How did you get turned on by spanking

I was spanked as a child by my mother and over the years I grew to like it. My mother always insisted I was naked when being spanked even if it was in front of visits/relations. This only lead to me enjoying it more. In my teens my mother told me I was now too old to be spanked. But after a few weeks I sat down and explained to her that I missed the spankings as I enjoyed them. She understood so agreed to spank me at least once a week.

When I got married she showed my wife how to spank me, which she did on our wedding night. Then after a few months my wife arranged for me to visit my mother every month for a spanking.

Bliss

I was raised by a very loving mother and father that believed in running a fairly tight ship so far home and family were concerned. Although I never really got into anything considered bad by today's standards, I was held to a pretty strict code of conduct and if I drifted from it, my mother never hesitated to bring back in line by giving me a spanking on the bare bottom over her knee. If the seriousness of misbehavior was fairly minor, I was spanked with her hand after a lecture concerning my behavior. For more serious offense, the dreaded hair brush or eve a paddle were brought out that would really light up my bottom. All spankings were hard enough to make one think twice about repeating the offense any time in the near future!!

It is interesting though, my mother was never angry when she spanked me and did it in a very loving way. Afterwards, the air was always cleared and I was hugged and comforted afterwards and no further mention was made of the offense (nor was there a need to do so)!!)

As I got older, this closeness to my mom I think was a factor that turned me on when she spanked me (certainly the warm to hot feeling my bottom was experiencing right after) and I was turned on I think quite some years before I even had come to know what "turned on" actually meant.

Receiving a spanking also made me want to give someone a spanking and my poor teddy bair was over my knee for a good hard spanking a fair number of times!! lol. My sister and I did experiments on several occasions spanking one another which we got quite a kick out of doing so.

In summary, I think the way my mother spanked me in such a loving and caring way, is what turned me on....the feeling of closeness and being loved. When we first go married, she encouraged my husband to not hesitate to spank me when he felt that I needed one!! He complied with her advice and I find myself over my husbands knee quite a few times each year but in the same loving manner like my mom. It has made us feel closer as a couple and for those that might be wondering, yes.....he is over my knee to for what I would describe and a good and proper spanking that turns both of us on.

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My older sister and I were subject to mom's discipline from about 2 until each of us went to college. Her form of discipline was over her lap with eventually our undies lowered until we could not sit comfortably for a period of time.

At around 12 or so, I started to soon find out that I was masturbating after her spankings. From that time I almost look forward to do something wrong to get a spanking which didn't take much since mom had such a short fuse. I still think about those times when I self-spank.

I was spanked growing up but I do not think it was the turn on moment a lot of people describe here, it was not until engaging in consensual spanking with sexual partners it became truly a turn on.

Back in the early 1950's seeing other kids getting spanked outside and feeling very helpless and scared that this might happen to me; while at the same time finding it exciting to watch.

This is a tricky question, as I am not always “turned on” by spanking, however I can be in certain situations, and definitely fantasize about it. I can remember being overly fascinated with spankings since earliest childhood memories, but the “turn on” I think was mostly derived from the idea of others getting spanked until I was an adult. The idea of me getting a spanking was horrifying as a child and teenager, and though it happened, it was definitely not a turn on. I think the first time I really got “turned on” by being spanked myself was an ex-girlfriend that spanked me. The first time she spanked me we were on a road trip and she played the role of a babysitter who was disgusted with my behavior and finally had enough. She played the role extremely well, and spoke in a feigned southern accent saying “naw-tee, SPANK, naw-tee SPANK, boy! SPANK” while spanking me with a hairbrush. The whole scene was incredibly arousing to me, and started off a long weekend of different spanking scenarios with me as the spankee. Up until then, I genuinely hated being spanked, and was only interested in being the spanker.

Internet porn and a natural love of a woman’s derrière. I am a lightweight when incorporating pain with sex. We tried it but couldn’t stay serious.

Started in school for me, hearing conversations of female students who had been given the strap or cane

Started in school for me, hearing conversations of female students who had been given the strap or cane

^^^ Please elaborate!

What did you overhear?

I remember hearing about a girl at my high school that always wanted sex with her boyfriend after her dad had spanked her. That sparked my interest which led me to look into the subject of spanking many years ago. The best article I've read on the subject is "THE 6 LEVELS OF SPANKING".

I remember hearing about a girl at my high school that always wanted sex with her boyfriend after her dad had spanked her.

Oh, I'm curious of his reaction. I still remember my bf confusion, when he saw my bottom a half an hour after spanking...

When one of my exes insisted that she needed one. Who was I to argue?

I am honestly not sure how it happened, I know a family friend who i had a crush on had permission to spank me, but before I even know him I had had strange dreams that were clearly telling me I wanted to be spanked by strange men. Growing up I never once had a spanking from my father I could say was erotic in anyway.

I guess mine was getting spanked by my father in front of my younger brother and cousins in which sometimes I was naked..

The craving for a sexual spanking came about during puberty. I suppose I never knew about coitus with a girl. One day I was rubbing my penis on the bed and slapping my bum and actual cum. This at one point was horrifying. But I think my spanking fantasies are fantasies. If a girl would administer the spanking like in my fantasies, I would not like that happen.

Spankings were the chosen form of punishment when I was growing up. I would guess that the position of power one gets as a spanker wore off on me. I do like to be in control of things. 😉

I was spanked growing up but it was years later and the power of the internet that showed me they could be used for pleasure as well as punishment. My memory is so bad I'm not sure some times if spanking was the first or second fetish to develop for me. Diapers is still the main one.

I actually have no idea. I was spanked often as a kid. As I mentioned in several posts here, I used to pee before and during the spanking. Reading about spankings and enemas as a “punishment” I soon realized I wanted to try. I received enemas from my GF in college but not spankings. Then I hired a Dom and met her at a convention. She gave me both and the rest is history…

What turned me on about spanking was dating a middle aged mother, who enjoyed spanking me nude over her also nude lap. Then she had a turn over my lap for the same treatment.

What turned me on about spanking was dating a middle aged mother, who enjoyed spanking me nude over her also nude lap. Then she had a turn over my lap for the same treatment

Who initiated the first spanking? Who brought up the idea first? How was it done? Offhand, seriously, playfully, in confidence?

I ask because I am not good at suggesting intimate things to others. I am rather bad at it all I fear. But, having some pointers might one day stand me in good stead. Who knows?

Years ago when I was in the navy out in Singapore, a shipmate invited me to his place for dinner. He was living in married quarters with his wife, a very attractive lady in her early 20s.

We consumed way too much booze during and after dinner which eventually resulted in his wife throwing a drink at me. She apologized afterwards and I dismissed it as just too much booze.

The following day back onboard ship my friend said that his wife wanted me to come back again so that she could apologize properly. I told him I had forgotten all about it and not to worry about it, but he said his wife was adamant, so I agreed.

Opening the door with downcast eyes, she immediately apologized and asked me to come in for a drink. Her husband greeted me and handed me a beer and invited me to sit down. He said that he and his wife has discussed her bad behavior and both decided that she should be punished. I was slightly bemused and had no idea what they had in mind until she came over to me, knelt down beside me and put herself across my knees.

“She needs to get a good spanking Jim” My friend said. I just laughed it off and said that wasn't necessary. She looked up at me and just said “Please”

I had never spanked anyone and wasn't quite sure how to proceed, so I just gave her a few slaps on her lovely little bottom. She was just wearing small shorts, and panties underneath and I could feel myself becoming aroused and was worried that she would be aware of it.

My friend got up and came over and proceeded to pull her shorts and panties down to her knees and landed some really hard slaps on her bare bum.

“Do it like that Jim” I looked down at her and she just nodded her head and said “Harder”

Caught up in the moment I proceeded to give her a really good spanking. Her bum was turning a lovely shade of red and my hand was beginning to sting.

My friend, who was standing next to us by then said. “Check her fanny Jim. I bet it's wet” Looking to her for assurance, she smiled and nodded.

Needless to say I didn't need any more encouragement and slid my hand between her legs and her “fanny” was dripping. Her hand crept on to my lap and found my raging erection. “He's as hard as a chocolate frog Honey” She told her hubby.

It developed quickly into a very exciting threesome, and started my love of administering spankings.

It took me some months to figure out it had been a set-up. I was a bit naive back then. 😃

Sorry if it was a bit longwinded. Just wrote it down as I remembered it happening.

Initially put off being spanked by a sadistic pe teachere who spanked you if you forgot kit then I got to like it so would delivberatley forget my kit to get a spanking . This progressed to a fondling of bottom then to shorts down and playing with me then getting another slap for getting hard! I now like to replay this situation with me spanking someone in pe shorts and then fondling them .. anyone interested?

I didn't get spanked myself, meaning not over the knee, etc.

But the first time I heard about it, a mother telling outloud that she spanked her children about once a week: “And of course without any underwear, to make sure she feels all of the spanking.”

From that moment on I was very interested into it. Not only in the spanking, but also the “process” around it. Telling the girl she is going to be spanked. That she needs to undress, raise her skirt, lower her pants, etc. When she is standing next to me lowering her panties myself (always a wonderful thing to do). Pulling her over my lap. Maybe spread her ass cheeks first to check if her anus is clean. Spank her ass cheeks red. Let her stand again, inspect her labia for any wetness. And let her stand in the cornor afterwards.

For me it was definitely seeing a friend getting a bare ass spanking, him telling me about how his sister, who was super hot and I had a major crush on, gets them too (I never did get to see her get spanked, though I did overhear it happening in a different room), and the few times I was spanked in front of a friend.

The discussion about spanking with this particular friend, where we would talk about how we were spanked, always left me rock hard. It even lead to us showing eachother the “aftermath” a few times, which lead to masturbating together.

At the age of 15, when I first learned the meaning of spanking, it really turned me on and got excited to know more about it.

My ex-boyfriend turned me onto spankings. With him it was just a few swats but always left me wanting more.

When I was nine my mom married a very stern man that was 18 years older than mom and had raised four kids of his own with bare bottom corporal punishment until they left the home (one daughter was 20). He convinced mom that i also should be spanked and he began the day after they were married because he said I needed to have a change of attitude and learn who was boss in his home. From ages 9-12 they were giving bare bottom over his knee with his hand but when I turned 12 he started using his leather belt folded in half laying on their bed on my stomach and also had a wood paddle with holes that mom sometimes would use on me bare bottom in the embarrassing all fours position. It was at this time that I started getting erections when he would announce that I was going to get a whipping and send me to their bedroom to get ready. It stayed that way until the first couple swats and would come back after I was sent to my bedroom carrying my jeans and underwear and looked in the mirror at my bottom.

When I was nine my mom married a very stern man that was 18 years older than mom and had raised four kids of his own with bare bottom corporal punishment until they left the home (one daughter was 20). He convinced mom that i also should be spanked and he began the day after they were married because he said I needed to have a change of attitude and learn who was boss in his home. From ages 9-12 they were giving bare bottom over his knee with his hand but when I turned 12 he started using his leather belt folded in half laying on their bed on my stomach and also had a wood paddle with holes that mom sometimes would use on me bare bottom in the embarrassing all fours position. It was at this time that I started getting erections when he would announce that I was going to get a whipping and send me to their bedroom to get ready. It stayed that way until the first couple swats and would come back after I was sent to my bedroom carrying my jeans and underwear and looked in the mirror at my bottom.

Did you get very long and hard hand spankings over the lap ?

He convinced mom that i also should be spanked and he began the day after they were married because he said I needed to have a change of attitude and learn who was boss in his home.

And did you actually do anything specific that warranted a punishment/spanking?

If he started the day after he married your mom and thus gained a sort of parental authority over you, but without justification on your part, then he must have been a sexually obsessed spanking wacko.

Ohh, I was spanked as a child and would become very angry about it, then rather preoccupied! I would hoard comics with spankings in them, and knew which cartoons would include spanking. At night I would lie on my stomach and imagine I had been kidnapped, and was waiting for a variety of adults to come spank me. I pushed it away as too uncomfortable during my young adult years, but I've figured out how to incorporate spanking in a fun, sexy way!