Question for the guys. Which is more humiliating

Being told to do it! Also being ordered to hand her “MY” brush!!

Wish she would be holding my spanking brush and yanking my pants & underpants down 😃!

To have the female do it,

Its more humilitating to pull my pants down or take them off.

Much more humiliating to have a dominant female take charge and pull my pants down - oh, yes, just thinking about feeling her hand reaching around to undo them 😄😢

My wife likes to tell me to pull down my trousers when we visit her girlfriends so she can tell one of them to check my diapers to see if I need her to change me.

Usually when she does this she knows I have wet my diapers several times by then and that i'm likely to be teased about wearing diapers and wetting myself. She then invites her friends to watch or lend a hand while she opens my diaper bag, lays my changing pad on the floor and changes my soggy diapers. She gets a kick out seeing how submissive I become when she unpins my diapers and they see my small dick.

I asked my husband and he said me pulling his pants and underwear down are more embarrassing! It reminds him when his mom did it to him.

Hhhmmm me thinks it would be humiliating to stand in front of her and you hear her say to you .…. "take off your pants and pull your underwear down ….. try to stand there and not get a stiffy". Just knowing if you get a hard on, what she might do.

My wife is a very loving disciplinarian. Make no mistake that she is very strict with the hairbrush, the strap, and/or the bamboo stick! But, she doesn't try to humiliate me.

I don't feel humiliated. The word humiliation implies such a strong sense of disgust with oneself. If I deserve discipline, my wife certainly expects me to be humble/submissive, and accept my punishments. But she doesn't want me to feel like a total piece of shit.

My feelings of submissiveness are certainly enhanced by the ritual that my wife normally expects from me when I am to be chastised. She incorporates aspects of BOTH my required obedience to follow her instructions AND the expectation that I will passively accept whatever she does during preparations for spankings.

The question was which is more humiliating? Having to obey my wife's instructions to get naked? Or, standing passively at attention while she undresses me. I find both to require an equal-but-different (apples and oranges) amount/kind of humble submission. Having to obey her instructions to strip mysef in front of her is humbling/embarrassing. And, having to stand still and allow her to strip me is also humbling/embarrassing.

I usually experience both when I have a punishment appointment with my wife. She will usually tell me to meet her in either our bedroom or my workshop at 7pm (the workshop always means that I should expect more/very severe discipline). I know from experience that I should show up a little bit early and stand in the corner until she arrives. When she arrives, she usually sits down in the spanking chair, and instructs me to come and stand in front of her. She then usually instructs me to strip down to my boxers. I have to stand in front of her, wearing only my boxers, while she lectures me. After she feels that I have been adequately lectured, she will tell me that it is time for me to receive my punishment. Then, she reaches out and lowers my boxers to my ankles, so that I can step out of them. After I am naked, she tells me to kneel on the floor in front of her and look up into her eyes. She asks me if I have anything to say for myself before she tans my hide. I am allowed to say anything, but I know from experience that she will not tolerate stupid excuses. If I offer any excuses, they had better be very good and legitimate excuses. So, usually I just tell her that I understand what I did wrong, I apologize for being naughty, and I tell her that I'm ready to receive the punishment that I deserve. At this point, of course, I am required to put myself over her lap and accept my punishment.

I would exchange “humiliating” for “exciting”, or similar. I love both ways - having my spanker order me to bare my bottom or her taking charge and opening and lowering my pants. Both are fantastic anticipation builders before going over her lap.

I think telling me to take it off is more humiliating.

It gives me the feeling of embarrassment when I obey my mistress while she prepares her tools to punish me.

Why not both?

I think it would be more humiliating to first be told to undress, then to have her finish the job. First I'd be told to remove my shirt (after all we don't want it getting in the way). Then to lower my pants. Once they're down on the floor, I'd be told to step out of them, leaving me standing in front of her in just my underwear. I would be ordered over her knee where she would begin my spanking over my underwear. After just a few hits, she would proceed to pull down my underwear, pulling it down to my knees to help restrain my legs and keep me under control. After some bare-ass spanking, she would pull my underwear the remaining way down my legs and off completely. Then she would continue the OTK spanking, now parting my legs and reaching between them to humiliate me even more.

Have them taken down far more submissive. I tend to resist when asked to take them down which sometimes leads to a harder spanking for being disobedient. I am a slow learner!

I would think that having someone else in total control would add to the whole spanking event. So much more embarrassing to have her pull your pants down while you stand there waiting for your otk spanking. In my case, it would also involve pulling down my plastic pants and then unpinning my diaper, a whole new level of embarrassment.

For me it's having them taken down while being scolded. Feeling my belt being undone, pants unbuttoned and taken down and knowing what is coming makes it more humiliating.

It would give me a stiffy to be told to pull my pants off and pull down my drawers…. To be humiliated and for her to see me erect…. Has got to get her wetting her panties

As an adult, I find it more enjoyable when the woman unzips my trousers and takes them down. On the other hand, I like the sound of a woman's stern voice ordering me to take them down, especially when she has a slipper in her hand.

Oh, a dominant forceful female who enjoys what she is doing. Don't know about humiliating, but it sure is exciting. 😢😈

Have the female unfasten and drop my pants. Followed by her fingertips in the waistband of briefs lowering them as well. All of which would give me an erection.

Definitely more humiliating to have someone else do it.

Totally agree with the quote saying having to comply and do it yourself, as the control aspect is “without laying a hand on you” you're stripped and assuming a position as instructed, that is power.

Since I normally ask to be paddled and enjoy being spanked and prefer to be completely naked I can’t think of any part being humiliating.

My ex girlfriend used to pull my underwear down around my ankles and then tell me to step out of them before pulling me over her knees

I've just been asked to undress in front of someone, but I guess being undressed by someone else is more humiliating.

Feeling her cool fingers inside my underwear's waistband would be much more humiliating for me.

I would say the women pulling my pants down and underwear in front of her, would be more embarrassing for me for sure.

Having the Female deliberately take them down. There is a humiliation/loss of dignity factor by not doing it oneself.

I think being told, but they still pulled them down

Mother took trousers and underwear off in one go even in front of others that were there

My wife insists that I strip naked. The only difference is that I have to spend the whole day naked waiting for my spanking. I might be 1 hour or 6 hours before she will spank me and this is also the humiliation aspect of my punishment. Not that I'm spanked often but the nudity working in the orchid or barns whilst I wait for her to decide when to deliver my punishment.

"Mother took trousers and underwear off in one go even in front of others that were there"

I had to take my trousers and underpants down myself, and they often came down in one go.