for minor type of infractions. These of course are a huge turn on for me and get me very sexually excited.

Then there is the second kind of spanking which are for serious infractions. These are a lot harder in nature and if I am going to cry which I typically am not, this is when and where it will happen. This isn't a joking time and it will not make me in any way shape or form get me sexually excited. And again, while this doesn't excite me or him in any way, after we are done we have some after care time of usually snuggling. We also talk about more indepth about why the spanking took place and how much we love each other.

This second kind of spanking only brings us closer as a couple. It allows us to deal with our infractions since we live so far apart in a manner in which both gets the point across and allows each of us to instantly forgive and forget. We no longer have to dwell in that and it's over and done with. That's just one of the many beauties of spanking in that way.

Now as far as why spanking gets me excited, well it just does. It allows me not to be in control for a bit which I also both need and love and there are all kinds of nerve endings down there that just sort of warm up all of our others. Needless to say it get me all hot and bothered in seconds.

Mashie

I was never spanked as a child, but once into adulthood, I began to explore erotic spankings. I love being held firmly over a man's lap while being under his control and having him slowly disrobe me and knowing that a firm spanking is coming next.

Lady Teddy, who loves a good erotic spanking, on the bare bottom, of course

I was never turned on by parental spankings but I very aware of when a girl was getting spanked.

When I was a kid I used to listen intently to any girl who would talk about getting spanked. My own wife who I dated in high school and got a few spankings when was in high school really turned me on. My wife who is not not turned on at all by spankings was back then and still today very open and not embarrassed at all to admit that she got spanked in high school and is proud of her mom for being a strong strict single mom.

The thought of getting spanked by adult female non-family member when I was a kid was also very stimulating to me. However, that never happened to me.

I was at an outdoor party in high school at a classmate's house. Another classmate lived next door and her father caught her smoking at the party. He dragged her over to their back porch, took off his belt, and gave it to her on her bare backside while we all just stared.

I was born in the 40's. My father went overseas to fight in WWII about 9 months before I was born. My mother had total control at that time and I was almost 2 years old when he returned. She had been a school teacher prior to the war and was a stern disciplinarian. The spankings that I remember started at about age 7 with a hairbrush on my bare bottom OTK. Ladies wore silk or nylon slips back then and my tiny penis rubbing on that smooth material gave me erections long before I knew what sex was. The rest is history and at this point in my life, I don't regret it! We have all traveled different routes to get here .... but we are all here now!

This is an easy one for me. The grade school I attended allowed corporal punishment meted out with a paddle, usually by the Principal. When in first grade the Principal's office was next to our classroom and on occasions when an older student was in the office we could hear the swats being applied, sounded like a gun was being shot, it was that hard. Of course at that age it made us nervous however after that it was somehow stimulating. Later when I lived in Texas my girlfriend described a HS paddling she had received and it was very, very stimulating.

I was on occasion spanked on the bare bottom by my mother. I was very young at the time and of course the punishment did hurt, I did however get a hard on, but I think this was due to having my genitals exposed rather than having my bum slapped.

I was spanked as a kid like many others, but it didn't awaken any erotic aspects for me. My introduction to erotic spanking came from a former girlfriend. Her belief was that a spanking before sex was like a sauce is to a fine meal. She asked me to get some saplings from the walnut trees on our property. I had about six of them and thought she was doing some sort of floral arrangement. She let me know she wanted me to use them on her ass. I gave it a try, she stopped me and said for me to drop my pants and she would show me how it's done.

She started out slow and I really didn't see any difference in what I had done. She was only getting started, she continued the intensity and frequency, I began to squirm and yell. She didn't lighten up, it stung, it hurt, then things changed. Every stroke actually felt good, in fact I wanted it harder. I couldn't imaging why I was wanting this, it was a turn on for me. She whipped me to tears, then she lowered her self on my face where I pleasured her to orgasm. Overall it was different and very sexy.

The next time she wanted a spanking I had no trouble having my revenge on her ass. Spankings became a part of our sex life thereafter.

I too got turned onto spanking after my divorce by the very first guy I dated. He started out playfully spanking me and showed me just how good it could feel; so good in fact, that I could orgasm from it. Gradually, he increased the intensity of the spankings, which I gladly welcomed. Unfortunately, my cravings were stronger than his ability to spank me. He just couldn't bring himself to spank me harder and in his words "hurt me".

I'll always be thankful to him for awakening the hidden spankee inside me.

Sounds crazy but as a 16 year old I was caught looking through the door at my big sister and her "Fella" as they kissed on the soffa and taking plesure in it. My mother dragged me to the kitchen and gave me a big lecture and to stress the point she put me over her knee and spanked me good and proper.

Must say when she left me in the corner I came all over the wall I was so turned on by it.

Been a fan for the last 40 odd years since

I enjoy giving and receiving spankings as a prelude or a part of sex. A girlfriend got me started by asking me to spank her for being naughty and rude to me. I gladly spanked her and then forced her to take her first erotic enema as a part of her punishment. I knew the spanking turned her on because she had a strong orgasm. I found out the enema turned her on too because I never had to force her again!

When I was growing up my parents simply "swiped" me when I misbehaved. Then when I was about 14 I went to stay with an aunt over the summer holidays. One day I got covered in mud. Aunt was not happy and ordered me to wash and then wait for her in my bedroom. I received a stern lecture followed by my first ever spanking over her knee. Then she looked me straight in the eyes and said "it wasn't so bad, was it?". I thought for a moment and agreed with her. She gave me a long hug and left the room. By the end of the holidays I had received two more spankings, this time on my bare bottom.

I returned home. I missed my aunt's spankings. Sometimes I would lie in bed and imagine my aunt was spanking me. I started getting an erection during these fantasies and would masturbate. My mother caught me masturbating and took me to the local catholic church for a lecture. Of course she did not know about the connection between spanking and masturbation. We were not a religious family but the priest listened to my mother's story and I was placed in the confessional. I was told to confess the sin of self abuse. He asked me if it felt good and how often I did it. It was intensely embarrassing but I did not feel the expected guilt (did not tell that to the priest). Any way, the priest told me to come back if I needed help with my dirty habit. I never went back but then discovered a man's magazine in a cabinet in my father's shed which I would take to my room when my mother was out shopping.

Years later I met a girl and we set up home together. One day we were watching TV and there was a discussion on spanking. Our eyes met. "When di you last get spanked?" she said. I said "far too long". I told her about the aunt and my masturbation habit so we roleplayed this. Sometimes it was a gentle spanking followed by her hiding in the corner as I masturbated. We eventually broke up but many year later my current wife and I often play "bad baby" where get a mild spanking before suckling her.

Had my first real spanking by a Daddy Dom 7 months ago, it was with a hard leather paddle. I had to take 25 swats, it hurt like heck, I cried like a baby. And yet when it was all said and done?? NEVER have I felt so free!!!

Strange feeling to have, but it was good!!!

I remember being bare ass spanked as a young child, I remember the warmth and felt loved after the spanking was over. I found myself wanting a spanking again and have been that way ever since.

I cannot remember what turned me on to it but I have always enjoyed being spanked.