Parental Spanking into later Years

I was disciplined well into my later teens at home by my mother. I realize every family did what they felt best for their situation, but my mom always corrected me with care, patience and love. This is by no means to say I was not spanked in a real, firm way, but it was not handled abusively. Rather, I was talked to, told why I was to be corrected and then given the spanking she felt was best suited for the infraction or poor decision. After every correction, I was hugged and allowed time to regain my composure.

I doubt there are many in her situation but it won't be unheard of. Every family has their own approach to these things, and sometimes the potential positives will outweigh the particular negatives of a situation like that, at least in terms of why someone might go along with it. There's also the psychological impact of growing up being told this is the best approach to take (whereas anyone who had not had that experience would be very unlikely to comply where it raised).

Hmm. My mom stopped spanking me shortly before I turned 17. I remember feeling somewhat perplexed that she stopped but also remember wondering prior to that point if she would ever stop ever stop before I moved out lol. At that point though I really didn’t do anything that warranted it. She would just lecture me or chastise me if I came off track but I was very respectful of the rules and we started to have a more peer/friend-like relationship after I graduated high school, and I moved out when I was 21.

The doing something to warrant it is a good point. I think for those of us raised in a very strict household, there's unlikely to be anything significant that would "deserve" a spanking by the age of 22. Only if there's trivial/minor offences but I can't see a spanking making much difference to that. My mum would scold me about those kind of things even as an adult, but by and large there was never any serious trouble I got in.

As embarrassing as it is to admit, I still get them from my parents, but they are rare now these days. My parents are the old fashioned type, that regularly use the saying "Whilst you are living under our roof, you will abide by our rules" blah blah blah.

Meg

I got them from my stepdad until i was 18.

I still get them at 18, but I’m still in school and live at home so. There hasn’t been a super magic change in our relationship since the calendar rolled over. My mom feels pretty strongly that I still need rules and structure as long as I’m at home, and that spanking is effective at providing that guidance. I have mixed feelings about it, it’s certainly very embarrassing and I feel kinda stupid for still needing them. But I admit there are times I act like a brat and it’s probably fair I get spanked.

Typo correction to my earlier post. I should have said I got spanked at 42 years old by my mom as opposed to 32. It happened when I was over at my parents house and I was visiting my mother. While she was in another room, I accidently broke a vase of hers and whispered under my breath, "Damn." Growing up, foul or swearing language were not tolerated in their house by anyone. She has very sharp hearing and came into the room with the dreaded hairbrush in hand and ordered me over her knee. I kind of laughed and went along with it, but I was quickly pulled over her knee and my bottom bared and she gave me what one might call a "good and proper" spanking until my poor bottom was red. Let me tell you all, that she still had what it takes to give someone a good sound spanking. We laughed about it afterward and other times when it is brought up. That was the last time I cussed in their home and also the last time she spanked me I kind of miss that but husband has taken over those duties when I need correction and/or warmed up for close moments in bed. 😃 Denise

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Typo correction to my earlier post. I should have said I got spanked at 42 years old by my mom as opposed to 32. It happened when I was over at my parents house and I was visiting my mother. While she was in another room, I accidently broke a vase of hers and whispered under my breath, "Damn." Growing up, foul or swearing language were not tolerated in their house by anyone. She has very sharp hearing and came into the room with the dreaded hairbrush in hand and ordered me over her knee. I kind of laughed and went along with it, but I was quickly pulled over her knee and my bottom bared and she gave me what one might call a "good and proper" spanking until my poor bottom was red. Let me tell you all, that she still had what it takes to give someone a good sound spanking. We laughed about it afterward and other times when it is brought up. That was the last time I cussed in their home and also the last time she spanked me I kind of miss that but husband has taken over those duties when I need correction and/or warmed up for close moments in bed. 😃 Denise

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Oh, to be a fly on the wall to witness that spanking.

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I think it’s entirely possible if the trade off is living with mom, but I think there are better ways to deal with adult child that’s completed university. My step mother spanked us until we were 16 and we both felt that was too old.

Interesting. Probably some sort of weird sex thing is going on. Not incest, but in the same box. There are a lot of warped people around, so it is probably not an uncommon experience. I hear ya , Memm mmeehhhh bla bla bla. I said it I meant it, and that's what I think so there.

I had nothing to do with my parents after the age of twelve. I was exiled to a boarding school. Fortunately, there is no place like home.

I am being spanked as an adult, and yes, it's a weird sex thing.

Typo correction to my earlier post. I should have said I got spanked at 42 years old by my mom as opposed to 32. It happened when I was over at my parents house and I was visiting my mother. While she was in another room, I accidently broke a vase of hers and whispered under my breath, "Damn."

I would think that restitution would consist of paying back the value of the broken object. And even then, if something like that happened in my parent's home or in mine, it would be considered as an accident, annoying and vexing obviously, but to result in spanking a 42 year-old?

Some years ago I had a long email , message exchange with a guy who detailed his maternal spankings he recieved into his mid 20's at home . To this day I am still unsure if it was a distorted memory , real experience or pure fantasy ....