Does getting spanked cause you to be sexually aroused

Under the right circumstances. But I can also be spanked as part of a consensual discipline relationship and enjoy it and need it, but still not be turned on.

When I was a boy (in junior & senior high schools), we were paddled naked by the PE coach in the boys' locker room (the girls were paddled in the girls' locker room). This discipline was very public within the locker rooms. It was considered to be a good deterrent for other boys and girls to witness the discipline that was received for misbehavior.

I can testify that more than half of the boys who I saw paddled, had erections (at least partial) before and/or during their punishments.

Some who had erections in the 7th grade (the first few times that they were punished in this manner), eventually outgrew this sexual arousal, but many did not. I was one of the boys who was always erect, and to this day I have never outgrown it.

I'm not sure about the girls, but I think that, for the boys, these locker room punishments actually helped us understand some things about our male sexuality. Of course, there were undoubtedly some homosexual or bisexual boys who received punishments in front of other boys, but most of the boys who got erections (became sexually aroused when Coach told them to fetch the paddle) were as “straight as an arrow". For example, I have never found myself the slightest bit sexually attracted to another man, but just the thought of receiving (and even giving) corporal punishments triggers sexual arousal for me. The straight boys learned that becoming physically/sexually aroused can happen sometimes for reasons other than desiring physical intimacy with a woman, and that didn't make us gay. The gay boys learned to co-exist with straight men (even in potentially homosexually charged situations), and have self-control over their sexual desires. Basically, we (as boys in the locker room) learned that it is not necessary to be too embarrassed nor hyper-focused on our human sexuality. We also learned that Coach didn't care whether-or-not boys had hard penises before/during their punishments, and we learned not to care either. It was simply his job to discipline us, if necessary. And, he made sure that boys would NOT want paddlings from him, even if the sexual arousal was sort of exciting for boys when they had to fetch the locker room paddle!

Ooohh yes…. Getting or giving get me all excited and a stiffy

No. Going over a mans knee and having my little bare tushy thrashed hurts. It hurts A LOT. I know when it is done, it is part of all this. As a man looking after me, one of a mans responsibilities is to decide if I need to be taught right from wrong, so, there is, literally, nothing I can do as a regressed boy but get nervous, even scared, as my diaper is taken down and I am put over his knee.

If done aggressively enough, I cry. Again, it is, absolutely, a part of being a regressed dependent boy looked after by a man. The ladies are not, usually, the disciplinarians. The men, definitely, are.

So, all you can do in go over their knee, stay still, stay quiet, and take whatever is next, hoping, they stop sooner than later. Nothing I can do.

A nice hand spanking on our couch or bed will really get me into the mood. On the couch, I will usually be in my pajamas and watching TV. I love to go over my husband's lap, have my pajama bottoms and panties slipped down, and remain in that position for most of the evening for his handswats during the commercials.

A nice hand spanking on our couch or bed will really get me into the mood. On the couch, I will usually be in my pajamas and watching TV. I love to go over my husband's lap, have my pajama bottoms and panties slipped down, and remain in that position for most of the evening for his handswats during the commercials.

Watch out for the Super Bowl. There are lots of long commercials during that!

When women and men have spanked me ever since I was nineteen years old, they have stripped off my clothes, examined my pale white Nordic body and blonde haired bottom, and spanked my bare bottom when I am laying across their lap on when I am laying on my back on a bed with my plump bottom on a pillow. Whey I am laying on my back in this diaper position, they have me hold my ankles back toward my head and proceed to spank my bottom cheeks and upper thighs with their hand, sandal, or short leather strap. This causes me to become sexually aroused and get a big erection which at times they may slap with their hand to make me feel both pain and pleasure. Feel free to message me to add me as a friend to discuss similar experiences.

I'm only sexually aroused long after a spanking. I think that's mostly because I've experienced discipline spankings and it takes some time to recover from them. The warmth, swelling, and sensitivity definitely add up later in the evening!

Not only do I get aroused being spanked but just like seeing enema equipment it’s the same when I see any type of paddle I start thinking how that would feel smacking my bare bottom.

Oh my gosh… YES! A bare hand smacking my bare bottom is heaven!

When I was younger it sure did. I loved the stimulation of a hand or brush smacking my bubble butt. Then the feeling of the cool down with the needles and pins effect.

Now at age 77 , it still does for the most part. My bubble butt isn't as round and firm as it used to be, butt it still feels good, and gets my motor running if you catch my drift.

When Bobby spanks my bare bummer it makes me feel little , child-like, submissive…. I belong to him in much the same way I belonged to my father when I was a child. I do not actually liked being spanked which in a way adds to my excitement. Sometimes I will truly do something like not give bobby an important message and then he really does spank me until I am crying and whimpering like the naughty little girl I had been. So, Yes, spanking is a turn on.

I think I mentioned before that when you tell me I'm going to be spanked I get erect. The thought of submitting naked to a person, I find exciting. Not always, but usually I remain hard throughout the session. Later at home thinking about being spanked causes me to get hard again. I'm glad I have this reaction.

Like most fetishes, isn’t sexual arousal part of it?

As a teen it did not, but I felt safe and loved. I hope that others here can understand those feelings.

As a teen it did not, but I felt safe and loved. I hope that others here can understand those feelings.

How can anyone feel safe and loved because they were physically punished and actually hit on their body (an intimate part no less) to cause pain? That makes no sense. It is a violation of someone's body and takes advantage of a youngster's lack of strength and size.

Being punished without a spanking is enough to make one feel bad, sad and humiliated. How do those feelings morph into safety and love? I can only think of the lingering resentment such punishments must cause, especially if they were, as often happens, too extreme for the transgression or wrongly applied to begin with. I would consider that a violation of trust.

I hope that others here can understand those feelings.

Yes, there are a lot of us who do understand and share the same feelings.

How can anyone feel safe and loved because they were physically punished and actually hit on their body (an intimate part no less) to cause pain? That makes no sense.

And this person is not one of them, and reminds us of that often.

Yes, there are a lot of us who do understand and share the same feelings.And this person is not one of them, and reminds us of that often.

And ‘this person’ still hasn't received even the beginning of an explanation … if you wish to have others understand, then you really do need to give another explanation than just: ‘because I feel so …’ That may be the truth for you broadly speaking, but you will never get anyone to understand with that statement/argument alone.

My housekeeper used to spank her adopted nephew, at his request, since he was around 14 years old. She said he always experienced a sense of catharsis and mood elevation. I was fortunate to be involved in these events with some subsequent sexual activity. He was much more relaxed and cooperative after his punishment.

Sure from the right lady with a stern no nonsense attitude.

But generally, more often I rather do the spanking. Take those panties down, young lady!

But generally, I more often I rather do the spanking. Take those panties down, young lady!

Like the sound of that! Add an enema and now we're talking!

In a sexual context, the answer is yes, any touch from a trusted partner is arousing, whether it's mildly painful like a playful spanking or seriously painful like getting whipped in bdsm play.

In a non-sexual context, like a corporal punishment spanking, the answer is usually no. There are accounts of judicial caning in countries like Singapore where male prisoners were observed to have hard erections while getting their bare buttocks pummeled by a rattan cane. If you havent heard of judicial caning, it's the mommy of all corporal punishments where skin splits from the first stroke of the cane, flesh from the buttocks flies off with each stroke, and blood flows readily. No sub crying "spank me harder, daddy!" for sure. I think their erections were caused by the extreme fear because strong emotions can cause arousal. Maybe I ain't normal….sometimes my clit swells when I watch sad emotional scenes in movies, and then I start to feel horny and am not sad anymore because of the new feeling between my legs. Likewise a non-sexual spanking that stirs up enough emotion could cause sexual arousal. But I've never been sexually aroused by memories of being spanked by mom or dad.

I started getting sexually aroused from being spanked when I was 11, and I have been like that ever since.

I started getting sexually aroused from being spanked when I was 11, and I have been like that ever since.

Interesting. Did your spankers know this?

Because, I would say that logically and not just a little bit ironically, enjoying spankings would cause someone to be less well behaved in order to get what they wanted. Giving somewhat the opposite effect of what a spanking is supposed to do: make children behave.

I started getting sexually aroused from being spanked when I was 11, and I have been like that ever since.

Interesting. Did your spankers know this?

Because, I would say that logically and not just a little bit ironically, enjoying spankings would cause someone to be less well behaved in order to get what they wanted. Giving somewhat the opposite effect of what a spanking is supposed to do: make children behave.

Same as faking being constipated to get an enema.

I was raised and taught by my stepmother. She was very strict and demanding. I had to absolutely obey. There was a punishment almost every night before going to bed. When I was little, I didn't know what excitement was, but I did know pain and fear. …

I really hope this account is a fantasy or a gross exaggeration, because if it isn’t this is the most disgusting child abuse I’ve ever read about. Your stepmother should be taken out and shot as far as I’m concerned. I usually am the last to say things like that, because some people on this forum consider a normal spanking child abuse, but this is clearly abusive. I hope she doesn’t have access to any other children.

I usually am the last to say things like that, because some people on this forum consider a normal spanking child abuse,

I think that many people on the forum do not so much consider spanking abuse as such, but mostly ineffective and teaching children the wrong lessons, namely that it is all right to use (even mild) violence to make children obey. It doesn't teach the better lesson, namely that acting as expected of polite, well-brought up kids will result in better relationships with parents, elders and others. Less upset all round.