Question for the guys. Which is more humiliating

I'd go with both being somewhat equal in terms regarding humiliation. I might go with which is more a turn on? For me a toss up. I have experienced both. Standing before the spanker as she unbuckles my belt, unzips my jeans, and pulls my pants down exposing me definitely is a turn on. Though I have found not so much of an embarrassment anymore. Why? Over the years I have had various medical procedures that expose me to nurses. I have gotten somewhat used to being exposed. At 70 years old I don't get embarrassed as I did when younger.

During my last session with a particular lady I was ordered by her to go to bathroom and strip completely and present myself to her. A bit embarrassing to stand before a lady completely naked as she orders you to slowly turn around. To be told to bend over and spread your cheeks so she may examine where she will give an enema. Then told to lay over her lap for a spanking.

So I enjoy both. And I never know which it will be when I meet with this lady. The "unknown" is also a turn on.

For me it would be more humiliating if a woman exposed my buttocks. I would feel treated like a very little boy who is so scared he can't do it on his own. Which does not mean that baring your buttocks yourself is not humiliating. The man who does this is cooperating with the woman and is emphasizing his complete submission to her will.

Totally agree with the quote saying having to comply and do it yourself, as the control aspect is “without laying a hand on you” you're stripped and assuming a position as instructed, that is power.

I also agree with that. A man voluntarily preparing to spank shows that he is fully submissive.

to have the female unbutton, unzip and lower them

Just reading that is exciting! Love a dominate female who is every bit in control of my sorry ass.

To tell the truth, it doesn't make a damn bit of difference. The very idea of having a female get to your behind for WHATEVER reason (spanking is good, enemas are better, ANYTHING is great!) is nothing but delightful!! The more assertive a woman is the more enjoyable the experience. I suspect (the operative word is "suspect") that none of us really feel humiliated, but rather grateful (and excited) that a lady would be interested enough or care enough to indulge us in our inner fantasy/desire. Maybe it goes back to the mother/child relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend relationship or whatever, it's still a thrill. So; call it humiliation, call it embarrassment, whatever... it's still pure enjoyment!!

It's never happened to me, but I envision the ultimate embarrassing scenario would be to be spanked by a woman in the presence of another woman who I find very attractive and flirt with, but only have (and only will have) a platonic relationship with. In this scenario, the woman who is about to spank me commands me to "pull down your pants" (perhaps as she's removing the belt from her sexy short skirt). I glance at the other woman who is about as shocked as I am, the only difference is her shock quickly turns to excitement and eagerness as she hopes this is not a joke, and is slowly starting to relish in the idea of watching me get a bare bottom spanking in front of her. Meanwhile, my shock quickly turns to embarrassment and fear as an army of butterflies does back-flips in my stomach and I search desperately for any sign that this is some kind of joke (I cant find one). Seeing my hesitancy and disbelief, the lovely woman about to put me over her knee follows up with "pull down your pants now... or do I have to ask Tracy to come over there and pull them down for you?" My face flushes further and I can barely muster the courage to look over at Tracy who by now is sporting a very smug and satisfied sexy smirk on her face. YIKES!!!!

It depends if I am tied up or not

I remember mum saying you want to act like a naughty little boy mummy will treat you like one so mummy is going to pull down your pants was very humiliating having her do it

Having her pull down my pants as she reprimands me about me disappointing her. A plus if one of her friends or boyfriend are present

I just drop them and let her have her way with it..

I believe both would hold their own in humiliation depending on the approach the woman took to exposing you.

I dunno, this is a tricky question. YOU choose.

1. Jill glared at Jack before saying, "Drop your drawers, little boy, or you'll get double the promised swats with my paddle."

Jack froze, unable to obey or even move. The humiliation of being forced to wear and use a diaper was almost too much for him to accept, but now, about to be paddled as though he were a toddler AND told to remove his own trousers was…

2. "Waddle that butt over here, Jackie boy. You're going to taste my paddle until you can't cry right after I take your pants off you."

Jack, uncertain how this turn of events happened, took a small step, a baby step in Jill's direction. His face hadn't stopped burning red since she had wrestled him to the floor and forced him into the soft puffy diaper. Now, an hour after being permitted to re-dress in his adult clothes, Jill's threat to take them away again incited even more humiliation…and fear.

Prefer for her to bare my hiney.

Absolutely the latter, First being told that you are going to be spanked, (in front of her friends) immediately evokes a tingling in my gentiles, then to be told to present ones self IN front of the Paddler, as she removes my belt because she may want to add that to the hand spanking I usually get, causes me to have an erection, when with one motion she pulls down my pants and finds that I do not wear under ware she gasps because I present her with a ragging hardon, she immediately pulls me down and my penis is clenched between her thighs, and so the paddling begins.