Strap-on for pegging or hand-held?

I use my vibrator on my husband every now and then. It is quick and prep to get him ready is minimal. Pegging with a strapon takes a lot more preparation or it can get too messy for us. It took me several tries to find a harness/dildo combination that I could wear comfortably and hold the dildo firmly so it doesn't move around at the base.. We have a selection of sizes and one that can attach to an enema bag for a simultaneous anal fuck and enema. We have a use routine of sorts, most often during my period. If I want to peg him, I put my harness out in the bathroom, so he knows what I want. I usually prepare him with a three enema cleanout sequence. If he wants me to peg him, he puts the harness out in the bathroom. In that case he usually prepares himself. The entire get ready thing is not verbal at all. When the time comes in the evening, I put a waist belt on him and attach his wrists to it so he can't masturbate himself while I am doing my thing to him. I also usually put a hood on him as well so he seldom actually sees me wearing the harness prior to pegging him. I have an orgasm while I am pegging him probably about 60% of the time. He usually has an orgasm during the pegging. I usually put a condom on him to catch is semen. I often spoon him from the rear and we spend all night with the dildo inside him.

Dita

I do this with my Husband. He prefers I use the strap-on so I can get my claws in. He likes the big bumpy toys. Gives me a sore back sometimes

I have and use both. On my hubby and girlfriends. I have a Enjoy that plugs into me and allows me to use it on someone. I love that one!!! I love them all for thats how l am. Depends on mine or hubby's mindset as to which one l use on him.

I love to use a double headed dildo sometime while he is on his back and l am standing at the side of the bed. His thighs are massive so l do my best to get those tree trunks over my shoulders to do him, but when l do, he cums like a madman as l jack his cock to an explosive ending.

I've been pegged once, after an enema session. It was OK, but not wonderful. The dildo was too short, & she wasn't really into it, didn't seem too skilled. I've also had a dildo used on me after a long enema session. It was nearly the length of a colon tube, she got it in almost all the way, and that girl knew what she was doing. It was very pleasurable, but I was sore for a couple of days. That was a long time ago. Apparently, good sex of all kinds takes a bit of experience, & some dedication to doing it right.

If I want to peg him, I put my harness out in the bathroom, so he knows what I want.

If he wants me to peg him, he puts the harness out in the bathroom.

When the time comes in the evening, I put a waist belt on him and attach his wrists to it so he can't masturbate himself while I am doing my thing to him. I also usually put a hood on him as well so he seldom actually sees me wearing the harness prior to pegging him.

Damn, that is so hot the way you describe it. I would love for my wife (or anyone really) to do that to me, but so far it hasn't happened. But if I was ever pegged, I would want to be restrained and hooded as you describe. In my fantasy mind, the fact that I'm unable to use my hands or even see what's going on just adds to the excitement. And bring on a gag and some cuffs for my ankles too! It reinforces the fact that I'm being “taken” by someone else and I'm totally under their control and unable to stop what's about to happen.

My wife prefers the 9inch hand held and has me insert it and then she takes control for the strokes. As you can imagine the Anal O cums quick

Definitely a strap on. My wife will usually strap it on and give me an enema before she pegs me.

I love getting pegged 100% !! Hand held is great too ! But when I’m bent over she is behind me grabbing my hips and thrusting is something that gets me so turned on !! She also loves pegging me she loves how she is in control and and dominating me !!!

Maybe I'm being a bit selfish, butt, I'd like to start with fingers followed by a toy and finish with a strapon!

Both are good but different. Can’t say I have a preference.

A wife greets her husband at the door returning from work for the day whith a strap-on dangling from her finger; she says, “I got it from Amazon- take off your pants.”

Definitely both. Strap-ons can take a while to get the hang of thrusting. Its pretty common for someone who doesnt peg all the time to start off wearing the strap, enjoying the visial and the power exchange and then switching to hand held to fuck as hard as they really wanted to while wearing. Its so hot to hear “Im going to fuck that ass of yours as hard as you all fuck ours in movies…”

I was pegged several times by old gf with a strapon. One time I was on my back on edge of bed with legs drawn back. She fucked me for awhile and when I finally cummed, it was so intense I shot all over my chest and almost hit my face. She said she'd never seen me cum so hard. 😜

Both are amazing but to see that harness on and her stroking lube on the strapon is so fantastic.

I've experienced the hand-held method several times with my bride, but never the strapped-on strap-on method. Love to try the S-O method.

Seems to me that the strap-on is a more complete role reversal than just the hand-held method and might make the giver feel more in charge and the receiver more submissive.

We love both; hand held and strapon harnesses.

Before my redhead fucks me with her strapon dildos, she treats me with some anal toys. In addition, a really cool black anal sword and a paddle from funfactory, whose handle is a dildo; a few strokes with the paddle, then a couple of times the dildo in the butt...

She loves her strapon harnesses. This puts her in control and she has multiple orgasms while pegging.

Some time ago we had leather harnesses made to measure, which are better than the standard items.

I'm always happy to take either but I prefer being pegged by a woman wearing the harness/dildo.

When a girlfriend rides me with a strapon, she always makes me finish without touching my cock.❤️

Jets of milk come out and I feel my sphincter contract around the strapon😁

But I also like to see her face with a hand dildo❤️

I like all women do

My GF uses a vibrating toy on me... I am laying on my back, one leg propped up, around the post at the bottom of the bed... Sometimes she opens me up with a nice prostate massage with her fingers...sometimes just the toy. She lubes it up, turns it to the high setting and proceeds. I will tell her "north/south" if she is a bit off! Once it's in she proceeds to suck my cock, or jack me off. She enjoys thrusting the toy in and out... Sometimes we fuck... with the toy vibrating in me... She enjoys the added stimulation! I've looked into the strapless vibrator that stimulates her at the same time as I'd be pegged...

I like both, but I was surprised the first time I introduced a strap on to my wife she didn’t seem to be shocked at all she just said how do I put this on so I explained this small part goes inside you and the other end is for me, so I got the strap on attached to her and then I laid down on the edge of the bed with my legs up and she lubed me up and slowly inserted the medium sized cock dildo in my bottom and slowly started thrusting in and out, the view was awesome, my legs were up and she was holding on to my legs and gradually started thrusting hard, watching her tits bouncing as she started fucking me pretty hard and bottoming out and occasionally stroking my cock until I had an explosive orgasm.

Can someone recommend a harness they like? My wife is 5’4 and weighs about 125. She is open to pegging me but we need a good harness first. So many options out there. Thanks

Hi holdall,

We have a strapon harness with adjustable straps around each leg and waist. Padded back. 4 clips on the front for the dildo ring. Bought from aliexpress.