Telling your partner about your medical fetish

I was just wondering how many people here have had a little bit of reluctance in telling their sex partner about their medical fetish. And if so, how did you overcome it?

My boyfriend held it form me for three years. He just recently shared. I think my response is what shocked him. All I said was okay.As for me never really considered making it part of the bedroom scene.

You need to start of gently – asking if they have had any surgery is a good starting point – or mention something when watching a medical TV show like “medicine fascinates me” – and try to get them to tell you something of their feelings during exams etc

I keep it to myself - my wife would totally flip if she knew

Just tell them if they are a good partner and love to PLEASE YOU they will fully understand!

I told my girlfriend about my fetish about 2 years after we met. For the first she haven't wanted to try it but after first playing i concinced her to it. And now our sex become great!

My partner would freak out

I happy to say my wife is totally understanding and has on occasion indulged me by examing me.

I did it by writing a story, in which she was the pt. and I was the doctor. I wrote it chapter by chapter, to judge her reaction. It started with an after hours exam that gradually gets more suggestive, but the eroticism is in her mind. Or is it? I finally give her an enema and she is supposed to save the expulsion for me to examine. She flushes! Of course, this leads to a spanking and another enema. I had a great time writing it, and she reading it. That was nearly six years ago, and we have since played out every scene and more!

Tried to tell my wife...she freaked out when I wanted to get a speculum. She will spread her legs for me to look but that's about as far as it goes. Been married for 17 years and there is probably a better chance to get hit by lightning than my wife letting me play doc. 😢 Love this site and getting into it more & more

I did not actually tell my wife as much as show her.

One night shortly after we were married my wife asked me about what I dreamt of doing to her. I had her set on the edge of the bed and unbutton the shirt that she was wearing. I surprised her by producing a stethoscope and blood pressure cuff from the night stand. I proceeded to listen to her heart an breathing while sat there. As the initial shock wore off she becme more relaxed. I then examined her breast with sitting and laying down. At this point she was into the whole role play and I gave her a complete exam. Ever since she has indulged my fetish on a pretty regular basis. Sometimes it is only heart beat and brest exam other times it is complete and then some.

I'm lucky to have an understanding and adventurous g/f. She was cool with it from day one, preferring the role play aspect more than the medical scene. But cool for me. I'd say it's important to know your partner well, because this will allow you to guage their response in advance.

I told my wife a long time ago but she isn't interested. So life goes on, all i can do is think about it!

I have never discussed it with my wife. I don't know how she would take it. She is very vanilla.

I tried to tell my boyfriend and he gave me a lecture about how unsafe it was. He didn't understand any of it. It practically blew up in my face. I let it go for several months, until he found my conversations with other "play docs". He flipped out. He called me unfaithful and all sorts of other things. That was it for us.

Ive found that lots of guys don't understand so I play with other females who do.

I have never told anyone im a little afraid. but i know my boyftiend is always snooping around on my computer, maybe he will find something one day any sugestions?

I always had trouble telling girls when I was a teen, but now it's very easy. Sometimes they laugh and call me strange, but I always get the last laugh.

My hubby asks about my exam, and he knows it excites me. I start going into detail, and it gets him excited as well, and usually leads to hot sex! 😮

My wife and I have the same gyno-fantasies. Watching the same hot gyno-movies. So we feel very lucky indeed!

I've had this fantasy for years, but my wife was being playful and mentioned something about being a doctor and she saw how much it turned me on. I didn't have to say anything.

I know my girlfriend knows about my medical fetish because she drops not so subtle hints every now and again. I enjoy playfully asking her about previous exams she has had and have insisted on being in the room with her for her next gyno exam. We have not role played as of yet, but it is one of my biggest fantasies.

When my girlfriend knew she wasn't shocked but nothing happened concerning play or exams.

it was some time after that she asked me for an exam. I never asked her. So I'm lucky and she's the best girl of the world

I told her that it turns me on. She invited me to watch and come in. Probably to show me that it was no big deal.

Told my husband early on about my casting interest (didn't realize it was a fetish at that time), felt no need to keep it a secret. Unfortunately, while he said he thought casts were kinda cool, he has not expressed interest an exploring any further medical fun.

Just told her, at first she was scared, but then she tried and liked it 😃

My partner don´t know about my fantasy and I am ashamed to telling her. I bought new stethoscope when she was pregnant and when child was born, just bought her nurse outfit and we play doctor up to now...

I haven't told my husband, but just joined with the hope of getting up the courage. We've always been pretty open with each other so hopefully it will work out.

Told my wife before we got married.

I would love it if my boyfriend would play doctor with me. I just don't know how to bring it up.