Turn off: a knock on the door. “Hey Mom.... MOM!” Or “Hey Dad... Dad are you in there?”Well. He WAS! Now he’s not!But worse:A knock on the door. In-law walks in.“Where’s Daddy?”“He’s in the bedroom with Mom.”“I’ll just sit here. And wait. Til they come out.”Scenario #1 happens... we used to stop. Now we turn the music off, answer, “we’ll be out in a little while,” then turn the music back on and continue. It can be annoying sometimes but it’s the life when you have four. There are bound to be interruptions.Scenario #2 has happened on numerous occasions for the past 23 years. Twenty. Three. Years. Proof I love my husband. And also, an instant show-stopper, I tell ya. Nothing quite like it....
My wife has a hiatal hernia. Sometimes she would choke and toss giving oral. Slowed us down a bit but not a deal breaker. Unfortunately it’s become a daily issue for her.Sorry to hear it, a big pain. I have one too but it's 99% controlled with one or two meds. What does she take or do for it medically? How out of control is it? Is it just affecting your sex life or major problems out of the bedroom too? I'm a retired physician and I take care of my HH every day. I'd like to help. Thanks,Eric
Turn off: When the sex seems to become rote. They follow the same action, routine and moves. Ugh. The worst.
I think this one is the same of men and women , my answer to Question what is a major turn off in the bedroom is : A BAD ATTITUDE !!!!!!Two others that all may not agree on but are bedroom killers; WHINING , and Wimping out.Many of the other things you fix, will admit kids are a challenge . However take a shower, go skinny dippen ,use a box of wipes, use mouth wash, both shave each other. The essence is ,turn a negative to a positive and have some fun doing it. If you can't ,get out and end it.Tomorrow is another day. Explorer902
I think the only significant turn off is when my SO is too drunk. I guess I feel it's not her I'm with and lose the mental connection. Annoyingly, these are the times she is most adventurous.
Any turn offs occurred years ago when I was single. Back then the biggest for sure, hands down, would be waking up in the morning with someone you met when the bar closed @ 2AM and the first thing she reaches for is a Marlboro Light. The tobacco mixed with the smell of vodka would shut down my morning wood no matter how hard I tried.Funny, it was never a problem hours earlier.
For me, it would be body odor, bad teeth/breath, smoking, poor grooming (not shaving armpits, legs or pubic area). I know the pubic hair thing doesn’t bother some guys, and some love a full bush, but I like hardwood floors! A small, thin landing strip is okay, though.
Animals and drama. If their pet, like their dog or their cat, is climbing on the bed or they're complaining too much...I'm done.
As a guy hands down its bad hygiene. A foul smelling pussy, ass, or bad breath are all deal breakers!
I have a few things which are turnoffs for me. Some irritate me enough that I will completely stop what we are doing, get dressed and leave. Bad breath is disgusting, so is stupidity. Depending on how bad these are, I just might be done! Bragging is also bad. Yes, some guys actually do this and then wonder why I never return their calls. They brag about their talent or the size of their dick.Body order can be a good or bad thing. If a man smells like the outdoors with a slight salty, sweaty taste from working out or from being outside all day -that is hot. If he just didn't use deorderent or smells like he hasn't bathed in two days-that is gross.
Yep, I'm the same as most others here, bad personal hygiene is a real turn off. I don't care what sort of a mess we make during a session but we have to start off clean and sweet smelling. Also getting bitched at for some past reason during sex or games is a turn off.
Major turn-off at bedroom.....hmmm.....maybe my light, the electric bill is expensive here.....i always said to people turn it off....... 😉I don't think I have a turn-off at bed......I am open (no pun intended) to whatever appears I guess.....Za
Dirty fingernails, bad breath, and poor hygiene kill everything for me. Much to my dismay too many friends also don't own or use a toothbrush very often. They have no pride in their Temple (their bodies) and appearance. And they wonder why they never get an invitation to our parties. 😎
Body order, bad breath, gross bed, partner being a jerk or not paying attention to ‘us', just to himself.
It may not be an actual turn off but it was a mood buster. Hearing the local raccoons trying to get up on our roof. It is almost as good as a cold shower. As I have to get up and go scare them away. They are rather destructive if left to tear away at the siding.
A female playing with her smartphone rather than having an intimate time with me! The smartphone stoled my wife! Lol 😃
Biggest turn off is when there is no communication. I didn’t realize until I got with my current partner that I love getting fingered after (or before… or during…) sex— that’s a guaranteed way for me to finish. I say exactly what I want. It’s wild to think that there was ever a time that I couldn’t do that. Anyone reading this— get yours! Find a partner that is just as obsessed with you getting off as they are themselves.
A female playing with her smartphone rather than having an intimate time with me! The smartphone stoled my wife! Lol 😃Smartphones not only stole your wife, they stole the way we spend our time and lives.How I wish I could get those god-awful gadgets un-invented. They are a worse plague on humanity than drug addiction.
Lack of communication (tell me what you want,), Hygiene (particularly "down there"-- need to take care of the tuna boat), external distractions (phone, etc) , attitude, lack of consideration, making it about "me" and not "us" (narcissism),. If you're gonna go "back door", prepare before. Preparation can be fun. Kissing an ash tray (quit smoking), bragging, talking down to your mate, put the dog/cat out, pubic hair (don't like hair caught in my teeth--shaving your mate is fun), too much alcohol (tipsy is fine, drunk is not), drugs, complaining. If your mate has medical problems (i.e., ED etc, dont dwell on it. Do you actually love this person? There is more than one way to build an orgasm. That's a few of them.
A lame girl is a major turn off for me. I want someone who is extra kinky and will do the things I want and I’ll do what she wants while respecting limits and boundaries. I know some people who tell me they can’t get their women to do anything extra except regular sex.
Major turn-offs for me in the bedroom would be:-if she doesn't take good care of her physical health and hygiene-lack of communication during our whole bedroom "experience"-a side note of poor communication is if my female partner is not vocal during sex. It's important for both partners to know how each other is feeling in the moment and to make changes if necessary.