Telling your partner about your medical fetish

In my case there was a middle ground between explicitly telling my partner about it and keeping it secret. A couple years ago while living out in the countryside I was doing some wood working and grazed my hand with a chisel. Stupid mistake, I know. Anyway the cut was on my dominant right hand, which I usually use to stimulate my partner. We were making out, and I jokingly mentioned that there was no way we'd be able to go any further. I didn't want to get her wetness all over an open wound.

She was disappointed, but agreed it was probably not a good idea. I pretended to be upset too, before casually mentioning the only way it might work would be if I wore one of the nitrile gloves we had for cleaning. But still, too weird, right? By this point she was really turned on. We'd been making out for a while. After a little back and forth, again with me pretending to be more reluctant than she was, I agreed to try it out. Still, it was kind of weird, right? There was no way we'd be able to get in the mood wearing the cleaning gloves. There weren't any realistic times where someone touched someone's genitals while wearing gloves.

At this point the idea of gloves being worn in medical situations came up. I pretended to give her an exam, wearing a glove to cover my injury. I made sure I did a good job on my end. After I was finished touching her, I said it was really hot, and asked her to try it on me. She agreed, pulled on some gloves, and went to work.

Little by little, we worked it in to our regular routine. On some level I was not being completely honest. Gloves have been a turn-on long before the incident with the chisel, but the result is the same. I don't think everyone needs to come out with the full, whole truth directly, explaining everything. I think there are ways to ease into it and see where it goes. I'm still really into it, with her not as much, but it's something we do from time to time.

I haven't told my husband about it yet! I hope to soon though, maybe it's better to just show him! Any advice from any females who brought it up with their male partners. Interested in being both patient and care giver.

I did not tell I just acted. It was a risk but one day during covid we were meeting in a hotel. She was concerned as a family member was sick but I said it was fine we should still meet up. Playfully I brought a thermometer with me. When she arrived I joked that we need to check her out and ensure she is not sick. I pointed to the thermometer and then went through the not going in your mouth or armpit motions. I then proceeded to remove her jeans and after a struggle she was over my knee with the thermometer in her peachy ass. Temperature was 37.7 but I accepted this and she is now a convert......

@tigger_in_london Congratulations! She was open-minded!!

Whilst we have sex, I touch my gf's asshole and she enjoys it. I then tell her that I am going to measure her temperature and it's going in her ass. After we have finished I get the thermometer and use it to play with her ass for ages finally inserting it normally first in diaper position and then over my knees. She loves it especially as I tease her hole with the metal tip...drives her wild.

My late wife and I were both reluctant to talk about our secrets. We both figured we were the only ones. Before we were married though I had seen the box with the combination hot water bottle in her bathroom, it was in a cupboard but not hidden. Before long however, she had a terribly upset stomach and I took the hook. as we talked about it she mentioned it was too embarrassing what she needed. She admitted to being surprised when I observed you must need an enema. A few minutes later she was on her hands and knees and I was giving her the first of many enemas. She commented that it helped to make her feel a lot better and she didn't want me to go. She didn't have any trouble talking about it and mentioned before she went to bed she would have to have another one probably. She later admitted to knowing I had an erection even though I was doing a good job of hiding it. The punch line came as she asked, since we both had the same meal, if it was bothering me any. You all can guess what happened then.

I was Much more shy about disclosing my medical fetish when I was younger. But as I’ve gotten older I’m no longer bothered by it. I’d rather be up front with my sexual interests with a potential partner. Surprisingly, I’ve found a lot of women are very intrigued by medical play, some even coming to realize they actually have a medical fetish themselves.

I was a little shy at first when I told my girlfriend about my medical fetish along with some of my other fetishes but after I told her and how she accepted it and didn’t freak out I was glad and we have even used some of the terms in the bedroom and have talked about getting some medical equipment like the little kids toy doctor kits to start out with before we move on to other things like a speculum and other serious things

For the first few years of our marriage I was a little hesitant to share my medical fetish. Over time I would drop hints and she was receptive to my interests. In the past few years there’s no hesitation talking about it.

I never told my late husband. He was vanilla and we had a great sex life so I never felt the need to tell him

I have never felt comfortable telling a sexual partner about my medfet I'm worried that something's going to happen between them and they're going to tell people about it.

Unfortunately, my wife did not actively support my fetish endeavors, but she did not block them either.

So we played doctor's visit. I had a test kit. At that time I worked in a hospital, so I had a white robe.

A stethoscope was always in the house from my parents, as part of a blood pressure measuring device. Then I bought an anal thermometer.

Stores also sold gynecological examination kits for a doctor's visit. There was a plastic examination dilator.

But there was no active play between us. It was as an addition to sex life.

During pregnancy, I helped with treatment, put suppositories and pills. Then I treated the anus when there were problems with it. My wife always took these things well. And I always enjoyed it.

But we did not specifically discuss it.

My partner is VERY vanilla and just doesn't get this at all, which is fine because I don't really enjoy roleplaying it anyway. I had a friend in college who was into medical fetish and we would swap stories of real physicals we had had, mostly things like our high school sports physicals, etc., and jack off together. He was straight but we went so far as to play doctor together a few times and eventually we found a couple older people over a phone chat line to play doctor with us - we only did that a handful of times though. I also indulged his other fetish which was femdom (I am semi-bi and was more so back then) and we found some interested women we could submit to together.

My wife went along with it to a point to meet my wishes but eventually disposed of the speculums. When you've reached your seventies some ships have sailed.