Question for the guys. Which is more humiliating

You are about to go over a females lap for a good old fashion paddling. Is it more humiliating to be told to pull your pants down or to have the female unbutton, unzip and lower them???

For her to unzip the pants would be more embarrising

A lot easier to drop trousers and underpants, and then go over the knee.

Either way wouldn't be humiliating.

Pulling them down myself

Having her do it for me would be very humiliating for me.

Pulling them down myself and handing my clothes over to her

That's a tough one. I think it depends on the scene....what's leading up to it. Either way would be fun. Being told what to do has its humiliating element, but so does having your clothing removed by someone else.

I think it is having the woman bare you would be more humilating

Having her do it.

In my mind, the most humiliating sequence would be For her to Order you (the guy about to meet his doom) to remove your pants, and She sits and carefully watches you do so while you are standing in front of her, perhaps folding and/or hanging them up (again command based), but leaving your underpants on! Then once you have layed across her lap (in obedience to her Command), She will lower your underpants, reaching under and around to ensure that they are clear of your 'package', lowering them as far as She wants!

(Not that I have ever been there before, of course; just sounds humiliating to me. 😄 😳 )

Both are humilitating to say the least. Having her do it while your standing in front of her is a little more so.

I find it much more humiliating when she makes me take it off myself. I much prefer it when she does it.

To Have her pull them down.

To have her unzip and pull them down.

To have her pull them down

I think having 'her' pull them down. Its more of a control thing for her and a humiliating thing for me to stand there and let her do it. Its like me tacitly saying that I am giving my control over to her. Its also embarrassing knowing what is about to happen and not being able to do anything about it... Great question!

It would be much more enjoyable if she pulled them down

Dr Bob

The first one.

Am I missing something or what?

Neither would be humiliating to me but both would be very erotic. I can see me enjoying both.

RR

I agree with potter 875 neither would be humiliating (unless someone else was watching). But either way sounds like you are heading in the right direction.

Both would be humiliating but that's part of the thrill right? I guess if I was given a choice, I would rather have them pulled down for me. Part of the relinquishment of control.

It's more humiliating to be told. She uses an indifferent tone of voice like she's not really paying attention and couldn't care less.

For me it is always more humiliating to have my pants and underpants pulled down. When you are told to do it, you still have some control. When it is done for you it reminds you that you are completely submitting.

I remember there was one time when I was going to get (play) spanked and I actually didn't want my pants pulled down. (I just wasn't in the mood that day) My wife took my resisting as part of the act and actually forced my pants and briefs down before pulling me across her knees. That turned out to be one of the hottest yet. I tried recreating that day, but with me secretly wanting my pants to come down its just not the same.

Having her pull them down, actually before I get a spanking she will not let me pull them down and if I do the spanking will be more severe, she always pulls them down when it's time after a warm-up to get started then she drops them or takes them off completely then it's seroius time and a good spanking occurs.

The mrs puts panties on me 4 the spanking and them proceeds to redden my ass red as my panties

Told to pull your pants down

I think pulling them down myslef

Interesting question. Being told to take down your britches then told to lay across her lap would certainly be embarrassing, but, on the other hand, having her yank them down and bend you over her knee would be also. Both are exciting and embarrassing in their own ways.

In the first scenario, it is a drawn out process, and you know you are headed for your doom (so to speak) with her watching your every move. In the second, it is much more sudden and, although part of you knows what's coming, it is more of a surprise, and you don't have as much time to "prepare" yourself.

I think it is more humiliating to be ordered to pull down your pants in preparation for a paddling. It shows you are under her control and must willingly submit to punishment, even though you may not want to do so.

Much better to have her pull them down.