To let go or resist

Same here, I have no Choice because I am Incontinent. I have no control and let it go no matter where I am.

Well i fill my nappy/diaper because i want to, for fun, its usually caused by suppositories or a lump of soap, i often pop out into the garden, sometimes i hang out clothes to dry etc, while its coming out, i tend to wait till i really cant hold onto it for this play.

Now doing it in a public place or shop etc , is another matter, ive no sense of smell, but im sure others have, also, when my nappy is full, it looks like im hiding a football in my pants, so would at least need a long coat, and be with a knowing partner.

I dont mess while I'm wearing my pull-ups, but since I'm in diapers most of the time I just go without hesitation.

If I need to poop then I just let go no matter where I am even out in public. It doesn't bother me at all to walk around with it in my diaper or to sit on it. I don't even really notice it most of the time.

I just resist the urge to hold it and let go hoping it will be more solid than soft as I don't want it to leak out the leg holes.

When you feel an urge to poo, it seems to me that what you decide to do, poo or try to hold it, depends a lot on what caused the urge. When you begin to feel the urge, it is more than likely the need to poo will increase over time, unless the urge is very gentle, in which case you may be able to ignore it

However, if the urge is the result of a mild laxative, it's going to be a lot harder to deny the urge for long. Usually the urge from a laxative doesn't simply go away If you've had something like Senna or Dulcolax, the urge may come in waves, but each wave is likely to be stronger than the last. Sooner or later it's going to come out, and the longer you resist, the softer the poo is likely to be.

There are some softener laxatives, like Metamuil and Miralax, that will give you a sense of a packed rectum and a mild urge to poo that can last many hours.

Some laxatives don't give much, if any, warning These are castor oil, Lactulose, Epsom Salt, and a couple of others. When the urge starts you'll poo within a very few minutes. There is no chance you'll be able to resist. This includes Dulvcolax suppositories

Since my wife won't let me mess in my diapers very often, when she does I tend to let it go when it's strong enough to let me have a nice pooh and fill my diaper. Most of the time, within an hour or two, I get another urge and pooh again, although not as much as the first one. And then I get to stay in my messy diapers and rubber pants the rest of the day until my wife decides it time for me to have my diaper change. By then, my pooh has spread all over, up my scrotum and pee-pee, and up the back of my diapers. It tends to be quite messy by then, since I will have wet myself a few times as well.