"Enemas? Really?"

@Ms Lila Since you and your Hubby are enjoying enemas so much, can I ask what you have for equipment? Thanks, Mike 🌹

I have taken the plunge and my husband and I have ordered a Sybian from Amazon.com. 😈 It is supposed to be here early next week and after watching a lot of videos on Sybians, we think that it is going to be a great little investment. A lot of porn videos have obvious 'actors' that seem are fake in their reactions, but with the videos we see of women and Sybians seem to be the real deal. 😉

An example of this is http://bestsexclips.tumblr.com/post/20836660883/ellen-rides-on-sybian-then-magically-switches-to and she may be a pro, but it sure looked real to us.

There maybe a Sybian party with another couple that we know in the very near future. But in the meantime my husband and I want to experiment with the Sybian and our e-stim anal probe. I posted about this in another topic here in Zity.Biz https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=857598

So we shall see how this all turns out. 🌹

I have taken the plunge and my husband and I have ordered a Sybian from Amazon.com. -

Looking forward to reading about your experiences with it, @Ms_Lila

Looking forward to reading about your experiences with it, @Ms_Lila

@Loveitkinky - I second that! 😄 I watched that video link and a couple of others - that @Ms_Lila put in her post, and even though there were some that looked faked, the amateur posts or videos looked like the gals all really loved it. The find folks at Amazon.com may have another sale - on Sybians 😉 I'll keep checking.

I am going to be posting more on my new Sybian in the near future but I can say that it was money well spent! I think that I will have to be careful because it could be addicting for me. I've 'ridden' it almost every day since I got it and I find myself thinking about it way more than I think I should.

I masturbate at least once a day and it seems like I think about sex all of the time. With my Sybian I can satisfy my need or craving to orgasm and cum from a purely 'mechanical' standpoint every time up to this point. Something I sometimes can't accomplish by my 'old' masturbation techniques. Don't get me wrong, I still masturbate as I did before my Sybian but that little machine does it for me all the time.

My salvation from becoming addicted (that may be too strong of a term) to the Sybian is that I also love the 'human touch' that comes with sex. My husband is the real thing and my Sybian can't put a tongue on my nipples or kiss my neck as well his scent and warmth or the scent, touch, and warmth of the lover/friend that I am with.

With the Sybian there's not that human closeness I also want and need from sex. But when it comes to masturbation my Sybian does the trick.

@Ms_Lila I have even eagerly awaiting your posting on your new Sybian. I have been interested in getting one for my wife for years now. I just was not sure I could justify the expense. I showed it to her about a month ago. She said she thought I was trying to kill her. I am hoping that the info you share will help me to convince her it would be a good investment! Thank you for your post!

@fniafk we've had the Sybian for a good two weeks now and I've been using it every single day since it came. It was a pretty expensive investment and there are so many things I can say about it. The main thing for me is this, it is a way for me to masturbate. A very good way for me to masturbate and get myself off. I said in my other post that I masturbate at least once a day.

Just like when it first arrived, when I go home my bottoms come off and I get the Sybian ready by putting on the attachments and what have you. That preparation and anticipation gets me going a little to begin with. The first time I straddled my new Sybian and lowered myself down onto it and felt the dildo slide into me was so fantastic. When I turned it on with it in me, I was surprised at how deep I felt it and the way it made me feel and I was almost constantly cumming from the get go.

Even though he is my husband I was a little self conscious about him just watching me go out of my mind with my orgasms. That Sybian did it for me and I was able to move myself on it to get the desired effect. There were times when my orgasms let me actually see the effect I was having on my husband and I liked it. 😃

Then when I couldn't take it any more and I slowed it down and then stopped it, I slid off of it and I was so wet and so satisfied. Almost.

Yes I was satisfied in a purely mechanical way but I couldn't hold a Sybian in my arms and just feel that 'after glow'. And even though I was a little sore in spots, I really did want my husband inside of me and if he wanted to get his, and he did, I was good with that. 🌹 I hadn't really 'paced' myself and it was a little uncomfortable having my husband take me right after my first Sybian ride but I wanted it as much as he did.

My Sybian feels good inside of me and I feel confident that even if the new wears off, that I will always be able to masturbate with it and 'get off.' But there really isn't any substitute for the feel of my husband's penis inside of me and all the emotional, physical, and tactile enjoyment he gives me when we have sex or make love. 🌹

At best my Sybian is more of an 'enhancement' to my sex life and our sex life. It isn't a substitute but I really like it and I even like having my husband watch me enjoy myself. He likes it too. 😉 Someday soon I may use this with our friends but for now it's just between my husband and me.

We've had our Sybian for three weeks now and as I said, those first couple of weeks I was using it at least once a day and loving it. 😃 I still do and my husband loves watching me use it and I now am used to him watching me and I love it when he does. It is an 'investment' and well worth it for me, for us, to enjoy. But like with all things I have tapered off a little bit and there were a couple of days where I didn't use it at all but still enjoyed the feel of the 'real deal' from him inside of me.

Anally the Sybian is great but I have a little trouble hitting my clitoris but my wand can do that for me and I have done it that way. But for anal I still really prefer my husband and a vibrator or my anal e-stim for that. Of course enemas are involved and I just am very very fond of them and what they do for me all around. I did try an enema on my Sybian but it was awkward and didn't really do a whole lot for me. It was 'nice' but for me it didn't have that 'wow' factor but my husband really liked the view of me having an enema on the Sybian. So in that way I did like 'performing' an enema for him for his 'viewing pleasure.' He also loves to watch me take a 'regular' enema. I add some spice by wearing heels, garter belt, or in lingerie, or other variations and I really love to have him or another couple watch me.

This 'exhibitionism streak' I am probably developing is way out of character for me. But heaven help me, I am starting to like it a lot and my judgement is going to need a reality check soon.

And this is where it is becoming a little 'spooky' for me in a lot of ways. The more my husband and I explore our kink the far less inhibited I become. I am surprising myself at how 'out there' I sometimes feel and that if I'm not careful I could become a full on exhibitionist or something. And I may have offended or embarrassed a very gentle man here just the other day. If I did I am sorry but my real hope is that he may have found pleasure in my 'wanton' behavior.

What I am referring to took place the other day in chat. I don't know what came over me but there was a very nice and gentle soul there that touched me in a way that I just abandoned any modesty whatsoever. And this isn't just in the chat but in my life away from Zity.Biz. Long story short is that I 'laid' this very gentle man right out there in the open chat and it was something I enjoyed and felt the need to do. I didn't feel a bit of shame and it was something I wanted to do because I really felt a connection to this guy and I would do it again. IF that is, I haven't broken about a million Zity.Biz rules.

I like how my husband and I are exploring other things in our sex life. And I don't think either of us can or even want to go back to the 'old vanilla ways' and even though we do engage in sex with other couples now, we are more in love with each other than ever. I really do see how becoming a 'slut' can be a positive thing or way to see myself.

If I was out of line the other day in chat, I apologize to those there and to that gentle man. But this place and this exploring my husband and I are doing is what we need in our lives.

Ms Lila, I would imagine the relationship and sexual fun you are having in your marriage makes you the envy of most members here on zity- me included. Don't hesitate or restrain yourselves in anyway. Your marriage is on tremendous roll. Enjoy it.

@ProV1

Ms Lila, I would imagine the relationship and sexual fun you are having in your marriage makes you the envy of most members here on zity- me included. Don't hesitate or restrain yourselves in anyway. Your marriage is on tremendous roll. Enjoy it.

I am not the pioneer in this moment but I have followed the lead of a few of the members here. My husband and I feel like we've been pent up our whole lives and the time was right for us to get into the 'swing' of things. Once we trusted each other with our enemas then all sorts of taboo seemed to just melt away. For us in the beginning, enemas were just a way to get ready to play with anal sex but the act of giving or receiving an enema took on a whole new life all by itself. This place shows us we weren't the only ones to feel this way.

Now our sex life is fast evolving into a lot more than we ever hoped for. 😃

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Now our sex life is fast evolving into a lot more than we ever hoped for. 😃

Bravo, @Ms_Lila !

Keep swinging, Ms Lila!

I love your Sybian stories, especially about how your husband enjoys watching your orgasms, and you enjoy his reaction.

My wife and I enjoy have recently started enjoying watching each other masturbate. Sometimes she enjoys watching me masturbate so much that she starts masturbating too!

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Miss lila you are gem,!

Ms Lila, I hope you don't mind me asking, but has your husband had the pleasure yet of enjoying your new Sybian like this guy?

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Ms Lila, I hope you don't mind me asking, but has your husband had the pleasure yet of enjoying your new Sybian like this guy?

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@WildBill2 OH this is too funny! 😁 😁 😁 Last night my husband and I did this very thing and we didn't even see the video! And the reaction of the guy or more accurately his penis, was almost exactly what happened with my husband. Even how that woman put the condom on the 'business end' of the Sybian was almost exactly how I did it. Only I put a lot of lube in my husband's rectum before he 'mounted' the Sybian and I helped to guide it into him. That's a lot of fun all by itself just watching the vibrator dildo slip into his very cute and sexy little bum. But to back up a little I had given my husband two enemas a few hours before we began to play and he was taking an enema and watching me on the Sybian as I 'did my thing'.

My husband was already very aroused because I had 'gone first' and I loved how he was watching me and stroking himself and having that enema as I reached my climaxes. We agreed to just keep the dildo on that was in me but we covered it with a condom for easier clean up. Also it was just faster for us to 'seize the moment' and keep in the spirit of where this was taking us. My husband didn't even want me to clean it off from my cum. 🌹 I love sticking things in my husband's bum. Oh wow do I love doing that. 😃

But when he was on the Sybian and it was all of the way up inside of him, he told me that he could feel it way up there and it was really doing him some good. Just like in the video, which I wish we had seen first, his penis was already erect but the Sybian got him really very hard. We were both holding a conversation as it was inside of him and we wondered what it would have been like if he had held his enema and then got on the Sybian. But as we talked and he became more erect than ever I noticed that there was a drop of cum or precum at the tip of his penis.

Also when we were talking I noticed that he would trail off when we talked and he was getting that 'dreamy' look in his eye and I knew it was very close to time for him to cum. So I figured it was time for me to go down on him and not waste any of him if he was going to cum. But to do that I had to more or less lay face down and prop myself up on my arms to be able to take his penis into my mouth which I did. Then my breasts were sometimes resting on the arch of the Sybian and I have to say that this felt pretty good. And when I realized what it was doing to my breasts I just settled down even lower on my husband and my Sybian and did my best with him. 😄 I was also surprised at how much of the vibration I could feel coming through from the dildo in his rectum and along Steve's penis and how I could feel the vibrations in my mouth. It didn't take too much for me to suck him to cumming but when he did it was a very hard ejaculation and there was a lot to him as opposed to other times.

Also he tasted a little differently too and I'm not sure if it was just because of something he had eaten prior to my going down on him or if every last little bit of cum was cumming out of him into my mouth. I'm not sure about why he tasted different but I loved it. So did he.

But he was drained to the maximum when I got him off and I had been sent into orbit before that. So we both got what we wanted and then some. I think that the video you posted was pretty spot on as to the effect it has on men. I get how erotic it is to watch someone you care about enjoying themselves. I loved watching Steve's face when he was getting on the Sybian and the dildo going into him and then how it worked with his erection. It was pure delight watching that happen with him and I totally understand where his watching me would be something he would enjoy.

But that video was just about how it happens. I think I will have my husband watch it with me later on.

Enemas on a Sybian aren't as exciting as I thought they would be. Don't get me wrong, the feel of the enema nozzle in my rectum and the Sybian dildo inside of my vagina was very nice and intense. It's just that the water from the enema was reacting like I had half expected. It may have been of how I had to be, straddling the Sybian and the water was more or less 'down low'. My main sensation was the feeling of the need to go and having to concentrate on keeping myself tight around my enema nozzle to keep from leaking. That distracted from the orgasms that were going through me and I suppose that a balloon nozzle would have helped.

But maybe not since the added sensation of an enema on the Sybian just wasn't doing it for me. My husband also said that the way that my bum cheeks were spread and my position wasn't very flattering, or so was his opinion. He loves to see me laying on my stomach with my legs together and the enema tube between my bum cheeks since he thinks that is more erotic. But when I'm 'riding' my Sybian he really loves the expressions on my face when I am having my orgasms and I'm all but oblivious to the world when those waves of orgasms wash over me. I've read about the 'waves' analogy when describing orgasms and that really seems to fit and describe what takes place when I'm 'on a roll' and just going with the moment.

Don't get me wrong about having something in my rectum when I am on my Sybian. I love that feel and it does intensify the sensation of my orgasms on the Sybian. So an anal jewel or a dildo in my rectum does do it for me, just not an enema. It's after my 'ride' that my husband will give me an enema and 'go down' on me and I just lay there and enjoy that afterglow feeling with little sharp spikes of his bringing me to orgasm. 🌹

...Don't get me wrong about having something in my rectum when I am on my Sybian...

@Ms_Lila does the Sybian have a double-headed attachment - one for front, one for back? Not that I have any experience, but it seems to me that might be a perfect solution.

@Ms_Lila First I want to thank you for your descriptions of using your sybian. I've been curious for years but have never seen one used in person.

And a question - have you ever used it anally? And if so, did you use another toy or something inside your vagina or on your clit?

Thx again.

@loveitkinky

@Ms_Lila does the Sybian have a double-headed attachment - one for front, one for back? Not that I have any experience, but it seems to me that might be a perfect solution.

As a matter of fact not long after I posted this my new 'double' attachment arrived by UPS today, this afternoon. I have tried the Sybian anally a few times as has my husband and I love the feel of it in my rectum. But when I do settle down on it anally I've already 'ridden' the Sybian vaginally for a little bit and I'm pretty sensitive vaginally.

My husband said that with him straddling the Sybia and leaning forward a little bit more, he thinks it hits his prostate gland pretty good. I think it is getting his spot too because I do see some pre-cum at the tip of his penis when he is into his 'ride' 😉 for a few minutes. It also just might be him preparing to ejaculate but we are not sure. He just moves a little differently whenever we get near his spot.

By the looks of this new 'double', when I straddle it, tonight most likely 😉 I'm going to be pretty full down there. Each of the inserts looks like it is almost 1 1/2 inches in diameter and they are probably pretty close to 4 1/4 inches to 4 1/2 inches long. 😄 BUT that is going to be a little tricky mounting my Sybian later on tonight because when I have ridden my Sybian with an anal vibrator or an anal jewel, I've always put my toy in my rectum first and then my vagina. I'll just have to see how this works out, but I probably will not have any problem.

Just looking at these 'bad boys' I'm going to need lots of lube and at least three enemas and lots of time. 😉 Closing up shop is so long from now. 😢

@CJ1999

@Ms_Lila First I want to thank you for your descriptions of using your sybian. I've been curious for years but have never seen one used in person.

And a question - have you ever used it anally? And if so, did you use another toy or something inside your vagina or on your clit?

Thx again.

Absolutely! 😄 And with my new 'double' that just arrived a couple of hours ago, I'm going to really put it to use and see how it feels.

When we first got our Sybian, I was 'riding' it every day for a good two weeks solid, but as the newness wore off, I was using it a little less. But not by much.

I'm still looking at this double and I think the challenge is going to be inserting it anally first and then vaginally. I think this might be a little tricky but I am sure willing to give it a try. 😉

...I'm still looking at this double and I think the challenge is going to be inserting it anally first and then vaginally. I think this might be a little tricky but I am sure willing to give it a try. 😉

You're a trooper, @Ms_Lila. All in the name of scientific research, I'm sure! ? Have fun.

@Loveitkinky

You're a trooper, @Ms_Lila. All in the name of scientific research, I'm sure! ? Have fun.

Yes, it's a thankless job, but somebody's gotta do it. 😧 😉

Atta girl @Ms_Lila - you just have to carry on somehow. 😁 😁 😁

Yes, it's a thankless job, but somebody's gotta do it. 😧 😉

And you're doing a great job!

So another thought popped into my head - while your husband is on the Sybian, is there enough room for you to slide back onto him to have sex, either anal or vaginal? Since you say you feel the vibration in his penis when you perform oral on him, I was wondering how it would feel if you were able to get him inside you. Probably would be a bit awkward, but maybe worth a try?

@CJ1999

So another thought popped into my head - while your husband is on the Sybian, is there enough room for you to slide back onto him to have sex, either anal or vaginal?

No there really isn't any room for me to take him inside vaginally or anally. 😢 We are able to have oral sex, well, me on him fairly easily. There is a problem with that, not really a problem but sort of annoying. When I am going down on him when he is on the Sybian, my chin will come in contact with the Sybian and I can feel the vibration in my nose and it tickles in an annoying kind of way. :-\\ But I'm not down there very long because he really ejaculates pretty quickly when I am down there. 😉

No, it's a little too crowded but that is ok.

Miss Lila, I've just read all the posts since my last one on July 25 with the link to that video of the guy on a Sybian. I loved reading your answer to my question about whether you've given Steve the same Sybian experience. I've got three things to say.

(1) At this moment I am almost as aroused as that guy in the video. (2) Very clearly you know how to drive a man crazy! (3) Steve is a very lucky man!

I forgot to ask, Miss Lila. How's that new double attachment work for you?

@WildBill2

I forgot to ask, Miss Lila. How's that new double attachment work for you?

I will be writing more about this as time permits @WildBill2 but I had been tapering off on my little Sybian rides and was down to about twice a week from almost daily when we first got it. Now with the vaginal/anal or DP attachment I'm hooked all over again and it is so new that I still can't get enough of it.

Of course my husband gives me at least two enemas before I even mount the Sybian and the way he gives enemas has me pretty hot anyway. 😉 I have, I think, mastered the mounting pretty well, I should I've been practicing. 😁 At first I was having trouble getting both the anal and vaginal into me because they do take up a lot of 'room' and it does get pretty crowded. But I have managed or worked out a way that I get the anal insert started first and then I rock back on my hips and work the tip of the vaginal insert into me. That way I have them both started going inside of me and a little hip and back and forth action and I can seat both of the inserts in me and then the fun begins.

Only the vaginal insert rotates/vibrates inside of me and the anal one just intensifies the feeling in my vagina. I had thought that the vaginal only insert was intense, and it is, but the anal insert puts me over the top in no time at all! I just lose it when it starts up and I leave the control of the Sybian to my husband who is some sort of sadistic 😄 when it comes to me cumming. 🌹 I've had it a little over a week and I really can't describe accurately what it does to me. And when Steve applies my little pocket rocket or a vibrator to my clit I am totally wet and I literally just lose all other awareness other than what those waves of orgasm are doing to me.

My husband says that it looks like I go into some sort of trance when those waves just take me under and I'm not thinking about what is going on around me. I like a little pain with my sex and the Sybian delivers on this along towards the end of my ride because I usually settle forward on the Sybian on my clit and sooner or later pleasure turns to pain and signals the time for me to end that ride. The vaginal insert only can and does do this to me but the vaginal and anal have so far taken me to that plateau without a miss. Apparently the look on my face and the way I move and react make my husband feel like he is watching me have an out of body experience and I think he is right.

With the way he describes how I am reacting and how 'into it' I am, we, Steve and I, have decided that we want our friends to see this in action. We have some friends from out of town who were here this weekend that we want to share this with as well as our neighbors we have recently become very close with. My husband and I just feel that this is so very right and the way it makes us feel is something we want to share. And we can't wait until we get that chance.

But one thing @WildBill2 is that no matter how fantastic the ride on our Sybian, I always want to have my husband enter me and hold me afterwards, even if I'm not 'conscious' afterwards. It just feels that good and I'm in a totally new 'head space' when I am cumming after so intense of a stimulation that this wonderful Sybian does.

We love it and want to share it with others and so maybe this weekend we can possibly do that.

It's been awhile since I've posted anything on my thread, so I thought I'd take a little time to write about my husband and I and where we are with our own escapades. He and I are close with another couple and I had been talking to her about our new Sybian and how we love it, especially how I love it. 😉 And they, our other couple friends, wanted to see it because they are thinking about getting one for themselves. It's probably because I have been boring them to death going on and on about how 'zoned out' I am when I am deep into those waves of orgasms our Sybian makes me when I am 'riding' it. 'Riding' is the best way I can describe it when I get on the Sybian because you have to straddle it like a motorcycle or a horse. Maybe we need to put some handlebars on it! 😁 However, that isn't such a bad idea. :-\\

They have seen our Sybian and with the covering box that it is stored in, it looks almost like a footstool in some respects. It's only when you take the 'cover' off that you see the actual Sybian. We keep it in our bedroom and that is where I use it almost always. But for the unveiling we moved it out into our living room in front of the couch where we usually keep our coffee table. My husband and I have been naked with this other couple many times and we are all very comfortable with each other in all ways. The other couple asked if they could see how it works and Steve thought it would be ok if I was ok with it. I was. 😉

I have to admit that I was a little, a lot, self conscious when I stripped down after we got the Sybian ready for me. We put the DP attachment on and I got it all nice and protected and lubed up so it was ready to go. I tried not to make eye contact with them when I was straddling the Sybian so I just kept looking at Steve until I was in position. My husband had the controls and we started me off slow. In no time any inhibitions I may have had, which weren't that many when I think about it 😉 melted away as the DP action of the insert into my vagina and the insert in my rectum took me to that plateau where the outside world just melts with me. 😃 When I am in that frame of mind with the orgasms and intense feelings the Sybian gives me, I could have cared less if I had been on the center or a basketball court with the bleachers full all of the way around me.

But luckily, it was 'just' my husband and our couple friends sitting with their backs to our couch watching me have out of body experiences while riding this fantastic little machine. I just let it take me all the way into that mist and I stayed there and stayed there.

Long story short, they are getting their own. 😉 I need to get a commission from the Sybian people. 😉