Biggest turn offs are bad hygiene and having a game or any sport related show on. The focus should be on the person you are with, not the score or game highlights.
Biggest turn offs are bad hygiene and having a game or any sport related show on. The focus should be on the person you are with, not the score or game highlights.What about Steve Allen, Jack Parr and especially Johnny Carson? 😁 😁 😁Many of us were conceived during the Tonight Show.
Bad breath in bed we each brush our teeth before we jump into bed at night. No kissing before we brush our teeth. 😄
Certainly bad hygiene, bad breath and ungroomed/untrimmed body hair. Any lady with hairy underarms I find disgusting too. Hair usually retains sweat and smell.
Dirty. Not willing to experiment. Just wants it over with. Won't communicate and expects me to just know. Thinks sex is dirty or just something that they *have* to do. Won't look at me. Only wants the same thing every time.
Dirty. Not willing to experiment. Just wants it over with. Won't communicate and expects me to just know. Thinks sex is dirty or just something that they *have* to do. Won't look at me. Only wants the same thing every time.That sounds like my marriage, just add laying there reading the Bible and a cocoon.
Couldn't you guys tell anything about this BEFORE you were married?What's stopping you from going out and finding a fuck buddy?
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(A) what's stopping me? Promises. Looking for a friend or friends for limited play but fuck buddy isn't an option.(B) what makes you think this is an all the time deal? She's never dirty, but that would be a turnoff. The other ones don't happen every one all the time, but I can tell you they are turn-offs. When they are a problem they may be temporary as well. We'll see.It just seemed as though these were things that were missing from the list, and yes, being asked "are you done yet? Cum!" Is a turn off.Strangely for a guy I find rushing to sex kind of a turn off too, should have put that in the list.
Mixing food and sex.I get the impression this is a relatively common interest but luckily nobody has tried to get me to eat pineapple rings off their knob yet.I don't know if I would laugh or cry!
Fortunately I have never had any experience with most of the turn offs others have experienced in this thread. Body odor, general cleanliness, smells of tobacco smoke, tattoos (just my personal feeling), body piercings, and foul language are things that come to mind immediately. But I have never experienced any of these as I already knew the people before I got intimate with them.One thing did turn me off while making love with a girlfriend. After a day of skiing we started to fool around in front of the fireplace. As I was teasing a nipple with my tongue, I just jerked back. When she asked what was wrong, I said it was salty. We both got up and took a shower before continuing. We were both very clean people and didn’t want to offend each other. I wasn’t really disgusted but more shocked by it. It had never happened before or after that one incidence. But it definitely was a show stopper for both of us.
Mixing food and sex.I get the impression this is a relatively common interest but luckily nobody has tried to get me to eat pineapple rings off their knob yet.I don't know if I would laugh or cry!Damn, now that is stuck in my head and I can't get it out 😮 . Gee thanks.,
I think my wife is turned off because I have been incontinent for yrs and have to wear diapers due to being a diabetic. She is very demanding and controlling she checks to see if the bed is wet.
@sport I feel bad for you. She will age as well. I moved out of "our" bedroom years ago and have my own room now. I would not go back. If you have the space you may wanna try the same. You can get together on one of your rooms for fun if you ever wanna have fun. For some reason she always wants to come into my room. She will bitch about everything in there, but we never fool around in her room. Go figure.
Selfishness. Why would I want to please someone who is not willing to do the same. Also, fast and furious may have its place at times, but what a turnoff when it is all the tine.
In my experience, there are really very few things the turn me off. That being said, I have found two. As many have mentioned before, any type of body odor that results from infrequent showering and ANY incorporation of food into intimate play. I guess I found the second one out the hard way. I was seeing a woman that I had many things in common with and had a very active interest in sex. However on several occasions she insisted on eating pizza during a break in the middle of one of our extended sessions. Something about seeing another naked person eat is a total "game over" for me.
I dont think I have any turnoffs. However children might be. Just when are cuddeling somebody cries, wakes up and wants to sleep in our bed. That is a HUGE turn off!
I dont think I have any turnoffs. However children might be. Just when are cuddeling somebody cries, wakes up and wants to sleep in our bed. That is a HUGE turn off!NEVER let a child sleep in your bed. They have their own and they must learn to fall asleep on their own. Crying because they want attention at 3 AM is not a reason to take them into your room. If they are sick or need consoling for teething or some non-illness reason, going into their room is OK for a while--NOT for hours or all night. The child will learn and become strong. Parents should not feel guilty about this. Your child will still love you.
Like a few have stated, I think smelly breath, especially early morning. Everyone gets morning breath, so just a quick go with mouthwash etc makes a huge difference.
Cleanliness is important to me and my partners. That's how they introduced me to enemas in the first place. In hindsight, it is clear that they had other reasons as well, but I don't mind! But yes, cleanliness, fresh breath, all good things in the bedroom.
However children might be. Just when are cuddeling somebody cries, wakes up and wants to sleep in our bed. That is a HUGE turn off!Kids crying can be a mood killer. As a parent you make that sacrifice for your children.
The random drunk man outside who sings horribly, raccoons engaging in intercourse and or a very unclean home.
Dirty fingernails, bleck, I notice hands and that's a big no! Body odor, other than work outside sweat also a no... And foot odor yuck.
For me, it's doing things sexually because "I" like it but my partner jets zero enjoyment from it. At my age I know better than to even start any of those activities. It's beyond turn off to me.
For me it really is carelessness... Why would I work so hard to satisfy another person when they can't even be bothered to show me the same. Love and sex are pretty sacred to me I guess, I shouldn't be picky. But honestly, there is a time and place for taking things easy and this is not the place.