"Enemas? Really?"

Hi, Ms Lila,

But if we try it out like those links say to try, then I think I'm going to like them and they will be just one more thing to add to our sex life. Or the bunnies learn to dance!

Have you given any dancing lessons to the bunnies, yet? How's that going?

Hi, Ms Lila, Have you given any dancing lessons to the bunnies, yet? How's that going?

@Cedar I've got the inserts picked out but I'm not sure of what to buy for the power source. We are really interested but not sure how much we want to buy right now. The reviews are also confusing.

So we are still searching. Do you know anything about them?

@Ms_Lila - I'm having a little trouble deciding on the power or control unit too, and the one that looks the best is about $600 and would be a lot to spend if I didn't like it. But the others - I'm looking at Amazon.com, get mixed reviews, and the connectors don't seem to be consistent with one 'toy' to the next. It seems to me - that they have either love or hate relationships with what they have and one person will say they are no good, and the next will say they are fantastic.

So @Ms_Lila - if you get a good line on something I'd like to know. 😉

@Ms_Lila - I found this here on Zity.Biz https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=346340 and since I have CRAFT (Can't Remember A Fucking Thing) you or someone were talking about 'ghost fucking'. I think this link is what this might be - the video on the top has a better view of that I think you had been talking about. I'd like to know what he's using - and what it's hooked up to, besides his ass 😉 . I don't know if - any of the guys would go for that.

And here's the good news / bad news - https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=133760

I thought that guy in the first video link was doing that himself. I wonder how that feels?

I thought that guy in the first video link was doing that himself. I wonder how that feels?

@Cedar we haven't got ours yet because we are not sure which control box or power unit to get. The units we are looking at are pretty pricey and so we are going a lot more research on that. That reaction was amazing! 😜

Since it was male I wonder if having a prostate gland is why that was taking place? I just don't know that much about how that works.

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I'm still 'processing' all of this and my initial reaction is 'OH WOW! OH WOW! OH WOW!' We got this delivered to my shop on Friday and we had a little get together with some friends to go to, so we didn't get to try it out until Sunday. 😢 We ordered them off of Amazon.com and it took a little while to get here and we weren't sure we got the right equipment but we did.

When my husband and I finally got the time to play with this very early Sunday morning, we read the instructions and followed the directions. The 'vaginal probe' is smaller than I thought it would be and we figured out how to connect everything and use the controls.

While my husband was giving me enemas, it wasn't too hard to figure out and we experimented with how it felt on our wrists and what adjusting the settings would do. We figured out that we needed the gel to get a better 'connection' when we were trying it on our skin surface and it was a little more 'accurate' in what we felt and the intensity. We gave me three enemas to make sure I was nice and cleaned out because we did not know what to expect when we went 'live' and started inserting it into me.

First off, I made sure I didn't have to pee 😉 and that my enemas were all out and then it was time to 'go live.' We started me out vaginally and like I said, the 'probe' was smaller than I thought and the adjustable collar really didn't come into play that much. The size was small but I was able to 'wrap' myself around it and it felt comfortable inside of my vagina and I just held it there for a little while and was working up the nerve to put the power to it. Sooo, I did.

I started out on the very lowest setting possible and boy did feel it! It's a good thing I didn't have to pee because the effects were right there and immediate. Well what did I expect? 😉 I could feel my vagina contracting and I was 'bearing' down on and around it but it wasn't totally me doing that. It was but I guess I'm saying that it was involuntary for the most part. And this was on the very lowest setting. I was already getting wet, very wet, and I didn't know if that was just me becoming sexually aroused or if that probe and the electricity was doing something with my self lubrication or both. I turned the control on and off several times and let it go longer each time at the lowest setting.

It was definitely a new experience for me and so we decided to add a little more power. Even with the lowest power I was cumming and I knew that if I really let myself go with this, I wouldn't be really able to control everything. I may be able to at some point in the future but this first time I didn't know what to expect and my cumming so early and the intensity were totally not what I expected. Really I didn't know what to expect at all. So if we were going to increase the power then my husband was going to have to run the control. This was crucial to us and we knew we would need to keep in tune with each other so something didn't go wrong. We just didn't know. Totally in the dark here.

Well we got it rolling and my husband was keeping in tune with me fantastically. 😃 As time went on I was surprised at how deep the sensations went and how far they seemed to emanate especially in my abdomen and my inner thighs. I was especially feeling it in my rectum and of all places my hip joints and then I just let loose and went with the flow and quit trying to memorize what I was feeling. All I knew was that I was cumming and cumming and cumming. I'm not a 'squirter' but with that little beast I was. 😄 I lost track of time and my nipples were even electric. 😄

When I couldn't take it any more, we 'powered down' and I had soaked the bed and it felt like I had run a marathon. 😃 So for a little thing like that, it really set me off and I know we weren't even doing a lot of things right. But it felt scary but in a good way and I needed my husband to be able to run it because I have no idea if I can solo with this or not and be safe doing it. Besides it was nice, well HOT, having my husband vary the settings, not that it made a lot of difference to me when that 'lust fog' I feel like surrounds me when I orgasm and I'm over the top feeling good. 🌹

I was recovering from my first time and asked my husband to slip into me and I barely felt that probe being taken out. I could feel my husbands penis penetrating me and that made me wish that the probe was bigger so that I could 'wrap' around and 'bear down' easier. We didn't need any lube at all because I was drenched and very sensitive and started cumming almost immediately when my husband entered me. My clit was like it was 'electric' pun intended and I lost it when he started his own brand of magic on me. 🌹

We had planned on playing some more with the 'vaginal probe' and maybe trying me out with the anal, but I was soooo very sensitive. It was one of those feelings where it 'hurts so good' but closer to 'it hurts but maybe too good.' 🙄 I hadn't planned on wearing any clothes that day anyway, but even panties would have been 'triggering' me if I had worn any. I literally felt like a bride after the honeymoon and was very sensitive to the touch.

When I went in to my shop yesterday I wore a dress and no panties because I was still tender and fairly red and pink. After vaginal intercourse with my husband I'm always red or pink just because of being entered but that usually goes away in an hour or two. Not this time. I'm not sure just what happened but that little e-stim vaginal probe must be designed to bring blood to the surface or something because I was and still am, fairly sensitive especially around my clit and inner folds. My husband's penetration and intercourse with him figured in to this but yesterday I was 'hair trigger' and I would have loved it if I didn't have to work.

Today I'm almost back to normal but I left the panties at home and wore a skirt to the shop. I still want to try the probe anally in myself and see what that will do. I'm thinking I like this a lot, but yet it might be too much.

Who am I kidding? I liked it! 😈

Who am I kidding? I liked it! 😈

Ms Lila, in the links the control unit had some pads showing. Did you use any of those pads? If so, how did they feel? Were the pads what you were using to test out the settings?

Thank you for the post. It was great reading about your experience. I hope you are able to get over your sensitivity, or is that a plus for your experimenting?

Please let us know when you do your anal E-stim and how that goes.

Cedar

P.S. Do you think the electric current caused you to be real sensitive?

@Cedar

Ms Lila, in the links the control unit had some pads showing. Did you use any of those pads? If so, how did they feel? Were the pads what you were using to test out the settings?

Thanks for the like Cedar. 😃

Yes the control unit came with some pads but we haven't used any of them, yet. When I was testing on my skin I was using the vaginal probe. I got a better 'feel' for how it felt on my skin when I put a little bit of the conducting gel on the area where I was touching the probe to my skin.

I hope you are able to get over your sensitivity, or is that a plus for your experimenting?

Oh for sure my 'sensitivity' is all but gone. It's just that my clit and lips were so raw that any fabric brushing against them was a little more than I wanted to handle at the time. Even when I went to bed that night after that first time the sheets would rub or brush against me and I had to sleep on my side with one of my legs drawn up to keep from brushing against them.

I don't think I have ever been that raw even after my honeymoon or some pretty heavy sex sessions. Every once in awhile, when Sarah was still part of my life, she could make me pretty sensitive by going down on me. But nothing like this. I think that the electricity may have had something to do with it.

And yes, @Cedar, I will let you know about my anal experience, but I'd like to hear about you and @Lora_C too. 😉 Deal?

Wow! Your description of the probe's effect has me intrigued!

Wow! Your description of the probe's effect has me intrigued!

We'll be trying it out tomorrow after I get a few enemas so that we can try it out on me anally. 😃 I'm looking forward to it and we are planning on most of the day if it works like we hope it will. It may not be big but it has a very nice effect, at least vaginally.

If we don't electrocute me I will be back with how things went. 😉

The anal probe that I enjoy is the kind the stimulates the sprinter that has the strip by the sprinter that make it contract and relax in the pulse mode that makes me excited and enjoy it very much 😮)

Getting enemas from my husband is nice enough as it is but the anal probe we tried out was ‘the bees knees’! 😄 I can’t take credit for that saying, but I read it here somewhere. 😉

We started very early this morning about 4 a.m. with an enema and reading the instruction manual on our ‘toy’. Another enema in me and we felt that it was time to start with the main event. I had taken a couple of enemas at my shop after a delivery and before coming home, so we felt two enemas were enough. We put in some fresh batteries and even though the anal probe isn’t very big my husband applied a very liberal amount of KY into my anus and rectum. I like that part too. 😉

My husband had done a good job with us playing with the vaginal probe and I trusted him with working it in me the other night. We started out with me in the ‘butt up boobs down’ position and I waited for the insertion. Again, it’s not that big and not as big as my husband’s penis or some of the other things we have experimented with. But all those other things aren’t electric! I always like it when he slips things into my rectum and this was no different. I looked back around as he was putting it into me and he had a nice erection going on there. And then he picked up the controls and I got the goosebumps.

Even on the lowest setting my toes curled and that buzzing feeling was mixed in with some of that wide spread tingling that makes it feel so good. And it did feel so good that I found that fog closing in sooner than expected but it wasn’t quite as constant. But my husband figured out that if he kept that metal band in just the right place in my anus were it made full contact with my sphincter it kept those feelings right there. @LuvawBill I think that is what you were saying in your post and it sounds like you know what you were talking about. 😉

We played with that and stepped up the power and the settings. We liked the pulse setting and my husband said that it looked like I was moving it back and forth in me. I could feel that movement but I was not doing it voluntarily but I loved it! I had been cumming almost all along and I’m not sure but the current seems to hit that spot and my cum just flows from then on. Again my husband found the right combinations for making it all work for me. Finally I couldn’t take anymore and I rolled over. It felt like I had done 10,000 crunches and it hurt sooo good. 😄

Of course my husband had some needs of his own and I spread my legs and we didn’t have to worry about lube because I was so wet already. We left the anal probe in my rectum when he entered me and that felt good all by itself. We didn’t turn the power on because, to quote my husband he didn’t want to, “fry my nuts!” 😄 😄 😄 We may try that sometime, making love with the estim inside of me while we have sex.

Next on our ‘bucket list’ is to try this anal probe in my husband. We think that because he has a prostate gland that it will be more intense for him. At least that is the theory and I want to have him inside of me when we figure out what works best.

I’m finishing this off at the shop and even though I wasn’t rubbed raw and it felt like I had 200 bowel movements because of the effect the anal probe had on me, I left my panties at home.

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Amassing pulsating toy it thrusts in and out action but rather price thou.

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electrode butt plug I'm talking about. The one I have has a hole drilled thru the center for enemas.

Darn, Ms. Lila, I just got all hot and sweaty just reading your post! (must be hot flashes!)

Whew!

Deb

Darn, Ms. Lila, I just got all hot and sweaty just reading your post! (must be hot flashes!)

Whew!

Deb

@Debgurl so did I! 😄

@Ms_Lila reflects :

Getting enemas from my husband is nice enough as it is but the anal probe we tried out was ‘the bees knees’! 😄 I can’t take credit for that saying, but I read it here somewhere. 😉

Well @Ms_Lila you really wanted to make that big "connection" with your husband. .soooooo yes it must have been quite a buzz going on.

Finally I couldn’t take anymore and I rolled over. It felt like I had done 10,000 crunches and it hurt sooo good. 😄

I wasn’t rubbed raw and it felt like I had 200 bowel movements because of the effect the anal probe had on me, I left my panties at home.

Lawdy what a way to get "wired"

I'd just awoken when I'd read your latest "electrifying" moment. . .sitting here in bed reading. . .& not unlike with @debgurl I too felt a lil "charge" occurring 😶

@That_Australian

Well @Ms_Lila you really wanted to make that big "connection" with your husband. .soooooo yes it must have been quite a buzz going on.

LOL - 😄 😄 😄 😄 😄

You are so - BAD! 😄 😄 😄

@Cedar :

That_Australian, that was a shocking pun!

Says the guy who provided the "spark"

@Lora_C - LOL. .must've got the "terminals" crossed or something 😁 . . .says Queen cum-a-lot

@Cedar and @That_Australian - kindly remove those puns from this thread and[color=#ff0000;] BEHAVE![/color]

Don't fuse out @Lora_C 😁

BEHAVE . . .oh ! that's good. . .cumming from Ms Queen Vamp

Ms Lila, that sounded like a fantastic experience. You really described it so good that I think I would like to try that, too.

That was very sexy, too.

@Cedar notes :

Ms Lila, that sounded like a fantastic experience. .That was very sexy, too.

Like a "bolt" out of the BLUE . . .speaking of descriptives !!

@Lora_C & @Cedar and @That_Australian I would say that I am shocked at all of those bad puns, but I got a buzz out of them as I connected with my husband and we shared vibes. 😉

We are having so much fun! We spent a lot of yesterday playing with the different settings such as the power and the pulse modes. When we have it in my rectum we have to make sure that the metal band is in contact with my anal sphincter and the other band that is deeper in my rectum seems to line up with that inner muscle. I can't see how it lines up that well so my husband keeps an eye on that told me that on the pulse mode it looked like I was working it back and forth in me. It felt that way too but I had no control over it. That little 'toy' and those batteries sure have an effect I never expected to be so deep or strong. It doesn't feel that strong when I hold it in my hand but I know it is there. When it is inside of me that is another story. 😜

I am going to have to study the anatomy to better communicate what I am talking about, but that may not matter because it just feels so good. 🌹

We've got another one 'cumming' for my husband. I don't have to know anatomy and you don't have to know anatomy to guess where we will have to put it in him. 😉 😈 Some of the questions we have that aren't quite covered in the 'Guide to Erotic Elecrostimulation' and 'Erotic E-Stim Explained' and they are:

What effect would his anal probe have on his erection and would it be safe for him to enter me or for me to mount him while we are using it on him?

Would we both be able to have our probes inserted into our anuses while he is inside of me?

And how safe would it be for me to go down on him while he has it in his anus?

What effect would him being stimulated rectally have on his erection or ejaculation?

As you can very well tell we don't know a whole lot, yet. We just know that I am liking this a lot. A LOT! But those questions above are some things we worry about. We get the part about keeping it 'below the waist' and those questions we wonder about may be dumb, but it is something we'd rather read about here than explain it to the ER people.

So, keep those puns cumming! 😄

@Cedar and @That_Australian - kindly remove those puns from this thread and BEHAVE!

@Lora_C ... and how did that turn out?

@Ms_Lila ... I am loving reading about you and your husband and I hope the answers to your questions cum soon and jolt someone into answering them for you.

@Ms_Lila ... I am loving reading about you and your husband and I hope the answers to your questions cum soon and jolt someone into answering them for you.

Et tu, Gibby? :-\\ 😁

This weekend we are going to give the anal probe a try in my husband. 😄 Our local UPS driver was on time with our delivery and we are getting to know her pretty good. If Amazon.com goes to the drones for delivery, I wonder if they will stick around and use their video for the event? 😉

You know, a video drone in the bedroom could catch some pretty good shots. 😉

But we're pretty excited about it and we've cleared the late evenings for our little fun. Of course we are going to do a few enemas before we get started and those are fun all by themselves. Oh yeah! 😉

I do need to get some more batteries. :-\\

Ms Lila

I do need to get some more batteries. :-\\

I recommend Duracel. I hope you let us know how it all works our for you and your husband.

We use Duracel. 😉

My husband loved his little date with the anal probe and his toes literally curled. 😈 And even better is the fact that I didn't get electrocuted when I went down on him after we figured out the settings that worked best for him. He likes the pulse setting with a little higher number than I would have guessed for him. 😎

I will write more later but it was a great time for us and I think we will be keeping this little 'toy' as part of our play in the future. If we really get to liking it, then we may go in for the more expensive set ups. For now we are liking this and looking for some more ways to use this little fun toy. 😃

Now I have to get back to the shop but I wanted to pop in and say that it was a great time for us. 🌹

My husband's and my attitudes towards sex are evolving more and more each day. During the past few months and especially since I've joined Zity.Biz we have been redefining who we are as a couple and what we want to do with our sex life. Also who we want to have involved in our sex life and when as well as what we are willing to allow ourselves to do with each other and to each other. It seems that he and I are constantly thinking about sex there is a lot more spontaneity or willingness to set aside or just let it happen at random times.

Interestingly though, our enemas that were once just reserved for making me ready for anal sex and yet somehow erotic have become something of a signal for both of us that we want to play. More and more I find myself masturbating when I am having an enema and I am more than willing to my husband stay and watch. I'm a lot more open with him than I ever was with anyone and more inclined to initiate sex with him during or after an enema because of the way they make me feel. And that feeling is that of being clean and stimulated and confident that if our sex play involves anything anal, I'm good to go. My enema bag is my way of getting myself in the mood and making myself ready.

My husband is also getting more and more into enemas for himself and not just giving them to me. Although I receive more enemas from him than he does from me, it is our signal that we want more from each other than a pat on my bum or a peck on the cheek. It's becoming more of a way we communicate that we have a need when one of us takes our enema bag off of the hook and begins to fill it up. It's a pact we are forming with each other that acknowledges that whichever one of us is filling our enema bag is the one feeling the need for a sexual release.

I'm also becoming far more in tune with my husband's needs and his pacing. By pacing I mean that when he and I are alone of an evening and he is the one to fill his enema bag, or mine, that he is wanting a quicker release. I watch him and how much he is aroused and how urgent it seems for him to get something going between us and I pick up some visual cues, no not just his erection 😉 but in the way he fills the enema bag. If we have a lot of evening left for us when he starts with the enema preparation, mine or his, I have no qualms about going down on him to relieve the urgency of his need. I love to do it anyway and it allows him to 'cool his jets' and clear his head (this is a pun I intended) 😉

But by the same token many times I am also swept up by the moment knowing that the enema is just a prelude to our sex and I'm more than happy to spread my legs for him or 'assume the position' and enjoy what is to cum. An enema during or afterward allows him to recover and for us to build up to another sex act and we can take it slower or however we feel at the moment.

I've also noticed that he has become more willing or able to have me more often. It is becoming more frequent for him to either pull my pants down and bend me over and take me on his whim, pull up my skirt and remove my panties as I spread my legs for him and just enjoy the moment. I love it when he does this and I let him know that I love it. And I haven't said no to him whenever the 'spirit moves him' to have a go at me. 😃 We are communicating a lot more with each other and it's one of those unwritten understandings that when one of us wants it, we get it. Sure he may not be able to 'perform' at that instant, but that's what toys are for. 😉 And sometimes it's not real 'convenient' for me to take him but he takes me anyway and that's what I want. 🌹

My husband and I have also become sexually involved with other couples we have known for some time. One couple in particular we have become closer as friends and our comfort level with them is nothing short of sharing a lot more than just a passing interest.

But it is my husband and I and our relationship that benefits most from our communication with each other. Raising our children and our jobs, commitments, extended family, and life in general were taking a toll on our marriage. We were lucky in that we were always able to talk and that we love each other and neither of us allowed our egos to get in the way of what we knew we needed. We supported each other in finding new ways to get back what we had and he was good with me finding places like here at Zity.Biz to get ideas from. I was the first to get into the enemas and he loved watching me decide if these were a good thing or not.

Now we know, oh yes! And those enemas led to pegging and fun with electricity! 😁 😁 😁 But mostly we are learning how to phase out the word 'no' when we 'communicate' with each other. But still there is respect and knowing when the time is right.

It's going to be fun to see where we go from here. 🌹